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Post time 4-4-2018 10:11 AM
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tiramisuu replied at 4-4-2018 01:24 AM
Respect him.Tell the truth.
Stop running away and keep giving him green light. Ko dgn dia ada di ...
Already did cuma mungkin I cakap berlapik jadi dia tafsir lain pula .
You’re right, I should stop running away and evade the questions. Entahlah it’s just that, I didn’t expect that it would be this serious( not that at the first, I was playing around with him ke apa) actually we’re both pun tak sangka memang akan serious macam ni sebab kawan- kawan ja.
Dan I jujurnya, sebab I dah ada perancangan apa yang I nak buat after habis belajar dan my next 5-year-goal. And whether I want to get married or not. But then it all changed when you least expected it :]
Anyway, macam I cakap. I rasa I akan bawa dia jumpa family I in shaa Allah raya nanti. I think it would be best la.
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xyah bgthu awal sgt kat family. lagi seminggu gitu boleh bgthu. just kata ada kawan nk dtg beraya. so uols dah boleh la fikir nk masak ape. gitu la. just to let them meet n know each other briefly.
iols rasa your mom sendiri x bersedia. u boleh terangkan kt dia yg uols serious. cuma belum ada plan nk kawen gitu. just nk make sure your mom kenal dgn siapa uols berkawan. |
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He seems to be like a mature man, and he's right to ask you to focus on your studies first, so you do that, get a good career path set up for yourself before you commit to any relationship.
Dia most probably memang kena pressure mak dia kot supaya kahwin cepat, dah umur masuk 30an kan, but to me i think guys still have their market way up to mid 40s, so his mother should'nt be worried, maybe nak cucu la tuh haha.
If i was your dad, i would want to know who is dating my daughter, whether i like or dislike him is irrelevant, this is so i know who to f*ck up when something happens to my daughter.
Either that or the more sinister intention is to get your full trust before asking for whatever is in your pants as proof of it.
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Post time 4-4-2018 06:52 PM
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amal12bh replied at 4-4-2018 02:41 PM
xyah bgthu awal sgt kat family. lagi seminggu gitu boleh bgthu. just kata ada kawan nk dtg beraya. s ...
Oraite, 1 week before.
Yup, memang pun my mom tak bersedia.
Kadang2 I saja gurau my bf nak datang pun, terus pucat muka my mom.
Memang pun dah banyak kali I cakap pasal my mom, kami takda pun bincang pasal kahwin dalam masa terdekat ni, not until I dah habis belajar dan kerja.
Tapi itulah, my sisters semua cakap mungkin sebab I ni anak bongsu jadi mungkin beliau susah nak lepaskan. |
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Post time 4-4-2018 07:48 PM
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yprat replied at 4-4-2018 04:39 PM
He seems to be like a mature man, and he's right to ask you to focus on your studies first, so you ...
Indeed he is, that is one of the qualities that I like about him.
Dia seorang lelaki yang matang dan jenis fikir panjang dan ya, dia memang sangat mementingkan pelajaran I. He even got angry kalau I dilly dally kejap.
Yes, most likely his mom sebab dia pernah cerita yang mak dia bising suruh kahwin semua( at that time he didn’t tell his mom about us yet). Mak dia risau kalau dia jadi macam his late uncle, unmarried and ended up died alone.
So yeah.
My dad is totally cool about it about meeting him cuma itulah, my mom sahaja yang tak bersedia. Adalah few reasons( I think so)
Btw, I don’t really get your last statement. Were you talking about my bf or what? I macam confuse sikit :? |
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Why not ikat dulu. Tunang? Apa salah jumpa parents u...tak salah pun. Just cakap dengan parents u die nak berkenalan. Die kan kawan dengan u. |
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u... please jangan kawin lagi..jangan terburu2.. better u habiskan study dulu and kerja kejar cita2 u... kalau dia serius dan syg u, dia akan tunggu u..melainkan tuhan tidak mengizinkan jodoh u dengan dia. Perkahwinan ni bukan main2 u, cuba u bincang elok2 dari hati ke hati.. Umur dia 30an kan? i yakin dia faham boleh berfikir untuk u. |
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knnk replied at 3-4-2018 08:18 AM
I rasa tak ready mungkin sebab
faktor umur, I awal 20-an dan masih lagi belajar. Jadi itulah. Hrm ...
