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bagaimanakah boleh jatuh suka, rindu n sayang?
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Reply TimahMulia
wahhhhh.. 7 org anak ker jumlah semue? wahhh..
plainjane Post at 23-10-2011 20:47 
dan kena belajar sayang anak masing seperti dari darah daging sendiri..barulah masalah tidak timbul..
yang penting..IKHLAS dan berbuat semua ini kerana ALLAH SWT. |
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salam... sy orang baru... sesaje nak kasik pendapat.... ;)
sy rase first ting kener tgk dulu... kriteria2 pilihan.. contohnyer.. maybe certain people mmg x mementingkan rupe tp pentingkan kerjaya ker.... or attitude ker... biler kriteria2 tue sudah di penuhi or sudah dapat diterime segala kelebihan dan kekurangan... then baru boleh di pertimbangkan utk m'jadi calon...
tp pade mase yg same, cara both party communicate.. mentality level kena la seiring...dan kalo mcm sy wanita.. sgt suke kalo rase di hargai..  hehe...
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cinta itu buta so tak kish klo jtuh cinta tanpa bersua .muahahaha |
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langitluas replied at 23-8-2011 01:28 PM
perasaan suka sayang cinta ni boleh jadi pudar dan buat kita rasa hati keras bila nampak lelaki
sem ...
up balik tred lama ..hehe.
tp aku setuju dgn komen ko ni..ini yg aku hadap skang..bila suka membuak2 rasa..tp bila ada sesuatu yg sama jadi seperti masa dulu.mmg tawar hati terus. |
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takdenya nak melahar pun dik..ok pe posting adik..
memang, ntah dimananya yg elok tp dia tetap istimewa di mata kita kan?
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kadang2 ada jugak kes yg lepas kecewa berkali2..
dan dah janji takkan jatuh cinta dengan mudah
pun masih boleh terkena..sebab..
cinta tu tak boleh jangka dia nak datang bila
walau pun kita dah berhati-hati.
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we are all humans..memang akan susah utk mengawal perasaan itu
lebih2 lagi kalau org tu menunjukkan sifat yg caring...ataupun kalau selalu hang out together, mesti akan jatuh cinta one day
sbb selalu berjumpa...then kalau tak jumpa akan rasa rindu kepada org tu
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ok memandangkan saya free masa ni,
boleh saya kongsikan pengalaman jatuh cinta saya?
gini citernya..lepas last frust dengan satu guy ni,
tetiba masuk satu pm dalam inbox,
dia cakap bila tengok sama negeri dia terus addlah..
saya skodeng dia punya photo..biasa2 sajalah bagi
saya tiada tarikan apa pun, dengan tahi lalat dia lah,
tiada apa yg boleh buat saya tertarik pun.
mula2 macam malas2 nak berchat pada awal perkenalan..
pm dia pun banyak yg saya ingnore, tengah2
malam masih ada pm..ada saya jawab..ada tidak,
ada tu dia bagi salam saya acuh tak acuh.
nak dijadikan cerita bila berita arwah Tok Guru Nik Aziz
meninggal, dialah orang pertama yang saya cari
sambil menangis bagi tahu berita tu..entah kenapa dia yg saya cari,
padahal sebelum ni saya mmg buat tak peduli pun..
selepas itu agak kerap sedikit lah kami ber pm..lepas tu diam
balik..sampailah saya kena pergi kursus, jadi waktu
malam saya banyak terluang kebetulan dia kerja shif malam,
jadi agak lamalah kami berchatting sampai ke tengahmalam.
hari demi hari..timbul pulak rasa sunyi bila dia takde dekat
wasap..nak tanya, malu..bila dah cakap punya cakap
chatting punya chatting..hati ni dah rasa lain macam..
aikk aku ni dah terjatuh cinta kah..haaa selepas tu mula
lah tengok dia lawa semacam je..tak de yang lawa selain dia
sajalah....tengok gambar pun sambil senyum je..
sini nak cakap bahawa cinta tu datang, dengan sikit sentuhan,
kita tak tahu masa bila Allah anugerahkan rasa tu pada kita,
bila masa rasa cinta tu tercampak dalam hati kita,
tup2 datang rindu yang terbeban..yang sungguh membebankan.
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pernah dgr tak the most vulnerable girl is when she has just had a breakup?
and normally the 1st guy yg come into her life,s he will end up falling in love?
coz dia lah yg dapat filll in the space at that time
so memang normal lah ape yg terjadi kat awak
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normal ke win?..saya rasa saya ni teruk sebab
cepat sgt jatuh cinta 
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it is nothing wrong with falling in love easily...anyway its a trial period during dating kan..utk mengenali sesama sendiri
just as long as u dont mget married too fast ...until u know his true character
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the most vulnerable girl is when she has just had a breakup?
ada, tapi tak semua mcm tu kot. and yes, normal la jugak kalau boleh jatuh suka tu, sbb hati tgh fragile.
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well..yeah...depends on what type of breakup...kalau yg teruk punya, she will be phobia in getting a new guy
tapi kalau breakup coz bf dah tk hirau lagi then vulnerable
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Edited by eileen80 at 23-5-2015 06:16 PM
pnh dgr kat radio...
'kejayaan, kedudukan & kemewahan blh dicapai/diperolehi dgn usaha kite (dibantu oleh Allah)... namun perasaan suke, cinta, syg & rindu yg wujud di dlm hati adalah anugerah Allah.'
sbb tu kite xsuke, xsyg, xcinte & xrindu dgn sume org yg ade di sekeliling/ yg kite temui sbb perasaan tu hny wujud bile Allah izinkan.
bg m'jwb soalan tt, kite xkan tahu bile & bagaimana tp bile awak dah lalui, awak akan tau yg perasaan tu telah hadir dlm hati awak. |
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so the feeling is not true then? let say the girl is vulnerable after her break up...
and ended up falling for the first guy who come after dat... the feeling is not genuine then?
let say during her normal state, she wouldnt even be looking at the guy? am i right?
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well...all these are all very subjective, the next guy that comes could be the right guy too and falling in love with him is real
then again depends if that guy is genuine or not
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yup it's very subjective yet someone might making a mistake by thinking the feeling is real, no?
how to know whether the guy is genuine?
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there is no such thing as mistake, coz u fall for the guy in times of your loneliness
and obviously he ould be much better than the guy u broke up with...or u wont fall in love
so nothing to do about the guy is genuine or not....an thus, obviously the guy was also looking for a gf too
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for me it would be a mistake.a girl is torn apart and lonely, just breaking up. she's vulnerable
perfect combo for rebound? but i personally believe that she is not strong for another serious relationship
maybe the guy is not right for her but to compensate her loneliness she accept the guy, perhaps?
anyway thanks for ur opinion..
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Well..one thing for sure..ur english is damn powderful..hehehehehehhehe
well..we are all but human, wanting the love and attentuon..both guys and girls
then again, it depends on how hard the breakup would be
if the guy has an affair or being an asshole and cause the breakup then the girl might not accept the next guy so fast
but if she needed love and attention and the bf didnt gave that, then she would accept the next guy fast coz she is dying for love and attention
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 24-10-2011 03:06 PM
