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Post time 17-9-2018 03:01 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
My result :

Cognitive-Biases Test Will Accurately Reveal Your Subconscious Insecurities
You are a People Pleaser.
You pretend to agree with everyone. You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings.

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen.

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Post time 17-9-2018 06:20 PM | Show all posts
Cognitive-Biases Test Will Accurately Reveal Your Subconscious Insecurities

You are a People Pleaser.

You pretend to agree with everyone. You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings.

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen.

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Post time 24-9-2018 10:52 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
You are a People Pleaser.

You pretend to agree with everyone. You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings.

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen.

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Post time 25-9-2018 09:34 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
You Have An Anxious Mind.
Your anxious mind poses so many obstacles! You can’t just calm down, and it’s impossible to "stop caring so much".

It’s more likely that you’re always subconsciously try to prepare for the worst. And even though the worst possible outcome may never occur, the anxious part of your mind prepares your reserved personality for what could happen. You make plans, called plan A, and Plan B. Plan B, of course, is for when Plan A surely fails, but you hope it doesn’t, maybe…but in case it does, you got that backup solution, B. You do this because unconsciously, you think this can help you remain chill and look cool despite your chaos filled brain.

Not only that, you can be emotional and sensitive. So, when struggling with such contrasting emotions, you are happier surrounded by those who understand, or at least, try to understand. That’s why you rather have few friends than a large number. It’s just more comfortable that way. The negative part of your brain is not being able to enjoy large numbers of people at one time. We are content with a few number of people – crowds tend to activate our anxiety.

You are allergic to the word “uncertainty.” You believe that we must continue to worry until uncertainty has been resolved. Sometimes, you will stop worrying about a particular problem not because you have accepted the prospect of the threat, but because you have shifted from one worry to another.

Lastly, you tend to interpret ambiguous events as negative or threatening. For example, you will interpret an ambiguous comment, such as “that is an interesting shirt you have on,” emotionally negative. You are highly sensitive to being ignored by other people, and you constantly monitor for signs that people might not like you. Distorted internal belief systems that provide incorrect views of the world produce anxiety disorder. So, beware of that.

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Post time 25-9-2018 10:36 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Huhuhuhu macam betul je...

You Have An Anxious Mind.
Your anxious mind poses so many obstacles! You can’t just calm down, and it’s impossible to "stop caring so much".

It’s more likely that you’re always subconsciously try to prepare for the worst. And even though the worst possible outcome may never occur, the anxious part of your mind prepares your reserved personality for what could happen. You make plans, called plan A, and Plan B. Plan B, of course, is for when Plan A surely fails, but you hope it doesn’t, maybe…but in case it does, you got that backup solution, B. You do this because unconsciously, you think this can help you remain chill and look cool despite your chaos filled brain.

Not only that, you can be emotional and sensitive. So, when struggling with such contrasting emotions, you are happier surrounded by those who understand, or at least, try to understand. That’s why you rather have few friends than a large number. It’s just more comfortable that way. The negative part of your brain is not being able to enjoy large numbers of people at one time. We are content with a few number of people – crowds tend to activate our anxiety.

You are allergic to the word “uncertainty.” You believe that we must continue to worry until uncertainty has been resolved. Sometimes, you will stop worrying about a particular problem not because you have accepted the prospect of the threat, but because you have shifted from one worry to another.

Lastly, you tend to interpret ambiguous events as negative or threatening. For example, you will interpret an ambiguous comment, such as “that is an interesting shirt you have on,” emotionally negative. You are highly sensitive to being ignored by other people, and you constantly monitor for signs that people might not like you. Distorted internal belief systems that provide incorrect views of the world produce anxiety disorder. So, beware of that.

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Post time 26-9-2018 02:01 PM | Show all posts
You are a People Pleaser.


You pretend to agree with everyone. You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings.

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen.

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Post time 26-9-2018 02:22 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Cognitive-Biases Test Will Accurately Reveal Your Subconscious Insecurities
You are a People Pleaser.
You pretend to agree with everyone. You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings.

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen

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Post time 28-9-2018 10:55 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
You are a People Pleaser.
You pretend to agree with everyone. You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings.

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen.

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Post time 28-9-2018 11:48 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
You are a People Pleaser.
You pretend to agree with everyone. You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings.

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen.

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Post time 1-10-2018 10:02 PM | Show all posts
You Have An Anxious Mind.
Your anxious mind poses so many obstacles! You can’t just calm down, and it’s impossible to "stop caring so much".

It’s more likely that you’re always subconsciously try to prepare for the worst. And even though the worst possible outcome may never occur, the anxious part of your mind prepares your reserved personality for what could happen. You make plans, called plan A, and Plan B. Plan B, of course, is for when Plan A surely fails, but you hope it doesn’t, maybe…but in case it does, you got that backup solution, B. You do this because unconsciously, you think this can help you remain chill and look cool despite your chaos filled brain.

