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SC, mcm ginilah..like Inah, Venus & Chic cakap...sabar ajerlah..
most important, if you have already set a plan, go for it..
kalau kita nak dengar cakap org, sampai bila2 pun kita takkan dpt puaskan ati mereka..
1 good example my close friend..
- masa blom kawin, org sibuk tanya bila nak kawin...then
- dah kawin, org sibuk tanya bila nak ade anak..then
- dah ade anak, org sibuk tanya bila nak ade 2nd..then
- dah branak 2nd kid lat setahun , org sibuk mengata, kesian the 1st one blom dpt manja dah ade adik..
so the story goes on and on and on..end up..wat she planned, to get a Master sblom kawin, tak terlaksana..... |
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Originally posted by rosslyn at 20-7-2005 10:12 AM:
SC, mcm ginilah..like Inah, Venus & Chic cakap...sabar ajerlah..
most important, if you have already set a plan, go for it..
kalau kita nak dengar cakap org, sampai bila2 pun kita takkan dpt ... |
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Gt tis thing frm my email.A fren of mine fwd it 2 me.Wld like 2 share it wif u.
Dis is someting very touching & lovely..no words or actions can describe
or explain how LOVE,RELATIONSHIPS & MARRIAGE comes bt 1 thing 4 sure..it is a GIFT 2 b treasured by ALL 
DEAR FRIEND
My husband is an Engineer by profession,I love him for his steady nature & I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.
3 years of courtship & now,2 years into marriage,I'ld have to admit,that I'm getting tiired of it.The reasons of me loving him before has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.
I'm a sentimental woman & extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship & my feelings,I yearn for the romantic moments,like a little girl yearning for candy.
My husband is my complete opposite,his lack of sensitivity & the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me abt love.
1 day,I finally decided to tell him my decision that I wanted a divorce.
"Why?" he asked,shocked."I'm tired,there are no reasons for everything in the world!"I answered.
He kept silent the whole night,seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times.
My feeling of disappointment only increased,here was a man who can't even express his predicament,what else can I hope from him?
& finally he asked me:"What can I do to change your mind?"Somebody said it right,it's hard to change a person's personality & I guess,I've started losing faith in him.
Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered:"Here is the question,if you can answer & convince my heart,I'll change my mind.Let's say,I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff & we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death,will you do it for me?"
He said:"I'll give you your answer tomorrow."My hopes just sank by listening to his response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone & saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting,underneath a milk glass,on the dining table nearthe front door,that goes..
My dear,
"I'ld not pick that flower for you but please allow me to explain the reasons further."
This 1st line was already breaking my heart.I continued reading.
"When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs & you cry in front of the screen,I've to saved my fingers so that I can help to
restore the programs.
You always leave the house keys behind,thus I've to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you.
You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city,I've to save my eyes to show you the way.
You always have the cramps whenever your "gd friend" approaches every mth,I've to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.
You like to stay indoors & I worry that you'll be infected by infantile autism. I've to save my mouth to tell you jokes & stories to cure your boredom.
You always stare at the computer & that will do nothing gd for your eyes, I've to save my eyes so that when we grow old,I can help to clip your nails & help to remove those annoying white hairs.So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach as you enjoy the sunshine & the beautiful sand & tell you the colour of flowers,just like the color of the glow on your young face.
Thus,my dear,unless I'm sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do..I'ld not pick that flower yet & die."
My tears fell on the letter & blurred the ink of his handwriting & as I continue on reading..
"Now,that you've finished reading my answer,if you are satisfied,please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread & fresh milk."
I rush to pull open the door & saw his anxious face,clutching tightly with his hands,the milk bottle & loaf of bread.
Now I'm very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does & I've decided to leave the flower alone.
That's life & love.When 1 is surrounded by love,the feeling of excitement fades away & 1 tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace & dullness.
Love shows up in all forms even very small & cheeky forms,it has never been a model,it could be the most dull & boring form..flowers & romantic moments
are only used & appear on the surface of the relationship.
Under all this,the pillar of true love stands & that's our life.Love,not words win arguments.
Anonymous
BY SOME strange twist of fate,I find this message sent to me very timely.I did shed a few tears as I read it..quite touching & VERY TRUE.THIS IS something that happens to a lot of people in 1 way or another.
I've been busy doing weddings here & there & so many people would ask me-How come I myself have not been married yet?
