bila kawan/sedara pinjam duit..

Nezar

Page88 posted on 25-4-2013 10:51 PM
Your most welcome

I learnt from the best(My Family)......see I come from a Line of  ...

Thank you page for your advice...well, good advise usually come from good people...right?....page, you are very lucky to have such a good guidance from your family...me, on the other hand, i have to find out everything on my own...but that's what life is all about right?.... and we must learn from our own experience....

learn from our own mistakes....but if i make the same mistake twice, that's simply mean i am not a smart person.......and i don't want to be that person anyway...hahaha..

by the way...thank you for your tips...and quess what...i did...i already did and implemented that with most of my friends...and yes..i like the results..............i don't care about their feelings just as same as they don't care about mine...so it is fair, right?......and seriously page, nowadays.....i treat them exactly the same way they treat me....they play nice, i play nice...they play bad...i play bad...i just go with the flow.........and you are right...it does feel greatttt........

again, thank you for sharing this with me page...and hope you will have a great weekend...

ikaizraa

Nezar posted on 26-4-2013 09:06 AM
memang arr tak rugi wat baik kat org...betul tu setuju sangat2...org cakap kalu nak tlg org kena i ...

aku pun pnh lalui benda yg sama nok. kwn yg aku knl since darjah 1. yg selalu duk cerita laki dia keje gj 2k per week. yg duk shopping mcm2 branded stuff. she is a housewife n married to contraktor. xtau la kelas ape. and aku tau dia byk duit.. ade 1 time tu aku memang tgh facing financial probs. and amaun yg aku nk pinjam tu bukan la ribu tp ratus.... aku repeat RATUS k. bila kata nk pinjam je, dan2 la ckp laki o/station. so dlm tgn xde cash. pastu bg aku harapan palsu... dia siap ckp "don't worry aku akan tlg. aku akan ckp ngn laki aku". kite ni bila org dah ckp cmtu ofkos la berhrp kn.. aku pk 1 jer, dia kwn aku yg aku dah knl almost 21yrs.. bukan 1 jangka ms yg pendek k.. lau lelaki, dah lama aku beranak pinak. hehehe. kira kisah luar dlm kain aku dia tau, and gitula sebaliknye.. so aku pinjam kt dia sbb aku nk dia pecaye aku. and aku bkn jenis suka minjam org sesuka hati unless aku btul2 memerlukan.. tp tula mcm ko ckp, dah bg harapan tp harapan palsu.. alasan dia laki dia kata bln ni byk pakai duit. tp duk post kt fb laki belikn tu ini. ye aku fhm tu duit dia, and dia ade hak utk buat ape je ngn duit dia. tp aku lbh suka org berterus terang. x dpt tlg, bgtahu. kita pun fhm and takkan tny lg.. bile dia buat aku cmni, baru aku tau sape kwn sbnr.. then aku try mntk tlg lg sorg kwn yg aku x rpt mcm mane aku rpt ngn dia. aku msg dia n explain a-z knp aku nk pinjam. tanpa byk soal trs tny akaun bank aku... time tu rs nk nangis. bukan sebab dah dpt duit tp sebab terharu kwn yg kite x rpt pun blh tlg kite to compare dgn dia yg aku dah knl 21taun tu.. ko dpt bygkn x situasi terharu aku ms tu... sejak dr tu hati aku mula tawar k.. dia mintak tlg aku, x kira ape pun jenis pertolongan, jwpn aku senang jer "aku bz". waima dia mntk aku cek kn smtg dkt internet.  

Nezar

ikaizraa posted on 26-4-2013 09:58 AM
aku pun pnh lalui benda yg sama nok. kwn yg aku knl since darjah 1. yg selalu duk cerita laki di ...

....kira ni bff ko la ya?.....lama betul ko berkwan...sampai 21 tahun...huhuhu......kwn ni sbenarnya datang senang jer...cuma nak maintain susah sket...aku lak jenis consistent...kawan2 aku lak ramai yg jenis ala2 biskut cipsmore......kejap ada kejap tak de...sesuka hati diaorg la...aku pun tak kesah sangat pun...ada adalah...

tapi kalu diaorg susah n perlukan ptolongan baru timbul terutama pasal duit la kan, mula2 tanyakan kabar, pastu mula la cakap lama tak jumpa...rindu smcm lak kawn aku nih kat aku, aku bukannya kesah pun dia rindu kat aku ke tak..lantak dia la kan.......tapi bila dah dapat duit terus dia hilang, tenggelam tak timbul2.........tu tandanya lakonan semata-mata...aku pun tahu perangai dia nih cuma kesian dia nak pakai duit so bagi jela kan pinjam...karang kan dia pi pinjam along lagik la teruk kan...aku pikir pasal tu jer la...tapi sakit hati gak arr ngan lakonan dia tuh yag cukup memualkan perut aku nih...hehehe

