Post time 25-11-2020 08:42 AMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
eplasbpafree replied at 24-11-2020 02:37 PM
kena buat thread khas utk suami2 yg huduh ni...
Hahaha... Hudh tapi berduit yach... Klu huduh dan semekin rasanya bertingkat tingkat rumah nnt ni.. Tu blum masuk pakej perangai hansuang.. Full pakej yach
Post time 25-11-2020 09:00 AMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
Risaurisaurisau replied at 25-11-2020 07:14 AM
Elok sikit..haha
Kalau tt rasa boleh mengadap muka dia. Comel di hati tt, ambik je la. Kita nak mengadap dia hari2. Ini kalau muka rasa geli nak ber lovey dovey, tunggu yang lain. Kalau hati tu rasa berat nak terima, tidak la tu.
Tt, jangan lupa update jadi ke tidak nanti. Hehe.
Post time 25-11-2020 10:04 AMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
Lps baca.. Kaka blh simpulkn spt berikut:
Tt dah plg min 3thn single, nk cari jodoh tp xjmp
Ada yg Tt nk org tu, org tu plk xmo tt
Umur tt plk dh mcm jahlop,early 3series
Parent lak dh xde
Tt Plan nk kawen thn depan tp yg smpi kali ni bkn taste tt,umur plk jauh..fmly plak non stop kenen, so tt stress
Baikla.. apa kata tt letak tepi dulu semua taste tt,isu tt dan just anggap dia kawan macam biasa dulu..bkn kawan kenal2 dgn tujuan nk kawen ye.. Ada beza di situ... Just kawan biasa, not in flirtatious way..
At the same time .. To balance off, tt luaskn option tt dgn kenal calon2 lain (online/offline) yg masih single pon as kawan juga
Apa yg tt dgr psl dia dr BIL semua tu pun tt letak tepi juga.. No judgement.. No expectation.. no hope no changes whatsoever involved..clean slate.tt start kenal from zero blk. Why? Coz sometime bila dah suka.. laki kdg ada tendency blakon suka something yg kita suka jgk, jadi something yg bkn diri dia sbb nk perempuan tu suka dia..so u listen to his action, instead of his words
So in the beginning.. nilai la dia sebagai kawan mcm mana.. If you both blh get along and survived the friendship bond beyond looks and age gap.. Then the relationship bond ada chance nk survive juga..and god forbid, tp klu xde jeki ke arah perkahwinan at least u have found new friends yg sama passion and interest dgn u
Tt kawanla cm biasa dlm min tempoh 6bulan dulu.. (jgn bgtau dia plak..ni guide utk tt sahaja)
Why 6bln..Coz 3mths is too short and most fake ppl keluar true color bila dh 6bln onwards..so pada kaka.. 6bln tu just nice utk tt kenal character seseorang...
From there onwards barula tt kenal dia as a lover pula.. Klu ada keserasian..proceed to the next level and i wish u the very best!
Post time 25-11-2020 10:23 AMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
Edited by Normabaru at 25-11-2020 10:28 AM
Normabaru replied at 25-11-2020 10:04 AM
Lps baca.. Kaka blh simpulkn spt berikut:
Tt dah plg min 3thn single, nk cari jodoh tp xjmp
By the way.. Baru2 ni kaka ada jumpa satu video ni.. Best.. Tp xingat dah tgk kat mana..
Cuma key points taken yang kaka suka nak share sini based on that video is the speaker tu ckp...
"In life there are more things worth chasing for instead of chasing a person"
For what is worth.. Kita blh chase god, chase happiness, chase peace, chase freedom, chase health, chase goals, chase focus, chase kindness...over a person's love
Life isnt just about getting a spouse and having kids...
Meaning of Life is beyond that..
Marriage itself isnt a goal..
It isnt an achievement either..
Kita kena faham.. Marriage is just a journey in another whole new level. Mind setting kita kena betul.. Niat kahwin tu kena betul.. Lillahi taala.
And not all people meant for that kind of 'journey' in this world
Byk da kaka tengok terkandas di tengah jalan for many wrong reasons..kawen sbb something physical,not spiritual..
Another common Marriage concept yang salah from the beginning-Mostly fikir dan harap nak terima benefit sahaja.. They want others to change for them..ikut taste yang dorg nak.. Ini yang buat ramai mencurang sbb the spouse kena berlakon dpn org yang dia kawen, tp dpn scandal dia bebas jadi diri dia
Lagi satu.. They dont want to be a giver walhal perkahwinan tu sendiri adalah satu pergorbanan sebenarnya
Last but not least.. A great marriage is a marriage yang compliments and bring out the best in each others
Post time 24-11-2020 09:55 PM
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