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what..bole jd novel ke citer aku ni..novel boring jee..
blum nak kawin lg.. tp kalo aku konfem2 x dpt kawin dgn ini laki.. baik aku break awal2 je.. buang masa aku ngan die je.. |
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tp kalo diikutkan..kalo sume pompuan degree nak yg degree jgk..mane cukup sorg satu kan..
org lelaki kalo tak berduit mmg dipandang rendah.. kesian korang.. aku tumpang simpati... |
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tanya hati sendiri...
dah terang2 parents tak restu kan?
kalau teruskan jugak, risiko kena berani tanggung...
aku tak berani lawan ckp famili, even aku sblm nih pun kena mcm hang..
sebijik...malah kami berkawan 4 tahun.but my mom says no, my dad says up to u.alasan mom, my ex kerja biasa2...etc etc...nanti xbahagia la..etc etc
lama jugak aku memikir apa next step...bf boleh cari lain..tp tuh la satu2nya mak n bapak aku.n aku berkawan ngan bf baru 4 tahun, sdgkan parents aku jaga aku for 23 years..so mana lebih penting.
in the end, kami break jugak..sbb tentangan keluarga n jugak maybe sbb dia tension mak aku tak accept dia, masa hujung2 hubungan tuh dia ada cam tak pedulikan aku jugak ler..n making the decision easier to be made... |
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123# baby_pingu
ye..sejibik ler dgn problem aku.. cuma aku blum break je lagi
sama la..aku pon x berani lawan cakap famili.. sbb tu aku bingung skrg ni..
takutnye aku baca citer ko.. |
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Post Last Edit by addamnor at 9-8-2009 23:20
ko neh TT... keras laa sikit.. berani sikit tegakkan apa yang ko nak..
nengok kan ko punya reply macam ko neh tak leh nak defend cinta ko jek....
huh:@
defend ur love, tapi jgn buang mak bapak nko kerana dia. |
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Ko dah pernah bawak bf jumpa parents tak? Bf pernah cuba ambik hati parents tak? Cakap dengan hormat, bukan berlagak. Kadang2 tu ada lelaki kerja biasa2 je, tapi bila mak bapak tengok, sejuk je hati, rasa cam secure je anak dia kalau kawin dengan lelaki macam ni. Ingat, parents cuma bimbangkan masa depan anak perempuan diaorang, bukan sebab lain pun.
Bila bercinta, kita dah ada perasaan kat orang tu, jadi common sense dah tinggal separuh, kalau mak bapak tengok, dia boleh judge objectively, sebab dia tak cinta kat lelaki tu. Cuba la bawak jumpa.
Kawin parents tak berapa suka ni, kesannya cuma boleh nampak masa dah ada anak, selepas beberapa tahun. Masa tu cinta dah suam-suam kuku, atau ada yg dah hilang cinta pun. Masing2 dah tunjuk belang sebenar. Lebih2 lagi kalau banyak masalah ekonomi, kalau parents suka, senang je nak mengadu hal, nak mintak bantuan. TApi kalau parents tak suka, kena pendam sorang2 sebab takut kena padankan muka.
Dah buat istikarah belum? |
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Post Last Edit by addamnor at 9-8-2009 23:48
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127# addamnor
everyone have their own opinion...
n hana tuh just stated wht the obvious kan?
restu parents tuh paling penting bg seorg pompuan..
tambah lak lps kawen nih bini kena ikut ckp laki..
dpt lak laki yg tak ngam ngan mertua..
mau kucar kacir gak rumahtangga tuh....
at least kalo dua2 pihak ngam...senang la sket kan????
esp part bersalin tuh...mmg btul arr apa dia ckp..
time tuh pompuan nih misti kalau bleh nak mak dia yg jaga...
kalau mak dia tak restu...payah lar...
kena menumpang kasih mak mertua...
mana nak sama mak sendiri ngan mak mertua kan??
anyway tuan rumah..pikir lah elok2..