....so lama2 aku sendirik yg menyampah ngan sikap aku yg memanjang duk nak jaga friendship nih....ni lagi satu part paling bengang...masa nak pinjam duit...kwn aku tu siap cakap nak bayar bila...aku ni pun caya jer la kan....bila sampai masa nak bayo...hp tutup...bila aku tipun opis, dengor jer suara aku...dia hang up call aku...siap hempas tipun agik...mahu aku tak bengang dapat kwn jenis macam tu...

nasib baik tahap kesaboran aku ni masih di tahap normal...

leylapple

ikaizraa posted on 26-4-2013 09:58 AM
aku pun pnh lalui benda yg sama nok. kwn yg aku knl since darjah 1. yg selalu duk cerita laki di ...

ko kawan dgn dia 21 thn??umo ko berkawan dgn dia masa tu brapa?

ikaizraa

leylapple posted on 26-4-2013 03:55 PM
ko kawan dgn dia 21 thn??umo ko berkawan dgn dia masa tu brapa?

sorry 20taun aku knl dia. haha. time tu aku darjah 1. taun 1993
since darjah 1 x pernah berenggang. sama kelas. smpi sekolah menengah pun sama. selalu tido rmh. pendek kata mmg aku knl dia luar dlm. dia pun sama. dah mcm adik beradik nok.

Nezar

leylapple posted on 26-4-2013 03:55 PM
ko kawan dgn dia 21 thn??umo ko berkawan dgn dia masa tu brapa?

ko nak kira umur ika ke tuh.....meh aku tlg kirakan...dia cakap dia berkwn ngan kwn dia tu masa darjah satu...maknanya dia start kawan masa umur 7 tahun la kan....pastu campur ngan usia persahabatan dia 21 tahun...maka bermakna umur ialah sekitar......jeng...jeng...@ikaizraa......sure dia melompat baca nih...huhu..

Page88

Nezar posted on 26-4-2013 09:25 AM
Thank you page for your advice...well, good advise usually come from good people...right?....pag ...

Your most welcome.....

See I told you that the Expressions & the Reactions that you get fom them is priceless. It's so fun also!!!

For me it's not a test actually, it's more like a game. It's a very fun game also

Same to you too, have a wonderful weekend

Nezar

Page88 posted on 26-4-2013 04:53 PM
Your most welcome.....

See I told you that the Expressions & the Reactions that you ...

It is a fun game indeed.......just starting to learn to enjoy it...

Page88

Nezar posted on 26-4-2013 05:14 PM
It is a fun game indeed.......just starting to learn to enjoy it...

Lol

Nezar

Page88 posted on 26-4-2013 07:22 PM
Lol

page, any advice on how to collect debts from friends?......

Page88

Nezar posted on 29-4-2013 01:38 PM
page, any advice on how to collect debts from friends?......

I would say forget about that

Your money is good as gone

Nezar

Page88 posted on 29-4-2013 07:40 PM
I would say forget about that

Your money is good as gone

trust me on this page...i won't let that happen...

Page88

Nezar posted on 30-4-2013 11:48 AM
trust me on this page...i won't let that happen...

Giving is very easy, but getting back is very difficult

You can try blackmail, threaten(trust me if you ask nicely all it won't work nowdays, one has be rough & fierce then only work will be done)

I know I shouldn't be saying blackmail or threaten but this is the 21st century & nothing is easy

Try it & hope nothing goes wrong

Nezar

Page88 posted on 30-4-2013 06:01 PM
Giving is very easy, but getting back is very difficult

You can try blackmail, threaten(trust ...

You are absolutely right...it is hard page...i am not so sure about threaten or even blackmail....that's not my style anyway...hehehe...

but what i do at this moment is to use the most annoying way as possible to that person....it does time consuming though but i think this is the best that i can do......

Page88

Nezar posted on 2-5-2013 08:50 AM
You are absolutely right...it is hard page...i am not so sure about threaten or even blackmail.... ...

Well best of luck anyway

Hope your method works

Nezar

Page88 posted on 2-5-2013 11:38 AM
Well best of luck anyway

Hope your method works

Thank you page.......i do hope so...

Page88

Nezar posted on 2-5-2013 11:47 AM
Thank you page.......i do hope so...

If your method fails then you may have to take the rough route

Nezar

Page88 posted on 2-5-2013 04:19 PM
If your method fails then you may have to take the rough route

well...i keep that in mind..just in case.......but i do still hope that i won't have to go that far page....

Page88

Nezar posted on 2-5-2013 04:52 PM
well...i keep that in mind..just in case.......but i do still hope that i won't have to go th ...

Never underestimate human beings......they can make us do the unexpected

Sad but true

Nezar

Page88 posted on 2-5-2013 06:43 PM
Never underestimate human beings......they can make us do the unexpected

Sad but tr ...

You are right page.........I'll try my best to keep my mind under control.......btw are you going to cast a vote this weekend?