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Betulke semua dalam kehidupan ni kebetulan? atau it is meant to be? or otherwise

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Post time 8-10-2018 09:33 AM | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 8-10-2018 09:17 AM
u tak sendu la...u vogue sbb ada pemikiran yg gitu. yes life is tough and challenging and mysterio ...

hehe..secara ringkasnya begitulah.

tapi luas utk difikirkan
tiap persimpangan dalam kehidupan kita
membawa kita kepada satu persimpangan lain
atau
bertahan dijalan yang sama hingga kepenghujungnya.

apa jua keputusan
terletak pada diri kita
bukan sesiapa yg berhak
menetukan kebahagian kita.


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 Author| Post time 8-10-2018 09:44 AM | Show all posts
rospinki replied at 8-10-2018 01:33 AM
hehe..secara ringkasnya begitulah.

tapi luas utk difikirkan

sepasang kasut biru.

my first pay at age 20s
ok....gaji banyak ni, banyak nak settle and i ada dua je option kasut biru or handbag yg i berkenan
i pilih kasut biru. and continue pakai handbag lusuh tapi kulitla...so my point, kebetulan ke....dapat gaji pertama and adik nak kasut color biru..and i yg teringin nak bag baru.

citer simple yg i ingat sampai bila bila...hahahah so again, life is a choice. indeed kakak.

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Post time 8-10-2018 10:49 AM | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 8-10-2018 09:44 AM
sepasang kasut biru.

my first pay at age 20s

apa kisah disebalik kasut biru tu? kurang fhm sikit ceritnya..semestinya byk kenangan maniskan dlm hidup adilla..i can see it.kehidupan byk membentuk diri kita..kdang membuatkan kita terasa kenapa mesti aku yg kena hadap smua penganiayaan ini..seolah kita je ras teraniaya..tapi betulkan..takan kita lupa masa aku kecik2 dulu terasa nk ada kakak kt sekolah jadi kawan baik yg sentias menjaga adiknya..tapi apa dia buat menjauhkan diri dan menyakiti aku selalu..sekrang kenapa beriya nak aku jadi adikmu yg manis dan sentiasa menyokongmu?

usah kuatir kakaku..doaku sentiasa luas utk kalian semua

cuman..aku kuatir skrg seeokr babi hutan yg tersesat nanti bakalan menjongos kan diri smule dikhalayak ramai

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 Author| Post time 8-10-2018 11:02 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by adila39 at 8-10-2018 03:03 AM
rospinki replied at 8-10-2018 02:49 AM
apa kisah disebalik kasut biru tu? kurang fhm sikit ceritnya..semestinya byk kenangan maniskan dlm ...


hehehehe..baxx tu lgi jap dia muncul la....

kasut biru tu kenangan lama. Masa baru kerja.. kebetulan business daddy drop. I support adik adik kesekolah. So adalah cerita sedih menyayat hati. I ada duit cukup cukup je nak joli konon...tetiba adik sound....kakak .....nak kasut biru tu cantik....so kakak ni terpaksa lepaskan impian nak bag cantik..sb budget hanya cukup utk satu brg je...so kakak melepaskanla keinginan diri...kebetulan gaji pertama n adik nak kasut baru warna biru. sob sob sob

aminnn...doa siadik utk kakak.
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Post time 8-10-2018 01:24 PM | Show all posts
Tred yg bakal terima nasib tred diary....

Kahkahkahkahkah....
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 Author| Post time 8-10-2018 01:24 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
stinger2 replied at 8-10-2018 05:24 AM
Tred yg bakal terima nasib tred diary....

Kahkahkahkahkah....

ini pun kebetulan
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Post time 8-10-2018 01:29 PM | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 7-10-2018 10:07 PM
Contoh 1-
Macam situasi i. Dah tua tua balik duduk dgn mak ayah. Kekok mulanya..tp bila pikir bali ...

Kau patut besyukur  ada org tua yang masih berdenyut nadi mereka utk kau ziarahi serta tinggal ber sama mereka.

Kau lihat sajork si noradil.....kena tunggu waktu cuti raya baru boleh ziarah...itu pun ziarah pusara sajork...

