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Secret Affair - Your own experience

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Post time 18-10-2016 10:27 AM | Show all posts |Read mode
Hi forumer,
Sy lelaki. pertengahan 30an. dah berkahwin. Sorry kalau ada yg marah sy share kat sini. Maybe sy perlukan tempat nak meluah perasaan je kot. Sy pernah 4 kali affair dgn isteri orang. One chinese lady. and the other, malay. Hubungan seks je. Not more than that. mula2 affair tu kerap sgt jumpa, but when we feels its too much already, kami jumpa sekali sekala je. selaunya bila dah tak tahan sangat.

All 4 women yg ada affair dgn sy still keep in touch with me. And they are normal wife. bukan la jenis seksi meksi hot. yg malay all bertudung. yg chinese normal DAP centric girl. sometimes sy byr hotel, sometimes diorg, sometimes we spilt the bills.

Maybe ada yang rasa sy ni jantan sial, jahat, dan sbgnya. Maaf. sy just nak share. and in turn try to change myself. find the root cause and control my nafsu. Sy tak nak berterusan begini.

Korang pernah ada pengalaman yg sama? is it normal? How you handle it? Kwn2 yang penah hadapi, and expecially berjaya utk berubah, sharelah pengalaman anda.

Those yg bercakap without pengalaman, xperlulah bagi khutbah. Seriously. Its not help us at all.
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Post time 18-10-2016 11:05 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
nauzubillahimin zalik . aku takde pengalaman tapi nak tau macamana boleh jadi mcm tu. maksud aku.. adakah dari godaan pihak sana ke. atau dari pihak ko sendiri. citelah. mcmana layanan ko terhadap isteri. apa kurang nya dia. apa lebihnya diorang. aku tak marah. saje nak tau.. buleh buat kajian rumah tangga.
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Post time 18-10-2016 11:23 AM | Show all posts
Edited by Minami2013 at 18-10-2016 12:56 PM

You buka thread ni sbb u nk justify yourself that having an affair ni normal?

I bukan nak bagi khutbah, but for me walaupun i tak kenal u in person tapi your confession ni macam virus yang corrupt kan pemikiran orang... you should keep it between you, your affairs and God...you r old enough utk tau dosa pahala...
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Post time 18-10-2016 11:39 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Fetish? U will repeat
At the end u will get hurt if u hurt people
Skrg tak rasa
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Post time 18-10-2016 11:53 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
johannawawi, sebagai lelaki dewasa berusia 30an anda tak perlu berforum utk mendapat khidmat nasihat mengenai ketagihan seks anda. forum ini terbuka. dari gomen pencen hingga ke budak sekolah berforum disini. anda sebagai muslim pun tahu amalan berpuasa dapat mengawal gelora nafsu. tapi anda MALAS. mahu cara yg singkat dan menyenangkan sahaja. anda juga malas menjaga pemakanan anda. kurangkan makanan berdaging. boleh tanya skandal ah soh utk resepi vegetarian (tapi ah soh pun mcm pemakan daging jua). kalau anda berduit dapatkan khidmat kaunseling dari pakar sakit jiwa hospital swasta. jika tiada berduit dapatkan rawatan di darussyifa. beratur panjang tapi bayaran seikhlas hati. bawa air mineral sendiri.
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Post time 18-10-2016 11:59 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Yg stkt kwn2..sembang2 0..tkde pelik2..bkn skandal kan...haha...kdg2 sy perlu bersembang ngan seseorang yg kita percayai...hnya sembang bgtau mslh..cuba selesaikan mslh tersebut..done..tk de lah lebih2...bersembang ngan dia leh wat hati i tenang...yg ada mslh pn mcm settle je mslh...
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Post time 18-10-2016 12:02 PM | Show all posts
Interesting topic.. Hahaha..
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Post time 18-10-2016 12:40 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
citer lucah ke ni
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 Author| Post time 18-10-2016 01:10 PM | Show all posts
Sy nak tanya pengalaman org lain yg menghadapi benda yg sama. Normal means, ada org lain tak hadapi benda yg sama? Mcm mana mereka menghadapi? and mcm mana mereka berubah?

