G jela kat pejabat agama tanya. Cakap nak mintak cerai dari suami. Nanti pejabat agama akan beri kaunseling dulu. Dah lama kaunseling mesti suami berubah. Tapi kalau lepas kaunseling pun suami tak berubah / berubah sekejap je, boleh minta cerai, hakim syariah uruskan.
Post time 14-9-2017 11:46 PMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
blackmore replied at 14-9-2017 02:19 AM
...eeerrr....sapa laki dia??...
Lansung tak ingat pula saya akan nicknya kak. Ada heol masuk dalam thread terbaru Rindianey tahun ni. Terai search thread tu. Terus diam tak berkutik Rindianey sampai sekarang bila menerima laharan mega berapi lakinya.
You ada mentioned hubby watch porn kan? So, he has the desire for sex, for sure.. Kalau tidak takkan tgk porn kan?
Well, for the matter sake, y not u join him watching porn? Be obedient to him duduk elok2 tgk sama2 apa jenis porn yg dia duk minat sangat tgk tu. Bincang pasal tu dgn dia elok2 not like mcm mencebik tanya itu ini mcm nak cari salah dia but show that u care.
Lelaki ni walaupun hb kita sendiri, derang pun ada hidden desire yg dirahsiakan. My hb watch porn too, like... always, and he hide it from me since only-God-knows-when. But once that I knew which kind of sex category he likes, well I just give in. As he is a good-caring-loving hb & father, I just consider it as his 'incentive', you know it's just like kitten awarded with kibbles after do tricks. To my surprise, it did really change the whole thing. I think he sees things differently now, I'm the sexiest, I'm so called his 'prostitute' whatever. The thing is kinda like.. now I OWN him!
Say, spice up your life...lelaki ni benda sex tu je yang penting bagi derangnya.
So, try this first okay? Since u pun bukan nak bercerai sangat kan? Jangan sedey2!
Post time 24-9-2017 11:52 AMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
Fikiran tu... Jgn kearah sex sgt... Cuba istifar byk2... Zikir byk2.. Ingat Allah byk2...
Kata masih syg suami...
Aku ni haaa... X penah dpt kpuasan sex pun selama bertahun2 kawen.. Asben sorang je yg sedap. Awalnye kupikir bt pe kawen kalau camni... Aku pun nk bhgia... Selamanye aku camni? Bila otak dh set yg sex tu satu kperluan utama... Maka cerailah jwbnye...
Then aku twist otak aku.. Hidup ni smntara je... Fokus kt Allah lg baiklah! Sex ke sana sex ke sini, ehh mcm gila sex pula? Lama2 aku pun tak heran dah... Asben tak dekat, aku lg suka. Bahagia aku bkn lg sbb sex. Tp anak. Suami yg baik etc2 yg lain selain dr sex!