MENGANDUNG.......tidaaaaaakkkkk.....

annaKarenina · Post time 19-8-2008 01:35 AM

actually ramai mothers not only you yg rasa serik nak bersalin... (ngandung tu mungkin tak pe...) sebab utama ialah trauma masa bersalin...esp sakit, luka teruk , placenta tertinggal... (kena seluk uu sakit..) , luka epi lambat sembuh kena jangkitan kena jahit balik lepas 2-3 hari... macam2 ...

my advise is.. kalau mengandung lagi... always kena bagitahu awal2 (masa booking < 12 weeks) dkt staff perubatan/ docs yg awak ada risiko retained placenta and bleeding banyak masa last child birth... apa sepatutnya berlaku ialah.. dia akan arrange follow up dkt hospital yang back up bagus..

kalau nak follow up private... make sure yang ada good back up.. (ada private maternity yg tak de makmal darah ...kalau nak transfuse urgently lambat.....)

always talk to ur docs about yr worries... ni penting.. make it known..!

last but not least... doa.. !!

blackmore · Post time 19-8-2008 01:51 AM

...page mendap...

sayanglakiku · Post time 19-8-2008 09:55 AM

Originally posted by manakautau at 19-8-2008 01:31 AM

Cakap nak kena terang sikit sebab ramai yang jenis lembab kat FD nih......

kesian lembap, mak dia byk makan kepala ikan masa ngandung kan dia kot

AnitaSabrina · Post time 19-8-2008 09:59 AM

That is so very sad. My heart bleeds for the mothers and the babies.

One of my miscarriages was quite traumatic.  Went to hospital & dr said its threatened abortion.  Pack up and went home.  On the way back my contractions came very fast and painful.  Hubby stopped at Jln Duta bus station. I went to the bathroom and had this urge to push.

I pushed and out came blood clots.  I felt something stuck.  I tried to pull but it was very strongly attached inside me.  I called hubby on the hp and told him to come to the washroom and help me - miscarriage happening now!

He came in with my eldest son (lots women in the bathroom!).  Drama betul.

Hubby didn't kow what to do.  I called my brother - he's a doctor.  He said 'that is your baby.  Pull your baby out.'

So I pulled with all my might while crying because I felt that my baby didn't want to leave me.  Hubby cradled our baby and wrapped him/her (?) in white towel.  We buried him/her at our garden.  Too small for proper burial rites.  But I wanted our baby to have a proper burial.

Have you seen anyone close to you digging a grave to place your most precious one?

That is one of my most wretched moments in life.

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Sweetmama · Post time 19-8-2008 10:08 AM

masya allah anitaaa
dramatic sungguh....

i yg baca ni, terasa ngilunyer....

HOTlips · Post time 19-8-2008 10:15 AM

err... mesti ia menjadi suatu kenangan yg tak dpt dilupakan hingga ke akhir hayat. I bet mesti ini menjadikan u seorang yg amat menghargai dgn setiap anugerahNya esp those two heroes of urs!

mala0n · Post time 19-8-2008 12:54 PM

Originally posted by AnitaSabrina at 19-8-2008 09:59 AM
That is so very sad. My heart bleeds for the mothers and the babies.

One of my miscarriages was quite traumatic. Went to hospital & dr said its threatened abortion. Pack up and went ho ...

*speechless*

mata_bulat · Post time 19-8-2008 01:04 PM

memanglah lepas bersalin jer rasa fobia jer nak gadung lagi

tapi bila dah lama anak dah besar sikit bila tengok baby rasa teringin balik

teman masa mengadung yg jadi masalah kekadang nak minum air terlalu cerewet, kekadang sampai tak tahu nak minum air apa.......sekali jer minum air tu lepas tu tak mo dah

minum air tembikai sekali lepas tu tak mo, tengok org minum milo, terus beli satu ten milo lepas tu sekali jer nak minum

seksanya nak minum air kalau dah cerewet sangat.

putubambu · Post time 19-8-2008 04:48 PM

sedihnya....

hazen · Post time 19-8-2008 07:41 PM

I had same bad experience cam u, my 1st son lahir induce then sbb dr lambat my plasenta dah naik atas if lambat memang I dah takde... I pun kehilangan darah yg banyak n kena masuk air sampai 8 botol...
2nd day plak my son masuk ICU sbb my breastmilk tak cukup n my son plak kuning tinggi letak bawah lampu double sampai dia hypo kurang gula...I dok hosp sampai 10 hari...

