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Kenapa masih sendiri walaupun usia sudah 30++??
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soalan tt nie serupa mcm tanya kenapa org dah kawen lebih 5 tahun tapi takde anak? kenapa org mati awal? kenapa org bercerai berai? semua yg out of our control gitu....
aku wonder bout TT nie.... ada kah dia ada laki, ada anak2 dah rasa diri dia sgt bahagia, dan nak menunjuk kat org kebahagian nyer itu? |
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Innrukia posted on 10-6-2014 10:36 AM 
sudah gaharu cendana pula...us to refer kat sapa sis
dia dan yg sekhufu dgnnye 
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Innrukia posted on 10-6-2014 10:48 AM
ala Mido mcm la tak besa.....
society ni ingat org yg age 30++ tak kawen ni terus bertukar jd a ...
tgh redha lah nie.....haha |
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hahaha... nice thread.... cukup kena mengena.... tp as usual... happy being single.. but bohsan ngan sekeliling mengenai pertanyaan dan asyik nak tolong carikan... lepas tu bebankan kepala org... jadi sebab gaduh ngan abg2 n kakak2... goshhh... let me ALONE!!!!! |
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Aku 31 tahun ni..tapi aku berjiwa muda..aku dan org sekeliling aku kekdg 'terlupa' aku dah 31.lol.
So kenapa aku tak kawen lagi? Hanya Allah yg tahu..bukan aku x buka hati utk org..i did..a couple of times..tp semua x Berjaya ke arah perkahwinan..baru2 ni pun my ex kawen..ngan org lain walaupun dia pernah menyatakan keinginan yg sama terhadap aku dulu..aku redha je..Allah lebih tahu.
So apa aku buat dlm pada umo 31 tahun tp x kawen?? Aku spend quality time ngan fmly and frens..Alhamdulillah fmly aku ngn kawan2 rapat xde yg nk judge aku..in fact, they r very supportive. Aku spend money on my fmly, good food, holiday, beauty etc..
Money cant buy happiness...but it can buy me a good lifestyle..sure mana2 ada pros and cons..kenkwn aku yg dh kawen selalu ckp jeles tgk kitorg yg bujang2 ni gi travel around the world, xde komitmen, berduit sentiasa..lol. Aku plak jeles ngan diorg coz diorg dah ada suami (especially suami yg berkualiti) dan anak2 yg comel..
Rezeki masing2..bersyukur dgn apa yg Allah bagi..count our blessings not our problems. |
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shop_girl posted on 10-6-2014 12:36 PM
Aku 31 tahun ni..tapi aku berjiwa muda..aku dan org sekeliling aku kekdg 'terlupa' aku dah 31.lol.
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my ex baru kawen last week... feeling?? down... since we ever break almost 13yrs.... mmg xdak de jodoh... i've met people along the way... but its not working out... soo skrg mmg spend time for family, nieces, nephew... siblings and friend... feeling being left out??? of course....
nature manusia... mesti terasa sakit hati... i did feel the same... still recovering from the 13yrs back stories kot... hv no idea...
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theotherfriend posted on 8-6-2014 09:31 PM
I hv male a colleague umo 50++ still bujang. Straight je mcm kayu pembaris, rasanya dia x masuk dlm ...
die punye personaliti mcm mane? kalau stakat rupa ok ade kerjaya tp personaliti nan hado harusla direjek berjemaah. pompuan ni bukan pandang harta sgt mcm ape yg kebanyakan lelaki fikirkan. sbb tak pandang harta n rupa lah sanggup lari keluar malaysia nk ikut pendtg asing 
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kalau niat nak kawen tu sbb taknak bergelar andartu, nasihat aku, lupakanlah. niat kawen pun sbb nk menunjuk2 hey aku dah ade laki. mcm mane nk dpt keredhaan Allah swt kalau gitu? mmgla kawen tu sunnah Rasullulah saw, mmg tuntutan dlm Islam, tp adeke manusia ni dituntut sebelum sekian sekian umur wajib berkahwin kalau tak Nabi tak mengaku umat gitu. takde kan? |
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shop_girl posted on 10-6-2014 12:36 PM
Aku 31 tahun ni..tapi aku berjiwa muda..aku dan org sekeliling aku kekdg 'terlupa' aku dah 31.lol.
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Hahaha...
Sama...
Ko lelaki ke pompuan?!
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missus_meow posted on 10-6-2014 10:24 AM
I wasnt pointing fingers at u or anyone in particular. Dont blame culture because we make up the c ...
i guess stereotyping is the right word, social expectations...of what marrying age should be ...
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misecretary posted on 10-6-2014 02:18 PM
my ex baru kawen last week... feeling?? down... since we ever break almost 13yrs.... mmg xdak de j ...
allah has better plans for you...do not worry ...dont be so sad ya..Allah is the best planner. |
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shop_girl posted on 10-6-2014 12:36 PM
Aku 31 tahun ni..tapi aku berjiwa muda..aku dan org sekeliling aku kekdg 'terlupa' aku dah 31.lol.
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i love your post , perfectly summing up on what i have always wanted to say. yes, love that phrase though, count your blessings..
jadilah hamba allah yg bersyukur , sebab kalau bersyukur allah tabahkan nikmat kalau KUFUR , or buat tak soleh tunggulah..
and i love this phrase given by one brother
a'la kulli haal
apa apa pun alhamdulillah
a very humbling phrase of complete submission to al HAQ |
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mbhcsf posted on 10-6-2014 03:48 PM
allah has better plans for you...do not worry ...dont be so sad ya..Allah is the best planner.
Alhamdullilah n In Shaa Allah thats the only words i can say right now... praying for his hapiness and i hv to learnt to stop stalking hahahaha...wish is soo hard to let go.... i must start it... soon... will delete all contacts... and let him happy ever....
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annehuda posted on 10-6-2014 03:26 PM
die punye personaliti mcm mane? kalau stakat rupa ok ade kerjaya tp personaliti nan hado harusla d ...
Kurang berusaha, x pandai mengambil hati dan grumpy at times
haha |
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mbhcsf posted on 10-6-2014 03:46 PM
i guess stereotyping is the right word, social expectations...of what marrying age should be ...
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N social mores shd change .... baru2 ni bjumpa student phd .... dahlah dia tgh struggle nk menulis tesis .... byk lak mokcik2 dok tanye bila nk kwin ...
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vespa_oren posted on 9-6-2014 08:11 PM
ok abang aku lahir tahun 80, so kira dia dh 30+ lah
kerja ok tapi dia demand tinggi... stil ...
kalau zaman 90an - kirim salam kat abang ko.
zaman skrg - mari kenalkan abg ko kat aku.
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ade 3 jenis andartu,
andartu junior
andartu senior
andartu forever...
salam 1malaysia... |
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ifanonline posted on 10-6-2014 07:52 PM
ade 3 jenis andartu,
andartu junior
Wow avatar lomantik..... |
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Innrukia posted on 10-6-2014 08:10 PM
Wow avatar lomantik.....
inn, hidup ni perlu diselubungi romance and love...rugi woo bersendirian...
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Post time 10-6-2014 10:39 AM
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