Love Doc: Q & A Here (Especially for the Ladies)

BidadariAnggun

salam bidadari anggun...

cinta berjadual dgn lelaki berjadual? hmmm..as u mention, he is a  ...
ifanonline Post at 26-3-2012 22:39

Thanks bro! I like the last sentence.. masih cuba membiasakan diri memahami dia & semoga saya berjaya..

ifanonline

Thanks bro! I like the last sentence.. masih cuba membiasakan diri memahami dia & semoga saya  ...
BidadariAnggun Post at 27-3-2012 01:15

hope everything goes well for u...all the best...

ifanonline

salam all,

read about an interesting respond from a ceo of a company recently, a reply made by him towards a girl who wants to marry a rich man...i salute the answer given by the ceo...what the ceo touches upon is human asset and value...every man and woman has value...and also he or she is an asset...a good asset is something that appreciates...a bad asset is something that depreciates...

for woman, many women thinks that beauty is an asset, an asset maybe for the short term but for the long term, it is not...

how do u create value in an individual? u create value by obtaining formal education and skills...this goes towards man and woman...

thisgirl

Reply 1043# ifanonline
Hi Doc,

Saya berkawan dengan this guy for about  8 months. Kenal kat office during a projectdiscussion. Im 28, hes 32.Selama berkawan tu, kami sgt comfortable with eachother and as the closeness grows, I can feel that he is interested. As far as I know, lelaki tak akan put effortskalo dia tak interested kn?

Everyday mmg akan ade morning and gudnite wish from him wpundia busy, he brought me to visit his bestfriend dapat baby kat hospital, ajaklepak., ajak balik kampong dia.. he shared his ups and downs,  semua ceritalah dia share dgn sy..  Senang cakap, dia buat mcm2 smpi I fall forhim. Walaupun dia tak cakap apa2 pasal being special, but his actions lead meto that thinking.

Problem is, when I started to fall for him, he’s pullingback. Diam terus.. if I initiated, he will reply but sepatah2.. I tried askinghim if ive done anything wrong, he said none. He said ive been thinking andassuming too much, that if would be safer for him to shut his mouth up. I neverever mentioned about feeling, whats the direction of this relationship etc thatwould scares him away. He is a good guy, and I really fall for him. Sekarang rasasakit betul jiwa ni

My questions:

1)
Why the sudden change?

2)
Is there any hope or I should start my moving onplan?

Thank you ifan.

ifanonline

Reply  ifanonline
Hi Doc,
Saya berkawan dengan this guy for about  8 months. Kenal kat office dur ...
thisgirl Post at 31-3-2012 14:26

hi this girl...

well, mix signal is always a pain in the ass...

but how do u feel about him? do u like him? do u want to be in a relationship with him? relationhsip needs honesty and being upfront... he is giving u mix signals, u need to be a little bit brave and ask him what is your relationship standpoint...if he answer is just friendship, than both of u know your position...but if he says that he wants to be more than friends, than u can start slowly from there...i want to suggest something a little bit more forward, but let's keep the friendship calm and see what's his reaction...

do let me know the outcome...

thisgirl

wow cepatnya Doc reply
im considering him for a serious relationship..during the 8 months, it was very clear hes pursuing me, only recently he stopped all the  signalings. for whatever reason it is.

its not that i dont want to ask him my position, but kalau dia reject sy, malu la bila jumpa kat office, mana nak sorok muka..

is it ok if i still send him a Hi sms once  a week eventhough he made it pretty clear he wanted to keep his mouth shut (and he never texted me since he told me that)? or i'll be seen as merimaskan?

senang citer how do i get him to be friend with me again? a subtle way.

dua2 da tua matang, mixed signals is a bit too childish to play

ifanonline

wow cepatnya Doc reply
im considering him for a serious relationship..during the 8 mon ...
thisgirl Post at 31-3-2012 17:15

your friend totally stop talking to u or just recently? hmmm...it seems that maybe u have done somthing yg membuat hati dier tersinggung/terasa hati...he has been talking to u all this while and suddenly, tiba2 berhenti tegur? cuba u flash back balik ape yg u buat yg 'mungkin' dier ternampak atau terdengar...maybe he is a sensitive guy...but as i said before, just be a little bit brave and ask him about the relationship...kalau dier tengah merajuk tu, pujuk le...but if u are seriously considering a relationship with this guy, u need to take serious steps...as u said, both of u are adults, and adults don't play around...