Since then I serik nak preggy lagi...but then sbb I fuly BF anak so I tak period for about 10 month, n I realize I'm pregnant again when my jeans suma tak muat n tekak rasa pahit2... To make sure I wat UPT sampi 3x n +ve..so I n my hubby jumpa my gynae dia just rasa my tummy dia cakap.."Owhhh nih dah 3 months nih.." I pandang my hubby n my hubby pandang I...OMG I tot baru sebulan... I memang lasak, dukung anak, jalan laju n banyak jalan gak because of work..

But then dalam seriau2 I nak deliver 2nd time (but I still blame my hubby becoz we didn't use any protection at all) alhamdulillah senang jek sbb jalan dah ada..

So for the 3rd child I think this time better postpone lah when I'm ready...

Actually I bersyukur gak at least my 1st son ada kawan sbb the gap just 16months .. n bila tengok muka my 2nd son I really appreciate him in my life

hazen · Post time 19-8-2008 07:47 PM

Masyaallah...haku tatau nak kater aperlah..atas bawah pantang tapi lakimu tak gak pantang eks...dahlah bini dia menahan azab sakit nak beranak plak tuh...

nighunter71 · Post time 20-8-2008 07:27 AM

Originally posted by putubambu at 19-8-2008 04:48 PM
sedihnya....

He..he..tu siggy u tu macam "From Taiping with Love"..

bakawali_04 · Post time 20-8-2008 08:31 AM

Originally posted by hazen at 19-8-2008 07:41 PM
I had same bad experience cam u, my 1st son lahir induce then sbb dr lambat my plasenta dah naik atas if lambat memang I dah takde... I pun kehilangan darah yg banyak n kena masuk air sampai 8 bo ...

rasanya setiap ibu ada masalah tertentu bila mengandung or masa delivery..

myself masa 1st pregnat.. uwaaaaaaa.. x bleh ingat.. my weight dropped to 36kg tau..masa trimester pertama
imagine dari 44kg.. mmg teruk giler morning sickness tu.. ingat 3 bulan je.. upanya sampai nak bersalin x ilang2 morning sickness tu.. terpaksa bergantung dgn ubat tahan muntah..utk makan..
Edisi pengsan. pitam.. sinonim dgn sya.. org kata masuk air time ngandung tu.. mcm rutin je.. dah kalau makan semua keluar balik.. sampai luka tekak..n utk delivery baby.. saya admit ke GH 3 x.. kali ke3.. masa mlm merdeka 2004 baru lah bersalin..
1st admit.. doc. kata false contraction..
2nd admit.. contraction.. jln bukak 2 cm.. tapi mcm tu jugak almost 1 day.. blk umah semula..
3rd admit.. dah x nak pegi.. but my ex hubby pujuk sbb tkt jadi ape2..
malu la pegi2 hospital tapi x jugak delivery..last2 pegi.. duk kat labour room 12jam.. induce.. baru bersalin..masa tu pk.. dah habis separuh nyawa.. n serik nak mengandung lagi... but alhamdullilah my 1st daughter lahir 31.08.2004..

nak jadi cerita saya pun BF baby.. almost 10 months x period.. then sangkut........... itu yg lahir 2nd baby..
the rutin is still same.. morning sickness smpai ke hujung time..
cuma luckily the 2nd one.. 7 jam je duk labour room.. tapi still kena induce...
lepas yang 2nd lahir.. saya terus x pk panjang.. makan ubat.. pakai protection.. phobia...
x tau la..akan dtg mcm mana..for this time being.. 2 enough.. nak tambah pun bukan ader hubby...

