Why husband org??

PuanNab

onexox97 replied at 24-1-2019 10:26 PM
Laki dia worth to stay with
Xda buat perangai lain selain Megnet wanita je I assume
Laki puanna ...

Yup btoi sgt apa yg awk ckp.
By now sy buat life mcm biasa
Busy upgrade diri, and bisnes.
Asal cuti je, pergi jengjalan dgn fmily.
Spend time dgn kwn2.
Fix my financial and emotion.
Alhamdulilah much better right now
Lgipun i being surrounded by family yg mmg xpernah ptus bgi smngat. Nevertheless kwn2 pun support. So i choose to be happy around them

OttoVonBismark

farlis replied at 24-1-2019 11:03 AM
Husband i ada calon no 2, tapi calon no 2 yg call & provoke i. Dia siap ckp kt suami i, dia xmo ad ...

dalam kesni aku nasehatkan ko gi cari bomohdan santau dia. aku sokong. pastikan dia merana.

farlis

OttoVonBismark replied at 25-1-2019 01:57 AM
dalam kesni aku nasehatkan ko gi cari bomohdan santau dia. aku sokong. pastikan dia merana.

Ko ada sumber tak?? Moh kita santau sesamo.. Kih kih

supermum

farlis replied at 24-1-2019 10:07 PM
Haha.. Tatau la nab oii.. Don't bother too much about him& his gf tu.  Dia citer, i tadah telinga. ...

Sis, husband u berskandalan ada sampai terlanjur tak? I neves baca cerita gini. I tak sanggup lalui

farlis

supermum replied at 25-1-2019 04:43 PM
Sis, husband u berskandalan ada sampai terlanjur tak? I neves baca cerita gini. I tak sanggup lalu ...

Wallahualam. So far xde la hilang ke hapa. Tak nk amik tau.. Jenuh plak i nk cari 4 saksi nk buktikan.. Ahaksss..

knnk

dua_chzy replied at 22-1-2019 02:29 PM
Laki orang sedap. Ko tengok jah Fattah Amin tu gimana sedapnya dibandingkan Ebby Yus. Urat tangan la ...

Haha aiyak sis Chazey ni pun. Kalau boleh buatlah perbandingan yang adil sikit.
Ini you compare apple to orange mana boleh
Cubalah compare Fattah Amin dengan errr Remy Ishak ke, Aiman Hakim entah siapa lagi jejaka idaman Malaya.
Barulah adil. Aiyo kadavule

knnk

Entahlah TT, you dah nasihatkan dia pun tak jalan kan. I cadangkan you suruhlah parents you intervene dalam hal ni. Dah kakak sendiri tak dengar, mungkin in shaa Allah kalau parents you cakap dan berbincang mungkin barulah adik you tu tersedar.


Dalam pada tu, I cadangkan TT cakap kat yr sis tu mohon bertaubat dan ingat kat anaknya tu. Suruh dia bayangkan, sanggup ke dia tgk kalau anak dia suatu hari nanti buat macam tu kat orang lain atau diperlakukan sebegitu rupa oleh orang lain? Mesti tak sanggup kan unless adik tu gone case, jenis kejam tak kisah hancurkan kebahagiaan orang lain then I have nothing to say lah. Terima sahajalah balasan/kifarah yang menimpa kelak.

Maaf kalau I harsh sangat, this is because I come from a broken family dan I punya surrounding pun almost 70% sekeliling I pun broken family. Hasilnya, anak-anak ada yang depressed, anxiety( this is me) masalah jiwa etc.



Tapi alhamdulillah we managed to get it through walaupun masih lagi ada kesan yang berbekas dan kami anggap benda tu ujian. Tipulah kalau I kata there were times I wished that what would happen if none of this things would never happen in the place. Tapi bak kata my mom, ada sebab kenapa semua benda ni berlaku, Tuhan tu takkan menguji hambanya lebih daripada di luar kemampuannya. I tau my mom dah redha tapi sebagai anak, you rasa macam sore loser sebab you tak boleh nak lindung your mom sendiri after all things that had happened and what she had sacrificed for the family my dad . Anyway, I dah melalut la ni.
I doakan TT berjaya la utk nasihatkan adik tu dan moga adik TT ambil iktibar dari pengajaran lalu dan mulakan hidup yang baru. Ameen

dua_chzy

knnk replied at 25-1-2019 04:58 PM
Haha aiyak sis Chazey ni pun. Kalau boleh buatlah perbandingan yang adil sikit.
Ini you compare a ...

