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Edited by adila39 at 4-8-2017 02:31 PM
Me is single mum like you.
Dari dalam perut anak i , i mmg seorang urus semua.
I feel like you are tooo manja with yourself, perhaps...now its not your time. Kena set kat otak...its no longer you time or about you..no no no not anymore about you.
Kalau tak boleh tolerate isu ni, should think before decide ada anak or make baby (having sex with ex or get married in first place )
So stop wining or complaining , being a mum Allah dah bagi u kelebihan to be the strongerst mama and be tough with your mind. Why tak boley have your moment with your baby, 9 months it should be fun playing with toddler!
One more, never and ever leave your baby alone , dalam stroller ke apa...and what...nak try baju??? wher is your brain sis....never take advantage on your baby.
So stop saying , nak me time la apa ..lonely la...that is bullsxx! stop watching drama melayu ok
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anak tak kan membebankan
percaya lah sis. |
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Post time 4-8-2017 03:22 PM
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Edited by caritegar at 4-8-2017 03:30 PM
adila39 replied at 4-8-2017 02:30 PM
Me is single mum like you.
Dari dalam perut anak i , i mmg seorang urus semua.
Hello u sila baca betul2 before commenting.. I xcakap i tinggal anak dalam stroller sorang2.. I think u left ur brain in the toilet when u were reading my thread..
I bet u being judgemental even before u finish reading my thread.. Lepas tu baca penuh emosi, lain org tulis lain pulak awk baca..
If i know this marriage will end like this, xkan i nak ada anak just utk dia membesar tanpa bapa...of course la time nak ada anak tu bapak dia baik perangai... Masa anak ai baru msk 5bulan bapak dia baru buat perangai... And i mmg marah bapak dia kenapa lepas ada anak baru buat perangai..kenapa bkn before... Kenapa nak aniayai anak sendiri sampai macam ni...
Fyi, i mmg jarang tgk drama melayu.. Lonely in my definition is life without friends and family... Family jauh, i sorg.. Friends yg kamceng pon dah kawen having their own life to handle..bukan maksud hidup x berjantan... Apa u igt i kemaruk jantan ke... Puhhhliis okeyh.. I bkn jenis mcm tu.. |
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Post time 4-8-2017 03:35 PM
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zztop63 replied at 4-8-2017 03:06 PM
anak tak kan membebankan
percaya lah sis.
Ai xcakap anak membebankan..kalau i terasa beban, dah lama i antar dia blk kg.. My mom more than happy nk jaga cucu.. Tp i refused sebab dia tanggungjawab i... Cuma certain aktiviti i tu jadi limited tau..
Maybe i belum biasa lagi kot fully handle anak alone.. Before2 this, sebelum bapak dia menghilang, we did almost everything together... |
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Post time 4-8-2017 03:37 PM
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namr replied at 4-8-2017 02:19 PM
Aku xda anak pun tak kuasa nak huhahuha karok bagai..dah puas masa zaman bbnu dulu2
Hahaha..ini semua terletak pada personaliti masing2 la.. Maybe u jenis boleh enjoy dok rumah.. Ai mmg jenis keluar.. Dan bila i maksud berhuha tu, bkn maksud every weekend nk berhuha...of course kadang2 nak keluar enjoy jugak... Pada i, ada anak xpatut limit our life...
Cuma sekarang ni aktiviti jadi terhad sikkt sebab anak masih kecil... |
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Post time 4-8-2017 03:38 PM
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gdspls replied at 4-8-2017 02:07 PM
cadangan iols kalau nak me time
amik cuti hari bekerja
anak anta pengasuh..
Good idea... Tp xkan everytime nak cuti.. Hehehe.. Tp bernas jugak idea.. |
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ninja boy replied at 4-8-2017 01:55 PM
tt belum keluar dari zaman remaja kah, masih mau kaauke masih mau tonton wayang huha kawan2 sana sin ...
