Me and my gay BFF

doubleA

bulanbulat replied at 14-9-2017 10:46 PM
Thank you. Susah betul nak cari the one.
Malas nak cari boleh tak? Haha

If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Jodoh rahsia Allah pada hambaNya. Tak salah usaha, tak salah doa. Keizinan tu tetap dari Allah. Until you don't feel like it, maknanya belum masa yang terbaik la tu. Keep praying for the best for yourself. Once you dah jumpa jodoh, it will falls into places naturally. Who knows walaupun sekarang you rasa takda laki yg you berkenan lagi, sekali you dah jumpa, silap2 sebulan dua terus walimatulurus.

My point is, find your own happiness where you seems are providing happiness to si A tu sekarang. Don't waste your time girl. If he plays with you for his benefits, you control it.

doubleA

bulanbulat replied at 14-9-2017 10:47 PM
I rasa ja dia sayang i. Sebab im naive and stupid huhu

Mungkin dia sayang you as friend or someone he feels attached to but still ada border and in the safe circle. To know who are the one for you tu, laki tu akan sanggup berkorban dan berusaha utk you.

This guy, you knew he choose the other guy (si B) over you right?

mommymonster82

bulanbulat replied at 14-9-2017 10:46 PM
I sayang dia, i taknak dia hanyut lagi jauh.

But he is an adult, he make his own decision, his  ...

Pada me pulak..syg manusia n terima dia seadanya.. jangan harap dia ubah apa2.syg tanpa syarat gtu..
Kalau benda yg dia buat tu awal2 lagi kita tak leh terima.hurm maybe kena move on kot..

jejaka_hensem

cerita u ni lebih kurang macam film waris jaris hantu.
u try tengok citer tu,maybe dapat menolong u buat keputusan

lwyl

Move on, sis. Awak jatuh cinta dengan dia sebab you're in your late 20s already bukan sebab cinta.

precious_chicas

No comment on your BFF gay tu. Sebabnya obviously TT yang ada mental problem sebenarnya.

Seriously? Takde kenan kat lelaki lain dah? Tertutup hijab dah mata tu?

Nampaknya  hati TT pun sama degil dengan BFF gay tu. So, sila tambahkan dalam doa, agar dibuka pintu hati TT terima dan beri peluang kepada lelaki lain...yg straight.
I'm not saying jauhkan diri dari lelaki gay tu like plague, he is your besfren anyways. But TT takut kalau menerima lelaki lain akan buat BFF gay tu makan hati? Well, he shouldn't think that you're okay with him being gay and having gay partner in the first place kan?

bulanbulat

lwyl replied at 15-9-2017 06:53 AM
Move on, sis. Awak jatuh cinta dengan dia sebab you're in your late 20s already bukan sebab cinta.

Im not rushing for marriage. Im free and easy so is my family

bulanbulat

precious_chicas replied at 15-9-2017 07:52 AM
No comment on your BFF gay tu. Sebabnya obviously TT yang ada mental problem sebenarnya.

Seriousl ...

I didnt say tertutup, i say it wasnt easy. I dont trust people easily.

And i x cakap i tak terima orang lain sebab nak jaga hati dia. Totally not like that. I bukan follow him like a loyal puppy, i do see other people but the heart want what it wants. Kena doa banyak2

Seem that u reading it wrongly.
Hehe

IsobelMelody

Hi sis.. i feel u. had crossed the same situation a few years before. Nak lepaskan rasa sgt2 sayang, nak stay ai pulak x dpt terima sisi gayah dia. Dorang ni hensem tau, jaga penampilan n kebersihan..dorang caring sesangat. Sampai bila kita demam, sanggup berjaga g tuam kepala kita. Hugging setakat pegang bahu n cuit2 hidung n pipi n lentok2 mmg dorang suka buat. Dorang manja... Mgkn kalau ai jenis yg kuat hati ai dpt pimpin dia ke jalan yg benar kot(kononnya la tu).
Sayang ai pada dia memang unconditionally tp itu x bermakna ai boleh terima sisi gay nya tu huhu. Yeahhh move on memang ambil masa tp itu yg patut dilakukan.
Tiada cara lain yg paling mujarab selain berdoa seiklhas hati n meminta petunjuk dari Nya. I pray for u too sis, may u find ur true happiness soonest. Aminnnnn.  

