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[Tempatan] Gantung diri tekanan home work banyak

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Post time 26-8-2019 07:09 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Aduihai kesiannya adik ni.. Sedih baca berita ni.. Dia tertekan banyak kerja sekolah... Teringat dulu.. Kerja sekolah berlambak juga.. Selalu nangis sambil siapkan kerja rumah. Tido pukul 1 pagi. Hari2 kena habiskan 100 soalan matematik dan subjek lain2. Sekolah ada dua sesi. Petang pi sekolah agama, ustazah tanya tak dapat jawab kena denda, cubit perut, berdiri satu masa.. Manalah sempat nak siapkan kerja sekolah yg bermacam2 dan nak ulangkaji lagi. Hehari stress, sampaikan iols tak suka zaman sekolah. Lega bila dah habis sekolah..
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Post time 26-8-2019 07:09 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
lazim replied at 26-8-2019 06:54 PM
Kdg2 ank2 ni ok je, drg kne mrh pon dorang biasa2 je .dia kena  mrh kawan dia pon kena jgk. Mak ma ...

Tak semua gitu.. Ada anak2 yg x berani bersuara.. Terima je cikgu bg apa.. Nak menolak nanti cikgu kata awak cikgu ke saya cikgu.. Anak I pernah je cerita.. Dia x faham cikgu tu ajar.. Tanya soalan.. Kena marah balik.. Dpn kwn2.. Sampai dia down sgt.. I pergi sekolah anak masa ambil report card.. I beritahu cikgu tu bahawa anak I ada masalah kalau belajar math atau sains untuk imagine proses.. Kena tunjuk cara.. Contoh kalau nak tunjuk beza saat dgn minit dan jam tu.. Kena tunjuk jam sebenar at least.. Bawak model @ alat bantu mengajar.. Guess what the teacher say??

"Oh iye ke.. Tak tahu pula saya anak puan mcm tu.." Ni x tanya dlm whatsapp ye.. I face to face.. Cikgu kena kenal murid.. Ni nasib baik I pun cikgu.. Tahu sedikit sbyk nak ajar anak.. Kalau parents lain mcm mana?



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Post time 26-8-2019 07:34 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Personally, as an ex educator myself, i dont believe in excessive ‘homework’ for students. I didnt  give students a lot of homework and if i did, i didnt stress tht much on the homeworks. I put my focus on the activities/ learning session in class. Buat assessment pun at the end of the class just for some drilling. Teachers rase nye kene slow down skit homework ni but focus on making them understand the learning process itself. Homework isnt helping when the class session was botched, halfcooked and confusing. But of course dah jd budaya kat sini. Bila ade homework, senang sikit kerja cikgu nk mengajar. Kene slowly eliminate tht. Try to make the learning process is a meaningful and learnable bukan suh dia belajar sendiri kat rumah. N kene igt the students bukan kene focusnkat subjek kita shj. They have a lot more to digest from other subject.
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Post time 26-8-2019 07:37 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
jeruklimau replied at 26-8-2019 07:09 PM
Tak semua gitu.. Ada anak2 yg x berani bersuara.. Terima je cikgu bg apa.. Nak menolak nanti cikgu ...

Perbincangam dgn cikgu ok je face to face. Tp klu mak wasap cikgu nk explain dlm wasap tu klakar ok. Motif cikgu nk kne bt 2 sesi mngajar plk.  Klu aku cikgu lps waktu sklh mmg aku xreply.

Xtau la bdk2 skrg mcm mn, kne mrh trs mak yg xpuas hati. Dr zmn dlu ada bdk fhm & x fhm solution bdk usahakn & bljr tgging akibat, yg berduit mngkin blh tusyen.

Point aku bdk2 ptut dibiarkan utk berdikari, xreti tnya kawan, tnya cikgu, mak bpk blh bntu google sana sini. Tlg la jgn mak sound cikgu dlm wasap group. Klu xpuas ht bincang dpn2 ok.

Sampai zmn uni pon, kita akn jmpa lecturer yg jns xajar tb2 srh bt kt whiteboard. Plg hebat kita sumpah dlm hati. Tak mngkin kita ngadu kt mak mak wasap lecturer bendanya sama biarkn drg lalui proses tu tnpa mak masuk campur dlm wasap. Klu sound xpyh bg homework tu mmg meminta kena bwg.
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Post time 26-8-2019 07:42 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ladybugz replied at 26-8-2019 07:34 PM
Personally, as an ex educator myself, i dont believe in excessive ‘homework’ for students. I didnt ...

Setuju 100%
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Post time 26-8-2019 07:56 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
jeruklimau replied at 26-8-2019 06:49 PM
Salah faham ni.. Bukan jgn bg homework.. Tp jgn bg homework kpd parents bila cikgu tu x terangkan  ...

Erk?kiranya 100% salah cikgu jgk?ckgu tu mmg salah sbb tak bg explanation bila ditanya..tp at the same time,parents kena jugak reti nak mendidik,xleh harapkn cikgu semata,ingat ye sis,budak2 lagi senang ikut makpak drpd cikgu2..tp lagi senang terpengaruh dgn peers..