yg mana priority...bf ( yg ko baru kenal 2 tahun) or parents? (yg jaga ko dr kecik, yg berjaga tgh mlm time2 ko demam time baby dulu, yg saving bagai nak rak utk belikan ko susu supaya ko bleh hidup sampai sekarang nih).......... |
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127# addamnor
everyone have their own opinion...
n hana tuh just stated wht the obvious kan?
restu parents tuh paling penting bg seorg pompuan..
tambah lak lps kawen nih bini kena ikut ckp ...
baby_pingu Post at 9-8-2009 23:36
hana dinasihatkan jgn bersikap provocative towards me, dan i wont entertain her postings anymore. she can say whatever she wants.. hana's case is closed to me.
tuan tanah is advised to defend her BF, but dont throw away the parents.
sometimes we have to take consideration, that our parents are not always correct.. they don't see holistically..most of the time, they just worried more than they should do and here, the incompatibility is in the main issue, just because the BF has only SPM and TT has degree.. dont the parents see that the guy is working very hard for his future? he is trying to be a responsible guy.. rugilah kalo lepaskan lelaki mcm ni..nak yang macam mana lagi?
so as a daughter, it lies on her shoulder to convince the parents.. agak malang lah kan ibu bapa tuan tanah bersikap konservatif dan decisive terhadap pilihan anak2...
apa pon.. very good luck to tuan tanah.. hopefully she gets what she wants.. remember, it is you that determine ur own happiness, ur own pathway of life.. if you dont work hard, no one will work for you... pray hard to gad. insya allah everything will be fine. |
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da lama ikuti cite ni tp mcm x kesudahan je. TT ni njoy btul kat umah dia, hehe. Bley tau umo brapa?? |
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hana dinasihatkan jgn bersikap provocative towards me, dan i wont entertain her postings anymore. she can say whatever she wants.. hana's case is closed to me.
tuan tanah is advised to defend h ...
addamnor Post at 10-8-2009 00:06
kalo laa pakwe aku terer inggeris cam ko.. |
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130# din_atos
bukannye nak kawen dlm mase terdekat... umur dh bgtau..xleh bgtau byk kali..rahsia |
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gaji ko bape...
gaji BF ko bape....
BF ko dh ade keta ke.. |
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126# aurorae
penah bwk jmpe sekali time raye cina..tp kene rejek |
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Post Last Edit by darkcloud at 10-8-2009 12:50
134# True-X
gaji pkwe dlm sing $
gaji aku dlm RM
die xde kete psl kt sing xleh beli kete |
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Post Last Edit by Hana at 9-8-2009 17:32
mcm kat ofis aku nie, technician2 aku nie kawen dgn..
~ engineer
~ doctor
~ lecturer
Hana Post at 9-8-2009 17:30
sadly laa... tp ni lah kebenarannyer,,,
kengkawan aku sumer kawen ngan org yg education level lagi rendah ... level technican laaa... but as far as i can see.. diorg hapi je ( yg aku nmpak laa kan... yg dlm2 tuh aku tak taw laa )
psssst....neeway bg aku mende tuh tk penting..yg penting sape wat duit lagi banyak time keje... x perlu laa mewah.. yg penting mampu menanggung umah tangga... bukan jadi buaya lepak umah je k... |
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Post Last Edit by darkcloud at 10-8-2009 12:50
134# True-X
gaji pkwe dlm sing $
gaji aku dlm RM
die xde kete psl kt sing xleh beli kete
darkcloud Post at 10-8-2009 12:49
ye lah kl tukar sing dolar tuh sape lagi banyak? |
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133# anonymous5050
aku nk mintak pendpt..
kalo korg kate aku patut teruskan aku teruskan
kalo korg kate aku patut break aku break
aku xleh buat keputusan psl hati aku ade 2 bahagian |
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138# True-X
of cos la sing $ lg byk
tp mak aku tak percaye..die kata tah2 pkwe aku keje security guard |
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