Yg tak penah hadapi, tau2 bg ceramah itu ini, virus, darul syifa puasa bagai, be fair la. Pergi serang thread org lain yg share masalah melancaplah, main lambat pancut la, main cepat pancutlah, zakar besarlah, zakar kecillah, dara or teruna sebelum kahwinlah. wtf.

Nasib baik sy buat account baru nak share masalah ni. kalau x, da tentu kena serangan dgn moral police x berbayar. Ini lah melayu.
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 Author| Post time 18-10-2016 01:12 PM | Show all posts
Yang bg nasihat tapi sendiri blur, thanx sebab more open and agak memahami.

Kalau ada yang penah hadapi share yr experience on handling this
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Post time 18-10-2016 01:35 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Semoga yg berzina dapat HIV aids..tapi jenis virus yg tak lut kepada pasangan mereka yg bukan penzina
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Post time 18-10-2016 01:40 PM | Show all posts
malukokram replied at 18-10-2016 11:05 AM
nauzubillahimin zalik . aku takde pengalaman tapi nak tau macamana boleh jadi mcm tu. maksud aku.. a ...

betul.. Ai pun nak tau punca
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 Author| Post time 18-10-2016 03:53 PM | Show all posts
fulusss replied at 18-10-2016 01:40 PM
betul.. Ai pun nak tau punca

Punca sy la yg salah. menggatal. melayan.


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Post time 18-10-2016 04:41 PM | Show all posts
johannawawi replied at 18-10-2016 03:53 PM
Punca sy la yg salah. menggatal. melayan.

Ingatkan ade masalah dengan wife you. Saje la nak tanye.. ape perasaan semasa dan selepas tu?
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Post time 18-10-2016 04:43 PM | Show all posts
awak sama macam kawan saya.. puncanya adalah diri dia sendiri ini kerana dia bujang.. terlalu melayan n terlampau ramah.. ini semua sebab nafsu.. dia dduk bujang.. tiap2 malam tukar2 perempuan..  lepas tu dia bernekad utk berkahwin dan berubah.. alhamdulillah lepas  dia berkahwin dia mula berubah.. tapi kan awak ad isteri.. isteri awk tak melayan awak ke? sampai awak cari girl lain..
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 Author| Post time 18-10-2016 05:24 PM | Show all posts
elmoleena replied at 18-10-2016 04:43 PM
awak sama macam kawan saya.. puncanya adalah diri dia sendiri ini kerana dia bujang.. terlalu melaya ...

Isteri sy xlayan, kurang layan, x puas with isteri, etc, tu semua bukan punca. At the end of the day, sy yg salah
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 Author| Post time 18-10-2016 05:25 PM | Show all posts
fulusss replied at 18-10-2016 04:41 PM
Ingatkan ade masalah dengan wife you. Saje la nak tanye.. ape perasaan semasa dan selepas tu?

Semasa - Sedap
Selepas - Nak lagi beberapa round
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Post time 18-10-2016 05:29 PM | Show all posts
johannawawi replied at 18-10-2016 05:25 PM
Semasa - Sedap
Selepas - Nak lagi beberapa round

Tak ingat isteri time tu?
Slalu projek malam? siang? jauh2 or sekitar rumah?

saje nak survey.. nak buat pedoman. yela Ai pun ade husband.

tq reply




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 Author| Post time 18-10-2016 05:35 PM | Show all posts
fulusss replied at 18-10-2016 05:29 PM
Tak ingat isteri time tu?
Slalu projek malam? siang? jauh2 or sekitar rumah?

Nanti kaum lelaki lak tanya, maklumlah istri2 affair gak. u need to understand, sy affair withh 4 different women. bukan affair dgn guy
Takde org lain yg punya pengalaman mcm saya yg berani share cane korang berubah? maybe boleh create ID baru.
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Post time 18-10-2016 05:38 PM | Show all posts
johannawawi replied at 18-10-2016 05:35 PM
Nanti kaum lelaki lak tanya, maklumlah istri2 affair gak. u need to understand, sy affair withh 4  ...

ok.. faham
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