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 Author| Post time 8-4-2018 07:43 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by anyclassything at 8-4-2018 06:55 PM
Minami2013 replied at 8-4-2018 06:35 PM
Normal kot.. tp u kena lawan la.. tak boleh layan, takut menjadi punca kemurungan.. emmm, cara i ...


Hmm. I tak sampai tahap rasa nak bunuh diri or cederakan diri.

Tp I tak kisah pasal diri I ni pernah gak fikir fikir fikir apa nak buat sebenarnya. Ni bangun tdo bangun tdo takde tujuan hidup pon baik xyah hidup. Kadang2 bangun tu rasa mcm urghh kenapa nak kena hadap benda bangun ni everyday. Pastu nak kena keluar ke apa pikir why nak kena bersiap why nak kena keluar why boleh tak, xnak hadap benda2 mcm ni and do nothing. Kdg2 pikir penatnya nak go thru hidup nak kena pikir tu nak deal benda tu benda ni.

End up. Kosong and xde feeling. Lantak la apa nak jd.

At the same time, xnak stay mcm ni.

Betul, skrg I banyak baca benda2 spiritual + agama + motivasi utk tenangkan hati. Hope and faith keep us going kata org kan. Tp tu lah. Tak semudah tu.

Thanks nanti i cuba amalkan
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Post time 8-4-2018 07:43 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 8-4-2018 06:16 PM
Last time I keje. I give up sebab my manager yg psyho.
I rasa dia gila. I rasa dia ocd or what.  ...

Try la apply keje government. maybe tak stress
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Post time 8-4-2018 07:44 PM | Show all posts
ai pun kekadang rasa macam TT.
tapi ai suka duk sorang2 layan kucing2 ai dari jumpa ngan orang.. penat laa jumpa orang ni.
ai keluar juga beli barang2 window shopping makan sorang2 bagai. tapi macam tak berminat nak jumpa orang. kesian kawan2 ai yang ajak ai keluar tapi ai reject je sebab rasa malas. ai nak rehat kat rumah je sorang2. kat opis pun kawan2 ajak lunch pun ai taknak. ai mmg ada problem kat office now n rasa nak sangat berhenti tapi ai belum dapat kerja baru n taknak my mom sedih. ai rasa ai akan happier kalau tak payah kerja, ada duit sejuta or more dan cukup untuk kegunaan sampai mati. so i can spend the rest of my life ke arah kerohanian n ibadah. i dah masuk 40 pun. so macam dah tak suka bersosial dgn orang sebab bila jumpa orang asik la kena mendengar gossip, complaints,  cerita n umpat orang lain, dengar kecaman etc dan ini semua very draining for me.
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Post time 8-4-2018 07:45 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 8-4-2018 06:16 PM
Last time I keje. I give up sebab my manager yg psyho.
I rasa dia gila. I rasa dia ocd or what.  ...

phm keadaan tu..sebab skrg ni ade opismate i alami situasi mcm tu sampaikan dia nekad resign even xdpt keje..ade bos dia  bg keje kul 2 ptg,kul 5.00 ptg dh nk keje siap..mana sempat nk siap..seriusly i pon dulu trauma keje..sebab pnh dpt bos mcm tu..ade setahun tu, i tukar keje sampai 4x..sebab bos punya psai..now nsb dpt bos yg ok..
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Post time 8-4-2018 07:45 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Ak ni ha keje dh lama, tp bos x percaya potensi kita, org lain dpt task br.  So ak pun buat le keje spt biasa, janji dpt duit nk byr bil. Xpyh nk stress2, follow the flow je. Ada la tu rancangan dr atas.
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Post time 8-4-2018 07:49 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 8-4-2018 07:37 PM
Boyfriend tu satu masalah gak dlm hidup I.
I baru moved on dari a very narcissist ex-boyfriend.  ...

Kaka rasa dia punca major problem sis sekarang. ....dalam.hidup kita ni pasangan lah yang buat hidup kita tak menentu. ...bagi kesan segala aktiviti kehidupan kita termasuk kerja.  