Lately,for the past few months I have also met people whose marriages have seemed to end with separations,divorce & sad endings.
YOU see,LOVE,relationships & marriage is a GIFT.It is not something that is planned,it just happens.It is not something that is forced to anyone,it is given freely.Love & relationships need our consent & decision for it to happen in our lives.LOVE IS AN ACT OF WILL,its medium is mind.
LADIES,pls do not go into relationships thinking that YOU can change
your man.We can only adopt ourselves to them,pls dare not change them. CHANGE will have to come from the MEN.After all,getting into a relationship means accepting your man in his totality- his strengths comes with his weaknesses & LOVE means loving all of him.The romance & some other spices in your relationship might have to be initiated by you most of the time but hey,after a while,your man will respond to that & he'll start it without you even noticing it sometimes.
GENTLEMEN,pls do not forget to romance & humor your lady once in a while.WE need to be reminded every now & then how you feel abt us. Doing that makes us feel even more beautiful than we already are.Pls do not get angry when we try to tell you things,we are not nagging you just trying to say what we want.TALK TO YOUR WOMAN AS WELL,we want to
know what you want too.After all,we dont want YOU to lose interest in us. Pls do try your best to adopt to us because we try so hard & give our best to give you pleasure & make you happy.
To all of you who have already been blessed with love & a gd relationship, pls value that for all time.May YOU be blessed more for giving importance to that GIFT & for doing your best to preserve your relationship.
To those of you who maybe in the brink of giving up on a relationship, PLS, just take 1 step back & try to weigh things very carefully.YOU are the 1 in that relationship,only YOU & YOUR PARTNER can tell whether it's really quits or just a trial that can make your relationship even stronger.
To those of you who are still waiting like me,pls do not despair if you've no 1 by your side,life still goes on & LIFE CAN BE HAPPY & FUN even without someone.YOU ARE COMPLETE ON YOUR OWN,A PARTNER IS JUST MEANT TO COMPLEMENT YOU.Be attentive,YOUR GIFT might just be there right
before your eyes yet you still can not see properly because you are looking too far ahead.I hope you see THE OPPORTUNITY that comes your way before it gets past you.
LONELY & sad MOMENTS,restlessness & DESPERATE TIMES happen to both
the single & the couple.
The important thing is for us to always be grateful that we live & breathe, that we've been blessed with so much & that we should make each moment of our lives count.LIVE EVERYDAY OF YOUR LIFE & be thankful for all the gifts that come your way.It is not a sin to be happy.
Thank YOU for taking time to read this.Thank YOU for touching my life. Thank YOU for LETTING ME TOUCH YOURS! |
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Originally posted by SweetCandy at 19-7-2005 08:33 PM:
last wkend i ikut my mil ke rumah sedara mara dia.. w my hubby & Bil.. biasalah.. kalo dah jumpa sedara dorang.. siap dorang akan tanya soklan cepumas.."Ko dah ada anak?"..alamak.. se ...
:lebai:Kalo aku ngah bersangka baik , aku cakap these people tak tactful. Dorang nak tahu, dorang bleh approach and query in a nicer private way tanpa making anyone feel discomfort.
:devil:Kalo aku ngah bersangka buruk, aku cakap dorang dah lupa diri, dorang dah ada something ko belum ada, dorang dah menunjuk and berlagak and worse sounds like mocking another person.., dorang lupa about besok lusa how life can change easily.
Sapa post ah tadi?? aku dah lupa...aku agree....orang tak sadar diri je buat kelakar pasal benda2 gini tanpa fikir it will hurt someone else bad. |
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Di sini Aries ada tepek MEHNDI DESIGNS utk bakal |
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Wwwwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh.......I suka semuanya...sampai ke lengan2 tu pun I suka....tapi kan my nenek kata..ustaza kt syarahan ckp..inai yg bercorak-corak mcm tu...jika d pakai oleh wanita Islam..hukumnya Haram..Wallahualam.
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Originally posted by Gadis_Venus at 20-7-2005 05:14 PM:
Wwwwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh.......I suka semuanya...sampai ke lengan2 ke pun I suka....
