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After Painful Breakup Stories -Apa dah jadi sekarang??-
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nice story...tula bukan senang nak happy kan..kena sakit2 dlu baru merasa kebahagiaan tu.. happy 4 u dear... 
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cengeng replied at 22-1-2015 01:00 PM
nice story...tula bukan senang nak happy kan..kena sakit2 dlu baru merasa kebahagiaan tu.. happy 4 ...
Btol sgt2...bukan senng nak temu bahagia..tp aku still dlm zon brjga2..tkut terluka lg..xtrlalu syg..xtrlalu mengharap...in case anything happen..aku xjatuh lg... |
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thanks for your advice man.
i just cant help it sometimes.
the confusion makes me failed to decide with cautions.
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Dikecewakan turns to be a good thing to me..I ditakdirkan jumpa dgn someone yg better than the previous one. And we're getting married soon 
Exbf slalu jugak contact mintak maaf than flash back ape yg jadi dulu..but heyyy..nape nak ungkit2 lagi kan..so I decided to forgive and forget him..penat nak layan org suke 'baling belakang' ni... |
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hi uols.
da stahun since ditinggalkn.aku ingat stahun tu ckup nak lupekan mat tu.bile aku bace cite korang,stahun tu ape la sgt nak lupekan org yg kite syg bebeno n da berangan nak kawin.
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hakak dulu bercinta 7 thn...dr dip membawa ke zaman degree...
1- Apa yang telah terjadi kepada anda sekarang??? GOOD THINGS orrrrrrrrrr BAD THINGS
good things kot...dh kawen ada anak 2...dia pun dh kawen ada anak 3...masing2 pun dh bekerja...
2- Berbaloi kah apa yang anda ada sekarang dengan pengorbanan yg anda telah lakukan??
sgt2 berbaloi dgn kehidupan skrg...kami break up then jmp blik di wasap...bila berborak2 tu rasa dia seorg yg pelik smpi aku terpk knp la aku bercinta dgn org yg pelik dulu...bodoh betul..tp xselalu la dan hubby pun tahu...
3- Forgave?? Forgotten??
forgive but not forget...biasa la tu semua kenangan...
klu korg rs sakit skrg...blh jah lyn rasa sakit tu...tp jgn stop apa yg korg buat...cth study ka..biz ka keje ka...jgn bg lingkup yg tu...tu je nasihat hakak...
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susah kan nak move on.................................sakit di hati yg tak nampak... merana terluka kecewa.... boleh makan diri... moga diri tabah |
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Hai cengeng.. hahaha.p tolg mangsa bnjir ye?ekekek.. Hurm pija ni jns manusia da syg tu pija syg ketat2 Nk melupakan memg payahlah cengeng.da try shoping,tgk wayg,tp kejap je happy then sdh blik. Ni xblh tdo duk ngs lg
Ya Allah pija rindukan die.sgat2 cengeng.. pija xmau org laen
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waaaaa, n u know wat, u deserve to be cocky and arrogant sbb u've got some1 far better than ur ex..congratulationsssssss...semoga perkahwinan kekal ke akhir hayat dan bahagia selalu..org2 mcm kita yg pernah disakiti ni sooner or later akan dpt blik kebahagiaan yg dicari kan.. just be patient. 
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haaaa so how? any decison has been made? share laaaa
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setahun ke 10 tahun ke belom tentu ckup untk kita lupakan sbb benda tu semuakan kenangan..even memori kita masa zaman kecik2 tu pon ada yg kite masih ingt....for me,ape yg penting skrg masa utk move on..not forgetting..buat ape push 4 something yg imposibble (melupakan) tp ignore something yg valuable (move on)...
so moral of the story hahahaha jomlah kite move on same2 kkkkkk... 
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tula kak,sy pon slalu pk nk melupakan tu bkn senang so kenapa nk hard work for it,lebih baik kita buat something yg lebih berguna..
as for me,sy plih utk further study,alhamdulliah bru dpt panggilan pnjang umor start bulan 3...masa utk buka mata besar2,lbihkan bergaul,dan jgn tpk2 sgt psal jantan xguna tu.. 
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susah memang susah....tp move on x bermaksud cari pengganti tau,even for me i purposely let myself being single for a year after that breakup...i choose to live my life,have more fun,embrace myself more..
sakit memang sakit,teringat mmg trgat,tapi bila teringat kan kesakitan dia buat kat aku tuh mmg hilang trus kenangan bahagia tu,mmg aku berdendam dan dlm kepala mmg dah tanamkan 'ill show to him i can be better & get some1 far better than him'..so benda ni la yg menguatkan semangat aku sikit..
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actually kan dikk...mesti ada reason kenapa Allah hantar org sebegitu untuk mghancur lumatkan perasaan kita...klu hidup kita ni pjg which is pjg umur, byk lg dugaan dan pengalaman pahit kita akan tempuh...so nanti kita lebih calm dan blh adapt la sakit perasaan tu...tahu camne nk handle bagai...so think positive jah...buat betul2 apa yg sedg kita buat...klu further study tu buat la betul2...good luck... |
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wowowowowowowow.....ayat last tu mmg xleh terima langsungggggg....jgn ckp rinduuuuuu,jgn ckp xnk org lainnnn...nnti tuhan tutup jodoh tu trus baru tahuuuu....
ade kawan2 x??ajak lah dorang have fun..jgn ingt kt laki tu lagi especially yg baik2,nnti lgi sakit..ingat yg jahat2 je hihhiihhi..