Aik.. Xkan dh jd dewasa xleh bertujar baju?? Pakai sampai lusuh...remaja sajakah boleh berhuha... Maybe ada salah faham di sini.. Berhuha i maksudkan tu bukan every weekend nk ber huha.. Maybe once in a blue moon akan terasa jugak nk keluar bersosial... |
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itu yang iols buat..
weekend dah sah2 utk husband n anak2
so, weekdays sahaja yang boleh..
sebulan sekali pun ok..
keluar selalu pun abes duet gak
so, berpada2..
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Post time 4-8-2017 03:50 PM
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eileen80 replied at 4-8-2017 11:20 AM
sabar TT.
awal2 mmg rasa sukar sedikit tp lama2 nanti ok.
sebagai org yg pnh lalui fasa tu, ape yg ...
Hi @eileen80
Thank fimor thw advice..
1.tulah i rasa maybe i x fully adapt lg how to handle kid alone...maybe lama2 i akan jadi biasa..
2.lepas kejadian semalam, yes i baru sedar i xboleh shopping alone.. Huhuhu.. Terasa kepayahannya di situ..tp kalau shopping groceries ok je xde masalah..
3.dah bawak.. Tp dia xnak main ..kasut ai jugak dia bkenan.. Kutip2 brg atas lantai lagi... Mmg lesson learnt sgt semalam
4.semalam pon i terfikir, mmg i bakal kena lupakan my "me time" jwbnya utk 2-3 tahun ni.. Or sampai dia dah boleh berdikari sikit...
Tah la... Bab bersedia ke x nak pegang status baru ni, i jujur xtau ready ke x.. Tp utk bersama dgn dia, i dah xmampu.. Dia pon xboleh tinggal that jalang... Dan surprisingly, semalam dia merayu2 nak jumpa anak.. Bukan i halau dia dari rumah pon sampai mintak izin nak balik... Pelikkan.. Lepas tu balik siap peluk i cakap rindu.. Confusednya i dengan jantan mcm ni
Apa dia nak sebenarnya |
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MyNameIsIris replied at 4-8-2017 11:15 AM
kejap je anak tu tt... nanti dia dah msuk 4-5 tahun, dah behave dah. u kena rajin-rajin cakap dengan ...
I selalu cakap dgn dia...layan mcm dia faham i cakap... Walaupun nan hado... Xbg buat, dia buat jugak
Sampai cousin i pernah tegur, cakap2 mcm tu macam la anak hg faham... Satg dia menjawab hg satg, jenuh hg lari...
Hehehe... |
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harrypoter replied at 4-8-2017 09:19 AM
simpati dgn nasib tt dan yg sama status dgn tt, bertabahla korang ye, semoga dipermudahkan segala ur ...
Amin.. Terima kasih mendoakan i. Semoga hidup i dpermudahkan...i masih belajar lg menjaga anak sendiri... Kadang kekok tp kadang dah ok... |
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leylapple replied at 4-8-2017 09:03 AM
baru semalam aku baca confession seorang janda muda anak sorang....
katanya, anggap penceraian tu ...
Yelah... Dia la sumber kekuatan i.. Kadang bila i sedih kenangkan marriage yg suck ni, hilang sedih bila dgr anak gelak2...
Hilang kecewa bila dia peluk i.. Rasa nyaman dan tenang je peluk dia... Cuma maybe i dalam adaptive stage lagi.. Certain benda yg i xpernah buat berdua dgn anak before this, i jadi kekok lagi..
Terasa kepayahn di situ.. |
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Post time 4-8-2017 04:00 PM
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sara_thrash replied at 4-8-2017 08:45 AM
tt, u kerja ke??