Oooooooooooooooooooo |
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nuhanis replied at 3-4-2018 07:27 PM
Umur bf uols berapa dik?
Mohon kenalkan ke akak, akan dah selayaknya kawen..
Adik moh gi h ...
Hahahhaahah oprtunis sgt |
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Edited by noraidil_06 at 4-4-2018 08:43 PM
knnk replied at 4-4-2018 09:48 AM
Bf I dah umur 30-an dah.
Alhamdulillah memang dah stable, dia pun dah ada rumah. I takdalah my pa ...
Iols kan rase, uols putus je. Unfair sgt u bercinta tp berdolak-dalik part kawin.regardless u tgh belajar n whatnot.
Suruh dia cr org lain yg bersedia. Uols belajar la.x yah bf bf sgt la.
N whats so heavy about dtg rumah? Bkn nak tidur baring makn pelbagai kan? Dtg mcm org lain dtg beraya.duk setengah jam balik. Ke chuols rase bile jumpe kena formal? |
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Post time 4-4-2018 09:09 PM
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misswa replied at 4-4-2018 08:05 PM
Why not ikat dulu. Tunang? Apa salah jumpa parents u...tak salah pun. Just cakap dengan parents u di ...
Errr, nope. Haritu dia ada tanya I nak tunang tak? Sebab adik dia bertunang haritu.
I cakap jujurnya I tak berani bertunang sebab yelah orang kata dugaan tunang ni kan berat. Lagipun I rasa macam membazir bagi I lah walaupun both of my sisters bertunang .
I tanya dia, you nak bertunang ke. Dia kata taknak tapi kalau I nak, dia okay ja cuma dia kata after I habis belajar la.
I cakap ja you dengan my parents cuma tu lah, my mom ja yang tak nak jumpa. Jujurnya I sedih la juga, sebab I rasa tak ramai kut lelaki yang bersedia nak jumpa parents perempuan terutama bukan masa yang terdekat nak kahwin. |
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Post time 4-4-2018 09:13 PM
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whitePoison replied at 4-4-2018 08:10 PM
u... please jangan kawin lagi..jangan terburu2.. better u habiskan study dulu and kerja kejar cita2 ...
Eh, no worries. I memang tak nak kahwin lagi. Nope, in fact I plan nak kahwin umur 30 nanti. Cuma bila I tetiba berkawan dgn orang yang tua ni, tak sangka lak macam ni.
Eh don’t worry. Dia nak jumpa ja, he just wants to meet up with them. Kawan I cakap mungkin dia nak minta elok2 kut sebab keluar dengan anak dara orang kan semua tu.
Don’t worry, we’re both are not rushing to get married 
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Post time 4-4-2018 09:20 PM
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noraidil_06 replied at 4-4-2018 08:39 PM
Iols kan rase, uols putus je. Unfair sgt u bercinta tp berdolak-dalik part kawin.regardless u tg ...
Ala akak ni. Sedih pula I dengar akak cakap macam tu :/
I sayang dia, dan I tak rasa ada orang lain yang boleh keep up with myself( I ada masalah 3 serangkai and mood swings) dan bila ada orang accept me just the way I am dan dia cakap, I terima dia. Dia rasa indescribable the feelings. Maybe because we’re both a bit messed up kut. So I rasa bila you finally found someone yang got your back tu, I don’t think am willing to let him go.
