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Let Them Go and U'll Be Happier

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Post time 25-4-2019 04:22 PM | Show all posts |Read mode
Edited by Iris. at 25-4-2019 08:59 AM

I bukak thread ni bukan nak meroyan hal percintaan i... but as a someone in a middle age... i went thru all difficulties in life sampai depressed
i know some of u really struggle in ur marriage or relationship or even friendship
but here i wanna share something... untuk semangat!

i know... moving on and get over someone is the hardest things u have to do... in life and especially with someone u saw ur future with.
if 1 day u ada feeling2 kurang enak tentang hubungan... u can feel something is wrong with ur relationship.. tell them eveyrthing u wanted to tell, how much u love them, how u feel towards ur partner, confront and tell him/her the truth about ur feeling. so u will have no regret or what ifs.
tapi kalau tak berkesan, and if they let u leave without fight for u, then they're not worth it anyways. let them go... he/she doesnt deserve to keep u.

it's going to be soo hurt like hell. i swear to God i felt it before....
but... allow yourself to be sad, to be angry.. but u have to wake up everyday and continue ur life without them.
its better to just let things be, let people go, don't fight for closure anymore, don't ever ask for an explanations.. again. stop chase an answer and don't expect people to understand where you're coming from.

let time heal your wounds. this is a time for u to heal. to take care of ur heart.
one day... u will wake up and u won't miss them anymore.
the empty space in your heart deserve for someone who has the capacity to love u just as much as u love them


(nak tulis fully in malay... rasa cam jiwang pula... walaupun i kembar LISA (tiba2) tapi i faham melayu sebab i melayu )
*siapa alihkan thread i... i sumpah dia kena buasir seumur hidup



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 Author| Post time 25-4-2019 04:29 PM | Show all posts
Edited by Iris. at 25-4-2019 09:31 AM

and for you.... the one yang wanna leave ur partner

if you dont like a person, walk away and leave the person in peace.
u dont have to create untrue stories to please yourself. u will never know how bad ur lies will effect them.

u are adult. dont fall in love just for fun. its no time to play games or easily let people get into ur pants eh ur hearts

lupa nak tambah:
be mature and have BALLs to confront. avoid ghosting... orang yang suka dissappear tu pengecut dan... micropenis

ohh jiwangnya gif

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Post time 25-4-2019 04:30 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Kill this love and thank you next
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 Author| Post time 25-4-2019 04:31 PM | Show all posts
NurAlia14 replied at 25-4-2019 08:30 AM
Kill this love and thank you next

haaa... u pun sama...
this is for YOU as well
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Post time 25-4-2019 04:33 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Some i promise i dendam sampai mati. Hihihihi. Gelak mcm langsuir pls
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 Author| Post time 25-4-2019 04:45 PM | Show all posts
noraidil_06 replied at 25-4-2019 08:33 AM
Some i promise i dendam sampai mati. Hihihihi. Gelak mcm langsuir pls

yeahhhhhh me toooooo.. jantan nama
(takleh upload gif dah for today. no space)










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Post time 25-4-2019 05:13 PM | Show all posts
i wish i can....

let's do it... yawn...
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Post time 25-4-2019 06:14 PM | Show all posts
Bila kau pakai gambar profil Lalisa Manoban aku harap
kecantikan, kecomelan dan "swag" kau (walaupun tak setaraf Lisa)
sekurang kurangnya berada pada tahap 5%.

On topic :
Terima kasih di atas penaipan yang panjang lebar dan
penuh pengisian. Aku harap user lain dapat manfaat daripada
thread ini.

Apa apa pun Lisa is BAE.
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Post time 25-4-2019 06:23 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts

I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
My weakness is
That I care too much
My scars remind me
That the past is real
I tear my heart open
just to feel

Broken and I'm feeling down
And I just want to be alone
I'm pissed cause you came around
Why don't you just go home
'Cause you channel all your pain
And I can't help you go fix yourself
Your making me insane
All I can say is

I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
My weakness is that
I care too much
Our scars remind us
That the past is real
I tear my heart open
Just to feel

I tried to help you once
Against my own advice
I saw you going down
But you never realized
That your drowning in the water
So I offered you my hand
Compassion's in my nature
Tonight is our last stand

I'm broken and I'm feeling down
And I just want to be alone
You shouldn't ever came around
Why don't you just go home?

'Cause your drowning in the water
And I tried to grab your hand
And I left my heart open
But you didn't understand
You fix yourself

I can't help you fix yourself
But at least I can say I tried
I'm sorry but I gotta move on with my own life



maybe not happier, but at least I'm not unhappy now
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Post time 25-4-2019 07:48 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
FitzTzif replied at 25-4-2019 06:23 PM
I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
My weakness is

So good to see someone posted a song.
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Post time 25-4-2019 09:49 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Saya macam tak da emosi malam ni
Jadi macam susah nak faham
Tak pernah bercinta pun ye
Pernah berkahwin dan beranak je
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Post time 25-4-2019 10:49 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
U dah divorced ke iris?
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Post time 26-4-2019 12:09 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
noraidil_06 replied at 25-4-2019 07:48 PM
So good to see someone posted a song.

