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Author: Margarita

I was dumped. Tapi tak mampu nak move on.

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Post time 28-7-2018 08:54 PM | Show all posts
berape umur adik ni? dont waste your youth and energy on something yang dh lepas. let it go je dik.  hakak pon been there and done that. hakak pegang satu je,  boleh jadi awak menyukai sesuatu tetapi tak baik untuk kita. Allah lebih mengetahui and everything happened for a reason dik. just because adik rasa dia perfect tuk adik doesnt mean he is for you.

lets move on ok. jangan nangis2 lagi kesian dekat badan. what you can do to move on cpt2

1. senaraikan why adik kene tinggalkan dia and keburukan dia. setiap kali rindu ulang balik baca list tu.
2. women empowerment songs. cari dkt youtube. jgn cari melancholy sudah.giler nnti
3. rasa nak nangis je g jogging hokay.badan penat xkuasa dek nk nangis
4. ajak kawan g tgk wayang citer action. jgn dok sorg2
5. asal rasa tu dtg balik cpt2 buat sesuatu untuk alih perhatian

dik hidup ni panjang lg..xpayah nk penat2 nak nangis ngn org xnak kt kita. simpan untuk kahwin nanti. main ngn emosi ni buat apa pon payah. dont under estimate yourself tuk menangisi orang yg xsudi.

bangun pagi selalu buat affirmation ckp kt diri sendiri im awesome, i am beautiful, i am deserve someone better. trust me your world will be different. you are more than that
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Post time 28-7-2018 09:44 PM | Show all posts
Orix replied at 26-7-2018 04:29 PM
Bongoknya yg duk hencap TT ni... org tgah bersedihhh kooo paham takkk ? ko paham tak heart broken tu ...

aku setahun kut...nangis je la puas2 pastu ko dah malas rasa nak sedih...air mata pun dah habis...ehhh trust in His plans...Allah ada...

p/s: i like ur comment *wink*
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Post time 30-7-2018 12:26 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Let yourself loose.
He is just not the guy for you.
Someone better will come along.
Walaupun tt x mingle out of your ring sblm ni, kenapa nak kena limit yourself to that ring? Go out woth your friends. Meet new people. Travel wherever you want to even dlm negara sekali pun.
The right one will come around.. He’s just around the corner. You just have to go out there. And forget your ex for good! He’s just not good enough for you.
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Post time 30-7-2018 12:28 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
takziah atas apa berlaku
banyak hikmah di sebalik kehilangan bf
baik dia lari sekarang dari dia lri masa akad nikah
ataupun dia jumpa husna lepas nikah
tapi saya percaya tt takmau dengar pun hikmah hikmah tu sekarang
tt mahu meluahkan kesedihan
sedihlah tt kerana kesedihan itu adalah milik insan yg mempunyai jiwa
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Post time 30-7-2018 04:50 PM | Show all posts
xper dia lari skang...jgn dh kawin nnti susah

let him go....wipe off yr tears dekk

xyah nangis2 lah...dia sampah sbb tu tuhan x jodoh kan u all berdua

cari la sesuatu yg boleh u lupa kan dia....
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Post time 30-7-2018 11:40 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Ko pikir je laki tu bodoh dan sangat kejam buat ko merana. Love yourself, pikirkan parents ko yang susah payah besarkan ko hujung2 ko down gila sebab seorang laki, tak berbaloi. Jangan layan lagu jiwang layan lagu fazura tu sayangi dirimu
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Post time 1-8-2018 09:32 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
10 hari is normal sis..
Recently i dkt 2 bln nangis esp bila mlm sbb x busy kn jd teringat gtu..
sila hangout dgn kwn2 slalu...lps 2 bln trus lupa dh..gud luck!
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Post time 2-8-2018 12:49 PM | Show all posts
myself pun baru break off. I choose to leave him since dia ada gf yg willing to marry him anytime. Dia punya pain OMG, I'm crying and crying day and night. cz I think I loved him so much. I delete his number, block him, unfriend him so I tak stalk dia lg. I minta nasihat and kata2 peransang from strangers. and now I turn to FB. surround myself with kawan2 yg positive. Now my prob is rasa mcm nak menggatal pula dgn dia org. hahahaha. I suka kawan2 yg mulut puaka, yg layan kita mcm kawan2 je. more happy that way.
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Post time 2-8-2018 02:58 PM | Show all posts
kesiannya... semoga bertabah ya..
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Post time 2-8-2018 11:03 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Hmm... Kesedihan di awal2 putus ni mmg sgt perit. Been there sis. Tp kena kuat. It'll pass, keep telling yourself that. Nak nangis, nangis la puas2. Akan smpai masa rasa penat nk nangis tu dah and you'd develop this feeling where you feel you need to break out from that chain of pain. Then the healing starts. So, utk menghadapi hr2 sblm the healing starts, keep telling yourself, this will pass, so harungi je.

