Isteri lari dari rumah kerana inginkan kebebasan.

faraway

Originally posted by razhar at 19-3-2007 10:20 AM
dia bisness la..

camana business, ada maju, ada hutang along..
heheh kalau pegi mahkamah, camtu gak dorang tanya

aryssaharris

bisnes turun naik kot..kalu tuan rumah tak mampu, manakan isteri tu nak saman tuan rumah sampai 1/2 juta..

BingkaUbi

Originally posted by aizat at 19-3-2007 01:50 PM
minta tolong sikit kawan kawan, bagaimana saya nak menghadapi kekuatan utk meneruskan kehidupan ini jika saya menceraikan isteri saya jika jodoh sudah sampai di sini sahaja?

bagaimana nak melupakannya? bolehkah saya menjadi gila talak ? pls saya tak pernah hadapi dugaan seberat ini dalam hidup saya. sudahlah baru kehilangan ibu tersayang, baru berhenti kerja dan kini isteri saya pula buat hal.

umur saya baru 30 tahun. ramai yg cakap masih muda, buleh kahwin lagi, saya anggukkan aja sambil tersenyum tp kekadang saya balas balik, cakap memang senang tp kalau bercerai yg menanggungnya saya, sbb tu saya masih lagi terfikir2 nak buat keputusan.

ni hah post yg dia bg tau dia tak keje.......baru tu berapa lama tak tau la.....aku rasa ni post ke 2 dia bg tau dia tak keje.....

be_delicious

mungkin die berdendam sb pernah kene pukul dek husband..
tibe masa die pun cabut walaupun dah 5-6 thn berlalu..
parut dihati..

fish_o7

to AIZAT

1.u don't have job..
2.u wife hates and cheas on u..
3.u have kids to take care..

in my simple words ...ur truly being f**ked...

nasihat aku .... terima kenyataan ...dan selesaikan masalah bini ko ....from wat i read ....ape yg bleh menyelesaikan maslah aderlah cerai dan ko perlu lupekan bini ko ......

move on ....cari kerja baru ...dan start a new life ..... well in ur kes ... i wan too ...take a deep breath and think wisely ...... u already lost one of ur ball ...don't lose the other ....

get a divorce ....forget bout her ...walk new path.....kapish

blackmore

Originally posted by aizat at 19-3-2007 13:50
minta tolong sikit kawan kawan, bagaimana saya nak menghadapi kekuatan utk meneruskan kehidupan ini jika saya menceraikan isteri saya jika jodoh sudah sampai di sini sahaja?

bagaimana nak ...

....cakap memang senang...especially kalau kita bercakap daripada seorang nasik tambah punya point of view...tersangat lah senang...huhuhu....

...but...serious cakap...penceraian nie memanglah sesuatu yang devastating...which can be very traumatic to all members yang involved...from the couple themselves...to thier kids especially...right down to their families and close ones...


...why is it so devastating and traumatic??....cos ianya bermakna bukan saja mahligai bahagia ataupon syurga dunia kita yang dah collapsed...ianya jugak bermakna yang cinta kita yang kita anggap paling unggul dan sejati telah musnah...dan ianya jugak bermakna yang kita telah kehilangan seorang yang kita anggap as our other half...seorang teman baik yang pernah berkongsi ketawa dan tangisan bersama2....

...to some...ianya jugak melambangkan sebagai the end of the world for them....the ultimate failure in their lives...afterall...they have lost their other half rite??...heh...terasa yang sebahagian daripada hidup mereka telah turut sama mati...

...soalan2 seperti bley ke aku teruskan hidup setelah dia tiada??...bley ke aku tidur ngan lena tanpa dia disisi aku??...bley ke aku makan dan minum tanpa dia bersama2???....banyak lagik persoalan2 sebegini akan timbul dan bermain2 di benak kita...but...as we carry on to move on with our live after divorce...we are force to eventually find ways and means that will work for us to adapt to this new change....

...u have to believe that your life doesnt end becos of the divorce...u have to believe and that there is a better future for u after the divorce...and that u can go on with your life with or without her...all u need is to have more faith in yourself and in Him...like ive always like to say...life knocks u down sometimes...but it is ok u noe...cos thats how life is...it can lift u up so high and it can bring u down crashing into pieces...but...what is not ok is when u let life keeps u down...

...life may have taken your mum from u...it may have taken your work from u...and it may probably take your wife away from u too...but please dont let life takes away your dignity too...thats the only thing that u have rite now that can help u to move on...cos once your dignity is taken away....u will end up living in a sad and pathetic state...

...so...get a grip...u have to snap yourself out from your dreamland and start to face reality of your problems....cos they will not self resolve without your intervention...focus on your family...your kids and your wife...try to work things out with your wife...have a heart to heart talk...kalau korang dapat memaafkan each other and if u guys think that it is worth to give yourself and your marriage another shot...then that will be great...buang yang keruh ambil yang jernih...tukarlah cara hidup korang...anak2 tu amik dan biarlah tinggal bersama2 korang...they are afterall penyeri hidup korang...your lifelines...tanpa dorang dalam rumah...sunyi sepi yang akan memenuhi kehidupan korang...tu yang buat masing2 rasa bosan...apalah erti hidup tanpa mereka di sisi korang??...

...but...if all talks and attempts still lead to a divorce...then...be it...at least u noe that u have tried...

