~ Apakah pengertian "skandal" yang korang paham?? ~

honey_d7881

muffins posted on 18-10-2013 03:43 PM
khenn...

org lain yang jeles ngn weols.. iols x perlu pon nak jeles ngn yg lain... sebab iols ...

Yang part nie aku suka dan buat aku jeles.
Dia akan carik ko jugak even pusing2 mcm maner pun.
Nak jugak mcm nieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Nak carik orang yang faham kita sungguh2, yang tahan ngan feel kita sungguh2, bukan senang kot nak dapat. Takut kebanyakkan cepat jemu. Hehehehe.... Kuat melenting, tinggal. Kuat bertanya, tinggal. Buat bodoh, tinggal. Tak suka pujuk, tinggal. Dah jumpa 1 nie, ko jagalah baik2 ek. Dia pun kenalah jaga ko jugak

midori888

muffins posted on 18-10-2013 04:11 PM
i dun have bf..

tapi i nak attention ..... dan i x mo bf..

oh...i ada bf, and i ada best fren....i dont call my best fren scandal....both of them know each other....i can kuar with my best fren whenever we are free, tak perlu mintak permission bf...he dont mind me goin out with ppl he knows....i have more photos of my best fren in my hp dari bf....and bf know about it....he seen it....he knows i text my best fren more than i text him....whenever i am sad, best fren always there to comfort me....if he's sad i comfort him too....he's the one told me, lelaki ngan ppuan tak bole jadi best fren.....if a man rapat ngan ppuan, that's mean he love her...

if 3 of us go to party together.....best fren have to give way to bf, contoh cam nak dok sebelah i dan nak htr i balik....still we tegur each other...we dont act like stranger....

am i and best fren in scandal?

muffins

honey_d7881 posted on 18-10-2013 04:37 PM
Yang part nie aku suka dan buat aku jeles.
Dia akan carik ko jugak even pusing2 mcm maner pun.
N ...

ekceli pada iols.. seme pon akan ade peluang nk dpt peluang mcm tu.....

cuma antara korang nak "bertahan" ngn seseorg tu je atau pon tak.. lelebih lagi nak bertahan bertahun2...

weols built relationship mcm ni bukan sehari dua.. tapi bertahun.. kena terima dan cuba dan cuba untuk memahami dan let our emotional free from string stress...

humm.... kekadang bila umo dah meningkat ni.. uols akan rasa sunyi juga sebab mcm xde ketetapan... but then.. like i said.. this what u choose.. so u have to stand for it no matters what..

muffins

midori888 posted on 18-10-2013 04:49 PM
oh...i ada bf, and i ada best fren....i dont call my best fren scandal....both of them know each ...

thats not skendel.... thats friendzone..

friendzone is much more heartache u know.. .. suffering alone..

i think ur best fren pon dah bitao uols that lelaki ngn pompuan x bole berkawan rapat mesti ada perasaan inbetween... huhuhuhu... so sad, he already signal u sumtin.. if u doesnt feel anything for him. it must be him feel sumtin for u thats why hes still ur bestfren..

dia budak baik.. thats y he hormat ur choice to be with ur BF... paderhal dlm hati.. xde saper pon taw..

btw.. thats my opinion.. yang bebetul in that situation adalah uols ngn dia.. so wallahualam.. u ask him self laa...




iols ni jenis setia sajork.. malas nak involve ngn ramai sgt org.. stok sombong2 pemalu gitew.. ... ade satu skendel sudeh.. yg satu ni pon dah menyakitkan jiwa raga.. apertah lagi nak ramai2.. ... lagi pon iols ni bukan katak untuk melompat sana sini..

lkick2113

muffins posted on 14-10-2013 08:26 PM
Skendel pada iols mcm fren with benefits ...

Iols dah berskendel 12 taon.. Xde saper pon taw a ...

kantoi!!!!!!!!!hahahaa

muffins

lkick2113 posted on 18-10-2013 05:55 PM
kantoi!!!!!!!!!hahahaa

ape yang kantoi..

uols dah anak berapa dah skrg kick..

Innrukia

muffins posted on 18-10-2013 05:32 PM
ekceli pada iols.. seme pon akan ade peluang nk dpt peluang mcm tu.....

cuma antara korang na ...

I do agree with u. Relationship mcm ni lebih pada choice. U buat pilihan, sanggup bertahan & teruskan journey u & dia tak? If dedua strong enough utk stay dlm this kind of relationship eventhough byk drama then slowly this kind of bond ada wujud. Tp what kind of feeling yg involve?

