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Author: Normabaru

Berdamai dengan takdir

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Post time 9-7-2020 09:40 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Baiklah..
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Post time 9-7-2020 10:00 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Sebelum PKP, I pernah disakiti oleh seseorang sebanyak 4 kali. Dia tak cakap direct pada I, tapi dia ckp pada orang lain. Dgn I dia buat biasa saja.

Masa PKP, I cut contact dgn dia. Mmg I tak amik tau lansung pasal dia. I fokus work from home, siapkan journal articles, siapkan kerja kerja yg boss suruh. Dia ada cuba mesej sekali dua tapi I balas sepatah je. I stopped updating my social media accounts. I let go of him.

Dalam masa yg sama I mulakan self healing. I belajar self love, utamakan perasaan sendiri dulu. Alhamdulillah I belajar drpd guru guru yg bagus, yg ajar sampai kita betul2 faham. Lama lama I faham kenapa selama ni I selalu hurt. Then I changed the story inside me. I ignored the reality, I focused on my inner self.

Bila dah start kerja ikut giliran, masa tu nampak something changed. Dia terkejar kejar I. Sibuk cari I dtg office ke tak. I balik lambat pun tanya kenapa. Tercari cari I kat online. Dia yg terhegeg hegeh nak buat research project dgn I. My response? Buat biasa. I managed to remove him from the pedestal.

Sekarang mcm pattern lama berulang balik, tapi I cepat tangkap situasi tu dan I cepat2 fokus balik pada diri. Bila kerja balik ni, kekadang terlari fokus sebab kelam kabut dgn kerja. Tapi sejak belajar self love, I dah pandai fokus balik pada diri sendiri.

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 Author| Post time 9-7-2020 10:16 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Knowlee replied at 9-7-2020 10:00 AM
Sebelum PKP, I pernah disakiti oleh seseorang sebanyak 4 kali. Dia tak cakap direct pada I, tapi dia ...


Wah..bagus2!!!

Tahniah to u sis...

Self love ni mmg ramai perempuan xtahu appreciate..bila dh exhausted.. Dh nothing left.. Baru dia sedar.. Masa pon dh tlambat..

Nah i share doa utk u... Semoga baik2 aja ya!
Thanks sudi drop komen

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Post time 9-7-2020 11:05 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Aku pn ... Malas dh di kenang2
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Post time 9-7-2020 11:17 AM | Show all posts
takde gadoh2 ka
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 Author| Post time 9-7-2020 11:37 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
salamon replied at 9-7-2020 11:17 AM
takde gadoh2 ka

Gadoh2 ni sbb masih care.. Masih concern.. Masih ada lg xlepas habis..
Now dah 2020..dunia pon xmacam dlu..so lets move on shall we?
#Gittewww...
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Post time 9-7-2020 11:38 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Normabaru replied at 9-7-2020 10:16 AM
Wah..bagus2!!!

Tahniah to u sis...

1 tips untuk berdoa supaya hati yakin doa tu makbul ialah berdoa dalam bentuk present tense. Macam dah dapat atau sedang berlaku, ditambah dengan rasa syukur dan gembira benda tu sedang berlaku atau dah jadi.
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 Author| Post time 9-7-2020 11:39 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Knowlee replied at 9-7-2020 11:38 AM
1 tips untuk berdoa supaya hati yakin doa tu makbul ialah berdoa dalam bentuk present tense. Macam ...

Dah jadi past tense cayang oi. Hehe

Apepun makasih kongsi info nyaaaa
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Post time 9-7-2020 12:27 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
aku puan dh lama berdamai dgn takdir... asik dok meratib nape gini nape gitu, ujung2 kita stress sendiri... yg melukakan kita tu aman2 jah..

so hadap je apa dh jadi... enjoy and be grateful ...
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 Author| Post time 9-7-2020 01:55 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
misuke replied at 9-7-2020 12:27 PM
aku puan dh lama berdamai dgn takdir... asik dok meratib nape gini nape gitu, ujung2 kita stress sen ...


