Tidak mahu anak setelah berkahwin?

ramaramu

my partner and i never really said about it..
tapi i cakap dengan dia if we settle down i nak anak.. seorang pun jadi lah..

dia dah ada satu anak lelaki with previous marriage so i think dia pun 50-50 nak ada anak kecik lagi.. sebab age and also career..
i try to reason with myself maybe sbb dia dah mid 40's and i am in my early 30's..

i guess everyone has their own reason kot kalau tak nak anak..

menakkautau

ramaramu replied at 3-3-2020 10:29 AM
my partner and i never really said about it..
tapi i cakap dengan dia if we settle down i nak anak. ...

SELFISH laki hang.....dia takut hang pinggirkan anaknya bersama exnya bila hang dah dapat anak sendiri perhaps...

possible????

ramaramu

menakkautau replied at 4-3-2020 02:41 PM
SELFISH laki hang.....dia takut hang pinggirkan anaknya bersama exnya bila hang dah dapat anak sen ...

i dont think dia takut i pinggirkan anaknya because i and anaknya ok je get along well..kita travel pun sama sama.. the boy dah kat uni pun..

i think it's because he plan to retire early and enjoy life but if we were to have a child kena la dia kerja lagi..
plus if 50 baru nak dapat anak kan penat nak jaga

menakkautau

ramaramu replied at 4-3-2020 03:59 PM
i dont think dia takut i pinggirkan anaknya because i and anaknya ok je get along well..kita trave ...

hang sendirik tak mahu zuriat yg lahir dari air kumbahan hang kah???