dealova04 · Post time 20-8-2008 09:46 AM

huhhh...

bab jaga mulut ms peknen ni..bkn momy jer kena jaga...dady pn sama...
org tua2 ckp...perlakuan/pertuturan sang daddy lg mudah di serap ke anak yg sdg di kandung...WA...

dealova04 · Post time 20-8-2008 09:56 AM

ermmm...cerita psl delivered ni...aku pn nk citer gak...
aku dah rs dua jenis delivered...& aku prefer c-sec...ehhehe...

anak 1st...delivered normal...
1st time...takut tu x brp coz x de pengalaman...
tp bila dah time...ya amponn...
aku plak x tau menahu tang epi...so..aku x minta apa2 lah...cuma tanya doc. bila lah aku nk b'salin...
aku jenis strong contraction (betol ke eku eja ni)..ni doc yg ckp..coz aku dah sampai 70-80% pd bukaan 3 cm...mak aiii..nk tunggu ke 10cm..dgn contr. mcm tu..mn leh tahannnn...
dah ler hubby x leh teman..duk le aku sorang2 kt LR...uwaaaa...
aku start teran 8.45..kul 10.42 baru baby kuar...
sabo je lah..sampai aku dah malas nk teran..aku wat x tau & tutup mata...misi2 tampar2 muka aku suruh bangun...hehehh..jenuh..
ye lah..dah diorg gantung kaki aku..payah la aku...
time tu lah baru diorg nk msk air semua...

lg 1..plasenta aku x kuar terus...yg aku prsn..doc. tarik perlahan2..lps tu seluk2 kt dlm..tang ni mmg sakit...
1 azab lg yg aku rs ms jahit...doc x bius...uwaa.....nk tendang x boleh coz kaki aku tergantung...geram aku....

azab lain..time nk kuar wad...
sebelom kuar doc akan check...
yg ni mmg sengal...dia seluk kt anu...imagine...tut kita tgh bengkak di jahit..konon nk pastikan semua ok..dr aku leh b'jln ..terus aku guna w/chair nk kereta...uwaaaa...

pu3_krizalid · Post time 20-8-2008 10:05 AM

apa yg nurse n doktor ckp anak 1st nak bukak jln mmg lmbt..haku hampir 30 jam sampai fobia gak la..bab nak push senang..siap ckp kat nurse "jap..saya nak betulkan pungung saya ni.."

dah org pesan jgn angkat..haku angkat gak...

nurse nak jahit je dekat 2 jam baru settle..siap terputus lagik masa dia dok tarik..tapi sib baik dia ader injek bius..so mata haku stim nak tido...

mmg doktor akan check dlm anu sblum kita balik..takut ader implikasi kekdahnya...kalo ko rilek time tu mmg tak sakit..

mala0n · Post time 20-8-2008 10:12 AM

mak aku sakit 48 jam sbb aku 4 kilo lebih dulu. tak caesar pun. dokter last2 vacuum je aku keluar sbb nak selamatkan mak aku. keluar2 aku tak menangis, terkebil2 je kekeke pastu kena puk kat ponggong baru melalak...

sian mak aku

dealova04 · Post time 20-8-2008 10:13 AM

kes anak no. 2...
aku dah over due 8 ari...
aku g spital pg..ms ni dah sakit kuat..
yg aku frust baru buka 2 - 3 cm..& contraction dah 80%..
sekali lg aku dgr misi & doc. ckp aku strong contrac.

ms ni aku kt blk menunggu...katil dia alahai kecik..nk berbalik2 pn payah & boleh jatuh...aku dah x leh tahan coz sakit sgt sampai aku pening nk pitam..aku ckp kt doc. tp dia diam jerk...
pg tu ada 2 doc. melayu & 1 doc. chinese...
time gawat ni..aku tgk graf CTG aku mmg x cantik..graf contrac. aku & graf jantung baby...tinggi rendah...
aku dgr misi ckp kt doc yg graf aku x cantik..aku ingat aku yg x ddk diam so..CTG aku pn tinggi rendah lah...tp doc. tu semua buat x tau...geram aku...

