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[Tempatan] 'Kalau Tak Nak Diganggu, Jangan Pakai Seksi' - Kesatuan Wartawan

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Post time 17-1-2018 05:07 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Dwdrum replied at 17-1-2018 04:54 PM
Begini u... caucasian betul betul jaga anak dari semua aspecf selagi di bawah umur jagaan mereka.. ...

Well said sis

I x reti nak karang kata2 bernas cm u
Mampu bersetuju je
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Post time 17-1-2018 05:08 PM | Show all posts
barang murah memang terdedah
cam belacan orang jual tepi jalan


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Post time 17-1-2018 05:18 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Jantan murahan saja guna autocracy agama untuk manipulate wanita.... 2nd lagi murah jantan apabila tengok wanita sexy ....nafsu tida boleh kawal ..... cara murahan kaum jantan walau pun nampak beradap untuk dominate dan discriminasi kaun wanita malahan nampak hopeless dan sadis ....
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Post time 17-1-2018 05:29 PM | Show all posts
Dwdrum replied at 17-1-2018 04:27 PM
Boleh cerita sedikit bagaimana kanak kanak lelaki dan perempuan di rogol adalah atas dasar yang sa ...

Saya refer too to your posting @#14 dn menjawab bahawasanya saya menulis adalah atas persepsi peribadi saya sendiri. Kita boleh katakan bahawa lelaki yg suka mengamalkan sexual harrasement adalah manusia yg tidak bermoral dn suka mengambil kesempatan for a cheap thrill. Ada yg tak beres dgn pertimbangan lelaki trs dn gejolak napsunya mudah tersulut dgn pandangan ghairah yg dilihat. Sekiranya tiada tindakan, lelaki itu akan menjadi lebih berani dn tak hairan boleh menjadi perogol pula. Kalaupun kita nak nafikan bukan pakaian seksi menjadi punca sebabnya tetapi berpakaian seksi tetap mengundang secara tak langsung kpd pelecehan seksual.  Siapa yg tak akan bercakap kalau ada wanita yg tersembul payudaranya pada fesyen baju yg low-cut, atau tanpa anak baju berala2 barut belah depan ataupun wanita bertudung ttpi masih terlihat ukuran payudaranya yg cukup besar. Usahkan lelaki, orang pompuan juga turut nak mengumpat.  Atas alasan itulah maka di kalangan muslimah diarah menutup aurat.  Kita jgn nak persoal kenapa lelaki tak mengawal pandangan walaupun itu yg disuruh.   Dah kita dedahkan untuk ditengok, free show lagi, pak hj/pak ustaz pun boleh terangkat serban ooii. Astagfirullah hal azeem, Atagfirullah hal azeem.... dlm hatinya.... Alhamdulillah. (ni saya yg kata ok).


Dituntut rasionalnya kenapa kanak2 dirogol yg tak dpt diterima atas alasan berpakaian seksi, kita kena faham bahawa perogol itu ada yg tak beres mengaturkan tuntutan napsunya. Boleh saja gejolak napsunya itu terperam dlm dirinya, dgn dari berbagai sebab,  dia kemudian mencari insan yg lemah untuk dizalimi. Napsu shahwat manusia boleh diibaratkan mcm napsu binatang sekiranya pelampiasannya tidak kerana Allah.  Sedangkan hukum Islam telah pun  mengatur caranya untuk suami menggarap ladang yg diamanahkan kpdnya: saling 'bertamu' dn menyapa dgn hormat, bukan dgn rakus atau ganas, malah ada  pada ketikanya perlu cuti dn  dilarang meskipun halal.
Demikian pendapat murni saya yg saya tulis atas dasar melempar pendapat tanpa  bermaksud untuk menghujat pendapat orang lain. Makasih.

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Post time 17-1-2018 05:35 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Apa gaduh2, kalau si wartawan itu benar2 mau keadilan beliau boleh je menyediakan bukti Dan report ke majikan, INI cakap2 saja spt sayang2 lagi sama ahli politik itu atau  konon sayang pekerjaan. Lobai2 pula keluar kenyataan merepek lagi
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Post time 17-1-2018 05:45 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
I nak share satu peristiwa dua hari lepas bagi menguatkan hujah posting i yang mula2......bukan versi kak hasanah ya. ...

Sambil menunggu anak balik sekolah i duduk dalam kereta. ...betul2 depan kereta ada kedai mamak  (sekolah anak tak jauh dari kedai tu dan memang anak suruh tunggu area situ)...

Depan kereta ada sekumpulan lelaki umur 20an -30an duduk minum dan mkn. ...tiba2 lalu dua perempuan bertudung. ..sorang tu sopan sorang lagi badan gempal tapi baju singkat dan pakai seluar ketat ya amat. ..punggung besar. ..rasa malu pula tengok cara dia berpakaian sebab pakai tudung. ...lelaki2 tu terus mencebik dan ketawa sambil pandang body perempuan tu bila jauh sikit ....

