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Author: dcempaka

stres dengan hidup, ekonomi/anak/sakit

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Post time 2-4-2018 09:01 PM | Show all posts
noraidil_06 replied at 2-4-2018 07:00 PM
This year, as at now, nmpk ok siti.Alhamdulilah.
Klien closing million deal, tempias la skit kt s ...

mcm mana tu sis nak menyimpan kat oversea?
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Post time 2-4-2018 09:24 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by noraidil_06 at 2-4-2018 09:25 PM
ohnoLia replied at 2-4-2018 09:01 PM
mcm mana tu sis nak menyimpan kat oversea?


Nanti sy settle duit sy, sy citer.now sy tatau details lg.spore je u
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Post time 2-4-2018 10:44 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
mommymonster82 replied at 2-4-2018 08:17 PM
My fren kt pendaftaran budk f1 sekolh gomen thun ni budak2nya agak berkualiti.. (mean bebudak kaya ...

tu la kwn2 i ni 2org da tuka dr private ke sekolah gomen..yg sorg lg bisnes IT da suruh wife nyer keje..mintak tlg i updatekn resume..i jd takut benar sb after 10yrs kwn2 i ni berbisnes..br thn lps n thn ni smpi tahap mcm tu..
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 Author| Post time 3-4-2018 07:24 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
noor2 replied at 2-4-2018 12:28 PM
Okay tt...moga hidup tt dilimpahi rezeki. ...satu masa kita jatuh....satu masa insya Allah kita ak ...

Tq puan noor.
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 Author| Post time 3-4-2018 07:25 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
haryatie replied at 2-4-2018 02:17 PM
bersimpati dgn awk..
x reti nak cadangkan apa..
semoga Allah permudahkan segala urusan dn kurniaka ...

bab tahajjud ni belum start lagi. InsyaAllah akan diusahakan. tq
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 Author| Post time 3-4-2018 07:25 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
RED 666 replied at 2-4-2018 02:21 PM
Sebab tu zaman skrg org berebut nk masuk gomen, jadi kuli pum xpe janji gomen

Betul tu. Sebab stabil, naik, ada bonus, bla bla. hehe
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 Author| Post time 3-4-2018 07:28 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
sitisitu25 replied at 2-4-2018 02:22 PM
kalau surat dr doc kata ada kanser xlaku ke?

i penah call n tanya. Dia kata boleh nak cuba tapi tak berani janji. sbb socso cover utk yg betul2 kritikal jah. i kalau tgk dr luar mcm sihat, tapi dalaman tu. huhu. sakit tu dtg jua pd sstgh situasi. masa sakit tu pain killer ja jd peneman
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 Author| Post time 3-4-2018 07:34 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
noraidil_06 replied at 2-4-2018 02:52 PM
Sy baca 1st page n skip.
Sis sy org bisnes.
Skrg mmg teruk sgt sis.

tq noradil for offer. rily apreciate it. Buat msa ni i jual beauty product/ kuih jual online n ofline kt jiran2 semua lah.tp i tkde crowd sgt so sales ada n tkde.

so i rasa mcm jual tp tkde org beli. haha. so kena agresifkan lg promosi. yg psl grab car vip tu. oh tqsm for ur kindness. love sangat. tapi tu lah mcm i ckp bfore, i skrg buat keja dr umah, so mcm tk sesuai utk kuar2

anyway tq ya. itu lah hidup mcm roda. InsyaAllah i bangkit balik. amin
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 Author| Post time 3-4-2018 07:35 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
sitisitu25 replied at 2-4-2018 05:02 PM
sedih nye baca..kwn i yg buka kilang perabut pon ckp last year biz teruk..smpi tahap gadai spender ...

Itulah. masalah setiap org tk sama. kwn u sbb dia bisnes besar, so bantuan yg dtg pun besar. i cuma nk income if blh 2k sebulan pun dh ok sgt. blh buat byr bil2 skt. huhu
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 Author| Post time 3-4-2018 07:38 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
kuihbakar replied at 2-4-2018 07:42 PM
TT, semoga Allah melimpahkan rezeki dan rahmat buat u sekeluarga. Bila i baca masalah u, i jadi sesa ...