Not only that, you can be emotional and sensitive. So, when struggling with such contrasting emotions, you are happier surrounded by those who understand, or at least, try to understand. That’s why you rather have few friends than a large number. It’s just more comfortable that way. The negative part of your brain is not being able to enjoy large numbers of people at one time. We are content with a few number of people – crowds tend to activate our anxiety.

You are allergic to the word “uncertainty.” You believe that we must continue to worry until uncertainty has been resolved. Sometimes, you will stop worrying about a particular problem not because you have accepted the prospect of the threat, but because you have shifted from one worry to another.

Lastly, you tend to interpret ambiguous events as negative or threatening. For example, you will interpret an ambiguous comment, such as “that is an interesting shirt you have on,” emotionally negative. You are highly sensitive to being ignored by other people, and you constantly monitor for signs that people might not like you. Distorted internal belief systems that provide incorrect views of the world produce anxiety disorder. So, beware of that.

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Post time 5-10-2018 12:43 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
You are a People Pleaser.
You pretend to agree with everyone. You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings.

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen.

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Post time 5-10-2018 10:26 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
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Post time 5-10-2018 12:44 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Cognitive-Biases Test Will Accurately Reveal Your Subconscious Insecurities
You Have An Anxious Mind.
Your anxious mind poses so many obstacles! You can’t just calm down, and it’s impossible to "stop caring so much".

It’s more likely that you’re always subconsciously try to prepare for the worst. And even though the worst possible outcome may never occur, the anxious part of your mind prepares your reserved personality for what could happen. You make plans, called plan A, and Plan B. Plan B, of course, is for when Plan A surely fails, but you hope it doesn’t, maybe…but in case it does, you got that backup solution, B. You do this because unconsciously, you think this can help you remain chill and look cool despite your chaos filled brain.



Not only that, you can be emotional and sensitive. So, when struggling with such contrasting emotions, you are happier surrounded by those who understand, or at least, try to understand. That’s why you rather have few friends than a large number. It’s just more comfortable that way. The negative part of your brain is not being able to enjoy large numbers of people at one time. We are content with a few number of people – crowds tend to activate our anxiety.

You are allergic to the word “uncertainty.” You believe that we must continue to worry until uncertainty has been resolved. Sometimes, you will stop worrying about a particular problem not because you have accepted the prospect of the threat, but because you have shifted from one worry to another.

Lastly, you tend to interpret ambiguous events as negative or threatening. For example, you will interpret an ambiguous comment, such as “that is an interesting shirt you have on,” emotionally negative. You are highly sensitive to being ignored by other people, and you constantly monitor for signs that people might not like you. Distorted internal belief systems that provide incorrect views of the world produce anxiety disorder. So, beware of that.

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Post time 6-10-2018 06:46 AM | Show all posts
You are a People Pleaser.

You pretend to agree with everyone. You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings.

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen.

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Post time 6-10-2018 03:28 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
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Post time 5-12-2018 12:26 AM | Show all posts
Cognitive-Biases Test Will Accurately Reveal Your Subconscious Insecurities

You are a People Pleaser.

You pretend to agree with everyone. You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings.

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen.

macam tak tepat je ni..contra habiss

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Post time 5-12-2018 07:12 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
You are a People Pleaser.
You pretend to agree with everyone. You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings.

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen.

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Post time 6-12-2018 02:23 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
You are a People Pleaser..

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Post time 6-12-2018 09:46 AM | Show all posts
You are a People Pleaser.

You pretend to agree with everyone (selalu juga buat yg ni kalau i rasa i argue takkan dapat apa). You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings. <-- i sejenis yes-man

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen.

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Post time 6-12-2018 01:36 PM | Show all posts
You are a People Pleaser.
You pretend to agree with everyone. You tend to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in behavior that goes against your values. You often sabotage your goals. Unconsciously, you would rather engage in self-destructive behavior if you think it will help others like you more in social situations. For example, you get drunk when you think it will make other people happy, even though getting drunk goes against your values.

You have a hard time forming healthy boundaries with people. It feels impossible and dreadful to say "no" to the things you don't really want to do, but you say it anyway to avoid being hated by the people around you. You always end up feeling mentally drained but you are not sure why, because you spend your whole life trying to fit into other people's expectations, you tend to drown out your own true thoughts and feelings.

You have a problem forming authentic relationships. This is because you can’t form authentic relationships with people unless you’re willing to speak up sometimes and say that your feelings are hurt. You tend to deny that you’re angry, sad, embarrassed, or disappointed — even when you’re emotionally wounded. This will only keep a relationship superficial, and you will end up feeling emotionally isolated.

Lastly, you feel uncomfortable if someone is angry at you. When someone is mad, you will automatically think you did something wrong to offend them. You will waste hours worrying, retracing your steps and trying to brainstorm on what you said or did that made the other person upset. When in reality, it has nothing to do with you. But you can't help it, deep down, you can’t stand the thought of someone being displeased with you, and unconsciously, your mind will do anything it takes to make sure that will never ever happen.

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