X lama kemudian perempuan tu kembali lalu. ..maka tercetus kembali ketawa mereka ( bukan ketawa kuat tapi berbisik mengata. ..pandangan lelaki tu bukan pandangan nak mengorat atau tertarik tapi lebih kepada mencebik. ..

Jadi pakaian seksi tak semestinya mengundang gangguan seksual dan rogol. ..
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Post time 17-1-2018 05:53 PM | Show all posts
dah kau asik berfantasi seks 24jam mane tak nya nampak orang seksi sket terus ghairah...kau tu yang patut ajar diri sendiri...selayaknyalah dihumban ke dalam api neraka yach
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Post time 17-1-2018 05:55 PM | Show all posts
Dwdrum replied at 17-1-2018 04:54 PM
Begini u... caucasian betul betul jaga anak dari semua aspecf selagi di bawah umur jagaan mereka.. ...



Kena ingat my friend, lain bangsa lain cara budayanya, lain agama lain pula cara pegangan dn amalannya. Saya tak boleh nak cakap lebih ttng cara dn budaya bangsa dn agama lain namun mereka tetap menjaga akhlak byg baik untuk diikuti. But as far as Islam is concerned, either you're non-muslim or the cincai2 muslim (sorry I use this term) pse try to understand that Islam has rule out the dos and the don't. Either u like it or not, u nak patuh atau tidak, that's a different question. Konsekuensinya ada dn peraturan itu digaris demi kepentingan dan masalah ummat itu sendiri. Makanya bagi kita yg rasa terkongkong dgn peraturan boleh-tak boleh, we can also try to understand why it is so. Normallah manusia ni, mana yg ditegah itulah yg mau dibuatnya, tapi risikonya tanggung sendirilah. Lebih hebat lagi bila ada pembelaan diri "itu urusan I dgn tuhan n kubur masing". Hakikat Islam tidak begitu.
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Post time 17-1-2018 06:09 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Ramai je yg bertudung kena cabul dan rogol
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Post time 17-1-2018 06:13 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Dwdrum replied at 17-1-2018 04:06 PM
Ada kajian cakap kuat layan porn lagi kuat beragama lobaiiii ...

Negara paling nonton porn Pakistan. Sebuah negara deobandi islam yg sgt disanjung lobai2 Malaysia.
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Post time 17-1-2018 06:19 PM | Show all posts
kalau muka hudoh cam babi badan bau babi tonyok cam chazey anak haram celaka tu, bogel pun orang tak sudi tengok

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Post time 17-1-2018 06:52 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
nolya replied at 17-1-2018 09:29 AM
Saya refer too to your posting @#14 dn menjawab bahawasanya saya menulis adalah atas persepsi peri ...

kenapa tak boleh persoalkan kenapa lelaki tak mengawal pandangannya? kenapa perlu ada tindakan dari pihak wanita, tapi dibiarkan para lelaki bermaharajalela?

agama menyuruh perempuan untuk menutup aurat. begitu juga untuk lelaki mengawal pandangan mereka.

dalam agama, takde yg suruh lelaki utk berbuat sesuatu yg buruk kepada wanita sekiranya wanita itu sendiri berkelakuan buruk.

kalau nak kata tindakan berpakaian seksi boleh menyebabkan seseorang boleh dirogol/diganggu, kenapa seorang lelaki pula tak boleh nak kata tindakan dia melihat wanita yg seksi itu boleh menyebabkan dia merogol seseorg?

kalau nak kata itu nafsu dia susah nak dikawal, berpakaian mengikut keselesaan dia pun itu adalah nafsu.. apa yg membezakan kedua dua ini?

bagi i, muslim atau tidak, wanita tetap perlu dilindungi sama rata tanpa perlu ada batasan agama, pemakaian dan sbg.
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Post time 17-1-2018 07:43 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
salah pompuan kalau dia cantik... mcm arwah nik aziz kata... perempuan cantik tak payah bekerja...
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Post time 17-1-2018 07:49 PM | Show all posts
samasam90 replied at 17-1-2018 06:52 PM
kenapa tak boleh persoalkan kenapa lelaki tak mengawal pandangannya? kenapa perlu ada tindakan dar ...

pot pet pot pet la kau ni

lindung perempuan konon tapi pangai kau cam sial lebih teruk dari pelacur sanggup serah diri kat jantan free

siap bagitau online tu bagi satu dunia tahu kebabian pangai kau

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Post time 17-1-2018 07:54 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
shhhh shuh!  solat dulu
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Post time 17-1-2018 07:58 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
kasihantam replied at 17-1-2018 11:49 AM
pot pet pot pet la kau ni

lindung perempuan konon tapi pangai kau cam sial lebih teruk dari pel ...

aku lelaki la bodoh.. bangang, paksa dengan rela pun tak tahu.. dulu kecik2 pemalas nak belajar, sekarang jadi biawak duk layan forum jah..
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Post time 17-1-2018 07:59 PM | Show all posts
samasam90 replied at 17-1-2018 07:58 PM
aku lelaki la bodoh.. bangang, paksa dengan rela pun tak tahu.. dulu kecik2 pemalas nak belajar, s ...