Tq dear.
ya. beringat tu penting.
I msh ada saving tp lama2 ia berkurang sama dgn rambut i yg makin nipis ni. Uban pun dh penuh ni. hihi. takpalah. usaha selagi ada. syukur tau
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Post time 3-4-2018 08:22 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
dcempaka replied at 3-4-2018 07:34 AM
tq noradil for offer. rily apreciate it. Buat msa ni i jual beauty product/ kuih jual online n ofl ...

I wish u well dear.if u need assistance kindly pm me ye.
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Post time 3-4-2018 08:24 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
dcempaka replied at 3-4-2018 07:34 AM
tq noradil for offer. rily apreciate it. Buat msa ni i jual beauty product/ kuih jual online n ofl ...

Ape produk yg u jual? Kalau x laku product tu, tukar lain x leh ke? I ade online shop too.tp i ade staf handle la.sale x sebagus mn utk awl tahun ni.tp ade la sale
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Post time 3-4-2018 10:02 AM | Show all posts
Dear TT

Sekarang ni I macam blur nak start my work maybe sbb badan letih and ngantuk, so takpe i pikir hal TT ni dulu....

TT , 40 tu kalau kita pikir mmg akan rasa panik tau sbb mana nak cari duit and anak anak yg masih sekolah...

Macam anak i tahun depan baru darjah satu and i akan 42 tahun...oh damn! so i panik jugak ni

I single mother..

Last few years i pakai big car...tp bila i pikir oh xboleh ni sbb i nak save more duit so i jual my car tu and i beli new car yang comel je...yg i tak perlu bayar beribu. So i boleh simpan duit tu
So what im saying is....bukan i nak share my stories but how you twist your mind with your situation.

Mind kita adalah key for everything and hati kita adalah our guts or orang melayu kata "ghesa" ala ala instinct gitu


Check list yang you kena buat

1. Tengok cermin and senyum and say Bismillah i can do this
2. Hugs semua anak anak you and say I LOVE you
3. Hug your husband and say Its ok abang we can do this and have faith
4. Try la solat bersama dgn husband tu and solat duha ( which i advise you tp i pun masih pemalas ) but...u kena buat and cukupkan the basic and be sincere..nnt Allah akan rajinkan you


Dah buat benda basic ni Next......

1. Spread info to all friends bagitau jika ada kerja kosong please let me know
2. Nak raya ni kan...so take opportunity jual apa yg relevan...tudung ni banyak sangat dah...go for food. Buat fb live ..simple thing ..rendang in packs ke paste kuah kuah ke

3. Hubby suh dia fokus grab and at the same time his business

Along the way....insyaallah Allah akan bukakan jalan. Yang penting kena stay calm and yakin rezeki anak tu mesti ada


Let me share some of my stories yg i pun dah xberapa ingat


I got pregnant at age 35 and masa tu x kerja dah ...xde duit langsung ..since duit habis bukak kedai makan and dah close down sbb cannot afford the rent.

Sangat down and depressed tahap gaban to extend i cant talk properly.  Hari hari tgk movie korea and layankan feeling tu ..n everyday i will cry on the way back home lepas tutup kedai...masa ni i dah 8 bulan pun...sbb i seorang so i have to la...bayangkan stereng tu kena kat perut..ngam ngam je...

Nak bersalin, sbb dah booking private hosp...as you know it is expensive and i agak agak around 10k ..i budget normal. Tapi end up tak...u know? i have no money at all...and i have no idea how nak bayar bill...and  i pulak sgt berat mulut to ask...i am so helpless and i just tawakal

I calculate apa yg i buat, which masa tu i jual baju tee polo yg masa tu baru je keluar...i dpt untung 3k. i jual online je tau...busuk busuk guna Fb je...mmgla rezeki sbb kakak ni ambil borong dgn i..( ni i dapat masa i 6months ...then ok i need 7k more. I belek belek closet i ...ada handbags ada barang kemas sikit and i jual semua dapatla collect 4k gitu so dah 7k dah ni collect. Mana nak cekap lagi 3k ni ..ni my estimate costla....so what i did...i buat freelance translation pastu i jual la apa yang boleh kat online. Agak meriah online i ni sbb i rajin update and hari hari i update and still dapat 1k je  huwaaaaa

So what i did, i just tawakal je.....and surprisingly i kena bayar 14k and i xingat how i managed to get all...but i owe my family alot..i hanya guna duit i 4k je and baki adik adik  i bayar...alhamdulillah and i nak bayar balik depa xmoh..depa kata hadiah to me as being such a good kakak.

