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Originally posted by exchangeserver at 16-10-2008 08:42 PM
Thanx for being harsh..
ader tak baca posting yg tak kasar...posting kasar2 tuh..
kat bawah2 tuh...
the one that makes sense..if you can't think about others..
aku ader bagi contoh2 kat situ...
pls be rational and think about others that you're gonna hurt..
pls read all of the post given..
if you keep on pursuing the guy...that lying cheating person
then..you've just missed a chance being with a single guy..
you're young...you've deserve better..dari yg kuat tipu2
you still have a chance cari yg lain...
don't ruin his kids life.. |
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berapi2 demon membhs.....
tp bnyk btlnya.....
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Thanx demon.. on your advices even its a bit harsh.. |
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Originally posted by exchangeserver at 17-10-2008 01:05 AM
Thanx demon.. on your advices even its a bit harsh..
i was angry...
i didn't want anybody to get hurt pasal curang2 neh..
semua org will get hurt...even you..
i'm not here to scare you..
i'm here to tell you....the what ifs..and the possibilities..
klu laki tuh tipu2 bini dier main sorok2 dating...and mula2 tipu2 engko cakap dier tuh single...
what does it tells you about his character..
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Its ok Demon. People have their rights to voice out whatever they wanna say.
I'm here just for seeking some advices and views, besides to release my feelings about this matter.
its not easy to be 2nd wife..a lot of things i need to swallow. Even, in this forum...people keep blaiming on 3rd party...
Well.. thanx for ya advices..... |
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Originally posted by exchangeserver at 17-10-2008 03:29 AM
Its ok Demon. People have their rights to voice out whatever they wanna say.
I'm here just for seeking some advices and views, besides to release my feelings about this matter.
its not easy t ...
you dah jadi second wife ka?
3rd party biasanya dipersalahkan...sebab...tuh org luar...
lagi pun...engko pompuan...as if engko macam mengkhianati kaum sendiri...
that's why...pompuan2 kbykkan menghentam pompuan tuh sundri..
laki tuh...dier ..tuh..he's a jerk...truthfully ...he's a lying sneaking cheating jerk
have you ever thought about others...
yg aku bagi contoh2 tuh...especially yg budak2 kecik...yg innocent tak tau apa2...tuh..paksa masok campo gak lam hal nih...
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Originally posted by exchangeserver at 17-10-2008 01:11 PM
Thanx pinklady..kalau dah memang tertulis yang dia jodoh saya.. i terima. Dan kalau bukan..saya hanya doakan dia bahagia...
so ...apa tindakan yg kamu akan lakukan sekarang...
engko maseh nak sneak around continue on dating with that guy..who lies and cheats on his wife..
if you still wanna be with that liar..
and you can't stop thinking about him...sebab lam otak engko...engko nyer hidup revolve around him..
sampai tak pat fikir baik and burok...dah kawen nanti...baru terhantuk kepala tengok tak adil and kene2 tipu berkali2...pastuh denying it...
macam makcik2 meroyan kat FD tuh pastuh balik2 cerita2 mende yg sama...akhir sekali cakap "laki aku syg aku'' and so forth
and you can't think about other ppl...budak2 innocent yg terlibat...
becos engko memuja laki tuh instead of God..
then...don't act so cowardly...
wear a bulletproof suit or hire some girl to take your place...
klu takut sangat takut2 sakit kene belasah oleh bini laki tuh...
pi jumpa bini tuh...tanya bleh kawan ker tak ngan laki dier |
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Balas #130 demonagirl6\ catat
Belum jadi lagi 2nd wife... Tapi itu yang disuarakan oleh dia.
Banyak yang bermain di fikiran saya...sebelum saya buat keputusan.
Bukan saya tak sayang...cuma saya takut..kalau saya terima..hidup saya akan disia2kan.. mcm skang nie.. saya ada sayang..at the same time.. takut risiko. |
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Originally posted by exchangeserver at 17-10-2008 04:24 PM
Belum jadi lagi 2nd wife... Tapi itu yang disuarakan oleh dia.
Banyak yang bermain di fikiran saya...sebelum saya buat keputusan.
Bukan saya tak sayang...cuma saya takut..kalau saya terima ...
