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Author: green~tea

bagaimana uols cope with mid life crisis

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Post time 3-9-2021 07:31 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
MrsVeneer replied at 2-9-2021 08:15 PM
Apebende plak folding bike ni. I is x reti bw basikal.

basikal boleh lipat2 gitu
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Post time 3-9-2021 07:40 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 2-9-2021 08:12 PM
Suka sangat folding bike.. i nak beli 1 dulu... tp nak menghadap komen my husband tu je lah... a ...

try lah beli 1 dulu ... hehe
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Post time 3-9-2021 09:21 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
gekkou replied at 3-9-2021 02:39 AM
ada few symptoms u shared are what i am currently experiencing.
belum cecah 40, ada few years to go ...

I feel u...I’ve been in your situation before, what I did is, I just walked away & cut these people from my life.

To avoid sunyi, U kena cari good friends yg really sekepala & respect us and jenis boleh ckp apa saja isu and cari hobi yg makes u happy & content.
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Post time 3-9-2021 11:30 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Acikgomen replied at 3-9-2021 12:07 AM
Tah2 chuols quarter life pun belum abis gedik nak midlife crisis napewwwwww

haha saja baca pengalaman otai2
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Post time 3-9-2021 11:32 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
tupai replied at 3-9-2021 12:13 AM
I wish I still at your age & boleh ubah jln hidup I hahahaha...now too late dah

i pulak kalau blh nak jd mcm kakak2 dlm ni..nampak dah bertenang..weols yg baru mula nk hidup ni byk lg nk kejar..aset pun xseberapa..xstabil mcm kakak2 dlm ni
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Post time 3-9-2021 11:55 AM | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 1-9-2021 10:45 PM
U mmg baik pun in real life kim.. very thoughtful, innocent pun ade... dalam forum je i tengok b ...

iols kalau tunjuk baik kat forum..habih la mokcik2 trophies terancam
dari merempan baik iols membuli terus
takde la nampak tryhard nak perfect 10

Urusan faraid ni paling panjang

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Post time 3-9-2021 11:55 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
edayildiz replied at 3-9-2021 11:32 AM
i pulak kalau blh nak jd mcm kakak2 dlm ni..nampak dah bertenang..weols yg baru mula nk hidup ni b ...

Acik keja 3thn terus ambik house loan beli rumah
Org lain sebok beli keta satria gti (masa tu satria gti tgh in) acik je gigih drive Vitara buruk pi keja
Acik awal2 keja dah set kepala otak before 50 semua utang bank langsai
So ambik loan masa muda sbb nak free bila tua
Kawin pun buat bodo2 punya la kedekut nak belanja
Rasanya kalo acik tak kawin, mesti byk lagi duit boleh kumpul and byk lagi masa utk acik keja
Pulun keja nak naik gred sbb naik gaji
Buang pekataan bosan dlm idop masa muda tu sbb kita nak train diri sendiri supaya fokus dgn plan yg kita sendiri buat
Dan plan masa depan tu tak perlu tamak nak kumpul aset rumah byk bijik keta nak itu ini sgt
Cukup rumah yg kita duduk tu nama sendiri, keta yg kita drive tu selesa, yg penting savings kena byk
Cer chuols train kepala otak chuols mcmtu, konfem chuols takdan nak rasa bosan dgn idop
Kita bosan sbb kita takde fokus, taktau nak tuju kemana
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 12:14 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
KIM.K replied at 3-9-2021 11:55 AM
iols kalau tunjuk baik kat forum..habih la mokcik2 trophies terancam
dari merempan baik iol ...

Macik2 trophies hahahahhahahahahahahahah
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 12:16 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
edayildiz replied at 3-9-2021 11:32 AM
i pulak kalau blh nak jd mcm kakak2 dlm ni..nampak dah bertenang..weols yg baru mula nk hidup ni b ...

Haish.. sbb kita ada channel lain utk merempan lah nokss... sebenarnya dalam bab investment.. kita kena ada geng utk bincang... sbb benda ni detail strategi.. payah nak bincang kalo kita pegi tanya ejen2... sbb nasihat biased... so i suka bincang dgn orang yang takde vested interest utk mengempen... biarlah nasihat tu genuine
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Post time 3-9-2021 12:55 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
edayildiz replied at 3-9-2021 11:32 AM
i pulak kalau blh nak jd mcm kakak2 dlm ni..nampak dah bertenang..weols yg baru mula nk hidup ni b ...