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Post time 3-8-2018 08:18 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Dik TT...macam mana awak sekarang ni?....nasi X retak,  maka pinggan tak dingin. ....orang tak hendak,  maka aku pun tak hingin. ...
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Post time 4-8-2018 04:11 PM | Show all posts
hi sis, mohon tabah ye. i faham perasaan tu. Sakit sangat. Takpe sis, take ur time. Its normal utk u menangis tp jangan lama2 ye sis. Anggap je ini latihan utk u jd lebih kuat and lebih matang di masa hadapan. God knows best sis. Percaya je segala perancangan Dia utk u ye sis
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Post time 4-8-2018 06:12 PM | Show all posts
i putus cinta 3 kali. ada la nangis sikit hehe

just busy kan diri.. mula2 mmg tak biasa.. sbb dah biasa ada org tu dengan kita.. tpt nak luah perasaan bila ada masalah. bila stress.. lama2 dah terbiaasa org tu takde.. so ok sendiri.... i broke up with him hujung bulan may.. n dh bbrp mggu ni i rasa i mmg dah move on.

yg penting jgn layankan perasaan sedih tu... berhenti berharap yg dia akan cari u balik... fikir positif... lagi baik putus skrg drpd lepas kawin. lps dh ada anak.. kalau kena tinggal lagi sakit.

n mcm forumer lain ckp.. jgn dgr lagu yg jiwang, lagu sedih putus cinta... dgr lagu yg naikkan semangat.

all the best tt
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Post time 5-8-2018 10:12 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
mystica replied at 4-8-2018 06:12 PM
i putus cinta 3 kali. ada la nangis sikit hehe

just busy kan diri.. mula2 mmg tak biasa.. sbb dah ...

Sdg laluinya, perit dan tak kuat. TT bagi masa utk diri sendiri. Pengalaman putus cinta akan mematangkan kita. Ingatlah apa yang berlaku pasti ada hikmahnya.
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Post time 7-8-2018 07:58 PM | Show all posts
jalan-jalan...pusing tgk keadaan sekitar...pasti sedar...ramai nya lagi orang lain yang aku boleh jadikan teman
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 Author| Post time 7-8-2018 10:52 PM | Show all posts
Thanks semua for the positive support.....  

I dah semakin ok. Tapi rasa sedih masih ada. Maybe perlukan masa lagi utk betul2 lupakan dia dan move on.

To be honest, I still like him walaupun dia buat I mcm ni. Tapi takpe. I pasrah.
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 Author| Post time 2-10-2018 02:31 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Saja nak update. Dah 2 bulan break, finally I ada perasaan benci kt ex I. Kalau dlu rse mcm mengharap nak kt dia balik. Skrg I rasa mcm lebih sayang pd diri n tiap kali teringat kt dia, automatically hati I akan cakap BOLEH BLAH JANTAN TAK GUNA
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Post time 2-10-2018 08:05 AM | Show all posts
aechae replied at 1-8-2018 09:32 PM
10 hari is normal sis..
Recently i dkt 2 bln nangis esp bila mlm sbb x busy kn jd teri ...

Fuh. 2 bulan.
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Post time 2-10-2018 08:41 AM | Show all posts
Edited by nbtech78 at 2-10-2018 08:42 AM
Margarita replied at 2-10-2018 02:31 AM
Saja nak update. Dah 2 bulan break, finally I ada perasaan benci kt ex I. Kalau dlu rse mcm menghara ...

fuuuh...come back dengan penuh keseruisan.....

takpa2...yang penting sis dah dapat move on...

sebenarnya bukan apa...sis dulu tu terperangkap dengan buta cinta...

cinta itu seringkali buta....

dari awal2 lagi sepatutnya sis dah boleh perasaan....

orang yang cinta dan sayang kita dengan ikhlas hati...dan sungguh-sungguh...

dia akan bersama kita setiap hari...walau kkdng diri nya sendiri sibuk....

at least dia akan spent time one time in a day jika dia terlalu sibuk....

ini 2-3 hari baru msg sekali....itu maksudnya dia x complete cinta kan sis....cuma sis aje bagi full cinta itu...tetapi sis dalam keadaan buta....

terbuai dengan impian untuk memiliki lelaki sebaik nya....

sepatutnya pengalaman sis ni...memberikan sis mengucapkan syukur...alhamdulillah kerana Allah lebih awak tunjukkan sifatnya yang sebenar....

ingat satu aje....

cinta itu perlukan pengorbanan....tengok lah sejauh mana si dia sanggup berkorban masa hanya semata-mata untuk berhubung dengan kita...itu lah cinta sebenar kita....

dan percaya lah cinta sebenar itu...walau di halang oleh apa pun...cinta tu akan tetap juga mekar kerana kedua-dua pemilik hati itu telah di pertemu kan oleh Allah....

wallhuhalam.....

tahniah.....luaskan pergaulan mu untuk lebih mengenali rentak dan ragam manusia...
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Post time 2-10-2018 10:55 AM | Show all posts
good job TT.

Be happy!
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