Think Rationally
baca semua nasihat2...points2...
yes semua nya ada risiko...
contoh...bila nak jumpa ngan first wife tuh...takut2 kene belasah...
engko sedia pakai bullet proof vest ..or bayar pompuan to stand in jadi engko..
pastuh...klu jadi second wife..
raya nanti nak balik kampong sapa..
in laws tuh akan tindas or hina you tak sebab dpt title perampas...ni memang minda masyarakat....
klu jadi second wife..engko mesti tabah..
cos...second wife..laki salu amik second wife jadi tempat utk puas nafsu..
first wife...dah lengkap berkuarga semua bagai..
and then you have to think...klu laki tuh suka tipu menipu...sorok menyorok..
klu hal nafkah tuh..adakah dier akan berlaku adil...
dier nak tipu2 ngan engko nanti ka...duit tuh hilang entah ke mana..
klu kamu dah jadi bini dier...adakah dier akan ...menghormati kamu?
klu tengok bini dier...bini dier asik2 kene tipu...dier tak hormat bini dier..
kamu dpt tak fikir tentang org lain? like right now?
dlm poligami...it's not about you only...sebab ada anak2 kecik kat first wife nyer family tuh...
for example ni..perkara biasa..
biasanya laki manja lebey kat bini baru.
bini baru tuh rayu2 pujuk2 laki tuh spend time lebey ker..minta duit lebey ker...sampai tak ingat anak2 kat first wife nyer family..
anak2 kat first wife tuh makan pasir jerk...
it's about all of the family...takut kamu ikot perasaan sangat...cam skrang...
mulut aku dok berbuih2 cakap pasal efek kat anak2 laki tuh...pun...engko asik2 cerita pasal feelings engko..
engko dah besar....engko dah lalui semua childhood tuh...
you never wanna give those kids a chance..
oh well...paksa la budak2 tuh tengok mak dorg sakit hati...
i just hope dorg tak guna cara menagih dadah..or bagi apam senang2 kat org just to get love...or just to get out of their misery..bunoh diri or something like that..
well ...harap dpt tanggong dosa2 tuh...bersama..
do you still think..he's the one for you...
the person who cheats on his wife...
whereas there are other good single man out there waiting for you...
but instead you focused your time and your energy building a relationship ngan laki org yg dari awal dah tak jujur cakap dier single...
or maybe he just forgets that he has a wife and kids...back at home...
well...good luck...
harap2 dier tak buat2 as if kamu tak exists klu dier mencari yg baru...in the next few years..ada 2 kuota tinggal... |
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Balas #132 demonagirl6\ catat
Besar gak impak dia..
Tang anak2 tu.. saya mmg kalah... |
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Reply #131 exchangeserver's post
ko dah ckp ngan ayah ko?
dia nk jadi wali nt kan...kalau dia xbg camne?
ko nk kawin lari ke?? |
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Reply #131 exchangeserver's post
kalau ko rasa ko sanggup bermadu go on la....
dlm my kes....ayah aku xadil langsung...
memang dia lebih byk spend masa ngan bini muda dia....barang baru la katakan, sape xsayang...
dari aku kecik mak aku sentiasa berendam air mata....aku pun penah sesame nangis skali ngan mak aku masa 2...walaupun aku hanya beruur 10 tahun pada masa 2 tp aku dah pham penderitaan mak aku....
one advise i want 2 give 2 you.....
sebagai isteri kedua ko yg kena byk mengalah nt...sebab ko yg amik laki org,
macam mak tiri aku dia plak yg ngada2...slalu nk ayah aku duk kt umah dia, that's why i hate her most:@
ko jugak kena kut bersedia utk dibernci oleh anak2 tiri ko nnt...
p/s : laki 2 alim sgt ke?sewarak- warak harun din pun kawin sorang jer aku rasa...takut tidak berlaku adil nt |
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Balas #134 baroque\ catat
Belum lagi. Sbb tak pasti nak teruskan ke tak.. banyak mender yang kena pk.
Mcm demon cakap.. saya masih ada perasaan belas pada isteri and anak2 dia.
Tapi kadang2 sbb wife dia dok maki2 saya.. saya geram...tapi tak bleh nak salahkan dia.. sbb itu dah memang hak dia...
erm.. |
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Balas #135 baroque\ catat
Erm.. belum lagi ..dik.. even he already met my parents.. but my parents tak tahu status dia lagi..
Erm.. a lot of things playing in my mind. as u said.. i x nak idup dlm kebencian orang.. and maki hamun orang.. |
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