tiba2...Allah maha kuasa..dtg doc indian yg ntah dr mn...dtg kt aku..duk diam jerk..prhati graf aku..terus dia check jln...baru 3 cm..
dia tgk je aku...lps tu dia seluk & aku rs sakit sgt..rupa2 dia pecah kan ketuban..dia ckp anak aku dah berak..maybe baby aku lemas tu sbb dia terberak...
terus dia tolak aku ke LR...dia nk monitor aku..
dlm kelam kabut tu..dgn sakit aku lg..baru je aku rebah kt katil LB..dia monitor aku..terus dia ckp aku kena emergency c-sec...

lg 1 emergency & doc ckp kt hubby kes aku high risk..coz aku baru je mkn heavy pg tu(pd hal mkn telur setengah msk jerk..tp doc ckp heavy)...mn la aku tau ..aku ingat aku branak normal...

time nk kuarkan baby la .. baru doc tau anak aku terbelit tali pusat..2 lilitan rapat ditengkuk...tu sbb dia t'berak..sib baik dia x termakan lg...2 kali tarik baru baby kuar...

aku ralat coz x dpt nk ucap TQ kt doc. indian tu...coz keadaan sungguh kelam kabut ms tu...
dia penyelamat yg ALLAH kirim kt aku...
ye lah..doc.2 lain x pedulikan aku...siap ckp.."pg2 kedai kita dah ramai customer"..ingat org nk branak ni main2 agak nyer...

aku x dpt byg kan ..kalau doc. india tu x dtg...
sure doc.2 lain akan biarkan aku...ye lah..diorg nk tunggu sampai 10cm gak...
dr pg..sampai nk ke tghri ... lama gak tu..mujo anak aku bertahan...
dah le diorg x scan..so diaorg x tau lah yg anak aku dah terbelit...

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pu3_krizalid · Post time 20-8-2008 10:20 AM

isk ader ke doktor leh ckp camtu...cam haku dulu nurse yg sambut...nurse tu dlm 30++...sib baik bukan pelatih...masa hari ke 2 dlm LR dia still leh ckp "eh...tak beranak lagik..apala nasib awak.."

sbb haku lebih hari gak 8 hari..masa pecahkan air ketuban doktor tu ganas gile..masa dia seluk rasa nak sepak je..

alhamdulillah haku leh banak normal..tima nak push tu lampu yg nak fokus kat hakunye leh kejap2 idup kejap2 mati lak..

dealova04 · Post time 20-8-2008 10:33 AM

ermm..tu lah pu3...misi2 ari tu semua ok..doc. plak yg sengal...
maybe tension..baru msk keje pg..dah ramai yg nk b'salin...

**teringat misi yg duk teman dlm LB ms nak deliver anak 1st...
baik sungguh misi tu...
duk usap2 pinggang...tlg tenang2 kan aku...coz aku jenis strong contraction & dia x sampai hati tinggalkan aku sorang...
tp..dia syif ptg & abis shift kul 9 mlm...aku still x b'salin lg...
sebelom dia kuar tinggalkan aku ..sempat dia cium dahi aku...& doakan aku selamat...nangis aku syahdu...pd hal kenal dia kt dlm LB tu je yg baru bbrp jam...

lps tu ganti misi lain...menangis aku sorang2...coz xde sape peduli aku...x mcm misi td...

wahhh...terlebih2 plak aku citer....jgn marah ye kwn2...
ni semua pengalaman plg manis & plg dasat...

sampai skrg pn aku fobia nk tambah anak lg...
pregnen xde hal bg aku..tp nk melahirkan aku x sanggup...
aku akui..anak 1st ... takut tu x brp coz x p'nah rs...
tp..bila tau pregnen lg... terus rs takut tu dtg...lg dkt nk due lg x lena tdo...