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Post time 17-1-2018 08:00 PM | Show all posts
samasam90 replied at 17-1-2018 07:58 PM
aku lelaki la bodoh.. bangang, paksa dengan rela pun tak tahu.. dulu kecik2 pemalas nak belajar, s ...

sial betul kau ni

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Post time 17-1-2018 08:12 PM | Show all posts
Edited by FOTHER-MUCKER at 17-1-2018 08:04 AM

Tunjuk ini kepada lobai.

Lagi di totop lagi menggila lobai nak rogol.

Calling MR  @Defcon2 Wordpress tu kebangaan kamu.


Negara tuan lobai: yang sepatutnya 0% kes rogol kerana menggunakan hukum hudud, tak minum arak dan menotop aurat secara total!


THE HIGH RAPE-SCALE IN SAUDI ARABIAJanuary 16, 2013
Saudi Arabia is considered one of the most conservative countries in the world, especially in regard to the status of women. Saudi Arabia is an extreme Islamic country where its legal code is based on Shari’a Law. They therefore believe that there is no separation between church and state and the state’s laws are heavily based on Islamic teachings. Because of this strict Islamic culture, women in Saudi Arabia are treated and acknowledged very differently than the women who live in the west. For example, in Saudi Arabia, there are laws that require women to wear a hijab, a head scarf, as well as dress in loose, long garments that do not show the shape of the woman’s body. To do so would be shameful and secular. There are other laws such as this one that are meant to protect the virtue of women in Saudi Arabia.
Knowing this about Saudi Arabia, I had assumed that women there would be relatively safe since there are such strict laws regarding the protection of a woman’s virtue. I assumed incorrectly when I was studying a WomanStats map that displayed the rape scale of each country in the world. On a scale from one to five, Saudi Arabia had a ranking of a four. I was confused by this since, as briefly described above, Saudi Arabia is considered one of the most conservative countries in the world where women are highly secluded. I would have thought these practices and laws would have decreased the rape rate substantially.

The question I pose then is this, why does Saudi Arabia, one of the most conservative countries in the world have one of the highest rape scales in the world?
While there are many interconnecting reasons why rape occurs so often in Saudi Arabia, I have chosen four possible causes to narrow down the research for this project. The four causes I have chosen are one, a secular society, two, insufficient laws, three, taboos against reporting rape and four, an ineffective judicial system.

SECULAR SOCIETY
The first cause, a secular society, was quickly dismissed because as was mentioned in the introduction, Saudi Arabia is considered one of the most conservative countries in the world. The society of Saudi Arabia is especially conservative when it comes to women.

For example, it is illegal for women to drive or intermingle in public with males that are not related to them. It is also illegal for a woman to go out in public without a male-escort who is related to her as well as go out in public without wearing her hijab (WomanStats). Violence or legal prosecution usually ensues if any of these are broken. To further illustrate this point, the following maps show how strict Saudi Arabia is in regard to dress code and intermingling in public laws compared to the rest of the Middle East, a very conservative region itself.
It is clear from these maps that Saudi Arabia has one of the strictest dress codes and intermingling laws in the Middle East which is the most conservative region in the world. Based on these findings, one would sense that these women are highly secluded from society and thereby would be more protected from instances of rape and other forms of violence. On the other hand, one may argue that because women are treated so differently, they could be seen as inferior and thus suffer more abuse because of the lack of secularism.

INSUFFICIENT LAWS AGAINST RAPE
The next probable cause studied was the possibility of insufficient laws against rape in Saudi Arabia. Since there were reported convictions of rapists, it can be assumed that there are laws against rape. Also, Saudi Arabia’s legal code is based on the Shari’a law, which criminalizes rape as punishable by death. However, spousal rape is not included in this criminalization according to Shari’a law. Although these laws exist against rapists, the actual conviction process is complicated and nearly impossible.

In order for a perpetrator to be convicted he or she must confess or there must be four witnesses of the act (FreedomHouse). Usually in these certain circumstances, there are only two witnesses present, the perpetrator and the victim. Since it would be hard for a victim to find four witnesses, it is very unlikely that a perpetrator would admit to such a heinous act that he or she could very well get away with.