Kau masih nak mengeluh?

Issshhhhh
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Post time 8-10-2018 01:34 PM | Show all posts

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Post time 8-10-2018 01:42 PM | Show all posts
redo la redo... buat hati lebih tenang.
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Post time 8-10-2018 01:43 PM | Show all posts
Edited by stinger2 at 8-10-2018 01:44 PM

I think the month of september more eventful and worth remembering for you..
2nd sept...your first ever period...

5th sept.....diusir rumah for the first time kerna dah mabuk cinta dgn your ex...


7th sept.....kena usir dgn pihak dbkl..kerana pacak kemah depan Ampang point waktu first time nak mula berniaga buat apam balik.

22nd sept......tarikh nikah dgn ex...

30th sept...endorsed surat nikah di pejabat agama sebab the nikah on 22nd dekat siam....

...........................




Hukhukhukhuk


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 Author| Post time 8-10-2018 01:47 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
stinger2 replied at 8-10-2018 05:34 AM

ehhhh nice song...
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 Author| Post time 8-10-2018 01:52 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
stinger2 replied at 8-10-2018 05:29 AM
Kau patut besyukur  ada org tua yang masih berdenyut nadi mereka utk kau ziarahi serta tinggal ber ...

good point. mekasih for the reminder. sometimes u do give a good point. Bukan mengeluh, just remenism balik moment and why benda tu berlaku. Kalau i ada laki idak laaa i duduk dgn mak pak i kan...so gitula kaedahnya...setiap apa berlaku ada sebabnya. Imagine kalau laki i jenis setan...yg xkasi i tgk mak pak... susah juga....
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Post time 8-10-2018 01:58 PM | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 8-10-2018 01:52 PM
good point. mekasih for the reminder. sometimes u do give a good point. Bukan mengeluh, just remen ...

Taat suami selagi suami tak memaksa kau menyundal diri atau perkara perkara Yang melnggar syarak...

Tak izinkan kau ziarahi Mak bapak Tak termasuk dalam kategori melnggar syarak...



Jom detim...

Wakakakaakakakakakakaka.
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 Author| Post time 8-10-2018 02:18 PM | Show all posts
stinger2 replied at 8-10-2018 05:58 AM
Taat suami selagi suami tak memaksa kau menyundal diri atau perkara perkara Yang melnggar syarak.. ...

alhamduillah la
xperlu hadap semua tu...



ha! u ajak i detim????? detim tu hape? dating ke na?
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Post time 8-10-2018 02:20 PM | Show all posts
stinger2 replied at 8-10-2018 01:43 PM
I think the month of september more eventful and worth remembering for you..
2nd sept...your firs ...

ooo ya..luckily u remind me..almost fogot..hahaha

terjumpa babi hutan kt dalam keta..bulan october jugak..
tapi hanya mimpi ngeri..igauan ngeri..skeri
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Post time 8-10-2018 05:14 PM | Show all posts
Edited by mbhcsf at 8-10-2018 08:25 PM

heyya  

I think the first part sounded more to you being a bit burnout?
sebab you said , you have been running and then you felt exhausted...ecerything slows down, so to me this is more like your in your braking state or slowing down phase ??? after accelarating your gear of life for sometime? hmm?

the second part is partly spiritual but hey that is what people say, but dont be like that because the crux of matter you are asking about qadar and qada
qadar is the limit or certain point of measurement or boundaries of Allah's measurement on every makhluk , the word takdir derives from this word qadar. that is perukuran dalam ketetapan.

