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tupai replied at 2-9-2021 11:27 PM
I dlm bidang profesional in oil & gas and construction industry. Now i keje blk dlm construction ...
Bestnya kalau dpt keja bhenti pastu keje balik..
Dahsyat eh keje u.. kalau profesional sng dpt keje balik kan.. gaji pn mhl.. doakan i bjaya dlm biz kecil2 an i nnt ye. |
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tomatome replied at 2-9-2021 11:21 PM
Acik da brp thn svc??? I br 11 tahun.. lamanya nk ckp 25thn .. kalau mrh rzeki leh pencen bila da ...
Acik dah doplohpat
Kertu gile |
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tupai replied at 2-9-2021 11:34 PM
I xde husband tp alhamdulillah I ada kwn2 yg sanggup spent few hrs every night to listen I merapu, ...
Hugssssss
Lepas bukak sempadan nih, jom kite pi backpacking geng acik2 midlife crisis
Naik tren pi bangkok |
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tomatome replied at 2-9-2021 11:38 PM
Bestnya kalau dpt keja bhenti pastu keje balik..
Dahsyat eh keje u.. kalau profesional sng dpt ke ...
InsyaAllah I doakan u dimurahkan rezeki & berjaya dgn bisnes u. Ameen |
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Acikgomen replied at 2-9-2021 11:41 PM
Hugssssss
Lepas bukak sempadan nih, jom kite pi backpacking geng acik2 midlife crisis
Naik ...
Hugs balik.... lets backpacking. Sblm pandemic, I suka travel solo ke non eng speaking countries. Ala2 adventure die diff level & bole buatkan I lupa dunia realiti sbb sibuk nk paham bahasa dorang ehehehe |
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saja nk menyibok..i baru nk mula hidup jah ni ..baru jah start kerja 3 thn lps..kira bbnu lg khenzz..tp i rasa i pun dah mcm ada ciri2 itew ( midlife crisis)..xtau la apa fungsi hidup ni..boring kot..rindu sblm pkp
bye..nak baca kakak2 punya sharing jer 
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I pun rasa life I stagnant gila.Nak try buat benda lain, tapi slow sgt progress nya.Tambah dgn covid ni.Asyik terkurung je. Some more pasca covid ni, I makin malas nak bersosial dgn orang.
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Nak join!I siap berangan nak g SG pastu turun ke Batam pastu patah balik ke JB
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Acikgomen replied at 2-9-2021 11:39 PM
Acik dah doplohpat
Kertu gile
Thn depan da blh pencen acik hihi.. |
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tupai replied at 2-9-2021 11:43 PM
InsyaAllah I doakan u dimurahkan rezeki & berjaya dgn bisnes u. Ameen
Aminn yarabbal alamin.. tq beb..
Umur2 gini mmg byk ujian nye kan.. |
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tomatome replied at 2-9-2021 11:59 PM
Aminn yarabbal alamin.. tq beb..
Umur2 gini mmg byk ujian nye kan..
Tu la psl....sblm ni I jenis plan my life properly & selalu fikir abt long term this & tht but being out of employment & dpt mental illness never be in my planning hehehehe tp kuasa Allah, anything can happen... betul la org ckp life begin at 40s.... I rasa now its my new beginning. I dh x plan pape, which is less stress & just go with the flow. Usaha & tawakkal. |
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edayildiz replied at 2-9-2021 11:50 PM
saja nk menyibok..i baru nk mula hidup jah ni ..baru jah start kerja 3 thn lps..kira bbnu lg khenzz. ...
Tah2 chuols quarter life pun belum abis gedik nak midlife crisis napewwwwww |
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YPM_Addora replied at 2-9-2021 11:52 PM
Nak join!I siap berangan nak g SG pastu turun ke Batam pastu patah balik ke JB
Dah kertu ke blommmm
Gittewww acik menapis syarat2 ahli rombongan |
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Acikgomen replied at 3-9-2021 12:09 AM
Dah kertu ke blommmm
Harus, kalau x objektif x sampai hahahaha |
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edayildiz replied at 2-9-2021 11:50 PM
saja nk menyibok..i baru nk mula hidup jah ni ..baru jah start kerja 3 thn lps..kira bbnu lg khenzz. ...
I wish I still at your age & boleh ubah jln hidup I hahahaha...now too late dah |
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tupai replied at 3-9-2021 12:12 AM
Harus, kalau x objektif x sampai hahahaha
Kalo ade bbnu ikut, okeh gak boleh buli heshe jadi PA utk last min htl booking and butler
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Cece1234 replied at 2-9-2021 09:17 PM
Mmg xpenah naik beskal ke sista?
X pandai bawa basikal. X pandai balance anything with 2 wheel |
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Acikgomen replied at 2-9-2021 10:52 PM
Jom chuols
Kalo travel dgn org yg bukan kita jumpa hari2 ni adventure dia lain machiam sket
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Don't worry dia berjln bw baju 2 lai je |
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Edited by gekkou at 3-9-2021 02:49 AM
ada few symptoms u shared are what i am currently experiencing.
belum cecah 40, ada few years to go.
1. I dah malas nk hadap politics and perangai2 manusia yang bermuka2 dengan opis ni. kalau dulu i bertahan je sbb fikir dibayar gaji untuk kerja and i malas nak request for transfer or change career. I jenis tak suka benda renyah2 ni. But now i had enough. Rasa mcm diambil kesempatan sangat2 now. buat kerja bagai nk mati tapi hujung2 u are not appreciated pun. Now every single week I submit my transfer request and actively looking for other jobs. Walaupun ada few said the one should go is the one who is not performing, not me. Tapi emosi i penat sangat. Now I am on two weeks AL, my first AL for this year. But everyday text pasal kerja masuk non stop. I macam, eh aku sorg je ke yg buat kerja dalam team ni? Just shut down my laptop around 1 hr ago after finishing up some tasks. time discuss or meeting tak bawa aku, hujung2 kerja kau campak kat aku semua.
2. I started to distant myself from colleagues yang I rasa bawa pengaruh negatif dalam diri I. If dulu, I suka je dengar orang bercerita or meluah. Now, sapa2 datang to me and mengumpat, I sound dan basuh je depa balik. Sebab I rasa they are no better pun. I love being alone and on my own. in meeting, i senyap je, unless I am presenting. my medium of communication is only email.
3. Emosi pn kejap turun naik. I found myself easily being upset at menial things. tapi i elak untuk bercakap dengan sesiapa. Biasanya menangis lepas solat or before tido sambil mengadu pada Allah. I am not the one akan menyesal dengan benda dah berlaku. I see myself being closer to Allah. ZIkir and dua anytime possible.
4. Changes in appetite. I once stop instant mee after balik from oversea study 13 years ago. makan jajan pun tidak. Used to eat healthy dengan hidangan lengkap suku2 separuh every day. now, sikit2 craving desserts lah, jajan lah. stress tau tengok lemak kat perut walaupun kurus.
5. I value family and parent more. Risau fikir what gonna happened to me kalau my parents dah x ada nanti. Just the though of my parent dah boleh buat i sebak. I missed them so so much and I need hugs.
I am single but I am not stressed bout that. But yeah. I need someone to talk to, i believe. and the topic can be varies. I need escapism. sunyi? maybe but really? |
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Post time 2-9-2021 11:38 PM
