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After Painful Breakup Stories -Apa dah jadi sekarang??-
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First break up, hanya Tuhan yg tahu...terkilan, kecewa n pedih! sampai skrg masih teragak2 utk menerima mana2 guys dlm hidup...kdg2 rasa mcm kejam jugak coz mcm menghukum lelaki lain kat luar sana just because of that one guy...cuma, entahla..rasa takut n x confident sgt...Yes, I believe everything happens for a reason...I just wish that I will soon get the courage to trust again... *sorry agak poyo di sini...mihmihmih |
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Today genap seminggu die MIA....he left me no clue...semua text / call die x reply...at the beginning i thot sthg bad happen to him but last Monday i try call his off & die pick up call tu but once i said hello terus die putuskan talian...
Then i realised yeah he dumped me...of coz i menangis bcoz on the last night we meet up..he talking about nak marrying me...
I menangis teruk last Monday but after all out with my close friends I sedar.... he just play me around.. such a player...
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cengeng replied at 18-2-2015 04:41 PM
what a nice story...untung nya orang yang diberi ujian lalu diberi pula kebahagian dlm mase yg xla ...
Alhamdulillah.. Saya belajar untuk redha.. Bila dah redha tu yang baru boleh completely move on. |
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misz_sophia replied at 19-2-2015 11:40 AM
First break up, hanya Tuhan yg tahu...terkilan, kecewa n pedih! sampai skrg masih teragak2 utk mener ...
You go girl. Sakit tu memang normal. Maksudnya awk masih ada perasaan. Hehe.. Slowly belajar menerima keadaan.. Jgn paksa diri terima org lain |
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tupai replied at 19-2-2015 04:05 PM
Today genap seminggu die MIA....he left me no clue...semua text / call die x reply...at the beginni ...
Sebijik macam keadaan sy dulu.. Mmg dia ignore sy sampai sy tercari2.. Tiba2 hantar whatsapp panjang2 kata takde rasa.. Sakitnye la hai hatini |
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ayuusalvatore replied at 19-2-2015 11:33 PM
Sebijik macam keadaan sy dulu.. Mmg dia ignore sy sampai sy tercari2.. Tiba2 hantar whatsapp pan ...
At least die hantar whatsapp but in my case die senyap terus....i dont know wht to think but i just move on...kwn2 rapat tempat i mengadu...
Earlier relationship semua kwn i against him sbb diorg ckp die bukan lah lelaki yg baik but i degil sbb i dah suke die n try to proof to my friends tht this guy x seburuk yg diorg sangka....tp x sangka end up die mcm ni...
I nak tau kenape die buat i mcm ni but i hv no idea how....i mmg x contact die langsung bcoz i x nk menangis lg n i tau die xkn pick up my call... |
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tupai replied at 20-2-2015 12:08 AM
At least die hantar whatsapp but in my case die senyap terus....i dont know wht to think but i jus ...
Awk kuat betul, sebab berjaya tahan diri tak contact dia. Fuhhhh.. Respek! Masa sy, dia senyap tu sy keep on cari dia, contact dia semua.. Sampai la dia hantar 1 whatsapp tu nak end kan semua.
Pendapat sy, dia ni lebih kurg mcm ex sy.. Dia dah bosan, dia dah takde rasa tapi dia taktau mcm mana nak handle dgn baik.. Cara terbaik dia boleh buat adalah lari and ignore awk mcm tu je mcm takde pape yg berlaku. Dgn harapan, awk move on dgn sendiri..
Heee ni pendapat sy la.. Semoga awk kuat! Org macam tu mmg tak bertanggungjawab punya org. Hati dia je dia pikir.. Hati org lain dia pijak2.. |
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tupai replied at 20-2-2015 12:08 AM
At least die hantar whatsapp but in my case die senyap terus....i dont know wht to think but i jus ...
