Apa hikmah kita suka someone bertahun-tahun?

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Biasa bila i tertarik dgn someone its just last one week/2weeks paling lama pun sebulan sbb i jenis cepat bosan..idk its just myself..
And after that i will asking myself, apa hikmah aku suka dia? Apa hikmah dia hadir dlm hidup aku?
Setakat ni i got the answers, cth 'die buat aku lgi kuat' 'die buat aku kenal jenis manusia perangai camni camtu'

But this one boy, dah bertahun2. We don't talk, we don't meet, we don't contact each other(last 7 years ago) Just usha2 kat social media je. And i'm not usually thinking about him. I kat Mesia dgn life i, die dgn life die kat sana. I can liking other boy, tpi everytime nk step further mesti time tu baru ingt kat die. Mcm ade bnde yg halang. Kdg ingt dah move on, sbb takde rasa apa2 pon. Tapi tak. Sebab bila i sedih@kecewa ke apa, mesti time tu cari die. Pdhl klau hari biasa tak kisah pun...

Bnyk kali proses move on, social media die sume i unfollow, tpi never works jgk, jumpa kwn kwn sebut nama die, balik rumah mak pulak sebut nama die 'die baik kan? sopan, bijak' asyik ulang bende sama je. Kdg mak excited nk tengok die kat Tv. I ni kenalah masuk bilik elak nk tengok muka die...

Kdg nk kata jodoh tak jgk, pernah doa klau bkn jodoh mintak Tuhan jauhkn die dari i, betul2 jauh beribu batu tuhan hntr die. Mintak jgn temukn kami masa die blik Mesia 3 bulan, 2 thun lps. Perhaps Family die sume i jumpa, die sorang je tak. Bkn jodoh lah tu kn?
Tapi kenapa i masih suka kat die brtahun2? I tak nmpk hikmah disebalik perasaan ni...mcm buang masa pun ade...

Dua bulan lgi die nk balik Mesia....makin susah, hari raya, my brother mesti jumpa die, balik rumah story kat mak lagi. Pstu Ayah pulak asyik balik ckp 'ustaz tanya khabar i, jemput dtg rumah lah' slalu jgklah kdg fikir caring jgk bpk die kat i pdhl mse knk2 ribena dulu mcm benci je kat i. Hmmm confuse..nk fokus study pun payah camni...

onexox97

7 tahun kalau kawen dah dapat 4 orang anak

doubleA

Kalau takda komunikasi you & him berpuluh tahun pun takkan ke mana. Why don’t clarify your feelings with him? Supaya lebih tenang?

noraidil_06

7 yrs ago, u r like 11?  Ingat tak salah. Sampai skrg auntie ingat ex ms auntie sekolah tp jgn sampai ganggu bljr.
Auntie wish u best of luck. Hrp2 dpt msk UM.Hihihihi

ninja boy

I minat Britney spear x semestinya I kawen sama dia

cepheid

Crush je tu.

adila39

takde hikmah dah buang masalah dik

missjuli

suka, cinta, sayang.. nmpk sama tp maksud lain2 tau. Sye sokong pendapat org yg ats tu, siapa namanye, lupa dh.
Better you terus terang je perasaan u dkt dia. Haa, mana tahu dia pun simpan hati dkt u. Tp kalo dia dh ada org lain, haaa jgn meroyan pulak. Rilex je. Anggap je perasaan suke u yg bertahun2 tu mcm... entah lah.. pandai2 la. hahaha

Kalo nak cite pasal hikmah, hikmah ni dtg dlm pelbagai cara. So terlalu subjective utk dihuraikan. Lagipun hikmah ni susah nak diramal. Dh hadapi bru thu "oh hikmah nya begini begini dan begini.." haaa begitu la pendapat sye. Apa2 pun terpulang la dkt u utk buat tindakan

Missy_la

There is a reason for everything, I fully believe that. Just like those people that you like for a week, etc, there is a reason why you like this guy for years. Maybe it's to teach you the meaning of 'Setia', maybe it's to show you the characteristics of the kind of person you should pursue, yang dapat restu your family.

Setiap perkara berlaku ada sebab. Percaya pada percaturanNYA, dan banyakkan berdoa mohon ketenangan.