See what im saying is....kita xkan tau rezeki kita mcm mana...apa yg kita boleh dan kena buat...try your best and jangan give up. And when its time Allah akan bantu you.


My perangai...i xkan give up walau i restless mcm mana or keep saying stupid things..xpe ckp je apa you  nak luahkan but when its time stay strong and have faith.  And u jahat cemana pun u kena bare in your mind one thing anak tu adalah rezeki you and penyakit tu juga adalah rezeki you....dia nak you lebih dekat padanya dan u tak payah risau what is next just do your best and stay calm.


Best of luck !

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Post time 3-4-2018 01:14 PM | Show all posts
Edited by Hana at 3-4-2018 01:21 PM

kesiannya saya baca.
kalau jual product yang kena bersaing dgn zalora, poplook, ariani dan nama2 besar yang lain, good luck lah ye. org mcm saya, suka barang2 kat store lagi dari beli online. aku tak minat beli online.tapi, takpe. ada orang lain suka beli online sbb 1) takde masa 2) ramai anak kecik.

kalau tanya kat aku 2 services mmg demand tinggi 1) cleaning rumah  2) makanan
paling laku food delivery. kalau order lambat, alamat bye2 le jawabnya.
ada orang buat menu diet, ada orang buat menu pantang. ada orang buat lunch/dinner yang simple2.
kalau u duk kawasan kampung yang majoritinya masak sendiri, mmg le tak berapa laku sket.
kalau duk area perumahan, orang2 bekerja food delivery lunch or dinner mmg laku. kalau sedap, memanjang sold out. nasi ayam pun sold out.
ada sorang ni, dia masak2 sedap. aku selalu tanya, bila nak open order nasi ambeng lagi?
dia cakap, nanti la bila dia ada masa. tapi, food delivery ni, kalau nak maintain customer2
1) kena mmg sedap 2) Generous.
Generous tu, kiranya beli 2 set pun boleh kenyang 2 dewasa & 2 kanak2.  ada sorang nie. satu set dia jual rm7.50.
Menu semlm = nasi + daging kurma + sambal berlado + kobis goreng. (ingat menu semlm)
aku beli 2 set aje. dia packing nasi penuh 1 bekas. lauk2 dlm plastik lain. mmg dapat banyakla. aku mmg suka la order dari makwan ni.

ada sorang penjual. masakan dia ok tapi, jenis berquantityla. mcm normal tu. nasi & lauk dlm 1 bekas. so, lauk tu dapat sket la. 1 set rm7
kalau ikan salmon (sebelah aje) dia jual rm12
aku order sekali aje sbb lauk dia sket sgt. aku kena masak 1 lauk lain & nasi. sebab aku order 2 set. aku tak kan order lebih dari 2 set utk jimat baik aku order dari makwan sbb dia generous dlm quantity.

sekian,
dari aku yang selalu order food online.
selaku pembeli aku selalu tgk 1) caj delivery (misti pilih none caj delivery unless ko nama besar mcm Garsa Kitchen la)  2) Sgt Sedap (kalau rasa tahap aku masak baik takyah la beli online, baik aku beli fast food aje)  3) Generous

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Post time 3-4-2018 02:34 PM | Show all posts
noraidil_06 replied at 2-4-2018 02:52 PM
Sy baca 1st page n skip.
Sis sy org bisnes.
Skrg mmg teruk sgt sis.

murah hati awak, semoga allah balas semua kebaikan awak
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Post time 3-4-2018 02:50 PM | Show all posts
simpatinya dgn TT...tambah2 zaman ekonomi skrg ni kan...

