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Klinik Konsultasi Cinta: Dr. Inn dan Dr.ifan
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Hai Doc,
kenapa sy mudah jatuh hati
tapi mudah tawar or hilang perasaan exited tu
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CINTA
ku ucap selamat tinggal cinta,
dan selamat tinggal kekasih,
biarpun sukarnya untuk melupakanmu,
dan tak perlu lagi kau bertanya tentang diri ini,
biarlah ku sendiri...hidup dalam sepi |
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oh dah bukak klinik korang yer...tahnniah....nak tumpang tanya skit...aper beza soulmate dgn life partner? |
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boleh explain lagi skit tak? bagi contoh?
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perbezaannya adalah bagaimana kita melihat context soulmate dan life partner tu...kalau dr segi islam, tiada beza...kalau dr segi sosiologi barat, banyak beza tu...
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contoh,
kenal this guy. memang full of exitement for the first week. dia buat sy sentiasa tersenyum.
but lagi banyak sy tahu cerita dia, keterujaan tu makin kurang. 2nd week, 3rd week makin kurang
then bila dah mula call and jumpa. langsung keterujaan tu hilang
bukan sekali dua, tiap kali kenal new guy
saya ke yg bermasalah Doc.
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hmmm...mungkin juga awak bermasalah...cuba list down 3 ciri2 yg anda inginkan dr lelaki...
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ciri lelaki
em... sy tak tahu apa yg saya nak
1. adventurous 2. Full of fun 3. Penyabar + Bijak
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i see...awak tak brape jelas dgn ape yg awak hendak dlm relationship...ciri2 yg awak hendak pun tak brape clear...it must be a specific criteria..u gave penyabar is specific, bijak is specific...no. 1 and no.2 is quite a grey area...
cuba pinpoint ape yg awak cari sebenarnya...
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Salam,
just nak tanye...
1)kenapa perempuan bila dah sayang jadi BODOH dan kenapa after lelaki ni dah patah, hancur kan hati perempuan ni.. tp si perempuan still lagi declare sayang dan still nak kat lelaki tu...
2)Kenapa lelaki pulak walau tak nak kat perempuan tu tapi bila perempuan tu dah move on die datang cari perempuan tu balik... pujuk-pujuk... bila perempuan ni dah sayang die balik then die jauhkan diri semula... die ade masalah jiwa ke.. suke mainkan perasaan perempuan...
Sekian.... |
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Ok. More specific
Sy suka guy yg adventurous. Never afraid doing something ygdaring.
tak ragu2 dlm buat keputusan. Dia tahu apa yg dia nak.
Tapi dia juga seorang yg tahu mcm mana nak bergembira Entahlah Doc. sy ni cepat boring ngan org kot. |
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explain kan dari segi kedua2 nyer
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watie_na replied at 9-12-2015 11:01 AM
Ok. More specific
Sy suka guy yg adventurous. Never afraid doing something ygdaring.
tak ragu ...
Belum spesifik. Be more precise. |
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masih releven ke thread neh...aku ada kemusykilan. |
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Edited by Innrukia at 10-12-2015 06:58 PM
Of cos...
Sila kemukan kemusykilan...doc ifan akan tlg jwpkan...
and doc inn selaku co-partner bleh tambah tolak
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baiklah...esok aku akn kemukakan kemusykilan
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ok...aku cuma musykil kenapa lately aku teringat sorang mamat ni.....yg aku kenal zaman aku bbnu.padahal aku hardly know him.entah2 dia pun tak ingat akn kewujudan aku bukan la tak kenal langsung tapi kenal2 gitu je.tapi kenapa eh?bukanla tetiba je..benda ni.ada jugak la all these years mcm melintas kat fikiran ..eh apa ye jadi kat mamat ni?tapi takde la sampai terangau-angau.kenapa?adakah aku dlm tak sedar sengaja mencari benda2 ni utk divert kesedihan berlaku dlm hidup aku.utk bina satu kepercayaan bila aku teringat mamat tu ..kesedihan aku berakhir?
eh sesuai ke soalan aku ni kat sini?.atau lebih sesuai kat masalah peribadi?kalo tak sesuai sorry ye.abaikan dan aku akn faham |
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did something happened to you recently?
something yg bagi big impact... care to share?
