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iols pernah baca somewhere.. once u married, u can no longer be friends with d single bff h have, y? sbb u will no longer ada same interest, conversation and problem. d best way for this is just to move on and get another that might be suitable for u.
dr ayat tt dgn fried, seems that kwn2 u yg da kawin rasa xde apa yg berubah, that's y bagi dorg its ok to mengadu semaua benda, tp hakikatnya byk yg berubah. to me, sekiranya dr awal u x suka dgr dia mengadu psl hal rumahtangga, u shud bgtau and be honest. even skrg pn u bole bgtau cos its never too late nor too early to act. kalau dia rasa bole accept, maka dia akan stay, tp kalau dia rasa difficult, maka bpisah la lebih baik. hubungan itu give and take, dua hala, tapi kalau hanya sehala yg merasainya, maka iols tanya, sampai bila? tepuk akal, tanya diri.. |
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QIsmail replied at 3-4-2019 05:58 PM
In my case, terbalik. I yg sibuk cari kawan I even after I’m married. Tp dia yg makin menjauh {:1_ ...
kenapa u masih cari kwn u? maybe kwn u ada reason tsdiri kot x nk dekat dgn married friend. sometimes ada jenis kawan yg rs susah nk contact kwn dia yg da kawin mgkn atas komitmen sbg isteri org, atau dia x suka spouse kwn tu, maka dia cuba mengelak dr bertembung lg. |
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mintu replied at 4-4-2019 12:03 AM
kenapa u masih cari kwn u? maybe kwn u ada reason tsdiri kot x nk dekat dgn married friend. someti ...
Well, she’s my best friend. I don’t think I need further reasons than that. Plus, she’s had a history of depression. I just don’t want her to feel alone that’s all.
Entahla. Org slalu tuduh org yg dh Kahwin ni akan tinggal kawan dia - but I won’t. I guess in my case, bila dh Kahwin ni, it’s the married ones who get marginalised |
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Dulu masa ada laki i pun xda ramai kawan pompuan
Bila dah single balik ni pun tak ramai jugak
Sama je sebab sibuk dengan anak4 LA pulak |
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sy takde masalah plak dengan best friend even dia dah kawen and ade anak..sy plak still bujang sampai skrg  kami selalu je plan gi shopping sekali, lepak2 kat pantai mcm zaman sekolah dulu. husband dia pun jenis tak kisah..dah faham sgt kut sebab best friend dari umur 14thn kut.
tapi sy ade jugak 1 kawan ni yang dah 3 kali kawen asyik masalah dgn setiap husband dia. jenis yg jumpa asyik nak ngadu pasal laki..setiap kali jumpa takde topik lain melainkan topik laki dia..tu tak trmasuk call ikut suka dia je, awal subuh pun boleh call. sebagai kawan kita dengar & bagi nasihat tapi dia ni jenis degil, tak mau dengar  apa pun sy doakan yg terbaik untuk dia, sebab dia pun kawan yg baik. |
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lakunya sampai 3kali tawin |
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entahla sis, laku kt mana pun x tau la saya
stok2 ustazah nak cari laki beriman konon dan asal berlaki kaedahnye, last2 cari masalah sendiri.
as a friend dia memang baik tapi tu la nasihat x nak dgr la plak.
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Meiizu replied at 1-4-2019 04:34 PM
yes..i pun sama.dah dump kawanku nama A.. kurangkan circle of frens . lantak ko lah ...fedap ...
I kdg2 Rasa Nak dump Tapi Yelah kawan pun makin lama makin limited, makin Ramai Dah kahwin..acane...Tapi bosan bila jadi kawan touch and go nie..Dier perlukan kita Dier Dtg..Dier takmo kita Dier lupakan...nyampah.. |
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yuki812 replied at 3-4-2019 05:18 PM
i kalau dlm grp wasap member yg rapat mmg kami tak pernah citer hal laki bini. hal anak pon jarang.. ...
I'm looking for friends like this..not those yang selfish Asyik cerita pasal suami Dier, ngandung Dier and Anak Dier jaaaa.. |
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QIsmail replied at 3-4-2019 05:58 PM
In my case, terbalik. I yg sibuk cari kawan I even after I’m married. Tp dia yg makin menjauh {:1_ ...
Kawan2 Ader terasa something lar tue.. |
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mintu replied at 3-4-2019 11:58 PM
iols pernah baca somewhere.. once u married, u can no longer be friends with d single bff h have, ...
Sekarang nie I Dah mula involve Dgn single friends and I feel quite okay...kurang sikit drama mengandung, drama anak, drama suami...women, Tak boring Ker.. |
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QIsmail replied at 4-4-2019 07:08 AM
Well, she’s my best friend. I don’t think I need further reasons than that. Plus, she’s had a h ...
I think Dier rasa down..sometimes when our best friend Dah kahwin, rasa Mcm our friend Dah kena rampas and they forget about us..maybe bring your friend out for a special day..your friend Akan happy... |
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Edited by masayuki at 5-4-2019 11:57 PM
Saya punya kes terbalik... Suami bagi ja saya keluar dengan kawan-kawan.
Tapi, kawan saya yang bujang pulak sibuk memanjang. Nak ajak keluar tu, bukan main payah. Last sekali, saya tak contact dia dah. Ikut dia la nak ajak saya keluar bila dia free. Huhuhu... |
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rasenye depends pd jenis kwn tu jugak kot.. sbb i ade sorg kwn baik, after kawen. mmg hilang terus, xde contact2 dah..mase mule2 tu je ade msg2 sbb mase tu die mengadu xpregnant lg pdhal mase tu baru 3bln kawen..i pn bg lh semangat ckp it's normla xpregnant lg, lgpun mude lg kan..but after dh pregnant, hilang terus dr hidup..bz dgn ank2 barangkali.. ade kwn baik i yg sorg lg ni plak, after kawen, still masih yg same mcm sblm kawen..bile jumpe xde lh asyik dgr cite psal husband die je.. blh la dgr cite i yg stress dgn keje ni.. mungkin sbb die pn xde ank lg, so die blh hangout dgn ktorg yg single ni..bile dh ade ank maybe die pn mcm kwn baik i yg pertama tu.. |
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Normal la bila dh kawen pompuan terikat dgn family, esp bila beranak kecik nih..Handbag tamau lps..
Tapi bila msg2 anak2 dh besar, weols gather2 la, gossip girls...
I ada set member zmn sekolah..
Zmn u, zmn koje...
So pndi2 la set time
As usual, no gosip psl hubby msg2..keep it to urself sudah..
Weols x amik port x amik tau pun suami msg2 keje hapa..who cares
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Post time 3-4-2019 11:58 PM