Another example of the insufficient laws against rape is that foreign female domestic workers, which consists of 1.5 million of foreign nationals, receive no protection from the labor laws and are more prone to be victims of abuse. Based on this research, it can be concluded that while there are laws against rape, the actual conviction of rapists is very rare. This could be a plausible cause of the high rape scale since the punishment of such an act hardly occurs.

TABOOS AGAINST REPORTING RAPE
The third possible cause of a high rape scale in Saudi Arabia is the taboos against reporting rape. There are many social stigmas that scare women away from reporting a rape to the police. One social stigma is that in many instances, the law enforcer will accuse the woman of having illicit sex instead of accusing the man of the crime (FreedomHouse). As a consequence of this accusation, societal reprisals take place such as a woman being seen as unfit for marriage or even violently punished for bringing shame to the family. In some extreme cases, honor killings have been committed against women who have been raped (Zoepf). One may wonder why these crimes take place if the laws in Saudi Arabia are supposedly meant to protect women.

There is another cultural stigma that plays a role here. In Islamic society, a family’s honor, particularly the male family member’s honor is based on the purity and virtue of the women in their family. If a woman in the family becomes “violated” either by choice or by force, the family’s honor is seemingly stripped from them. It is not so much about the concern over the woman but over the honor of the men. Because of this engrained belief, already victimized women are sometimes further victimized by their own family members. This causes great fear among the women in these types of societies and if one is raped, it is very unlikely that she will report it based on the potential ensuing consequences.

INEFFECTIVE JUDICIAL SYSTEM
The last possible cause studied was an ineffective judicial system. As was mentioned before, Saudi Arabia’s legal code is based on the Shari’s law, an extreme version of the Islamic code. Because of this, women are not given the same rights as men, especially when it comes to the courts. For example, in most cases, women are unable to speak for themselves in court. They must be represented by a male-relative or lawyer.

It is considered shameful for a woman to speak to the sheik or judge and is only sometime allowed to do so if her face is covered (WomanStats). Because of this, if a woman is raped, and a man’s honor is based on her virtue, what male relative would want to shed further light on the subject by representing her? Also a man’s testimony is worth two women’s testimonies.

So if a woman had four witnesses to testify against the perpetrator, if some of them were women, the number of females would have to be doubled for the accusation to be considered.
Another clause of the judicial system is that most clerics were taught in Wahhabi schools where extreme Islam is taught extensively. Because of this, most clerics demand the seclusion of women and often hold an unforgiving attitude toward accusations of violence against men (WomanStats). A Saudi Arabian attorney even said, “Unfortunately, judges consider women to be lacking in reason and faith, so generally do not agree with her arguments” (HumanRights).

The following stories illustrate the point explained above. The first is about a young girl who was being molested by her father. She went to the courts to file a complaint. The law enforcers did not believe her and told her, her father needed to come in to file the complaint (Economist).

The obvious ignorance need not be explained in this situation. The next story tells of a nineteen year-old woman who met a man not related to her in a car. They were both kidnapped by a gang and she was then gang-raped fourteen times. Seven men of the gang were convicted and were sentenced to prison ranging from one to five years. This was a light conviction given they could have received the death penalty according to the law.

The woman was also convicted to six months of prison as well as ninety lashes for being associating with a male who was not related to her in public (Harrison). The woman was later pardoned by the King of Saudi Arabia, not because he disagreed with the punishment but because he was being merciful and thought it was best for the whole of the country, not to mention international relations with countries that were in an absolute uproar over the ordeal (Zoepf).

Based on my research I propose that the main perpetrator of the high rape-scale in Saudi Arabia is the lack of conviction of rapists due to the taboos against reporting rape and the ineffective judicial system. If perpetrators are not being punished then there is little incentive to not rape woman if that is the desire. To illustrate how low the conviction rate actually is, in 2002, there were 59 reported rapes out of a population of 26,534,504 (WomanStats) The perpetrators are getting away with a heinous crime and the Saudi Arabian government must pass more effective legislation that enables law enforcers to convict those criminals. The social stigmas will be very difficult to overcome regarding seeing a woman unfit for marriage or taking away the family’s honor because of being raped. However, if women continue to speak up about the issues they face, solutions will come, just as they have in other parts of the world. Also international pressure must always be present to give those women courage to stand up.

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https://womanstats.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/the-high-rape-scale-in-saudi-arabia/

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Post time 17-1-2018 08:27 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
samasam90 replied at 17-1-2018 07:58 PM
aku lelaki la bodoh.. bangang, paksa dengan rela pun tak tahu.. dulu kecik2 pemalas nak belajar, s ...

You go sis! Kasi hantam sama itu hanj, sis!
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