Genkidesuka

Assalammu'alaikum n selamat sejahtera.

Allah temukan kita dgn org lain (both right or wrong people) mesti ada hikmahnya.  Tak semestinya ia tentang hubungan cinta sahaja.  See it from a different angle, TT.  Life lessons ni.  Why don't u anggap the hikmah is for u to jadikan dia sebagai contoh?  Be a good child to ur parents like him, be smart like him, cari someone like him or in the future raise ur kids to be like him.   See, byk dah tu hikmahnya kan?  

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noraidil_06 replied at 12-4-2018 11:31 PM
7 yrs ago, u r like 11?  Ingat tak salah. Sampai skrg auntie ingat ex ms auntie sekolah tp jgn sampa ...

Last contact yup. Sbb after that we hv family problem brtahun2 tak brtegur until last 2 years when i began tegur one of them, lps2 tu parents pon dah boleh tegur each other tpi dlm hati masing2 taktau lah...
YaAllah Auntie,,besarnya harapan ke UM tu hahaha

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ninja boy replied at 13-4-2018 12:14 AM
I minat Britney spear x semestinya I kawen sama dia

Klau minat tapi tak halang i brsama org lain i tak kisah...

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Missy_la replied at 13-4-2018 10:13 AM
There is a reason for everything, I fully believe that. Just like those people that you like for a w ...

Setia ek? Kdg betul jgk, i never setia to anything, bkn org je, bnde lain pun i tak setia...sbb routine is boring. Every week i seek for a change.
Knpa i setia kat die, sbb everytime of stalking ade je aktiviti baru yg die buat, news baru yg mengejutkn yg buat i tabik kat dia, new achievement lah, kehidupan die mcm tak membosankan...

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Genkidesuka replied at 13-4-2018 11:19 AM
Assalammu'alaikum n selamat sejahtera.

Allah temukan kita dgn org lain (both right or wrong peopl ...

I like this comment. Thank you so much...

theotherfriend

I met someone n i like him. Bertahun2.
Bertahun2 juga iols berdoa kami berjodohan.

Rupanya doa iols x makbul. I met someone else n got married. He met d girl of his dream n they r happily married too.

Dont waste ue time dik.

bulanbulat

Kadang kadang kita refuse to move out from our comfort zone

He is your comfort zone.

Till one day u may meet someone u really like, then u know what is love and whats not

Or just Allah atur camtu, untuk jaga diri u

Naatasha

Jadi umur u brp skrg?u kata x jump, x contact tp bila sedih or kecewa cari dia. Mcm mana tu, x fhm la

I still x leh proses persoalan: hikmah suka org bertahun2. Mungkin kalo persolan tu mcm ni, hikmah masih suka kan org walaupun direject. Nampak logik sikit persoalan tu.

Dlm kes ni, u suka org bertahun2 ni sbb perasaan u je la. Samada u x jumpa someone better, atau sbb smpai skrg dia tu masih single. Kalo dia dah ada gf u rasa masih suka dia lagi tak? Buang masa 7 tahun cmtu, lebih baik u wasap dia ke apa. Ada la juga faedah nya..

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Naatasha replied at 14-4-2018 12:35 AM
Jadi umur u brp skrg?u kata x jump, x contact tp bila sedih or kecewa cari dia. Mcm mana tu, x fhm l ...

Cari tu means stalking social media dia..sory lah buat confuse..
Tak jumpa someone better? Maybe lah kut...

friedfishsoup

hmm.. if iols, I move on je. Don't waste your time please. nanti u dah kahwin org lain, u akan rasa betapa buang masa harapkan this guy. so please move on and find someone else. or be single first. enjoy single life but at the same time, just make friends ngan org lain.

oren1001

Hikmah dia, ko x kapel ngan orng lain, tu je. Kurang ar sikit dosa bercouple yng x tentu hala hehehe. Dik muda lagi, banyak lagi bnde yng kne explore, lumrah manusia ade perasaan cinta dan suka, tapi pandai2 la control.buang masa je bersedih bnde yng kita x pasti and lepas. Do something for yourself, peluang skali jer okay.