Temporary i unemployed.. Tp skrg dalam stage cari keja.. Sbb dah dpt tarikh cerai, semoga dia nak ceraikan i pada tarikh tu..i nak hal2 cerai ni settle before i dapat keja baru.. Nnt xnak la cuti2 just sebab hal2 cerai ni... Xkan baru keja nak cuti2 kan.. Xelok.. |
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hehe dia paham u.... biasa lah budak memang aktif. aktif tu tandanya dia cergas n sihat...
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akudansesuatu replied at 4-8-2017 08:30 AM
lupakan dulu bab bab nak g gym ke..karok ke..
ko sunyi skrang...wat masa terdekat stabilkan diri du ...
Itulah.. Life i skrg mmg xstabil sekrang ni.. Emosi pon still roller coaster ride lg.. Kejap ok ada time sedih... Ada time jd pemarah..
I masih dalam adaptive stage lagi... Nak kena adapt hidup berdua dengan anak..
Bab jantan, i mmg xfikir... I bukan jenis xboleh hidup x berjantan.. I xkisah semua tu.. Cuma i jenis hidup dengan kawan2...dulu husband ada, dia la kawan, dia la musuh...
skrg dia pon kejap hilang, kejap timbul, kejap mati, kejap hidup.. |
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Deidra replied at 4-8-2017 07:39 AM
Nak nasihat apa pun tak pasti,no experience.
Cuma one thing for sure,sesuatu yg tuhan tarik dari ...
Thank you utk kata2 hikmat u..kadang i dah letih nasihat hati i...
Kadang hati ni jd im a strong independent woman, kadang dia dok persoal kenapa la kena duga sampai tahap ni.. Apa aku dah buat smpi jd mcm ni... Letih berperang dgn hati... |
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Haliho replied at 4-8-2017 07:21 AM
No specific experience. Tp mcm banyak perkara dalam hidup: take one step at a time. Takyah pikir jau ...
Yelah....i fikir terlampau jauh...momeng patut i enjoy or survive ialab sekarang..jauh pulak i fikir.. Tq for the very good advice |
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hello to you back.
Tinggal anak depan pintu while u change clothes, still it is not a wise way to handle ur baby babe. Not smart at all. Spot on, bad things can happen a minute you careless or bahasa melayu cuai.
Anyway its ur life and its your baby..
I just feel you are not mentally prepared being single parent, maybe its time to have back up plan, new boyfriend and so can avoid feeling lonely.
To me, ur weak mummy. Belum apa apa dah mengeluh. Ouch...janganlah defensive...take this as part of new phase ...trust me, more to come...so u must be strong and tougher than usual mom outhere.
Best of luck babe.
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ada sebabnya i taye u kerja atau tidak.. buat sementara u tak bekerja ni spend lah time dgn anak pepuas nnt bila u dah start keje maybe time tu dah tak sebanyak sebelum ni.. nanti bila u bekerja percaya lah akan ada masa utk diri sendiri, u akan ada masa untuk pergi window sopink pusing2 mall tanpa arah tuju.. 
how?? ambik masa hari kerja samada u just kerja 1/2 day atau ambik cuti terus then u pergi lah apa yg u teringin nak buat.. i selalu macam tu yg penting kita pandai plan..
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NurAlia14 replied at 4-8-2017 12:24 AM
I support u..aku pn mcm ko..sebijik..cumenye aku blm bercerai.tp rase mcm dh bercerai..u can talk to ...
I belum bcerai...ai sama mcm u.. Tersepit dengan perkahwinan ni.. Dia ni kadang ok kadang x.. Ni selepas seminggu hilang xbalik rumah, semalam balik, muka mcm baru lepas nangis, cakap rindu ai, rindu anak... Nak tdur peluk ai, peluk anak.. Dia betul2 mainkan perasaan ai.. Apa dia nak pon ai xtau..
Ai baru je dapat tarikh utk bcerai 23/8/17 ni.. Tu pon xtau la dia nak ceraikan ke x.. Ckp kena jaga sukan sea... Suruh dia amik cuti, tp dia diam je... Hmmmm...sedih la... |
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