...the thing is...pple seems to think that moving on is too difficult and hard to do...in actual fact...to move on is not that difficult...it is the holding/hanging on that will be painful...cos to let go of something or someone yang kita pernah cintai dan cherish is the hardest damn thing to do...



[ Last edited by  blackmore at 20-3-2007 02:02 AM ]

:setuju: cukup bermakna...

klkl

kalau masa bercinta
kalau gf lari
cari sampai dapat
pujuk rayu sampai cair

bila dah kawin
bini lari
terus fikir pasai cerai
why?????
ego suami?????

lya

satu je nak cakap, WAKE UP la aizat!

mummyslove

Originally posted by razhar at 19-3-2007 08:55 PM
aku pun setuju dgn kata2 kao tu..wife kao,aizat mmg DAH terlajak dan dia rasa amat bersalah ,selain kemaruk nak jantan lain..jantan yg 'guna' dia tu..lepas kan dia jauh2...semuga kao akan ditemuk ...

Entah..la... sometimes to think of it susah juga...
Sebagai perempuan or isteri ... takkan keluar pertanyaan tu melainkan kalau dia dah 'terlanjur' dengan orang lain... but When you said that you've 'been together' with her before she left the shows that she hasn't... Sebab for me lah me can only be with the one I love tak leh nak 2...3... Perempuan is different than lelaki dalam hal nie... If she 'been' with someone she will not let you touch her (again)...

That's just my perception... The answer lies between you two.. only aizat dan wife aizat aje yang tahu... BUT DON'T push other people to give you the green light to say she has... MEMFITNAH ORG BERZINA SEDANG DIA TAK BUAT ni hukuman nya sama dgn orang berzina (tau...) Kena rotan/sebat 100 kali.

kikilalat

Originally posted by aizat at 19-3-2007 01:03 AM
betul betul dugaan, tak sampai 6 bulan kehilangan ibu, lepas tu hilang plak pekerjaan dan kini hilang plak isteri. apa punya nasib.   ...

bing, nih the first posting pasal xder keja...


aizat, ngko berhenti or diberhentikan?... konpius aku... post pertama mcm diberhentikan... post k2 macam berhenti sukarela...

kalo ngko berhenti sukarela... adakah dengan persetujuan bini ngko jugak? marriage is a partnership... everything involving family's future (terutama finance) have to discuss together-gether...

kikilalat

:setuju: :setuju:

BingkaUbi

Originally posted by klkl at 20-3-2007 08:27 AM
kalau masa bercinta
kalau gf lari
cari sampai dapat
pujuk rayu sampai cair

bila dah kawin
bini lari
terus fikir pasai cerai
why?????
ego suami?????

ayoyoyo.......GF lari blom tentu wa nak pujuk lagi....
bini lari maknanya ko dah takde guna lagi......wat per nak tunggu lagi...

BellaDeLaRossa

Originally posted by blackmore at 20-3-2007 01:59 AM
....cakap memang senang...especially kalau kita bercakap daripada seorang nasik tambah punya point of view...tersangat lah senang...huhuhu....

...but...serious cakap...penceraian nie memang ...

aku salute blekie......

BellaDeLaRossa

Originally posted by aizat at 19-3-2007 03:01 PM
terima kasih, nampaknya menitikkan air mata selepas membuat hubungan sex ada persamaan dgn masalah saya sekarang ini...

memang dalam hati saya ada prasangka tp buat masa ni biarlah saya bersem ...

ustaz camana ni mcm bomoh lak leh buat tafsiran macam2 ker bomoh ??yg u pi jumpa ni aizat?
kalau ustaz takkan dia nak tuduh n jangka pelik2 ni yg konpius aku..

BellaDeLaRossa

aizat...aku paham lagi satu kan....lps ko ckp dah berhenti keja...maybe wife ko sara ko plak....tu yg menambahkan stress dia n tup2 time tu ada plak hamba allah yg lain ambik kesempatan....lelaki yg beranak 3 yg ko ckp page2 lps tu....tu pendapat aku la.....tp yg aku pelik gak y dia nak saman tu?ats sbb apa?sbb ko x keja?n dia yg sara ko n ank2?sewa rmh?..tu juga maybe faktornya..
n satu lg aku nk tanya ko pernah ada fair dgn pompuan lain gak ker?kot2 ler dia terjumpa gmbr kat mana2 tmpt yg ko sorok ker....

blackmore

Originally posted by razhar at 19-3-2007 20:55
aku pun setuju dgn kata2 kao tu..wife kao,aizat mmg DAH terlajak dan dia rasa amat bersalah ,selain kemaruk nak jantan lain..jantan yg 'guna' dia tu..lepas kan dia jauh2...semuga kao akan ditemuk ...

...jangan main tuduh2 weiii...berdosa....

razhar

aku cuma petik kenyataan member yg satu lagi tu..eh aku rasa dia dah delete le post tu...

blackmore

Originally posted by razhar at 20-3-2007 14:46
aku cuma petik kenyataan member yg satu lagi tu..eh aku rasa dia dah delete le post tu...

...ko petik dari mana tu semua tak kira lah beb...yang penting...janganlah menuduh without bukti...perkara yang dituduh nie bukan kecik weiii...zina nie...memerlukan 4 orang saksi...

razhar