Nak share dgn sapa2 yg ada experience jadi close friend dgn Koreans..

hibernation

Amigurumi replied at 7-9-2018 12:08 PM
Ahhh..yeke sis. Ami pula ingat dia yang dah tak minat nak kawan. Maaf la, Ami bab ni mmg bodo siki ...

akak pun sama mcm ami jgk dulu, nak hibernate, tu yg dpt idea nickname hiber hehe....

But life goes on, nak tak nak kita kena communicate dgn org sekeliling, perlukan kawan

Alhamdulillah, akak ok pun sbb kawan2, sahabat yg x putus2 beri semangat, teguran supaya akak tabah hadapi semua ni

So dont waste your time, contact dongsaeng, kawan mcm biasa

hibernation

Amigurumi replied at 7-9-2018 12:22 PM
Thanks TT..really appreciate this. Mengalir air mata Ami baca ni. Nanti Ami text tanya khabar. Seb ...

Bagus ami, improve urself, isi masa terluang dgn sesuatu yg berfaedah

appleringo

Amigurumi replied at 7-9-2018 12:22 PM
Thanks TT..really appreciate this. Mengalir air mata Ami baca ni. Nanti Ami text tanya khabar. Seb ...

just buat apa yg u rasa happy... tu je.. plus berfaedah la utk diri sndiri.. ikutkan semua org argue bila i study intensively Korean n Japanese language.. my major is biochemistry and medicine.. dah kenapa kan.. tp since i sekolah i passionate nk study foreign languages.. it makes me happy.. dulu2 masa tgk tv drama Cina, Hindi, Jepun ke, i suka tulis vocab yg i dpt catch up (spelling ke laut tu i lantak kan je)..haha..but at the same time my main work i x abaikan.. i write more research articles n books.. that's how i reserved myself. but again masa zmn i depressed berbulan i memerap kt rmh..haha.. yg tu please jgn practice. not good for your health mentally n physically..

but again bila u dah puas reserves and reflects on yourself, slowly, try to approach fmly ke.. up to u..mana yg u prefer.. i approach parents rather than friends..yela at my age, friends mostly dh kawin n ada anak..they have their own commitment.. i lebih open up to my mom n dad.. but again no pressure.. u will meet more n more positive people in life.. good n bad times come n go..

but anyway, Dongsaeng tu tgk gayanya suke berkwn dgn u Ami.. sbb dia still nak jmpa u after 1st meet up then keeping in touch. he can be a good friend eventhough jarak memisahkan (cewah)..haha...

appleringo

hibernation replied at 7-9-2018 12:45 PM
Bagus ami, improve urself, isi masa terluang dgn sesuatu yg berfaedah

i agree with u.. the best thing is isi je masa tu... bila masa terisi, u susah nk fkr bnda mengarut..

appleringo

Ok since i dah ter'introduce' P kan.. so i better cerita la sikit psl P kan.. still in topic la kan since P is a Korean too.. haha... i start study dgn P bila dtg bilik dia...dia text n inform pkl 2pm i boleh dtg study dgn dia..

so i pun dtg.. the reason why i beria nk stdy dgn P sbb i tau he is the best teacher if i nk study Korean language precisely.. grammar semua kan.. sbb sblm ni i berkwn dgn native Korean speaker tp bkn teacher..mcm Oppa bila i tanya part grammar ada je yg dia x berapa tahu.. yela bkn major dia pun kan.. if u nk belajar as if for speaking then it's ok.. but i want to study more..

so i dtg bilik P..simple je bilik dia mcm P jugak..sbb P jenis prof yg sempoi gila..dtg lecture pun pakai Tshirt n pants, sneakers je.. bilik dia ada poster bsr psl Hanshik (korean food from Jeonju) n ada poster actress pakai hanbok.. smbil i tgk keliling, P introduce actress tu 'wife' dia .. sbr je la.. time i masuk bilik dia i berpeluh sbb naik tangga nk ke office dia.. dia offer chargeable fan dia.. nmpk cm gentleman la sikit..haha.. i start belajar buku dr Seoul National Uni buku 1B.. memang beza sgt bila i belajar dgn P sbb cara dia mengajar tu.. dlm post sblm2 ni i pernah cite i stdy kt language center kt PJ kan..OMG! i nak suggest x yah la buang duit g situ..sbb center tu guna buku lama gile..x interesting.. buku dr Sogang Univ. i rasa center tu patut invest tkr buku rujukan utk student yg byr the fee.. yelah byr bkn murah pun kan..

mmg study intensively.. ada one part dlm buku tu yg ajar ckp 'jaraehyo.. mcm 'are u good in speaking Korean' - hanguk mal jaraehyo? so byk la part yg P tanya i kena jwb.. smpai part are u good in cooking, swimming semua.. i memang suka swimming..almost everyday i turun swimming kt pool kt condo.. rupanya P pun suka swimming jugak..dia lg la.. jenis swim 1-2 hr lps dia dinner selalunya.. slowly mcm ktorg start share mcm2 cite smbil stdy ni..haha..