Sembang dgn hang, buat aku ingat blk semua drama2 tu, cam drama ulangan.... tp paling aku suka, bila dia jealous.. menggila marah aku & aku yg blur ni ternganga, siap tanya kenapa nk marah aku padahal kami bkn sesapa pun...
aku plak ikut mood....kekadang without notice akan melenting kat dia, tanya status kami.....dia biar jer aku melenting & cool jer tenangkan aku...

lkick2113

muffins posted on 18-10-2013 06:13 PM
ape yang kantoi..

uols dah anak berapa dah skrg kick..

dah 2 dah... lu jgn skandal lama2 wa tunggu lu punyA nasik minyak ni

midori888

muffins posted on 18-10-2013 05:39 PM
thats not skendel.... thats friendzone..

friendzone is much more heartache u know..  ..  ...

yup, now we still best fren....nobody is suffering here bcoz like him, i pun kasi my time, my attention and my concern to him....dulu2 i tak pnh rasa jealous, but now ada rasa skit jealous bila ppuan lain call dia dan citer masalah diorg kat dia.....he is a good listener, itu agaknyer buat org tertarik kat dia....he gave me other hints too but those days i fikir, he did it bcoz he is a caring person, that's all....i and him ada byk persamaan dari i ngan bf...

my bf and i always on d the break up zone....dulu2 i kuat jealous gak....nowadays cam dah kurang....he just too busy with his life, no time for me...since dia tak letak diri i as important person to him, kenapa i nak jadikan dia important plak....its not my fault kalu i berubah hati....

anyway, que sera sera....whatever will be will be....right now i suka mcm nie....having a best fren yg always there for me, and having a bf that i can always fight with.

btw i am not a friendly person....org slalu kata i sombong dan garang....since i get that all the time, i iyerkan jer....

muffins

Innrukia posted on 18-10-2013 09:06 PM
I do agree with u. Relationship mcm ni lebih pada choice. U buat pilihan, sanggup bertahan & terus ...

Thats the risk that u shud bare.. .. Becos is so open free, leaving at anytime is like an open choice.  

like i said we both here also mesti disebabkan ketentuan NYA.. Bertemu dan berpisah tu seme atas kehendak DIA..

DIA juga yang beri perasaan pada both of us untuk bertahan dlm hubungan.. If u ask me, wht kind of feeling inside us.. I would say... I dun know..

i just couldnt define much inside me.. I think him also like that.. If we both discuss over it pon.. Jawapan yg kedengaran from both of us , would be hanya bunyi angin jek..

Disebabkan couldnt define those "bond" tu laa.. Our relationship close to be define as skendel jew laa..


Apa yg buat iols patut bersyukur ialah "kami" masih disini.. Thats most important..

muffins

lkick2113 posted on 18-10-2013 09:41 PM
dah 2 dah... lu jgn skandal lama2 wa tunggu lu punyA nasik minyak ni

Giler ahh.. Dah 2 yekk... Hebat..

tahniah..

insyaallah kalau ada rezeki tertulis utk seme rezeki tu.. Insyaallah akan ade..

Innrukia

muffins posted on 18-10-2013 09:58 PM
Thats the risk that u shud bare..  .. Becos is so open free, leaving at anytime is like an open  ...

Pernah rasa letih? Rasa nk keluar dari bond tu?

muffins

midori888 posted on 18-10-2013 09:42 PM
yup, now we still best fren....nobody is suffering here bcoz like him, i pun kasi my time, my atte ...

Its up to u.. I couldnt define more becos its wasnt my shoe or my life.. Its yours..

if u think is fair to everyone and u feel satisfied with it.. Just do which ever comfort u the most..

tapi just another thought of mine..  Being in any relationship mutualy there shud be sense of loyalty and special treat to that sumone..

meaning being loyal is to put as his THE ONE n only guy person in ur life.. Not sharing all those special treatment with others.. .. Mcm makna loyalty tu dah kureng if u add others in your life.. Relationship shud be just the two of u.. Not others.. Hatta kawan baik sendiri pon..

Mmm.. Org yg x pernh kena friendzoned mmg x bole nak faham dan rasa perasaan mereka.. - everyone can be great actor in real life.. I still can smiling although my heart hurts like hell looking at him flirting with another girl.. and i still can laugh loudly although im crying hurts..

muffins

Innrukia posted on 18-10-2013 10:14 PM
Pernah rasa letih? Rasa nk keluar dari bond tu?