Cer tanya kwn2 hang sbb pa depa semua x suka dia... Hang jer buat2 buta & indenial sbb tu kluar word "tak sangka dia buat camtu"... Sedangkan kwn2 mmg "sangka" dia akan bt camtu... |
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Innrukia replied at 20-2-2015 09:33 AM
Cer tanya kwn2 hang sbb pa depa semua x suka dia... Hang jer buat2 buta & indenial sbb tu kluar wo ...
Mmg i saje butakan mata n hati & living in denial dgn harapan hes not that bad even few times kantoi menipu....
Hope time will heal...prob skrg i x tau nak explain to my mum..mak i suke die gile n seems salahkan i sbb kitrg putus...i x nak cerita keadaan sebenar kt my mum..i x nak my mum sedih...dah la my dad baru passed away few months ago...
I penah ckp to this guy jgn main2 kan i once he met my mum sbb my mum still bersedih n he promised not to..kalau nak main2 cukup main2 kan i bukan my mum n my family
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tupai replied at 20-2-2015 11:28 AM
Mmg i saje butakan mata n hati & living in denial dgn harapan hes not that bad even few times ka ...
Well apa jua perasaan kita bkn tanggungjwp org lain. Love is taking risk not being loved. Hang brani bercinta maka kna la berani tak dicintai.
Isu mak hang, bkn jua tanggungjwp lelaki tu utk bg mak hang happy. Kita hidup dlm dunia yg sgt2 pentingkan diri. Jgn letak bahagia kita di tgn org... Ingatla dunia mmg tak adil & bahagia @ derita kita yg corakkan bkn org lain. |
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Innrukia replied at 20-2-2015 11:45 AM
Well apa jua perasaan kita bkn tanggungjwp org lain. Love is taking risk not being loved. Hang bra ...
Thanks for your advise...I dah slow talk and explain to my mum abt his dissappearance...alhamdullillah my mum faham ...so ntah la I rasa lega and lapang now...insyaAllah my life will be back to normal soon.... |
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memang tebukti pompuan suka badboyz.. 
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1 - perkara positif.. aku memahami peel pompuan.. cara dia.. perilaku dan komunikasi..
perkara negatif.. aku xkan bagi 100% percaya kat pompuan.. baik ketika dah ada bini.. atau ketika dah ada waris pompuan nanti..
2 - kehidupan lebih ke fasa pentingkan diri sendiri dan siap sedia punya mode tuk tinggalkan marka jika berlaku masalah atau dia buat taik.. perasaan aku ibarat on off dan aku x kisah lg..
3 - memaafkan marka lama?tidak sama sekali?memori tentang marka lama.. kenangan apa semua?ada segar tp aku leh kawal dalam menjalani kehidupan.. kerana nie la aku payah nak percaya marka kini.. dan aku selalu cakap kalo ang nak pergi bagitau ja.. aku sedia maklum dan aku ok ja..
kadang aku kesian dengan marka baru yang berusaha gigih serta sangat tabah dengan aku.. semoga dia kekal begitu dan ikhlas terima aku yang pandang serong pada dia.. entah la..
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Dewa19XKangen replied at 22-2-2015 10:19 PM
memang tebukti pompuan suka badboyz..
I think u re right.... |
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salam...
aku baru break kelmarin.
exbf aku cakap 'dia nak ktorg jadi kawan dulu. dia nak fokuskan pada kerjaya dan family dia'.
firstime aku rasa kecewa sangat. sakit. hanya Allah yang tahu betapa sakit.
semalam aku amek EL. menangis puas2 seharian.
sekarang pun masih menangis. kejap ok kejap x.
harap-harap aku boleh move on. sekarang aku masih lagi dalam fasa denial and hurt.
Doakan aku kawan kawan.
