Mmg lah mcm tu janda....

Marr

Originally posted by Dear_anne at 31-7-2007 04:38 PM
kenapa di pandang serong....
kenapa selalu dicemuh...
semua janda ni jahat ke....
gatalke....
it's just a title.... so what....
apa u all rasa... kenapa org selalu buat remark....
"mmg lah  ...

A'kum,

x semua makjan gitu!  

Tapi, dari pengalaman sendiri berkawan berjiran dengan makjan sebelum beliau bergelar 'janda' dan tika dia masih bergelar isteri, kita ini umpama kakak kandung..  Bila bermasalah je, kita ler tmpt dia mengadu.  Bila susah hati dgn sikap suami yang kaki dera, kita gak yg gi tolong.  Kalu riba kita ni, tempat dia meredakan tangisan akibat terlalu kecewa dgn sikap si suami terhadap dia dan anak2.

Tapi, sejak bergelar janda dah ada keje, umah dan keter, kita yang dulu umpama kakak kandung dah tak dilayan!!  Suami kita plak, dia layan lebey2!  Anto sms, tanya kabar, ajak p mamam.  Patut ke?..  

Adakah tanggapan tiap individu itu patut dipersalahkan or sikap makjan yg lupa diri itu patut dipersoalkan!!??

mummyslove

same here... Teruskan lah kehidupan seperti biasa... yea...

mummyslove

Bukan makjan yg bersalah tp individu yg berperangai begitu yg patut dipersalahkan and that is Jiran Marr tu... Bukan semua...

Tabahkan hati Marr yea... buat yg terbaik buat keluarga... Teruakan tanggungjawab seperti biasa... Mummy yakin suami Marr pasti dapat mengenal mana Intan yg mana kaca....

SleepyFish

Originally posted by supermod at 2-8-2007 02:31 PM


Cuba check... ngandung kut

nope am not pregnant...

best ek korang huraikan macam mana janda dan lain2 cam tau jek hidup menjanda ni.

tu alll... tak kiralah apa status kita....
jaga diri... tabahkan hati.... and jaga peribadi....
anne doakan untuk semuanya disini yangsudi berkongsi

anne amat2 berstuju dgn semua actually it the individu not the status.....

happy posting:kiss:

LostSoul

aku tau siket2 la.. sbb my mom divorced 2 kali, kawin 3 kali, my auntiepun divorced and kawin 2nd time.. so perception diaorg tu mmg sinisss aje.. even without the evidence that they fall into that stereotype...

Marr

Originally posted by mummyslove at 3-8-2007 09:20 AM
Bukan makjan yg bersalah tp individu yg berperangai begitu yg patut dipersalahkan and that is Jiran Marr tu... Bukan semua...

Tabahkan hati Marr yea... buat yg terbaik buat keluarga... Teru ...

TQ mummy...   Insyaallah akan buat yg terbaik utk suami & keluarga kerana ALLAH jua.

namakurahsia

Aku suka prinsip ko cinta..serah kepada Allah untuk membalas setiap perbuatan dia..kan Allah dah kata..azab Dia maha pedih..itu kan janji2 Dia..hapuskan segala dendam dan sakit hati..memang pasti hati kita lebih tenang.

lindasam

my sis cukup takot dgn gelaran miss j ni. dia sanggup berhenti keje kalu org tau
dia miss j. n dia sanggup x pegi mana2 kenduri keluarga sbb tak nak org tanya
mana hasben dia. ntahla...walaupun dia kata dia seronok sendiri sbb selama ni
pun hal rumahtangga dia jer yg urus plus mental x lg tortured tp still takot org
tau title baru dia. seboleh2 dia nak sorok. me x nak cakap apa. dia yg punya
badan kan...

shabib

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[ Last edited by  shabib at 4-8-2007 03:31 AM ]

smeetasmitten

In general aku tak de masalah dgn janda. In fact aku beriya2 advise kawan aku split dgn laki dia drpd hidup tersiksa dgn laki dia.

Aku bayangkan janda yg org pandang sinis ni yg pakai kebaya ketat jln lenggang kangkung mcm seniwati zaitun tu. tak terfikir ke ada janda yg baju compang camping, anak besusun paku, makan nasi dgn garam jantan mcm dlm 'bersamamu' tu.

manakautau

Originally posted by LostSoul at 2-8-2007 11:09 PM


eleh.. kita tau lah.. kita dah survey... cuba tgk kat dlm penjara sapa ramai, kat dlm pusat serenti, sapa ramai..  mana de pompuan tak mo lelaki baik... aku sukeeeeeeeeeeeeee lelaki baik, bad ...

Baik tapi noty2 how????????

manakautau

Originally posted by LostSoul at 3-8-2007 09:44 AM
aku tau siket2 la.. sbb my mom divorced 2 kali, kawin 3 kali, my auntiepun divorced and kawin 2nd time.. so perception diaorg tu mmg sinisss aje.. even without the evidence that they fall into th ...

You hold on tight  there ok ????????? No matter how independent and self-reliant you can be......

[ Last edited by  manakautau at 4-8-2007 03:42 PM ]

LostSoul

manak, bad n notty is 2 different things.. i would say, if my hubby being naughty, i would still feel ok, but bad.. fuhh... that'll affect me deeply...

bad = when a husband sleep with another woman
naughty = when a husband flirting harmlessly with another

diff: satu ada enclosure, satu takde... heh heh

LostSoul

Originally posted by manakautau at 4-8-2007 03:32 PM


You hold on tight牋there ok ????????? No matter how independent and self-reliant you can be......

i intend to hold on tight, even if the branch is nearly broken...

manakautau

Originally posted by LostSoul at 4-8-2007 04:18 PM


i intend to hold on tight, even if the branch is nearly broken...

Ya, you better do.....or I will be the first one to piat yor hidung..........

LostSoul

oit, oit.. idung jgn usik ooo.. usik lain takpe..

manakautau

Originally posted by LostSoul at 4-8-2007 04:45 PM
oit, oit.. idung jgn usik ooo.. usik lain takpe..

:@ :@ :@

LostSoul

apa main ikon jek ni jawab? speechless ka?

my sis also married twice la manak.. she got married so young, divorced  years after, and marry another just late last year. apa nak buat.. sometimes jodoh tak panjang.. and you ahve hubby yg tak serupa lelak budimani, what's the point if staying?

manakautau

Originally posted by LostSoul at 4-8-2007 04:58 PM
apa main ikon jek ni jawab? speechless ka?

my sis also married twice la manak.. she got married so young, divorced  years after, and marry another just late last year. apa nak  ...

I don't see the rest....... I see you...........with you, IT WILL WORK, ISYAALLAH........ Coz giving up is never in your life vocab............Me know you dari dalam perut lagi........