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Author: soulsolitude

Dah tahun ke-7 bercinta tapi tak boleh kahwin

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Post time 28-3-2017 10:26 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
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Post time 29-3-2017 09:08 AM | Show all posts

marah nampak? sampai 3 kali komen benda yg sama bahahaha


ala tt.... baru kapel 7 tahun. nak sambung belaja.. sambung je la dulu. pastu keja.. jgn peer pressure sgt nak kawen. kang da kawen byk lg masalah. kukuhkan kewangan dulu ha. apa2 jadi kendian hari (nauzubillah) takde la terkontang kanting sorg ha.
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Post time 29-3-2017 10:31 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
judicata replied at 29-3-2017 09:08 AM
marah nampak?  sampai 3 kali komen benda yg sama bahahaha



Koser nk marah aih.. tt ni sapa
Harus tertekan button tu berderet
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Post time 29-3-2017 07:16 PM | Show all posts
tt mintak nasihat je tp apesal ramai yg marah sangat kat tt ni?

dan ayat2 dia pun jenis baik dan teratur je
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Post time 29-3-2017 08:17 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
dh kawen ?
dh break?
dah tunang ?
dh sambung blaja?
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Post time 30-3-2017 09:45 AM | Show all posts
sebenarnya apa tujuan u nak kawen?
nak tambah zuriat?
nak hidup bersama?
nak buka mata nak husband, sebelum tutup mata tengok husband?

kawen ni tanggungjawab tinggi tau
kalau rasa tak boleh nak cope belajar n kawen
buat satu satu

takpe kalau u kawen umur 29/30 pun
daripada kawen awal lepastu masing masing tak boleh nak cope
nanti perhubungan tu jadi teruk pulak
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Post time 30-3-2017 10:53 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Mcm ade sesuatu nak sembunyi je..meolss xfeel good bace cite TT !
Good luck TT
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Post time 30-3-2017 10:26 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Kalau parents both duit kepok..
Kawin je la..
Nikah je.. Nak ngesek pkai kondom..
Tkt kondom pecah.. Suntik la pape..jgm preg..
Pas kawin.. Study la..
Sebb da nak sgt kawin kan.. Kawin je.. Selamat pengantin baru in advance
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Post time 31-3-2017 11:24 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Tt, be positive. Percaya kalo ada jodoh, ada la tu. Tt blom start keje lg ni, kalo da kerja, baru lg open mind. I mean, bnyk lg pilihan ada kt luar, bley jumpa mcm2 org.
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Post time 31-3-2017 11:26 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Keje dulu, merasa duit sendiri, enjoy puas2, balas jasa mak bapak, kumpul duit beli qset sendiri dulu.
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Post time 5-4-2017 08:17 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
soulsolitude replied at 2-3-2017 01:13 PM
Degree saya kalau boleh nak rahsia hahaha takut orang kenal saya sebab degree saya ni kelompok pel ...

ko belaja kat russia ke dik..
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Post time 6-4-2017 04:20 AM | Show all posts

My advice ... kawen je dik. Jangan pikir banyak sangat.
Biasa nya orang yang terlampau banyak berfikir nie, last2 apa pon takda.

Kalau dah ada rasa sayang, tanggungjawab itu akan datang sendiri.
Lagipon scholar budak2 Malaysia kat ovc, yearly boleh save berpuluh ribu kan.
I guess, both of U masih ada duit lebih banyak daripada rakyat marhaen.

Cuma, kalau nak pikir samada nak ada anak secepat mungkin atau nak plan dulu.
Seeloknya biar U dah keja stabil .. boleh la plan nak ada anak sorang, kalau teringin sangat.
Pada masa yang sama, tunggu la ur partner habis study dan keja lepas tu.

Cuma sebab sorang bekerja dan sorang masih belajar nanti, so kena pandai2 kira la. Hidup tak boleh finacially senang sangat. Tapi selagi si dia boleh tanggung life as a student sendiri tanpa harapkan U, I guess ok jer.

