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 Author| Post time 15-10-2020 03:24 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
kaoru44 replied at 15-10-2020 03:17 PM
Bpe lama dh suami tt xkeje tu?
Talasemia? So dia slalu lemah2 ke?

5bulan lebih daa...dia talasemia dia ade ubt...x de la lemah pn...
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Post time 15-10-2020 03:25 PM | Show all posts
babymeymey replied at 15-10-2020 03:23 PM
skrg i stay umah mak i..mmg i nak duk asing skjap dgn dia...tp i mmg da cakap i dah penat dgn tawa ...

so now you guys tak duduk sekali lah. ada ke tak dia cari or cakap apa apa?

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 Author| Post time 15-10-2020 03:28 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
CocoCily replied at 15-10-2020 03:18 PM
Memang mil tak kan cakap apa sebab itu anak dia.
My advise kalau kes macamni, TT tanya diri sendi ...

yess...u sama mcm kawan i cakap...klu stat kene hadap nii semua, tp still x de anak nii...better awl2 undur diri sblum complicated...skrg i mmg pk mana yg i nak...tp x nampak ke mcm i nii seorg yg tamak, mcm x brsyukur dgn ape yg ade skrg...or mcm x paham dia?
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 Author| Post time 15-10-2020 03:29 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
CocoCily replied at 15-10-2020 03:25 PM
so now you guys tak duduk sekali lah. ada ke tak dia cari or cakap apa apa?

x...dia x carik..x ws jgk..umah mil dgn umah mak i xjauh pn
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 Author| Post time 15-10-2020 03:32 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
AbukRokok replied at 15-10-2020 03:00 PM
cerai jah

laki xkeje

hurmm ntah laaa....
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 Author| Post time 15-10-2020 03:35 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
siputpepel replied at 15-10-2020 03:04 PM
mungkin tt stress ni.. bila stress memang senang nak buat keputusan terburu2. relax dulu, support du ...

nii actually da kali ke2 jd mcm nii...sblum nii da cakap, bg tempoh...tp mngkin i x tegas, ingt i maen2...
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 Author| Post time 15-10-2020 03:36 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
MissyMolly replied at 15-10-2020 03:05 PM
Ada rasa sayang lagi tak?dah borak hati ke hati pasal nk berpisah?beritahu jelas punca2 u nk bpisah? ...

da bincg, i da terus trg ke dia...i mmg da tawar hati dgn dia da...sbb i trlalu penat...i da penat pk, smpai x tau nape jd mcm nii...
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Post time 15-10-2020 03:39 PM | Show all posts
sy pnh hadap masalah yg sama mcm tt. Sy share sikit la pengalaman sy ble bdepan dgn mslh husband x bekerja ni...
Dulu arwah husband sy ad keje ttp tp xtau kt mn salah nye lps kawen dia dh mula malas nk pegi keje... alasan nye xsihat.. bnda tu berlarutan, on off pegi keje.. selama ni sy xtau pn tp sy 1 hari sy dpt call dr HR opis nye bgtau psl mslh suami sy ni.. mmg rse nk mrh, keje sush nk dpt... ble dpt keje yg bgs, dia wt perangai plk... ble dh kantoi xpegi keje... mmg dia ponteng je lps tu.. bertambah2 lg mslh bila HR turunkan gaji disbbkn mslh disiplin disbbkn ponteng keje ni... gaji makin kurg la sb dia ad loan lg... bertambah2 mslh... so mmg sy sorg je yg tanggung kos setiap bln... nsb la km dpt kuarter... so kurg la sikit beban..

Dipendekkan cerita... sy pksa dia resign... sb dia mmg xberubah pn... jnji nk pegi keje tp ttp xpegi... mungkin sb sy bekerja so dia rse selamat sb mkn minum still ada yg tanggung.. sy yg memendam rse sb kite penat2 pegi keje... tp menanggung org yg xnk berubah... so akhirnya arwah husband balik kg... kakak ipar sllu update yg husband asyik tido.. dia janji nk cari keje tp kt kg, mn ada sgt keje nya.. dia plk xde transport so tu yg dia jdkn alasan.. sy pnh tanya dgn family, kalo nk bcerai... ok ke? ada kwn yg nasihat mntk sy tlg husband, support dia tp dia mmg xberubah pn...

So nasihat sy.. xsalah kalo nk bercerai... tt ckp umo tt 28 kn... sy jd balu pd usia sy 28... kalo nk fikir psl pndgn org sekeliling mmg xkn ada kesudahan. Sy pn alami bnda yg sama, tp lama2 org akn diam... mcm sy... selamat sikit la sb sy keje luar dri kg sy.. so org jarang2 la nmpk...