Sometimes bile u dh ada semua, tetiba u rasa lost, kosong & xde motivation dh...actually tu la yg I rasa skrg...If I can turn back time, I nk ubah byk benda...berangan je la mampu sbb kite bukan doraemon hehehe
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Post time 3-9-2021 12:59 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 3-9-2021 12:16 PM
Haish.. sbb kita ada channel lain utk merempan lah nokss... sebenarnya dalam bab investment.. kita ...

I setuju dgn @green~tea .... pls advise me ape good investment now sbb I dh losing life motivation.... need sthg to boost me up
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Post time 3-9-2021 12:59 PM | Show all posts
way past mid life crisis ni...but yeah lots of things happened to me termasuk bercerai dan remarried. Now Alhamdullillah dah masuk usia senja, at work becoming more passive dh malas nk prove myself too much. buat kerja and dpt gaji.... maybe in few yrs nk pencen. we loved running/walking pg2 so we bought a house far from city near a lake with lots space and greeneries, end of the yr nk moved out from KL area. anak2 mostly dh besar2 so hidup aman2 je skrg with the kids and the cats. taknak pening2 or stress too much though kdg2 cant help it sbb life is like that ups and downs.
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Post time 3-9-2021 01:32 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Aku rasa aku mmg serabut byk masalah dgn famili sedara mara..workwise masih ok ..masih minat bekerja dan rezeki tu ada Allah bagi cukup dgn keperluan..tak lebih tak kurang..tp yg bab famili ni..aku shut down drp org lain takde sapa boleh baca dan takde sapa tau apa yg aku hadap...aku terasa hati dgn in laws aku blok n unfren semua in laws kat soc media
.ni mid life crisis gak ke?
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Post time 3-9-2021 02:13 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
I pulak, rasa mcm nak retire bila dah 50.. so that i ada banyak masa to do whatever i like.
I feel like I have reached the corporate ladder enough…
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Post time 3-9-2021 02:43 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
tupai replied at 3-9-2021 12:59 PM
I setuju dgn @green~tea .... pls advise me ape good investment now sbb I dh losing life motivation ...

Kwn dgn org yg betul sis.
Yg mampu lempang u bile u terpesong.
Yg x takut to say no, when it needed.
I hv bunch of frens yg mcm ni.
Ckp derang pedih2. Tp duduk diam2 fikir n bertenang. Dem, they are so right.
3 org dlm thread ni yg i syg persahabatan. They know who they r.

Yg sorang tu, dia punye garang la dlm forum tp irl sgt2 baik n menghormati.

Yg 2 lg mls nk ulas. Depa akn bergabung to tease my previous perangai. Cis
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Post time 3-9-2021 03:28 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
MrsVeneer replied at 3-9-2021 02:43 PM
Kwn dgn org yg betul sis.
Yg mampu lempang u bile u terpesong.
Yg x takut to say no, when it nee ...

I mmg ada a group of bestfriends yg I trust with my life. Dorang mmg jenis x teragak2 lempang or terajang I kalau I terpesong...tp sometimes di sbbkan terlebih sygkan I, dorang follow jgk otak I yg x berapa nk betul ni....but bcoz of them jgk Im still alive today. Tp kdg2 as a human being, ada turun naik dlm kehidupan & sometimes I x mampu nk luah kt org.
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 03:32 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
MrsVeneer replied at 3-9-2021 02:43 PM
Kwn dgn org yg betul sis.
Yg mampu lempang u bile u terpesong.
Yg x takut to say no, when it nee ...

U pun sama kaki lempang bitch slap orang... karma is a bit*h sizzz

Honestly, glad u made it....
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 03:37 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by green~tea at 1-1-2025 05:51 PM
lesprincesse replied at 3-9-2021 02:13 PM
I pulak, rasa mcm nak retire bila dah 50.. so that i ada banyak masa to do whatever i like.
I feel  ...

Is okay to feel like this... since u dah ada target, so make plans for it...
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 03:45 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by green~tea at 1-1-2025 05:52 PM
tupai replied at 3-9-2021 12:59 PM
I setuju dgn @green~tea .... pls advise me ape good investment now sbb I dh losing life motivation ...

I dah start invest (passive investment) in global funds...
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 Author| Post time 3-9-2021 03:52 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by green~tea at 1-1-2025 05:52 PM
tupai replied at 3-9-2021 12:59 PM
I setuju dgn @green~tea .... pls advise me ape good investment now sbb I dh losing life motivation ...

Nak tambah.. i dengan husband,
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