BidadariAnggun

salam all,

how do u create value in an individual? u create value by obtaining formal education and skills...this goes towards man and woman..
ifanonline Post at 30-3-2012 14:34

LIKE!

ifanonline

Di Penjara Janji     
Artist: Awie

Hatiku digirisnya lagi
Kali ini lebih dalam dan pedih
Kerna aku sudah berjanji
Dia cinta ku yang terakhir

Sungguh tak pernah ku menduga
Dia akan mengulanginya semula
Namun untuk menodai cinta
Dan membiarkan aku sengsara

Dia tempat ku sandar
Angan ku pendamkan
Satu percintaan
Yang bisa ku jadikan
Tangga-tangga ku ke pintu syurga
Meleraikan rindu

Mengecap bahagia
Yang kerap dimadah
Insan yang murni
Yang dah rasakan cinta
Yang aku... mimpi

redsinner

Reply 1049# ifanonline


   
Hello Love Doc, tumpang lalu...
i like this song too

ifanonline

Reply 1050# redsinner

hi red...how r u?

BingkaUbi

Hi doc love ipan...... bagaimana hubungan cinta yg ditemui di ruangan ini suatu ms duluk? Adakah dia pilihan yg betul2 memenuhi taste doc love ipan?

ifanonline

Hi doc love ipan...... bagaimana hubungan cinta yg ditemui di ruangan ini suatu ms duluk? Adakah dia ...
BingkaUbi Post at 7-6-2012 19:01

ehem,ehem...tuan punya badan ade di atas tu...

BingkaUbi

ehem,ehem...tuan punya badan ade di atas tu...
ifanonline Post at 7-6-2012 22:08

    Deduct credit -10 sbb tak jawab soalan...

ifanonline

Deduct credit -10 sbb tak jawab soalan...
BingkaUbi Post at 8-6-2012 11:31

tidakkkkkkkkkkkkk......

guaremaja

hai doc love....

i ade soalan ni...

mcmne kite nk tau yg bf kite tu x ske ngan kite lg?? bf i dh lama x call i lepas kitorang bergaduh haritu....so adakah patut i yg gurl ni call dia dlu...

dia yg cari pasal dng i dulu...x kn i nk mengalah kot kn...

ifanonline

hai doc love....

i ade soalan ni...

mcmne kite nk tau yg bf kite tu x ske ngan kite lg?? bf i  ...
guaremaja Post at 16-6-2012 21:41

hi guaremaja,

bleh citer detail skit tak? so that i can assess your situation...tq

ifanonline

Nothings gonna change my love for you
You ought to know by now how much I love you
One thing you can be sure of
Ill never ask for more than your love
Nothings gonna change my love for you
You ought to know by now how much I love you
The world may change my whole life through
But nothings gonna change my love for you

If the road ahead is not so easy
Our love will lead a way for us
Like a guiding star
Ill be there for you if you should need me
You dont have to change a thing
I love you just the way you are
So come with me and share the view,
Ill help you see forever too
Hold me now, touch me now
I dont want to live without you

ifanonline

Saya ada jugak 1 problem nak tanya pendapat, tp agak panjang so ni saya bagi dulu intro....

1.        Ke ...
Innrukia Post at 17-6-2012 18:32

salam,

untung si A dier ramai peminat...

well, u have explain that u are just a friend to A...and vice versa...the best thing to do is to not see A that often...sekali sekala jumpa bleh la...yg timbulnya gossip barangkali hubungan anda di lihat 'biasa tapi mesra'...adakah anda mempunyai perasaan terhadap A juga?

redsinner

Reply 1051# ifanonline


   i'm good. nampaknye doc luv masih active.