wadiunong

TT iols tak baca habis pon essei u ni tp iols dah tau ending dia macam mana. kenapa iols tau?

sebab your story sama dengan iols. my BFF is gay tapi i takde simpan perasaan kat BFF gay iols tu plus heols tak pernah confess pon dia gay. tapi iols tau

jalan cerita iols dgn BFF sama je macam u TT. makan sama, travel sama2, tgk wayang sama2. pendek kata byk la weols buat sama2 sampai dah kenal family masing2.

satu je iols nak cakap, BFF u tu TT tak akan berubah & tak akan jadi straight. so lupakan la niat u & harapan u tu nak tengok dia berubah dari segi sexuality. anggap je la dia as your BFF forever.

bulanbulat

wadiunong replied at 15-9-2017 10:10 AM
TT iols tak baca habis pon essei u ni tp iols dah tau ending dia macam mana. kenapa iols tau?

...

Thanks for the light.

I anggap ja dia my female bff kan. Haha
Dahlah susah nak suka orang, bila suka tekena gay. Kesiannya i

bulanbulat

IsobelMelody replied at 15-9-2017 10:02 AM
Hi sis.. i feel u. had crossed the same situation a few years before. Nak lepaskan rasa sgt2 sayang, ...

My friend ni tak pembersih, kereta semak tahap bela ular sawa, dia asalnya tak caring pun, tak ada dia macam ciri ciri kawan u tu. Hehe

I wish u well jugak.

lwyl

bulanbulat replied at 15-9-2017 09:46 AM
Im not rushing for marriage. Im free and easy so is my family

You may deny it but subconsciuosly you are afraid, afraid of being a andartu.

bulanbulat

lwyl replied at 15-9-2017 11:40 AM
You may deny it but subconsciuosly you are afraid, afraid of being a andartu.

I lagi takut i dapat wrong husband dari andartu.

Believe me, im in the field where i saw people at worst

kenangabiru

Sis... Smpai masanye sis lupakan dia. Terang2 dia pilih that guy than u. Sis bukan keutamaan bg dia. Dia cuma nk partner utk teruskan normal life di mata public. Pengubat di kala kesunyian. Sakit sgt rasenye kan? Jgn terus dibuai mimpi indah. Move on sis. Pasti ramai lelaki baik di luar sana. Good luck!

bulanbulat

doubleA replied at 15-9-2017 12:38 AM
Mungkin dia sayang you as friend or someone he feels attached to but still ada border and in the s ...

True. Your last sentence tu is the exact thinking yg buatkan i move on.

Dah lepas fasa nangis nangis, now im okay ja. Better

bulanbulat

mommymonster82 replied at 15-9-2017 01:45 AM
Pada me pulak..syg manusia n terima dia seadanya.. jangan harap dia ubah apa2.syg tanpa syarat gtu ...

I boleh terima dia seadanya, janji dia nak setia pada i sorang ja. Naluri dia suka laki, apa nak buat kan.
They even said mostly woman bisexual tapi sebab perempuan ni, tak explore, nafsu x sekuat lelaki..

The fact is he choose someone else over me.

bulanbulat

jejaka_hensem replied at 15-9-2017 01:47 AM
cerita u ni lebih kurang macam film waris jaris hantu.
u try tengok citer tu,maybe dapat menolong u ...

Haha ceritala sikit. Pasal apa tu?

Rusdi ramli lembut jadi harimau kan?

bulanbulat

wadiunong replied at 15-9-2017 10:10 AM
TT iols tak baca habis pon essei u ni tp iols dah tau ending dia macam mana. kenapa iols tau?

...

Btw apa jadi with u and your bff? If u dont mind..

mommymonster82

bulanbulat replied at 15-9-2017 03:25 PM
I boleh terima dia seadanya, janji dia nak setia pada i sorang ja. Naluri dia suka laki, apa nak b ...

Sory klu tnya soklan ni.. n sory klu ada yg da tanya..
U pnh tanya x dia top ke bottom..

Tp klu dia da pilih laki tu..betulla mcm forumer kentel cakap.. maybe u ni mcm rebound partner dia je. Dia nak sesuatu pada u yg takde kat partner gay dia tu.. ktlah dia dpt semua dr partner gay dia tu me takut dia tinggal u gitu je..kesian u..