Sia masih muda. ...cari pasangan yang berkualiti. ....insya Allah bila ada boyfriend yang baik dan berkualiti, ....semua aktiviti hidup sis kembali ceria. ....
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Post time 8-4-2018 07:49 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 8-4-2018 11:43 AM
Hmm. I tak sampai tahap rasa nak bunuh diri or cederakan diri.

Tp I tak kisah pasal diri I ni  ...

Exactly.. mmg tak mudah.. i faham situasi u sbb i pernah lalui.. kena try n error apa yg boleh fix u ... anyway i doakan moga dipermudahkan urusan u & dapat kebahagiaan yg dicari ye.. amiiinnnn
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Post time 8-4-2018 07:56 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 8-4-2018 07:31 PM
Kan.
Banyak gak baca pasal depression.


Boleh pergi mana2 klinik government terdekat dan minta refer. My friend pergi dkt sg buloh hospital sbb dkt dgn tempat dia. Kalau u dkt kl/selangor, boleh pergi Mentari Hospital Selayang. Bayar rm5 je. Tp call dulu sbb takut dr takde. Tanya hari apa blh buat appointment.

If u second guessing, cuba google Ujian Saringan Minda and amik online test. Tengok result sama ada u depression or not. Kalau Mentari tu mmg khas utk mental health provided by government.
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Post time 8-4-2018 08:00 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Kaka skip terus.chuols x de hutang ke noks.indahnye hidup, blh x kerja.
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Post time 8-4-2018 08:02 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
mesmerize replied at 8-4-2018 07:44 PM
ai pun kekadang rasa macam TT.
tapi ai suka duk sorang2 layan kucing2 ai dari jumpa ngan orang.. pe ...

I love meeting people.ni pun br balik jumpe kwn Instagram. Elderly lady.66 yo.seronok dengar dia citer psl pengalaman dia.i think people make me happy.cume satu iols x suke, i xsuke gi kenduri.x sukeeeee
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Post time 8-4-2018 08:04 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
mesmerize replied at 8-4-2018 07:44 PM
ai pun kekadang rasa macam TT.
tapi ai suka duk sorang2 layan kucing2 ai dari jumpa ngan orang.. pe ...

I pun mcm tu. In early 20s i was friendly, extrovert, happy go lucky, tapi lama2 i jd introvert, i fckg hate people, my bff call i tak nak angkat without no reason. I xnk bercakap dgn sape2 la. Semua benda kita minat kita tak suka buat dah.
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Post time 8-4-2018 08:06 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 8-4-2018 07:43 PM
Hmm. I tak sampai tahap rasa nak bunuh diri or cederakan diri.

Tp I tak kisah pasal diri I n ...

Btw haritu my friend yg pergi hospital sg buloh tu dia jumpa dr then cerita la why dia  insomniac. Everyday tido 3-4 jam je sehari. Tido pun tak lena. Dgn i dia tak cerita pun punca sebenar, hari2 duk ngadu takleh tido kat i. Lepas jumpa dr baru dia sedar punca sebenar dia takleh get over ex bf dia. Dia pulak mcm dah andartu sikit. Padahal tak andartu pun baru 30 tp sbb still single so dia panik la. Maybe dgn jumpa dr baru tau problem sebenar jd macam tu.
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 Author| Post time 8-4-2018 08:07 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
noraidil_06 replied at 8-4-2018 07:00 PM
Kaka skip terus.chuols x de hutang ke noks.indahnye hidup, blh x kerja.

Ada hutang tp commitment bulanan I mcm sekitar less than 1k monthly. Sebab I single and stay dgn family. Saving I ada time I quit tu. So basically I guna saving yg mana ada buat modal business online kecik2. And saving tu still ada. Cuma tu lah. Skrg I demotivated. Dulu semangat psl business semua.. tp lately.. I mcm fedup dgn diri sendiri. Dulu eager konon nak hit target la mcm2. Skrg not anymore. I dah jd x kisah pasal diri I duhh whyyy
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Post time 8-4-2018 08:09 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 8-4-2018 07:07 PM
Last october I pi Myanmar.
Last January I kat sabah sebulan.
Last week I baru je balik dari ca ...