Hrmmm tak taulah, mungkin my mom anxious kut considering am the last one. Jadi my sisters and kawan I cakap, she finds it hard to accept? it .Apapun, I akan ikut saranan forummer lain. I memang in shaa Allah bawa dia jumpa my parents raya ni. Mudah2 semua dipermudahkan. |
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bg tau je. be honest. best policy to follow.
but like i said b4, u r not into him. x sure if he is really into u. just a feeling i have.
u sayang dia? for him? or u sayang dia sbb dia ada. juz becoz he's there. becoz dia can keep up with u as u said. is that love?
u said nk tunggu umo 30. now nk tukar plan. for him? or for u? menyesal x nanti? does he know ur earlier plan? like i said b4, u need to b honest. x adil for him, to be kept waiting & in the dark. u agree nk bawak jumpe ur famili. y? y nk jumpe?
u know what munchkin? i think u dont know what u want. so u better sort urself out first.
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knnk replied at 4-4-2018 09:20 PM
Ala akak ni. Sedih pula I dengar akak cakap macam tu :/
I sayang dia, dan I tak rasa ada orang la ...
Kaka doakan urusan uols dipermudahkan. Muahs |
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knnk replied at 4-4-2018 09:48 AM
Bf I dah umur 30-an dah.
Alhamdulillah memang dah stable, dia pun dah ada rumah. I takdalah my pa ...
That y laa tt worried... Semoga dipermudahkan |
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Post time 4-4-2018 10:13 PM
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Edited by knnk at 4-4-2018 10:16 PM
missus_meow replied at 4-4-2018 09:38 PM
bg tau je. be honest. best policy to follow.
but like i said b4, u r not into him. x sure if he ...
Am sorry but I don’t think you should say something like that regardless of what you’re feeling or your intuition.
I am into him, I am mad about him. Maybe I don’t seem like one because I chose not to do it here because I don’t wanna come across as someone yang clingy and mengada and also, I rasa it’s something private between my bf and I.
Whether he is into me or not, I don’t really know (because after all you shouldn’t really 100% trust kan apa yang orang cakap. You should have a little doubt but not so much it can jeopardize a relationship) but based on what his best friends said( terlepas cakap) and komen on social medias. I guess he is And plus some other things that he had done for me, when I didn’t even asked him to do it. It was one of my dreams and goals. And he did it for me.
Yes, he may not always express his love and feelings than I do,because he’s introvert and a bit dense when it comes to emotional stuff but sometimes you just know, ya’ know? ( am sure you get what I mean, seeing we girls we know when someone love us and appreciate us)
Well, love can grows and I think how I feel about him is way deeper than I thought :]
Yes, initially thats the plan. Settle down at 30 or maybe not . Because I wasn’t looking for a relationship or anyone at that time. But now that, I’ve found someone. And he truly cherish and treasure me, and I him. So why not? :]
I don’t really think I don’t know what I want, maybe am just a bit lost at the moment hence this thread
Apapun, tq for the posts. Really appreciate all of you guys punya posts and comments
Inb4, no am not angry/pissed off ke apa. I cuma rasa, kadang- kadang apa yang kita baca tu hanyalah lateral bukan literally/tersirat. |
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Post time 4-4-2018 10:18 PM
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noraidil_06 replied at 4-4-2018 09:52 PM
Kaka doakan urusan uols dipermudahkan. Muahs
Hihi, yay. Ameen mudah2.
P/s lama tak nampak kaka and kaka MyNameisIris di bod blogger etc.
Ramai juga otai2 yang dah tak muncul kat sana  |
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Post time 4-4-2018 10:20 PM
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wanzhm93 replied at 4-4-2018 10:07 PM
That y laa tt worried... Semoga dipermudahkan
Yup, the main concern is momma’s approval of him nak datang rumah :/
Thank you so much you! In shaa Allah ameen2 ya rabb |
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knnk replied at 4-4-2018 10:18 PM
Hihi, yay. Ameen mudah2.
P/s lama tak nampak kaka and kaka MyNameisIris di bod blogger etc.
Rama ...
Kaka dh bersara di sana.hehehheh.sis iris dh bersara dr forum. |
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