Qada on the other hand is the pemutus. The thing is qadar berlaku dulu sebelum qada.
Qada ni ada yg boleh berubah dan ada yg tetap. yg tetap macam rezeki or kematian  etc.
tapi qada yg berubah tu boleh berubah dalam keadaan kita berdoa atau menjalinkan silturrahim ke gitu. ni ada dalam hadis.

so, when people said everything kebetulan tu , well, Allah yg memutuskan dan berkehendakkan sesuatu itu berlaku pada siatusi hidup you dalam satu  garis masa berlaku sebegitu  so nampak sebegitu dalam  'realm human ' as 'kebetulan' walhal HAKIKATNYA

tak ada satu sel pun dalam badan yg membahgai tanpa pengetahuan AllAH, dan itu baru satu sel , dalam badan ade berape banyak sel dan itu baru manusia , tapi di duni ada 7 billion manusia and yes ,ALLAH  the AL MALIK and the Al HAKIM governs that and those thing...dengan nikmat yg mana kita nak dustakan?
tak ada satu pun daunan jatuh dalam dunia ni tanpa pengetahuan ALLAH

that goes on to say  Allah itu MAHA MENGETAHUI

tapi then u would ask yg matahari terbit sebegitu, bulan beredar dalam orbit sebegini - itu pulak sunnatulah - ketetapan hukum ALlah terhadap Allah , pengawal aturan hukum Alam ni Allah juga tentukan , ungang Allah terhadap hukum dan hukum alam - ini juga part of qadar ...( betulkan saya kalau salah sebba berdosa saya kalau sampaikan yg salah ye, that is to stand i stand corrected )


so -pada I kebetulan itu manfetasi realiti pada pandangan manusia tapi hakikatnya mana ada sesuatu berlaku tanpa diputuskan Allah

redha tu berlapang dada dalam  menerima  sesuatu

well  pada i ini penting sebab ia mengajar kita keterbatasan insan dan mengajar kita yg kita diberi ganjaran atasujian sabar dan kudrat kita

so pada i no such think as redha tu  macam menidakkan peranan usaha sebab kita berpegang pada ASWJ

how would u KNOW that is teh end result before you nerusaha
dan lagi satu Allah tak tengok pada hasil ytapi usaha you .
dalam hal pahala dosa , kita dah diberi pilihan  dan ujian pada kita nak pilih yg baik ke or buruk

so  dlm konteks ni salah apabial seorang pencuri nak kata oh i ni ditakdirkan  mencuri ( walhal di amemilih untuk kebatilan ) sedangkan dia mengetahui benda lain yg elok banyak lagi...

so ...yups , tak pe slowly fahami Islam, dan Islam itu indah  dan asas kepada wordview kita melihat realiti.


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 Author| Post time 8-10-2018 08:32 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by adila39 at 8-10-2018 12:34 PM
mbhcsf replied at 8-10-2018 09:14 AM
heyya  

I think the first part sounded more to you being a bit burnout?


mekasih.
appreciate it very much. Very wise and to the dot. Hard to agree but yes u were absolutely correct

maybe so, im a little bit in denial sbb tu kena back to the basic balik. Perhaps not burnout but overthinking. Someone thought me to read few surah...so I'm learning ni....the rest i will just leave it to allah ajer la....but will do my best in everything. insyaallah..

im not going to add more confusion in my head for now...hahahaha... insyaallah. Im too old for that. Im teaching myself to be calm. Then only and maybe i will understand better apa tu qada and qadar.

Tq @mbhcsf
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Post time 8-10-2018 09:43 PM | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 8-10-2018 08:32 PM
mekasih.
appreciate it very much. Very wise and to the dot. Hard to agree but yes u were absol ...

awat adila, ade bende berlaku ke?
i mean  , bila u sound tired etc etc ni i 'd reckon ni mesti ade ape ape , ade ke? just to ask directly...feel free not to answer.

i think , when comes into relationship ni - bebenda maca, ni selalu bermain dalam benak kita, what is takdir what is  etc etc.




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Post time 8-10-2018 09:45 PM | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 8-10-2018 08:32 PM
mekasih.
appreciate it very much. Very wise and to the dot. Hard to agree but yes u were absol ...

if u have any confusion just pm mnm77, okay? he is good at clarifying.

sebenarnya kekeliruan itu yg perlu dibetulkan Adila supaya you boleh  mcm ni: tinggggggggggg i understand macam tu...
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Post time 8-10-2018 09:50 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 8-10-2018 01:24 PM
ini pun kebetulan

Terpaksa mencelah..ini takdir kakaa

Dia sudah ditakdirkan tuhan untuk menguji kita..kita harus redhaa kakaa

(baca nada bangla please)
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