Venus, suka? hehhe...simpan design |
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Originally posted by Gadis_Venus at 20-7-2005 10:36 AM:
C SC..I've told u,rite..It hapens 2 everybody..semua org akan merasakannya...buat pekak tlinga sudah..bt i taula..ckp memang senang bt org yg menerimanya payah la nk pekakkan tlinga..mcm me..semua ...
tks alot Venus, rosslyn, aries, Dep, Dils, Chics.. tks alot for kasi uall punya view..:hug::hug::hug:
ha'ah. betul tu kata u all.. this thing will nvr end.. lebih baik.. buat pekak sudah.. |
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Originally posted by gadis_aries at 20-7-2005 05:26 PM:
JOYS OF MARRIAGE :~
[IMG]http://img.photobucket. ...
Aries.. lovely pictures.. kelakar sey bila tengok.. lol |
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[quote]Originally posted by gadis_aries at 20-7-2005 05:04 PM:
Di sini Aries ada tepek MEHNDI DESIGNS utk bakal |
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Originally posted by SweetCandy at 20-7-2005 06:44 PM:
Aries.. bila i tengok gambo2 inai.. ni.. tingat i time waktu pakai inai.. i did some designs on tapak tangan.. heheheh
paste ah pat sini sc :bgrin: boleh jugak ktia org tengok~ |
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Originally posted by Gadis_Venus at 20-7-2005 05:14 PM:
Wwwwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh.......I suka semuanya...sampai ke lengan2 tu pun I suka....tapi kan my nenek kata..ustaza kt syarahan ckp..inai yg bercorak-corak mcm tu...jika d pakai oleh wa ...
Venus.. kalo u nak tengok inai2 punya designs.. nanti i bleh kasi u some of the interesting websites..:ah: |
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Originally posted by dilah21 at 20-7-2005 06:45 PM:
paste ah pat sini sc :bgrin: boleh jugak ktia org tengok~
nanti.. i kena scan the gambo tu.. kalo ade.. insya-allah i'll paste here.. |
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Originally posted by SweetCandy at 20-7-2005 06:47 PM:
nanti.. i kena scan the gambo tu.. kalo ade.. insya-allah i'll paste here..
ok, thanks sc.. :bgrin:teringat satu ketika dulu u n loli post yr gambar kahwin.. hehe u on leave or sumting but very2 excited kita semua ~ |
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Originally posted by dilah21 at 20-7-2005 06:49 PM:
ok, thanks sc.. :bgrin:teringat satu ketika dulu u n loli post yr gambar kahwin.. hehe u on leave or sumting but very2 excited kita semua ~
oh ya.. i ingat.. ha'ah.. betul tu.. ingat jugak u kisah lucu tu..lol |
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eh.. since kita asyik ckp pssal kawen2 ni.. nak tanya u all lah.. penah u dgr.. org2 tua ckp.. si bakal pengantin.. tak bleh keluar rumah for 1 mth sebelum dia punya big day.. takut2.. tak serilah & ngah darah manis?.. aklo ade share lah sikit..
kita mungkin penah dgr.. nasi minyak tak masak berjam-jam.. pasal ade benda2 yg tak baik berlaku... kalo ade post ah kat sini.. |
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Originally posted by SweetCandy at 20-7-2005 07:10 PM:
eh.. since kita asyik ckp pssal kawen2 ni.. nak tanya u all lah.. penah u dgr.. org2 tua ckp.. si bakal pengantin.. tak bleh keluar rumah for 1 mth sebelum dia punya big day.. takut2.. tak serilah ...
Perna dgr tu semua...tapi tu dulula..skarang ni da tkde lagi kot..my mum ada crite...dulu2..kalau nk buat majlis kawin..skali tetiba mcm nk ujan gitu...campak kain atas khemah...org dulu byk yg tk berplajaran...so skarang semua da pandai..da tk amalkan tu semua...tapi bila dgr balik amalan2 org dulu2 ni mcm klakarla,mcm tk masuk akal gitu..bt there's a reason 4 it...& tat is...nk majlis tu berjln dgn lancar......... |
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Originally posted by SweetCandy at 20-7-2005 07:10 PM:
eh.. since kita asyik ckp pssal kawen2 ni.. nak tanya u all lah.. penah u dgr.. org2 tua ckp.. si bakal pengantin.. tak bleh keluar rumah for 1 mth sebelum dia punya big day.. takut2.. tak serilah ...
pernah dengar jugak.. i rasa nowadays da ok kot.,..
ader dulu2 dia org kata time tunang the tunang kenot come .. now ader yang datang jugak.. as in after the ting and ambik2 gambo |
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Category: Negeri & Negara
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Post time 20-7-2005 10:12 AM