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ok.
lelaki yg berani, yg suka cabaran. yg tak tahu takut buat dan bertindak
yg suka outdoor activities.
suka motor
suka travel
tapi dia sweet, baik hati, ambil berat, bijak dlm membuat keputusan
tahu tanggungjawab
detail tak Doc?
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Its a good start ...
Ok, maybe nanti bila free try amik kertas & visualizing your future husband. So you need to think what you want mentally, physically, emotionally, occupationally, socially & intelectually.
Its perfectly ok to dream a little... Lets start a full plate, after that we will see apa yg kita boleh compromise .
Personality:
Anda cari sorg yg extrovert or lelaki pendiam?
Nak lelaki yg ada sense of humor or menyampah dgn tukang bt lawak & nak someone yg serious dlm approach life?
Nak sorg yg emotionally expressive or yg strong silent type?
Leader/follower? Cth bila ada krisis, nk lelaki yg stand up & lead or org yg tanya kita blk, apa yg nak buat hah?
Free spirit or sorg yg structure yg x kisah diatur jadualnya tiap minggu?
try choose dr sini:
Funny/serious/leader/supportive/intellectual/emotional/Street smart/honest/sensual/motivated/carefree/spontaneous/unpredictable/organized/responsible/ /independent/dependent/talkative/confident/wise/disciplined
Social skills
Suka yg calendar penuh dgn actvty or homebody?
socially conscious or perlu dimotivasi?
suka sorg yg bermsyrakat & kekeluargaan?
sorg yg suka keramaian or yg menyendiri mengadap laptop?
try choose dr sini:
corporate entertainer/political crusader/family guy/homebody/late-night raver/night crawler/networker/philanthropist/sport enthusiast/part time socializer/couple crazy/nature lover/athlete/good provider/good dad & husband
Relational style
yg ni berkait dgn mcm mana kita nak dream guy to relate to us.
sorang yg focus dgn kita & make us center of his life? or nak someone yg nk private life & tak kisah pi separate vacation?
nak someone yg romantic & buat stereotype romantic things?
Berkaitan dgn wang or kewangan dlm hubungan, di mana pendirian our Mr Wonderful? Adakah dia percaya pd perkongsian @ konsep "our money" or dia lebih sanggup take responsibility utk financial planning?
Nak sorg yg suka rumah cantik, kereta besar, mkn kat tpt mewah & high class or sorg yg tak kisah dgn material?
emotional expressive/affectionate/romantic/in control of finance/willing to share responsibility for money/aloof/compassionate/moneymotivated/bohemian spirit/stubborn/open to compromise/inseparable from you/in need of a lot of personal space.
Spiritual compatibility
Yang ni focus utk tahap pengetahuan agama yg kita perlukan dari pasangan.
rasanya yg ni tak perlu utk doc explain byk. Sbg muslim kita tahu apa yg digariskan oleh Islam dlm aspek mencari pasangan hidup.
Islam adalah way of life, bkn hanya solat. So, pertimbangkan keseluruhan aspek hidup yg dipilih our Mr Wonderful.
Physical characteristics
Ok now kita decide what we'd want our Mr Amazing to look like.
tinggi/rendah/rambut lurus/kerinting/warna mata/umur/kurus/berisi/suara garau dan lain2
Ok once dah dapat list tu, cer tgk pjg ker pendek... kalau terlalu panjang then kena sort out mana yg boleh compromise & take out from the list.
Bila kita identify apa yg kita nak, kita juga perlu identify apa yg kita taknak.... yg tu nnt doc sambung
Good luck...hopefully this will help /guide you to be more precise to identify what you want in your future husband
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 7-12-2015 04:28 PM
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