P ni background beza dgn Oppa.. Oppa hometown Daejeon, P dr Jeonju..Jeonju ni kwsn kampung.. P dr fmly susah...peladang.. ayah mak dia keje ladang buah..adik beradik 4 org, P no 3.. abang, kakak n adik laki..dia smpai cite selalu x cukup mkn smpai dia pernah argue mak ayah dia..napa lahirkan dia tp mkn x cukup cuma dorg ni even susah tp semua anak2 hbs sekolah.. P ckp zmn kecik2 dia blk sekolah kena tlg ayah dia keje ladang. pastu kalau x cukup mkn, dia n kwn2 masuk hutan, carik la ular ke ayam hutan ke utk mkn.. struggle sgt kan   sbb kemiskinan tu ayah dia jenis ada bad drinking habit, n dia paling selalu kena pukul (sbb dia plg byk melawan)..haha...

tp yg bgsnya dia tak terbwk perangai negatif tu la.. nnt i cite sbb dia jenis x short-tempered.. anger management dia sgt bgs bila time dia stress n nak mrh..

so lps study 2 jam korean, ktorg stdy 2 jam english.. situ la bermula my struggle pulak.. hauk yg amat la English accent dia.. tp dia sejenis gigih stdy.. kagum sbb dia still nak improve English dia.. masa study Korean n English, ktorg betul2 ambik peranan as cikgu n student.. means ada time, i lambat pick up ke, P selalu ckp 'babo ya~~~ (dummy) haha...tp mcm cikgu2 kita ckp..so xde la rasa kecik hati ke apa.. tp i dh ckp kat dia if i ajar dia English, dia lmbt pick up, i boleh rotan tgn dia.. dia agree.. so masa study English birat jugak tgn dia i sebat dgn ruler or pen .. haha...dr situ i tau dia ni Prof., tp humble n easy going.. bila kdg2 dia sedar dia buat mistake terus hulur tgn..

tp  maybe sbb i sebat tgn dia, ada few times i lupa apa dia ajar, tetiba i rasa kepala kena ketuk.. haha... laju je tgn dia..so kt sini eventhough we both ni lecturer, tp time stdy ni masing2 fhm je n xde la rasa ego tercbr je apa.. nak2 P la.. prof pastu age gap dgn i jauh kan.. to be honest kalau dgn Prof. kt dept. i, yg senior2 tu semua jaga prestige.. tp i x judge badly pun.. baik2 je dorg. cuma P ni one of a kind la kot.

I thought dia ni jenis cmni mesti ramai close friends ke kan.. kat KL ni dia mesti ada close Korean buddy at least sorg... tp dia ckp dia x suka kwn dgn Korean kt KL.. haha..

so lps hbs stdy dh nk dekat pkl 7 masa tu, P ckp jom la dinner sekali.. i pun ok je la..dh stdy lama mmg lpr gila.. 1st time ni P bwk g mkn kat Korean restaurant sbb dia nk mkn galbi tang.. P ni ada beli kete.. Myvi je..cuma ada time2 dia x drive..sbb dia suka jln kaki dr condo ke univ.. actually jarak condo P ke univ tu xde la dekat sgt.. sejam jugak if jln kaki.. so time tu dia x bwk kete, i ckp xpela i drive kan je..

so g mkn smbil borak2... restaurant dia recommend tu 1st time i pegi..mmg rasa authentic Korean food dr Korea.. dr sini P n Oppa punya table manner sama.. dorg yg set the table.. letak kan chopstick, sudu n garpu utk i..tuangkan air semua..i thought yg muda kena prepare utk yg lebih tua..  oh bila start mkn sama2, i tau P jenis x suka mknn manis n masin.. pedas pun dia x berkenan sgt.. n jenis x mkn daging sgt.. tp pinggan dia akan penuh sayur smpai 4-5 jenis sayur..time tu kira terkwl lg perangai.. haha...lps2 tu start la episode ktorg saling membahan.. ok next dinner dia suruh iols suggest Malaysian food. i tunjuk gmbr satay. dia ckp dia nk try.. so next i cite apa reaction n honest comment dia psl Satay...

oh ada incident.. sbb i park my car kt dlm shopping complex.. so blk tu tetiba i boleh lupa mana i park.. which is tu 1st time i lupa spjg2 hidup ni.. haha.. time tu la start perangai P membahan i.. benci gila.. dia ckp i sama umur dgn dia bile lupa kereta i.. oh masa ni actually i x tau umur P berapa.. P je tau umur i..sbb part mula2 dlm buku stdy tu is psl number n age.. so indirectly tereveal la my real age.. i jenis x ksh sgt org tanya umur.. haha.. tp time tu i segan la nk tanya P kan berapa umur dia.. even undergrad students dia pun x tau umur P.. nnt i cite mcm mana i dpt tau umur dia tanpa tanya direct kt dia.. so lps i hntr dia kt condo..i  blk rmh...then i text thanks for today.. P pun ckp it's ok.. i enjoy my time with u.. i pun enjoy spend time dgn P masa tu..

appleringo

Amigurumi replied at 7-9-2018 01:52 PM
Thank you sistur @hibernation @appleringo sebab dah lift up Ami punya mood and semangat hari ni, tuh ...

it's ok Ami.. after all things that I have been through.. I keep telling myself jgn cpt judge org.. even org yg i kenal pun i act mcm ni.. kita x kan pernah tau n rasa apa tuan punya bdn dh lalui.. i x mmpu nk tlg apa2.. cuma antara kita memahami mngkin sbb all the struggle tu kan.. such a priceless experience we had..

dezy

best dgr citer korang @appleringo & @Amigurumi
pls update slalu..

p/s - @appleringo i pon divorcee..klu u bosan2 nak share citer meh la pm kita..

hibernation

Amigurumi replied at 10-9-2018 01:44 PM
Ami contact Dongsaeng on Saturday, Ami kata ada heavy topic nak tanya. Time ni Ami gamble jela, ka ...

Wahh tahniah dik, dongsaeng dah bg jawapan tu, akak tumpang happy, boleh la ami continue yr life dgn tenang n happy...

Bagus2, nanti dah start kelas xde la rasa sunyi sgt kan

hibernation

Amigurumi replied at 11-9-2018 12:10 AM
Betul..betul. Belum 30 lagi dah rasa sunyi smpi nak depress, jauh lagi perjalanan hidup, banyak la ...

Alhamdulillah, ujian dan dugaan tu menandakan Allah sayang kita semua...

So jgn depress2 yea comei