Makpak jgn bg alasan xde masa,xde education tinggi smpai xleh tlg anak sendiri,bukan anak org lain sis..u as a teacher and educator should know this..jgn jadikan masa as a reason tak nak involved dgn anak..aiolzs cukup pantang dgn parents mcm ni...bila anak2 berkelakuan tak elok,salah cikgu jgk,walhal the best education supposedly started from home..

Pasal homework tu lagi satu,kenapa nak kena anggap that homework as parents' homework?boleh je kan parents guide the child,kalau dah ckgu pun malas nak bg explanation,parents check out the pages n find any relevant sources that can help ur child..not just merungut and regards that as your homework..aduhaiiiii...you just guide ur child,let them do by themselves kecuali dorg betul2 perlukan pertolongn baru u tlg buatkn..kalau x,smpai bila dorg nak belajar?

U think about the consequences once u said that to ur child's teacher..sebagai org y dlm bidang y sama,you should know better kan..betapa bawangnya cikgu2 ni..dah kesian sgt iolzs dgn anak you...

Sy boleh ckp mcm ni sbb sy ada students y autistic,tgk mcm mana parents treat the children,sanggup luangkn masa utk bwk anak pergi therapist etc,and fyi,they are WORKING parents yaa..bukan setakat housewife jah..and parents y ada anak y normal bila dorg cari alasan xdpt tlg/didik anak dorg,I'm speechless..anak sendiri tuh..omg!
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Post time 26-8-2019 08:23 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
salmon-suki replied at 26-8-2019 07:56 PM
Erk?kiranya 100% salah cikgu jgk?ckgu tu mmg salah sbb tak bg explanation bila ditanya..tp at the  ...

Hai sis.. chill sis. I ni sbb dah belajar formally all the pedagogy and a lot of reading on how to teach a teacher to teach. I xde ckp pun mak ayah x yah main peranan. Opkos la sis mak ayah kene main peranan. Tp celah mana teori yg cikgu boleh suh budak skolah blaja sendiri lebih drpd diorg belaja dlm class. Dah jd satu tebiat pengajaran kita ni bg Terlebih homework without giving proper attention to the inclass activities/assignment/ etc. Nk suh student self study kene tgk la umur budak tu. Kalau dah primary or early secondary school berpada2 la. Ape2 project pun kalau ikut ape yg sy kaji n belajar abt pedagogy n thru my own experience kene buat dalam kelas or at least bagi proper guidelines. Dont just humban kat students suh buat kat rumah.
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Post time 26-8-2019 08:38 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ladybugz replied at 26-8-2019 08:23 PM
Hai sis.. chill sis. I ni sbb dah belajar formally all the pedagogy and a lot of reading on how to ...

That's why in my first comment ai said both salah,cikgu salah sbb x bg explanation and that parents y egois haa..

Tapi kita xtaw actual situation kan,either cikgu tu pernah tnjuk dlm kelas atau tak..sbb x diceritakn dlm komen itu..y dishare cuma cikgu bg homework kt budak bila mtk explanation,cikgu malas2 nak jwb pstu parents ngamuk..

I couldn't chill kalau parents bagi alasan xdpt tlg anak buat homework atau anything related to their own kids..as if indirectly implying y anak2 tu beban utk dorg..sedih sgt2...

N sis,u study pedagogy, do you believe in teachers and parents working together to educate the children?
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Post time 26-8-2019 09:15 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Dik, akak pun tengah depresi dengan masalah duniawi. Tapi kau dulu pergi bawa diri. Kesiannya. Rip ya.
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Post time 26-8-2019 09:44 PM | Show all posts
lazim replied at 26-8-2019 06:36 PM
Aku pnh je budak bagi surat maknya tulis bagitau anak dia xdapat dtg kerja sebab sakit perut. Aku  ...

OMG!!! ini ke generasi baru yg kita dapat?? adoyai!!
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Post time 26-8-2019 09:49 PM | Show all posts
monsterwife replied at 26-8-2019 06:48 PM
Ini aku setuju...mak bapak tak de nak busy body sgt.st least boleh letih anak2 jadi berani bersuar ...

mak aku yg tak sekolah tinggi pun selalu jenguk jenguk homework kami. Dia tanya apa homework hari ni?? meh mak tengok. siap tolong kami hafal sifir. Maksudnya, dia amik berat ttg education tp takkan masuk campur berlebihan smp jd helicopter parents. Aruah pak aku English mmg makanan dia. So dia akan lebihkan ajar kami english klu kami tak faham. Itulah beza parents dulu dgn skrg. parents dulu siapkan anak2 utk hadapi reality hidup di akan dtg. Be street smart jgn book smart saja. Anak2 skrg ni, apa yg lari dr teks book, mmg gelabah tetek tak blh berfikir dah nak buat apa.
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Post time 26-8-2019 09:50 PM | Show all posts
ladybugz replied at 26-8-2019 07:34 PM
Personally, as an ex educator myself, i dont believe in excessive ‘homework’ for students. I didnt ...

ko tak faham. Sekolah cina ni, klu cikgu tak bg homework sebanyak smp nak muntah budak budak tu, mak bapa akan komplen buat bising. Nak buat camna?? serba salah cikgu di buatnya.
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Post time 26-8-2019 11:18 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Aku sbagai ckgu pun kalau bgi homework ikut tahap pljar. Kelas cemerlang memang kena bagi homework lebih sikit, klau xbgi ada certain parents yg akan call skolah complaint.. esok waktu kelas bincang, tp slalunya 90% plajar xda solan nk discuss pun. Klau kelas yg sederhana, bg sikit jer latihan mix solan moderate n susah, esok wktu kelas slalunya bincang soalan susah jer la.