Jangan complicate kan menda yang mudah. Kalau dua2 dah bersedia, go on.
Rasa nya both of you pon dah tahu nak buat apa, U all budak2 cerdik kot.




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Post time 7-4-2017 03:20 PM | Show all posts
sopannya bahasa tt ni, suka betul..

bunyi macam garang2 je nasihat yang dorang bagi ni, macam pedas je kan..
tapi sebab memasing dah banyak makan garam, ditambah pulak membaca bod fd banyak bukak mata warga forum ni - kahwin bukanlah mudah..
sebab tu ramai2 bagi nasihat kat tt, jangan terburu2 nak kawen..

bercinta setahun ke sepuluh tahun ke tak menjamin kebahagiaan rumahtangga pun..
so tt, sementara masih muda ni grab segala peluang yang ada..
live your life to the fullest before you throw yourself into marriage..
i am not saying marriage is the end of an era, but it is a great task & requires your full commitment / time / energy / continuos tolerance..
mungkin tt kata boleh pakai protection kalau tak nak anak, tapi trust me even takde anak, dugaan tu tetap ada..

tapi seronok je kahwin ni, ada orang teman & bermanja & so on..
cuma kalau still muda & tak desperate & ada peluang untuk kejar impian lain - mohon tangguhkan dulu niat nak kahwin tu..
anyhow, goodluck tt..
apa pun keputusan tt, no regrets~~~
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Post time 12-4-2017 03:27 PM | Show all posts
Saya dulu nak kawen dah tapi dugaan datang, kewangan tak kukuh. Mak asyik bertanya. Apa saya buat saya sibukkan diri dengan kawan2 dan kerja. tahun pertama tu rasa macam saya dah happy dah tak ada pening2. Tahun kedua saya ajak dia tunang, sebab  bercinta dah lama.tapi dia menolak. saya janji dengan dia tunag je untuk ikat. setahun dua lagi kawen pun takpe, sy buat biasa dan tak memaksa macam dulu2 lagi. Dia setuju. Bila tunang jodoh jadi cepat, dua2 famili nak cepatkan. so tunang tak sampai setahun pn dah kahwin.


Kesimpulanya, awak just ikut je dan jangan terlalu fikir. kawan2 sy pun anak 2, 3 dah. Further study tu pn salah satu nya so that u can kill the time. Orang pun tak peliklah kalau tak kawen lagi sebab awak n pasangan tgh belajar lagi kann
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Post time 13-4-2017 11:30 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
bc mslh cinta tt mcm bc buku sekolah.booooooring. summarise blh tak?
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Post time 18-4-2017 01:56 PM | Show all posts
i think ur partner is weak in mind and terlalu bergantung pd relationship ni....cubalah mature sikit.

ask ur parents opinion is d best.



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Post time 18-4-2017 11:45 PM | Show all posts
chazey replied at 6-3-2017 11:36 PM
Ntah la. Macam EQ,  survival skills, etc terbatas sangat walau hal berkaitan akademik terer.

...

Emm terasa pula almaklum ex student UMS, ni under program ape ye?

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 Author| Post time 23-4-2017 07:42 AM | Show all posts
I'm already abroad. It's been over a month. He's staying in Malaysia and I'm here, thousands miles away.

We were fine until recently..

His local uni may not approve his credit transfer for whatever reason and he may need to study his bachelor's degree for another 3 years.

We are 25 now.

He's been asking if I could and would wait if he had to take 3 more years to finish his studies (and obviously some more years to save money and get a job).

I think I'll be someone selfish if I choose to leave at this point because deep down I know, he's one of my biggest supporters during my undergraduate studies.

But being realistic, 3 years is not short. If he would take another 3 years to graduate, we'd be 28 when he graduates.

It's depressing to think of it. Sometimes I'm willing to wait, sometimes I'm afraid. At 28, it might be fine to get married (given that everything is going well). But who knows what happens in 2020? If something bad happens, it might already be too late for me to start anew.

I love him, but I don't know if we're gonna work out.

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