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slow2 la ok, u'll be fine, tak pa klu u nak nangis semahunya skrg, lepaskn segala2nya skng, jgn simpan, takut nti ksedihn awak brpanjangan...
luah lah persaan dgn sesiapa, family or fren, jgn simpan sdiri....be strong ok
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teringat time putus dgn bf bbrp thn lalu, teruk sgt kot i rasa,
sampaikn bangun tdur pn rasa menyesal, kenapa masih hdup lg,
yalah, hdup mcm tak da arah tujuan kn..
perut rasa kosong, kecut ja, dlm hati tu mmg rasa nyerih tak tau mcmn nak describe lah masa tu,
alhamdulillah lah, masa mengubat segalanya....
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Avior replied at 4-3-2015 09:25 PM
slow2 la ok, u'll be fine, tak pa klu u nak nangis semahunya skrg, lepaskn segala2nya skng, jgn si ...
Thanks! Itulah. Now im counting my blessings.
Alhamdulillah... |
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in my opinion, the 10 best ways for getting over a breakup in a short period of time:- 1) Hope = no recovery from breakups: The main reason people accept the death of loved ones and fail to accept breakups for years is the presence of hope. Your mind will never trigger the recovery process before it makes sure that there is no hope of returning back. To recover faster from breakups kill hope completely by calling the person you broke up with and making sure that this was the end
- 2)The most dangerous phase : People who live on hope of returning back go a step further by always day dreaming about the person they broke up with, by waiting for him to call and wishing that they meet him in the streets by coincidence. In my article The stages of getting over a breakup i said that this stage of recovery is called bargaining and that the main reason most people never recover fast from breakups is that they remain in the bargaining stage for months and sometimes years.
- 3) Fix your beliefs to get over a breakup quickly: The movies you watched, the songs you listened to and the culture you got exposed to made you believe in terms such as "The one" or "The Soul mate" while in fact according to the psychology of love there are hundreds of potential partners out there that you could fall in love with and the reason you aren't meeting any of them is because of the limiting beliefs you acquired from the media. The best and fastest way to get over a breakup is to fix your limiting beliefs by learning more about the psychology of love
- 4) Don’t keep yourself busy: If you were Hungry, will keeping yourself busy help you forget about food one day? of course not it will just lead to increased hunger later on. You can't solve a problem, especially if it was a breakup, by acting as if its not there. The right way to get over a breakup quickly is to face the problem and to convince your mind that its over
- 5)Avoid forming new limiting beliefs: As soon as most people breakup they start listening to sad songs, watching sad movies and even searching the internet for sad breakup quotes. These stuff can do you nothing but reinforce limiting beliefs such as "He was the one" ,"I cant live without him" and the other bla bla that can prevent you from getting over someone fast
- 6)Restore your social life: Many people isolate themselves from their friends as soon as they get into a relationship. They make their relationship partner the center of their world and that's why they feel that they lost the whole world when they breakup with him. As soon as you breakup restore the connections back with your friends and relatives so that you find it easier to get over the breakup fast.
- 7) Its ok to cry: Suppressed emotions can turn into depression or can result in many other bad moods. Express your emotions whenever you feel like it without thinking that there is any hope.
- 8 Avoid the person you broke up with for a while: don't visit his Facebook profile, don't try to message him and don't do anything that can make your mind believe that there is hope. The fastest way to get over a breakup is to kill hope completely
- 9) Burn the pictures, eat the chocolates: In my book How to get over anyone in few days i said that right after breakups many people keep looking at the pictures they had together and this convinces the mind that there is some hope in getting back together and that's why those people never recover quickly. Burn the pictures, eat the chocolates and give away the gifts. When you do so your subconscious mind will strongly believe that recovery is the only way left and it will help you recover faster
- 10) Get rid of relationship dependency : Many people get into relationships to forget about the pain and the problems in their lives. If you managed to become less dependent on the relationship you will certainly get over breakups faster. Learn how to face life problems instead of escaping to a relationship and your life will be much better
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tenkiu. tenkiu. nah munge!! 
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Post time 19-2-2015 11:40 AM