Klau kelas lemah memang jarang la bgi homework. Pernah gak bagi, sorg buat yg lain copy, kwan tulis lain dia paham kot lain. So memang aku  fokus jer dlm kelas.. Jujurnya budak kelas belakang ni memang xda langsung semangat nk blajar, klau yg bersemangat kesian pun ada sbb yg basic pun lemah, ajar muka nganga jer Masing2. Tu pun ajar bnda yg simple xda yg Kbat.
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Post time 26-8-2019 11:32 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
jeruklimau replied at 26-8-2019 04:49 AM
Aku pernah je smash cikgu yg bg kerja rumah byk ni. Ada satu homework science.. Nak cerita tentang f ...

Apa babi la cikgu mcm ni
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Post time 26-8-2019 11:34 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
lazim replied at 26-8-2019 06:41 AM
Halah2 mak bpk pon homework ank pon nk mnyibuk. Sikit2 nk wasap cikgu. Ank ko reti ke xreti bt pan ...

Masa aku sekolah dulu takde pulak cikgu bagi homework yg susah sampai tak reti buat. Mengarut apa suruh buat fridge magnet. Dah tu baik xyah gi sekolah kalau semua kena tau sendiri. We expect cikgu ajar kt sekolah. Kalau parents yg kena ajar baik makpak homeschool je anak
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Post time 26-8-2019 11:46 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
armin replied at 26-8-2019 01:02 AM
Aih seronoknya?? Zaman iols dlu tAkde pun mcm ni. Syok la soalan exam pun senang. Nak score pun se ...

Siyesly soalan senang pon ada jugak fail tau.. Yang meniru jangan cakaplaa.. Tutorial kacang2 soalan nak jawab pon tiru kawan sebijik2. Sekali bagi soalan test application hamik ko. Terbarai jawapan ada yang tak jawab langsung. Ni spm distinction ya bukan yang biasa2.
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Post time 26-8-2019 11:55 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ladybugz replied at 26-8-2019 07:34 PM
Personally, as an ex educator myself, i dont believe in excessive ‘homework’ for students. I didnt ...

Harap cikgu2 berfikir cara ni
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Post time 26-8-2019 11:58 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Makpak sibukkan homework anak sampai sound cikgu pastu bila anak tak reti berdikari, tak berani communicate, tak reti selesaikan masalah, makpak terpuranjat lak.

Ada je registration kat kolej skang ne makpak yang dok beratur, dok isikan borang utk anak, dok tanya course info.. Yang nak belajo anaknya ke makpaknya meols pon tak paham..

Tapi ada je student yang independent & tahu apa yang dia nak buat. So nak cakap memang wujud pun situasi ni and kadang makpak sundri adalah enabler.
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Post time 27-8-2019 12:05 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Cikgu dulu lain,cikgu sekarang lain.macamana lainnya budak dulu dgn budak sekarang.cikgu pon siap pesan dalm wasap,ibu bapa tolong anak2 siapkan keeja sekolah dan siap pesan kat anak2 suh buat kerja sekolah dgn ibu bapa dan kadang2 siap ada explaination cara buat homework dalam wasap
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Post time 27-8-2019 10:11 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ladybugz replied at 26-8-2019 08:23 PM
Hai sis.. chill sis. I ni sbb dah belajar formally all the pedagogy and a lot of reading on how to ...

Yess.. Ini la yg I cuba ckp tp still ada org salah faham. I dah beritahu anak I baru tahap 1.. So menyuruh murid tanpa satu pun tunjuk ajar I rasa x patut.. Nk suruh dia menyatakan yg dia x setuju cara cikgu tu pun dia belum pandai lagi..

In reality, kita tak boleh nafikan memang wujud parents yg x dpt tgk pun buku @ kerja anak2.. Dan x tau.. Sbb tu I rasa x patut kalau cikgu x ajar langsung murid @ bg guideline.. Nak lg kalau tugasan tu sukar.. Bukan semua murid bernasib baik pun dpt parents yg boleh beri mereka tunjuk ajar.. Tapi sbgi guru.. U kena jlnkan tanggungjawab u mengajar.. Supaya kalau murid tu x tahu.. Dan ibu bapa x bantu.. Melalui tunjuk cara guru.. Murid tu boleh berdikari nak buat sendiri.. Takdelah dia stres bila parents x bantu @ kena marah dgn guru bila tak dpt selesaikan tugasan. Tu pandangan saya la..
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