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errkkkkkkkkkkkk takottttttttt
ooo ade jgk kuo gn kwn2 pompuan.. tp dok teringat jgk..huhuhu.......
ada jgk duk kwn2 gn laki ni..tp ntahla.. cm xngam kekdahnye..huhuhuhuhuh
xpe la kengkawan2 jelah dulu...huhuhuh
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just jumpa. at the moment treat her like friend which is actually impossible. gettting ready to be hurt again.
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After that fateful day, the day that i received his lengthy you-are-just-a-friend whatsapp, never would i think that my tears will be sooo cheap..i don't know why..ni bukan first time aku patah hati tp dengan dia ni aku mcm hilang arah betul..menggigil tangan aku time terima mesej tu..dah la time tu aku tengah mengajar..time tu students tgh buat discussion so aku ada masa laa nk scroll down cepat2..nak baca satu2 perkataan cam xde kekuatan..sungguh..remuk hati aku tp terpaksa control profesional time keje..aku biar mesej tu tak berbalas sampai malam..pastu ada hati plak mamat tu whatsapp aku lagi tanya if i'm ok...hellooooo..how would he think i feel at that time??
Pas tepon member baik aku, baru aku rasa ada semangat skit..so aku balas mesej dia tu..emosi aku bercampur-baur antara hurt, disbelieve..and yes, love..even though it hurts..so luah perasaan x cover2 dah..tanya apsal dia buat aku camni, bla bla..luckily, aku sempat bg dia beberapa bijik bom yg bernas..xde maki hamun..not my style..tp aku buat dia terperangkap dgn jwpan dia sendiri..
Ok cut it short..so after the incident, yg negatifnya ialah aku jd bitter..for months gak la aku camtu..bila kenkawan aku ada prob ngan hubby or bf, aku selalu kaitkan ngan mamat tu..sampai bff aku tegur yg aku sgt bitter time tu..selalunya aku seorg yg positif aku mengaku but i can't help it at that time..
Yang positif?? Banyakkkkkkkkk...bila aku tengok balik, sebenarnya Allah uji kita bersebab..Dia nak upgrade kita sebenarnya..supaya jadi lebih baik dan lebih tabah..Alhamadulillah, 5 months pas kena dump, family aku bawak aku gi umrah..dan rejeki aku semakin bertambah..tetiba dpt tawaran mengajar part time here and there..tetiba je peluang tu dpt tanpa aku cari..aku anggap ni cara Allah 'memujuk' aku dan tunjuk inilah cinta yg sebenar..sayang kat manusia tak kekal..in fact, kita berkorban bagai nak rak, blom tentu dihargai..tp kalau kita igt Allah, berlipat ganda Allah akan bagi.. mungkin sebelom ni aku byk lalai dari mengingat Allah..asyik berangan pasal mamat tu..huhu..
Sekarang ni i'm totally happy and get over him..dia pun dah kawen dan bakal dpt baby..actually kita akan lebih bahagia bila kita mampu memaafkan..dulu aku tak faham concept ni..mcm mana nak maaf bila hati sakit..tp percayala kita boleh..hati cedera parah kena ubat balik dgn istighfar..aku sampai buat air yasin nak bagi hati tenang..huhu..
Aku teruskan hidup dgn org2 yg sayang aku..my family n frens yg very supportive..love them gi holiday, work out more, buat part time, hangout ngan bff, love myself..and the latest aku join misi kemanusiaan ke Kelantan..seeing other people's sufferings makes me humble..betapa keciknya masalah kita berbanding org lain yg lebih hebat ujiannya..
Sorry uolls terpanjang lak..tp betul..sakit camne pun, try to let go..jgn ikut sgt nafsu..kita yg control nafsu..kita memendam rasa buat apa sedangkan si dia bahagia jek..rilex, muhasabah diri..dekatkan diri dgn Allah insyaallah kita akan lebih kuat.
He told me that time will heal me..but i said that Allah has the best and the fastest cure Losing him is not a loss but a gain..i lost him but found myself..a better me..semoga kita semua ditemukan dgn yg terbaik dunia akhirat |
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yesyes,btul tu tt.
kadang2 diri kite sendiri kne declare yg kite kene move on. tayah sedih2 ingt org yg xingt kite,dia hepiiii je xtau yg kite sedih kat dia.phuiii
'ppl that let u go is in big loss because he/she let go people that wont give up on him/her'
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its been 6 months since i have been dumped tpi tipulah klau tak ada rasa sayang lgi.. everytime she uploads her pic with the guy on insta i cried, luluh hati ni.. i sacrificed a lot to her, thousands of ringgit spent perhaps, promises were made and she broke it.. i'm easily forgotten, i thought she's the one for me, even my mom cried on that day (the day she called it off) there's nothing i can do right now.. sesungguhnya hanya pada tuhan tempat aku mengadu, klau ada jodoh ada la.. yg penting jgn putus berdoa krn Allah sentiasa bersama kita
now repeat after me "i just dont care" say it out loud! lama2 nnt akan reda la sikit hati tu  |
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Post time 22-1-2015 02:10 PM