Manager u yg kena jumpe doc
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 Author| Post time 8-4-2018 08:10 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
noor2 replied at 8-4-2018 06:49 PM
Kaka rasa dia punca major problem sis sekarang. ....dalam.hidup kita ni pasangan lah yang buat hid ...

Ye ke kaka

Tp I dah tak kisah lgsung pasal dia.
Mcm zero feeling.

Mula2 I sedih la kan. Lama2 I mmg dah x kisah ni. Sampai tahap I gtau kawan I “rindu plak feeling yg konon sedih cam org gila” sebab basically skrg I takde rasa apa dgn dia.

Dulu masa phase brokeup mula2 I sedih. Everyday pikir and stalk dia pastu celaru. Then tetibe I malas dah so I dah stop terus. Skrg dah zero.

Ada je beberapa jantan yg cuba nak dekat. Mcm biasa I zero feeling + mls nak layan semua org sampai skrg I biarkan whatsapp unread.
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Post time 8-4-2018 08:12 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 8-4-2018 08:07 PM
Ada hutang tp commitment bulanan I mcm sekitar less than 1k monthly. Sebab I single and stay dgn f ...

Kaka pun ade bisnes online.ni tgh x de mood.mls betul.dgn staf hurmmm x pelah.
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 Author| Post time 8-4-2018 08:14 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
noraidil_06 replied at 8-4-2018 07:02 PM
I love meeting people.ni pun br balik jumpe kwn Instagram. Elderly lady.66 yo.seronok dengar dia c ...

Meeting people camtu ok kak.

Ni cuba pi jogging org dtg mintak no phone. Dah la kita jogging nak release tension. Dtg plak mengacau duhhh

Mmg laju la I jogging hari tu

Btw dulu I mmg ok jumpa2 org.. sembang2 dengan everyone. My friends considered me as a good listener, mmg I tempat menadah telinga usually. And I mmg ada high tolerance dgn people sbenarnya.
Even kalau stress pon i ok je boleh deal jumpa have fun dgn kawan2.

Cuma lately ni I takleh fake it. I hilang interest. And I mmg taknak. Susah la jd camni
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Post time 8-4-2018 08:16 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 8-4-2018 08:10 PM
Ye ke kaka

Tp I dah tak kisah lgsung pasal dia.

Kaka rasalah. ...sebab tu sis bila jogging sorang2 rasa empty. ...rasa nak patah balik. ..tapi balik rumah pun rasa boring. ...kawan tak sama dengan pasangan. ..kecuali sis ada anak atau rapat dengan family (adik beradik yang boleh satu kepala. ..tu lainlah)....


Jangan hadap boyfriend lama yang buat sis sakit hati. ...cari pasangan baru. .yang rasa boleh mengembirakan sis dan satu minat satu kepala. ...
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 Author| Post time 8-4-2018 08:17 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
armin replied at 8-4-2018 07:04 PM
I pun mcm tu. In early 20s i was friendly, extrovert, happy go lucky, tapi lama2 i jd introvert, i ...

Omg so true. I mcm why don’t everyone get it aku malas nak layan org! Tp terpaksa fake it la jugak.

Bab phone tak angkat, whatsapp tak balas tu selalu dah I buat. Skrg ni pon I biar kan je. Takde hal penting I mls nak respond to everyone and everything
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 Author| Post time 8-4-2018 08:19 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
armin replied at 8-4-2018 07:06 PM
Btw haritu my friend yg pergi hospital sg buloh tu dia jumpa dr then cerita la why dia  insomniac. ...

Maybe I should g jumpa doctor.
Ex bf I rasa I xde problem. I dah moved on. Dia yg ada problem dgn I.

Cuma pasal zero feeling towards everything ni.. jadi numb. Jadi hilang arah. Tak tahu apa nak capai n buat dlm hidup. Tu yg killing me more than anything
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