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Post time 15-9-2017 01:07 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts |Read mode
Macam mana nak tahu laki tu takut atau taknak komitmen hubungan dgn wanita? dan macam mana nak convince dorang untuk commit pada kita?

i dah 27, teman laki dah 35. tapi masih tak ada apa2 future plan. bertunang pun tak nampak bayang.
i bukan desperate tapi i taknak mereput tunggu sampai kiamat belum tentu kawen.
paling sadis, tunggu berpuluh tahun, hujung-hujung kawen orang lain. i taknak!

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Post time 15-9-2017 01:18 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Tak pernah tanya? Tak pernah discuss?Dah berapa kenal?

Nak tau dia serius ke x dia beria ajak kawen lah,klau main tarik tali,dia byk calon maybe
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Post time 15-9-2017 01:41 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Kalau tak bersedia lagi akhiri hubungan dengan perkahwinan maybe he is not serious. Ataupun in the closet gurau sory tt tapi possibility tu ada.

Family ko kenal dia, family dia kenal ko? Umur bf dah 35 terlebih matang dah tu utk berumahtangga. Must be ada reason lain
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Post time 15-9-2017 01:47 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Umur korg dh cukup matang nk proceed ke next stage..
Tp byk jgk faktor lain..try la bincg2..baru boleh tgok apa yg bmslh..dia xready ke..ada pilihan lain ke..atau perlukn sokongan n kyakinan dr u ke kn..
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Post time 15-9-2017 02:39 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Lelaki ni tua2 pon laku..xde expired date
Perempuan ni mcm ada tarikh luput pulak..
Tu stigma dalm masyarakat..

Tak salah pon u nak fikir untuk next level dalm sesuatu perhubungan..takkan nak gitu je.

U pasti bf u bukan gay?
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Post time 15-9-2017 03:36 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Takda bincang2 ke dgn dia... coz umur uols dah matang utk berkawen (even iols tak kawen lagi) plus uols bukan bbnu yg nak kawen muda.

Bukan apa...risau kita berharap.end up kawen dgn org lain.buang masa satu hal.better discuss with each other.
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Post time 15-9-2017 05:18 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Rasanya better discuss dulu. Teknik nak mula kan discussion pun perlu ada. Jgn sampai dia ingat kita terlalu mendesak pula. And diri sendiri pun kena be open minded utk terima input dr dia lah. Mungkin Dari segi Kewangan dia ada masalah.. or maybe juga dia tak terpikir pun... kita tak tau selagi x discuss.

Lepas discuss, balik rumah rumah pikir baik2 dulu your next step. Sleep over it. Then Baru discuss balik. Setiap org ada priority yg berbeza; so both of u kena fine tune dulu priorities masing2. Exercise ni pun penting nak tgk cara masing2 handle future plan; kalau boleh sync, bolehlah move to next level. Kalau susah nak sit down & discuss, both of u too egoistic pun susah kalau nak hidup bersama.
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Post time 15-9-2017 07:15 AM | Show all posts
jangan la menangis
kalau itu dah takdir u
u redha je lah
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Post time 15-9-2017 07:41 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Sis rase bf u sengkek. Sbb tu x ajak kawin. Or else he is gay
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Post time 15-9-2017 07:48 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Cuba awak berterus terang pada sidia tanya direct.

mcm kes sy dulu, sy direct tanya pada bf (now suami),sy tanya begini, awk jom kita kawin.. terus dia setuju.. esknya trs dia bank in duit cari cincin tunang. hujung mggu dia hntr rombongan meminang terus.

maksudnya kalau lelaki serius memang nk kat kita, mesti dia dh bersedia kalau kita tny next stage..


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Post time 15-9-2017 07:50 AM | Show all posts
Mostly llki umo 35 mmg ready sgt dah nk settle down.

Try TT bwk2 discuss.
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Post time 15-9-2017 08:17 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Kena check anu dia jugak..maybe dia ada masalah ke..who knows kan? Just guess jek..sorry
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Post time 15-9-2017 08:30 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
betul ke dia anggap tt ni spesel
bakal ibu pada anak2nya
confirmkan yang tu dulu
kalau dia betul2 nak tt tt bg deadline
mesti dia patuhi
contoh ayat biasa

kalau minggu depan tak masuk meminang kita clash
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Post time 15-9-2017 08:47 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
AJ88 replied at 15-9-2017 07:50 AM
Mostly llki umo 35 mmg ready sgt dah nk settle down.

Try TT bwk2 discuss.

betul, abg iols umur 35 baru laa pikir nak kawin. .tu pun terus nikah ja, simple sgt. .

sbb masa mudanya kerja keras cari duit utk kmi adik beradik. .
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 Author| Post time 15-9-2017 08:54 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Electromagnet replied at 15-9-2017 01:18 AM
Tak pernah tanya? Tak pernah discuss?Dah berapa kenal?

Nak tau dia serius ke x dia beria ajak kaw ...

taun lepas i tanya, dia cakap dia tak bersedia. takkan dah setahun masih tak sedia.......
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 Author| Post time 15-9-2017 08:57 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
doubleA replied at 15-9-2017 01:41 AM
Kalau tak bersedia lagi akhiri hubungan dengan perkahwinan maybe he is not serious. Ataupun in the c ...

family and kekawan dia kenal i. family i tak kenal dia. dia takut jumpa mak i.  
tapi sebelum kami bersama, dia single selama 4 tahun takde gf ke apa ke.
i je la long term relationship dia. gayah tu tak kot.....
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Post time 15-9-2017 08:58 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
U ada calon menunggu tak? Tgl je yg tak serius tu. Baby im comin   
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Post time 15-9-2017 09:00 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
raradhia replied at 15-9-2017 08:47 AM
betul, abg iols umur 35 baru laa pikir nak kawin. .tu pun terus nikah ja, simple sgt. .

sbb mas ...

Bagusnya abang u... sib baik dah kawin   
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Post time 15-9-2017 09:06 AM | Show all posts
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Post time 15-9-2017 09:07 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Catpaw replied at 15-9-2017 09:00 AM
Bagusnya abang u... sib baik dah kawin

matang sgt dah uols 35 tahun, nak ker dgn yg matang2 ni? kihkih
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