Nah utk dek misuke dan lain2 yang strong dan suda move forward  

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Post time 9-7-2020 02:25 PM | Show all posts
Normabaru replied at 9-7-2020 11:37 AM
Gadoh2 ni sbb masih care.. Masih concern.. Masih ada lg xlepas habis..
Now dah 2020..dunia pon x ...

org kata gadoh2 ni makin eratkan silaturahim, sis...hehe
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 Author| Post time 9-7-2020 02:37 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
salamon replied at 9-7-2020 02:25 PM
org kata gadoh2 ni makin eratkan silaturahim, sis...hehe

Ouh.. Normabaru utk bermesra ke ni...

Dik emon dah eratkan hub dgn sapa je?

Hihii
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Post time 9-7-2020 03:02 PM | Show all posts
Normabaru replied at 9-7-2020 02:37 PM
Ouh.. Normabaru utk bermesra ke ni...

Dik emon dah eratkan hub dgn sapa je?

dik emon x suke la gaduh2 sis norma..biasher mon buat silent treatment je/ignorant terus until we become totally stranger to each other...
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 Author| Post time 9-7-2020 03:42 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
salamon replied at 9-7-2020 03:02 PM
dik emon x suke la gaduh2 sis norma..biasher mon buat silent treatment je/ignorant terus until we  ...

Ya its better be total stranger.

As the saying says,
weak people revenge
strong people forgive
intelligent ppl ignores  

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Post time 9-7-2020 08:47 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by green~tea at 9-7-2020 09:17 PM
Normabaru replied at 9-7-2020 01:55 PM
Nah utk dek misuke dan lain2 yang strong dan suda move forward


Yes dik... shine all you can.. elok positifkan diri ni.. selagi kita ni normal, masalah or challenges  itu akan sentiasa ada.. tak perlu serabutkan diri dengan benda tak penting.. just do whatever necessary and move on... lagi byk benda boleh selesai... and bila kita memudah cara urusan orang, Allah akan memudahkan urusan kita...  

iols dpt promotion di kala recession, rezeki yang tak terduga, mungkin hadiah Allah apabila kita selalu memudahkan urusan org lain
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Post time 19-7-2020 01:04 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
You can't change how people treat u
Or what the say about u

All u can do is change  how u REACT to it
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 Author| Post time 19-7-2020 01:59 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by Normabaru at 21-7-2020 08:52 AM
kaseh80 replied at 19-7-2020 01:04 PM
You can't change how people treat u
Or what the say about u



Yup.. Only YOU can only control ur inner circle within urself
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Post time 21-7-2020 07:42 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
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Post time 22-7-2020 03:17 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by terma2nkondisi2 at 22-7-2020 03:19 AM

let bygones be bygones
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Post time 31-7-2020 03:49 AM | Show all posts

Baiklah..
what baiklah .. dengan nafas yang mengeloh ..hoho
no .. no ..
accepting one thing ..
challenging another thing ..

once you accept .. you must challenge
takdir illahi .. illahi yang mengubah ..
takdir manusiawi .. manusiawi yang mengubah ..
change your management .. pentadbiran hidup ..

Allah mendatangkan cabaran sebagai ujian
untuk memberi kita peluang meraih
  • kemuliaan dan
  • kecemerlangan

bukan berserah pada
  • kelemahan dan
  • kegagalan


supaya dengan kekuatan menghadapi cabaran
dapat kita depani dengan secara
  • perwatakan
  • perspektif
  • strategi

yang betul ..
jika dengan dan d'izinkan Allah
insyAllah kita akan
  • terjaga dan
  • terpelihara


eerrmm ..
cabaran adalah
hakikat dan lumrah kehidupan ..

  • godaan luaran
  • dugaan dalam

both ujian cobaan ..

come come we hear this song ..

n i belanja you mee goreng mamak ..

see the mee goreng mamak .. sedap rite ..
sama jugak dengan life kita ..
"life without challenge ..
like eating mee goreng without chilli sauce .. "


i belanja you mee goreng ..
you belanja me one cup pls .. haha


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