Hahaha. Remy Sehak tu takyah compare la sis. Yang tu sah2 dah merasa badan pompuan ala2 laki orang juga just blom menikoh sah. Aiman, aiol tak taste.

knnk

dua_chzy replied at 25-1-2019 05:48 PM
Hahaha. Remy Sehak tu takyah compare la sis. Yang tu sah2 dah merasa badan pompuan ala2 laki orang ...

Hahahaha. Sengal betul kak Chazey ni.
Yang Remy tu I tak tau pasal I anak dara lagi jadi I nampak biasa ja.
Lol, I baru lepas baca benang Aiman, teringat dia. Kiki

dua_chzy

knnk replied at 26-1-2019 08:52 AM
Hahahaha. Sengal betul kak Chazey ni.
Yang Remy tu I tak tau pasal I anak dara lagi  jadi I nam ...

Remy tu akak syak seblom dengan Tiz lagi dah takda teruna. Or hilang teruna di celah kangkang Tiz. 1

anyclassything

I rasa..

The best you can advice her is.. To doa banyak2 supaya dihilangkan perasaan pada this guy..

And maybe to cari potential guy  yg single.. Muda etc..

zuuu

PuanNab replied at 24-1-2019 05:09 PM
Good... Hopefully kakak tt belajar dri kesilapan. Menjadi seorang wanita yg bergelar isteri, x kis ...

From ur word I can tell that you're one strong woman that have gone through a lot of struggle...moga dipermudahkan segala urusan...I love ur quotes about real queen,very inspiring

PuanNab

zuuu replied at 27-1-2019 12:52 PM
From ur word I can tell that you're one strong woman that have gone through a lot of struggle...mo ...

Auww thanks. Tbh saya suka jdi wnita yg naikkan semangat kaum wnita sndri. Even those women yg menjatuhkan saya haha

Sbb i been through one moment gduh sbb sorg laki. Before when i was in high school, what i learned, jgn jdi kemaruk fight over your females semata mata rebut one guy yg dont see your own worth. Its just a waste.

Then bila dh kwen, mmg kita kena jadi protective for what belong to us. But simply think, dlm dnia ni smua pimjaman tuhan. Allah nk uji, bila2 msa je kita akan diuji right.

2nd, what i learned is you can protect your spouse as much as you want, but you cant protect your man or your woman if they even dont to be kept.

Those word really deep but true.

So what i learned is, be someone that make myself happy. Kita yg boleh bhgiakan diri kita, bkn psangan kita.

Lgipun semak kpla je nk fikir dan menangis all the time. Lembik nnti kalau keep in victim mode... Cukup la utk 2017 & 2018. Hehe

PuanNab

knnk replied at 25-1-2019 05:23 PM
Entahlah TT, you dah nasihatkan dia pun tak jalan kan. I cadangkan you suruhlah parents you interven ...

Bagus @knnk tetap kuat walaupun from broken family. U dh kwen? I bet if u dh kwen dan dpt fmily psangan yg loving each other msti u akan rsa disygi.

My hubby from broken fmily. Dri apa yg i nmpk, dia mmg ada mslah nk bergaul dlm fmily sy. Bnda tu ssh nk bentuk dan tgur since dia xrsa nk perbaiki sisi hitam hdup dia.

Normally smua fmily bila rya, smua happy beraya jmpa snak saudara. Happy la that time. Ada makan2 plk malam2 beramai2. Mcm one big clan. Tp fmily suami sy, xde smua tu. In fact dia org xde beraya dgn fmily pun. Rmh dia org tutup je. Suasana tu mmg agak janggal bagi sy sebenarnya dan menyedihkan sbb majoriti newly wed akan beraya sekali. Pakai bju sedondon smua. I xde alami bnda tu. Mmg sedih tp sy anggap ujian dan teruskan happy amongst fmily. Byk lgi sisi hitam from my hubby fmily yg buat sy simpati dkt dia tp at the same time rsa knp la husband sy xbijak nk overcome pain tu. Mgkin sbb his parents ajar utk xde cmpur dgn org luar.

And tbh msa i msuk dlm fmily hubby, apa yg i nmpk, psikososial suami sy ada msalah sbb dia dibesarkan dlm situasi broken fmily.

Deep down sy kesian dkt hubby, tp since dia mmg dididik dlm suasana yg byk krisis and gduh, dia jdi pnas baran dan the most thing pling nmpk ketara dlm diri dia, dia xde sifat empati. Benda tu la yg buat saya rsa i cant pity on him so much smpai buat jiwa sy plk menderita.

Tbh, if you can still manage for overcome your pains and build a happy life for yourself, thats mean you being responsible towards yourself and you should do that.