taktau nak nasihat cmner sbb rasanya byk dah yg forumer2 kt atas ni sebut. physically TT boleh cuba cut down all unnecessaries cth: unsubscribe astro, manage expenses (kurangkan mkn kt luar, beli mknn luar, buat bajet mknn mingguan), dll. yg dirasakan perlu..

mentally, sy nak cadang kt TT utk cuba amalkan surah al-waqiah dan al-mulk tiap2 hari. cuba solat sunat dhuha, tahajjud juga tiap2 hari. sedekah, zikir, apa2 saja amalan yg dpt murahkan rezeki kita.  

insyaallah lambat laun TT akan nampak jalannya...

all the best to you TT
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Post time 3-4-2018 03:32 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
intanazlynna replied at 3-4-2018 02:34 PM
murah hati awak, semoga allah balas semua kebaikan awak

Alahai tq for the kind word.
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 Author| Post time 3-4-2018 10:27 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
noraidil_06 replied at 3-4-2018 08:24 AM
Ape produk yg u jual? Kalau x laku product tu, tukar lain x leh ke? I ade online shop too.tp i ade ...

produk yg i jual kt kwsn perumahan ni makanan. Okla. ada sales hari2 cuma tkdalah byk. lepas la beli brg dapur dgn bajet ketat.

yg online tu i jd dropship slpas tudung tk laku tu. so yg tu promote n hq pos. tp smua ni mana cukup kan. but i try yg terdaya
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 Author| Post time 4-4-2018 06:12 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 3-4-2018 10:02 AM
Dear TT

Sekarang ni I macam blur nak start my work maybe sbb badan letih and ngantuk, so takpe i  ...

adila.
i nangis baca komen u. tq so much.  utk nasihat yg sgt berbekas dihati. u sgh kuat.

i pun kena kuat juga. kena fikir strategi n fikir ke hadapan. InsyaAllah i buat ya. tq again
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Post time 4-4-2018 01:13 PM | Show all posts
dcempaka replied at 3-4-2018 07:35 AM
Itulah. masalah setiap org tk sama. kwn u sbb dia bisnes besar, so bantuan yg dtg pun besar. i cum ...

2k sbln kalau hidup kat kl/selangor ptt achievable..tp kne kutip sana sikit..sini sikit la..kumpul2 dpt 2k..kne try cr bantuan mana2 yg leh dpt mcm JKM ke..nk niaga try mintak amanah ikhtiar, TEKUN, mara etc..xpun pg jual nasi lemak..pastu ptg jual goreng pisang..hehe..malam ajar tusyen utk bdk sekolah rendah..or kalau konpiden..menengah pun boleh..
i dulu hntr anak dkt sorg pengasuh ni..dia duk apartment je 3 bilik je..tp dia mengasuh 10 bdk..yg kecik2 dia amik 3 org..sorg 300..yg besar2 ada 7 org..range 200-250 sorg..suami dia keje gomen..so time lunch suami dia kuar pegi anta amik bdk2 yg mana da sekolah or tadika..derang ada van sebijik..beli khas utk buat bnda ni..yg tu suami dia caj rm50 lak per head sbln..malam kul 8 derang buat tusyen..utk sekolah rendah..i x anta anak i situ..so i xtau bpe plk rate nye..tp gila2 jugak la suami isteri cr duit..i rs derang lg kaya dr i..haha..

actually bdk2 sek rendah x susah tau subject nye..i anta dulu anak2 i tusyen dpt 80-90 score..tp sb nk jimat..i ajar sdiri..dpt sama 80-90 jugak..dulu2 dimomok2 kan kata subject sek rendah susah..i jd takut i anta tusyen sb takut x sempat..sekali bila tgk blk..alah senang je..xde la rocket science pun jd nye..tp ada parents yg memang x sempat or xmampu tau nk ajar..so derang akan anta tusyen gak anak2..kat sini la ada chance utk u buat bisnes..i hari tu stress keje penah terlintas bnda ni..smpi rs nk benti keje n buka after school centre..




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