12 years .. N u ask me, sama ada letih atau x..

are u kidding me..

letih itu la yg terjadi sepanjang masa.. im sick with everything .. itu la banyak drama yg timbul..

dan yg bencinyer.. Wlpn letih .. Naper kitaorg x penah putus asa????

Innrukia

muffins posted on 18-10-2013 10:20 PM
12 years .. N u ask me, sama ada letih atau x..

are u kidding me..

itu la....saja nak perli....

i pun dah berkali2 kata letih. Dia pun ckp letih berulang kali.
BUT still masih di sini....kenapa hati masih nak stay sini
I wish i have the courage utk keluar dr sini, at least tak payah rasa sedih, excited, happy, marah, geram, kecewa, letih apa lagik erk?
ntah

muffins

Innrukia posted on 18-10-2013 10:30 PM
itu la....saja nak perli....

i pun dah berkali2 kata letih. Dia pun ckp letih berulang kali.
...

Iols bukan xde courage..

tapi x taw ape jenis kabel chain tah dah menjerut iols ni..

dah lari beribu batu.. Pernah x bercakap bertahun.. Bukan sekali dua.. Tp byk kali..

tapi at the end.. Kat sini gak..

Innrukia

muffins posted on 18-10-2013 10:39 PM
Iols bukan xde courage..

tapi x taw ape jenis kabel chain tah dah menjerut iols ni..

kan..bkn takde courage dah pernah berbulan senyapkan diri...end up masih di sini.
the way he make up things mcm cute jer.... psl dgn org len dia x buat mcm tu....isk isk isk

midori888

muffins posted on 18-10-2013 10:16 PM
Its up to u.. I couldnt define more becos its wasnt my shoe or my life.. Its yours..

if u th ...

loyalty.....nanti bila that one and only guy tu buat hal....bole i suffering camtu....hell no....diorg pun belum tentu setia kat i....manusia, anytime bole berubah...hari nie suka, esok benci...sbb manusia berubah nie lah i dont trust ppl much....

muffins

Innrukia posted on 18-10-2013 10:41 PM
kan..bkn takde courage dah pernah berbulan senyapkan diri...end up masih di sini.
the way he make ...

Weols penah benti bercakap selama setahun lebey secara tetiba.. Tambah lagi dia jauh time tu..

Iols yg kecewa sebab terasa dipinggir secara tetiba.. Merajuk smpi tukar nombo tepon..

Tapi... Mmg takdir agak nya... (Among the momories iols sentiasa ingat peristiwa ni)

suatu hari tu iols receive call from unknown number.. Mmg sejak seminggu dua sblm tu iols asyek rasa x sedap jek.. Mcm terasa ade sumtin .. Iols dpt call.. Iols angkat.. Yg kedengaran suara pengumuman ucapan " selamat datang ke malaysia untuk yg melawat dan selamat pulang kepada warga malaysia ..... Etc..etc " iols hanya mampu tergamam dengar ucapan yg biasa kita dgr dlm penerbangan.

after all that speech.. I heard the voice that i miss the most terasa mcm ais menjirus ke api.. Shouted " i'm back!! N im here again !! Omg..omg syukur!! " hes laugh and hes crazy excitement screaming in the plane sambil turunkan beg dan berhimpit keluar dr cockpit  dan terjerit2 "u r the first person i call.. Even my father pon x tahu i balik n no one is going to pick up me... Etc..etc.." and all the after words yg dia bebel i just couldnt hear it anymore.. Sebab iols dah meroyan menangis tekup mulut sekuat ati cuba utk kawal diri.. Tapi at last iols jatuh menongeng nangis smbil pegang phone rasa nk pengsan ..

He leaves me as he wish.. And he came back as he desire..  X taw dia dpt dr mn nombo tepon iols.. Wht shocking suprise..

Maderfaker toll dia khen.. He knew how to make things perfect after destroying it.. Demmm...

muffins

midori888 posted on 18-10-2013 10:58 PM
loyalty.....nanti bila that one and only guy tu buat hal....bole i suffering camtu....hell no... ...

Then perhaps they are not the one..

y wasting ur time with them? Untuk stok mengisi masa je kah? If u rasa x secured.. Bakpe nak kapel? Kenapa nk limitkan diri sendiri ngn hubungan yg ada tu?

Tapi entah la kan.. Its up to u.. Its ur own of life.. Choices made by u.. Ok kot