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anyclassything replied at 22-1-2019 09:08 PM
So are you suggesting yg i should cari partner yg lagi muda? Camtu ke?
Kalau taste you older guy its ok, but imho the gap 10yrs tu still acceptable . My opinion lah |
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tt dah kawen nanti jgn lupa poremer2 di porem ini yg sentiasa setia menyapot ye
umur hanyalah sekadar angka  |
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akik replied at 22-1-2019 03:33 PM
I dah tua
Agaknya sebab dah tua kot sebab tu takde laki tua nak. Laki tua of course la nak pe ...
Kenapa gross dgn laki muda pulak? |
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alahaiii siss.... ada jodoh la kott.... 
hrp mmg jodoh korang kuat.
byk benda boleh dibuat enjoy bersama hidup xkan bosan.
serius ckp, dlm perkahwinan kalau boleh elakkan perasaan "bosan"
sbb bila dah bosan, ia akan slow2 rosakkan perasaan dan hubungan u.
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anyclassything replied at 22-1-2019 09:08 PM
So are you suggesting yg i should cari partner yg lagi muda? Camtu ke?
Ala jgnla terasa sistur..sbb kenyataan nya mmg mcm tu..sbb tu i pernah ckp psl fizikal..sbb u tgh thp CINTA dgn dia mmg lah u akan ckp semuanya ok,mantap,tegap..i notice that kitorg ckp apa pun u akan counter argue..bila dah kahwin,lain sis..it is what it is..ok je kalau u berjodohan dgn dia,doa utk u..tp hakikatnya jarang tersasar dari kebiasaan,jgn nanti u indenial nanti sudahlah..
tk semestinya u kena cari yg lg muda dr dia,tp tanya diri u sendiri,boleh tak terima kemungkinan yg tk disangka?boleh nak husnudzon tp kena prepare for the worse case scenario jugak kan??
kalau buah hati pengarang jantung u tu lain dr kebiasaan,then good for u..doa yg baik2 dah la.. |
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Post time 24-1-2019 01:51 AM
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harithzakuan replied at 23-1-2019 09:37 PM
Ala jgnla terasa sistur..sbb kenyataan nya mmg mcm tu..sbb tu i pernah ckp psl fizikal..sbb u tgh ...
I tak terasa pun lerr..
It just makes me questioning la, should I cari someone younger?
Adakah sebab umur tu sebab utama I kena consider?
If so..
I have to be ready la...
I pun nak tanya sbb I takut I ni culture shock ke.. denial ke.. tp tu lah.. I pun kalau boleh tak mau jd bodoh ke apa kan.. selama ni ok je boleh jugak pikir jgk tetibe jumpa dia ni jd bodoh ke xreti nak fikir ke.. camtu..
Thats why I taknak rush for marriage ke apa..
even for now nampak ok.. but let’s wait a little longer and see what’s coming next
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You......ade tak investigate kenapa dia jadi bujang terlajak? Takut dia ada sejarah memukul girlfriend pula. Siblings dia and kawan2 dia you kenal tak? Kenalah kenal dulu baru kawen... |
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investigate jgk, tanya direct and also tanya mutual friends.
Jawapan from him:
Tak jumpa yg berkenan, yg ada same kind of feeling and attraction..
His last relationship was in 2012 or 2013 lepas. Then the ex fiance kantoi curang 3x and they broke up.
Heols konon broken heart and malas nak cari girlfriend.
Then bila cari pun he said tak jumpa yg berkenan on mind level..
Jawapan from his mutual friends:
Dia memilih. Easily turn off.
Tapi kalau I cakap dia memilih dia tak suka, dia cakap dia tak memilih dah takde feeling.
entahla nokss
Kalau nak cakap dia jenis baran/pukul girlfriend tu I pun taktau. Nampak cam very softie at heart
I pnh duk cerita pasal cerita viral kat fb yg adik bradik tak makan sbb ayah dia ada bini
baru tak kisah psl anak bini pertama duk preggy, boleh plak air mata dia mengalir.. Okay... I pun tak tau apakah maksud air mata itu. adakah petanda elok mahupun tak elok.. I is confused
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hmmm entahlah
kadang2 pikir punya pikir I takut pulakkk nervous takut tersalah pilih pulak
tak kisah lah dia ke org lain..
Takut tersilap pilih 
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anyclassything replied at 25-1-2019 11:05 PM
investigate jgk, tanya direct and also tanya mutual friends.
Kalau you tgk basically he is okay, just further go your relationship.
You buatlah istikharah setiap hari..sampai hati you rasa kuat nak kawen dgn dia.bukannya apa, kalau you lepaskan dia umur you makin meningkat, choice lelaki dah semakin kurang. The things getting tough when you get older. Now, you dah jumpa the guy yg you suka so go on with him.
Apa2 kemungkinan akan dtg serah pada Allah. Sbb you dah ada approval from parents, itu yg penting. And you tak rampas laki org..so takde sapa yg marah pun. Its just that people perception je kawen laki tua ni byk masalah, sedangkan kawen dgn lelaki muda pun ramai je yg mati pucuk.
Kawen ni laki tua atau muda mesti ada rintangan yg you kena hadap..sbb tu org tua2 pesan kawen kena byk sabar.
All the best for you. I nasihatkan you siasat betul2 ciri2 dia and kalau dah yakin dia boleh jd suami so serahkan the rest pada Allah. |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 22-1-2019 10:35 PM