Huhuhu lagu yg layan zaman mengutip dan menampal kembali keping2 hati yg berkecai

Nah iols belanja lagu dendangan crush sepanjang zaman iols pulak
Thank you Jason Wade yg jadi peneman dari dulu sampai sekarang
Ehh tiberr

No more running, no more hiding
No more hurting, no more crying
No more trouble, no more sighing
No more falling, no more striving
No more heartache, no more fighting
No more fears, only flying

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Post time 26-4-2019 12:18 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
FitzTzif replied at 26-4-2019 12:09 AM
Huhuhu lagu yg layan zaman mengutip dan menampal kembali keping2 hati yg berkecai

Nah iols bela ...

what a sad song. Buddy this is for u
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Post time 26-4-2019 02:12 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
noraidil_06 replied at 26-4-2019 12:18 AM
what a sad song. Buddy this is for u


Camtu la iols gambarkan perasaan iols time tu kaka
Dah la my mom tgh sakit waktu iols berpisah tu
Seboleh mungkin nak tunjuk kuat
tak mau my mom sedih klu nampak iols sedih huhu

Dugaan hidup
Maka hadap la bahagian masing2 kan
Susah macam mana pun
Kena bangkit kembali
Berapa kali jatuh pun
Selagi belum dijemput ajal

Nah seketul lagi lagu yg layan waktu tu huhu


The broken clock is a comfort
It helps me sleep tonight
Maybe it can stop tomorrow
From stealing all my time

And I am here still waiting
Though I still have my doubts
I am damaged at best
Like you've already figured out

I'm falling apart I'm barely breathing
With a broken heart that's still beating
In the pain there is healing
In your name I find meaning

So I'm holdin' on
I'm barely holdin' on to you

The broken locks were a warning
You got inside my head
I tried my best to be guarded
I'm an open book instead

And I still see your reflection
Inside of my eyes
That are looking for a purpose
They're still looking for life

I'm hangin' on another day
Just to see what you will throw my way
And I'm hanging on to the words you say
You said that I will, will be OK

The broken lights on the freeway
Left me here alone
I may have lost my way now
Haven't forgotten my way home

I'm falling apart I'm barely breathing
With a broken heart that's still beating
In the pain there is healing
In your name I find meaning

So I'm holdin' on
I'm barely holdin' on to you

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Post time 26-4-2019 04:25 PM | Show all posts
I'm having trouble letting someone go now. Even though i know this relationship is not taking us anywhere. It is leading us to heartbreak hotel instead.

I'm here and he's there. We have too many differences. It is just impossible for us to be together.
But still, i stay. Hoping for him to fight for us.

How to let him go?

sigh.

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 Author| Post time 26-4-2019 05:30 PM | Show all posts
alaa replied at 26-4-2019 08:25 AM
I'm having trouble letting someone go now. Even though i know this relationship is not taking us any ...

read again my post... and think!love is worth fighting for, but sometimes u cant be the only one fighting. u just have to realize what u give to him was more than he were willing to give u..

LEAVE
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 Author| Post time 26-4-2019 05:30 PM | Show all posts
onexox97 replied at 25-4-2019 01:49 PM
Saya macam tak da emosi malam ni
Jadi macam susah nak faham
Tak pernah bercinta pun ye

time kawin dan process buat anak tu lah bercinta namanya
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Post time 26-4-2019 05:44 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Iris. replied at 26-4-2019 05:30 PM
time kawin dan process buat anak tu lah bercinta namanya

Owh kalau itulah dikatakan cinta
Maksudnya adalah ye i bercinta
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Post time 27-4-2019 02:41 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Saya pulak jenis tak pernah kapel more than 1 year. Lelaki tunjuk baran je, tinggal. Nak ringan2 je tinggal. Last2 takot dah nak kapel.
Mase sekolah dulu ade belajar yang zina antara dosa paling besar, tapi mase tu saya pikir "alahai senang je ni, sape la yang gile nak tunjuk anu tu kat orang? Malu kot".
Bile sampai bf ajak buat benda yang bukan2 dah rase iman tu goyang, macam2 alasan dalam otak ni. Tapi sebab saya pengecut, saya takot saya dipergunakkan lepas tu dibuang aje, jadi saya mintak putus. Saya takut saya tak boleh tolak pujuk rayu dia.
Sekarang ni saya takot nak kapel, takot saya tak bole tolak pujuk rayu orang yang saya sayang lepas tuh tergadai maruah macam tu je. Saya mengaku saya memang jenis lurus jugak, dan senang nak diperdaya, sebab tu kot ex saya ingat saya ni jenis senang nak dapat.
Tapi sebab pengalaman saya ni saya tak pernah nak judge pompuan yang lemah iman dia, sebab dalam fikiran saya " that could  have been me, if i was weak at that time". Seram je bile pikir balik.
Saya teringat kakak saya pernah cakap "dek, jaga la dara tu baik2 dik, sebab lelaki jahat macam mane pon mesti nak kawen dengan pompuan yang baik2 je".
Saya paham maksud kakak saya tu, kalau laki yang teruk nak perempuan yang baik je, yang baik lagi la kan?  Ayat tu je yang saya pegang sampai bile2.
Kalau yang dah takde dara tu jangan la terasa pulak dengan ape yang saya cakap ni, ni cume panduan dari kakak saya je. Ni kate2 yang saya jadikan panduan untuk saya. Orang kat dunia ni macam2, ade je yang baik dan holeh terima perempuan takde dara. Tapi saya yang pilih untuk simpan dara saya untuk suami saje.
Errr..bile tulis panjang2 ni makin merepek lak.

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