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 Author| Post time 15-10-2020 03:47 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
tifa_leo replied at 15-10-2020 03:39 PM
sy pnh hadap masalah yg sama mcm tt. Sy share sikit la pengalaman sy ble bdepan dgn mslh husband x b ...

yeke...i tumpang simpati jgk dkat sis...hurmm sama la, taye jgk dekat famili..kawan2...semua cakap better go on dgn life sndri klu smpai mcm nii tahap yer...sbb mcm sis ckap..i mmg mampu tuk tanggung lg, tp i trpaksa keje smpai malam klu nak carik lebih...sbb i bnyak komitment, dia dulu jnji nak tlg sama2...x ley buat la sbb da x keje, mula2 mngkin boleh tahan...tp penat la klu selama yer...
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Post time 15-10-2020 03:55 PM | Show all posts
babymeymey replied at 15-10-2020 03:47 PM
yeke...i tumpang simpati jgk dkat sis...hurmm sama la, taye jgk dekat famili..kawan2...semua cakap ...

btl sis... dlu sy pn sama.. balik lmbt sb nk ot lebih... sb ada komitmen jgk & husband ad ckp jgk nk tlg, tp ble jd mcm tu... gaji kurg, xde mknanya la dia nk tlg sb dh luar kemampuan dia... nsb sy baik sbb mase tu sy xde baby, mungkin tu hikmah Allah nk tnjuk... tp geram jgk la kn ble kte balik keje, dia senang lenang main game.. mau xmrh...


sis pn still blh bfikir2 dalam memandangkn sis still xde baby, kalo ad baby, msti kne fikir byk kali jgk...


bos arwah husband pnh ckp, ptt nye lelaki bila dh berkahwin dia kne tau tanggungjwb, jd lagi serius tp ni sebaliknya... sy frust sgt sb bg sy keje yg dia dpt tu mmg secure sgt.. tp syg... xtau ape mslhnye...
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Post time 15-10-2020 03:57 PM | Show all posts
Mak dia tak suruh dia keja ka? Tak malu kat menantu?

Aku dulu seketika laki tak keja. Dalam 2-3 bulan. Aku bagitau biras, biras bagi tau suami dia (abang suami). Kena hamput la laki aku. Memang aku bgtau biras, aku takmau tanggung laki. Baik aku bercerai.
Baiknya ipar duai aku sebab dorg tak sebelahkan adik dorg (suami aku).

Nak teruskan atau tamatkan perkahwinan tu bergantung pada tt sendiri. Bagi dia tempoh dalam masa beberapa bulan, kena cari keja.
Kalau macam tu jugak, duduk rumah main game saja baik blah saja. Sebelum ada anak ni mudah sikit.
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Post time 15-10-2020 04:35 PM | Show all posts
kalo ikut bani @manakautau

patut cerai ni
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Post time 15-10-2020 04:51 PM | Show all posts
sebagai manusia yang sedang bersabar sebab kewangan tak kukuh dan ada anak, selalu tertanya apa yang menghalang u oll untuk move on.

tanye pada hati, hadir kaunseling sendiri untuk dapatkan sokongan pun ok.pelan2 rancang strategi apa patut.
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Post time 15-10-2020 05:02 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
babymeymey replied at 15-10-2020 03:36 PM
da bincg, i da terus trg ke dia...i mmg da tawar hati dgn dia da...sbb i trlalu penat...i da penat ...

Owh dah bincang..still tkde perubahan..solat istikharah la tt..tp iols rs ok jer pilihan tt tuh
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Post time 15-10-2020 05:03 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
tifa_leo replied at 15-10-2020 03:39 PM
sy pnh hadap masalah yg sama mcm tt. Sy share sikit la pengalaman sy ble bdepan dgn mslh husband x b ...

Takziah u..balu kenapa ya?smg hidup u lebih lancar sekarang
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Post time 15-10-2020 05:21 PM | Show all posts
MissyMolly replied at 15-10-2020 05:03 PM
Takziah u..balu kenapa ya?smg hidup u lebih lancar sekarang

terima kasih... Alhamdulillah skrg dh makin ok... org ckp bsusah2 dulu bsenang2 kemudian...
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 Author| Post time 15-10-2020 06:06 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
tifa_leo replied at 15-10-2020 03:55 PM
btl sis... dlu sy pn sama.. balik lmbt sb nk ot lebih... sb ada komitmen jgk & husband ad ckp jgk  ...

tu la...dgr pndpat mcm2 nii...mcm better go on single...smntara x de ape2 lg nii...x de anak
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 Author| Post time 15-10-2020 06:07 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
maya_mahsuri replied at 15-10-2020 03:57 PM
Mak dia tak suruh dia keja ka? Tak malu kat menantu?

Aku dulu seketika laki tak keja. Dalam 2-3 b ...

hahaha no komen la u...untg ley share dgn biras...
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Post time 15-10-2020 06:48 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
babymeymey replied at 15-10-2020 06:06 PM
tu la...dgr pndpat mcm2 nii...mcm better go on single...smntara x de ape2 lg nii...x de anak

btl sis..tp semua keputusan ats sis jgk..kalo sis rse syg & nk bg masa utk husband berubah..kne tahan mental fizikal la..tp mcm sis ckp, dh pnh jd sblm ni... dia xberubah2 jgk..

sy pn pnh bg mase dgn arwah husband.. tp dia mkin teruk..msti la rse down sb hilang keje..sy dgn dia pjj lps dia resign..  

moga sis jumpe solution utk mslh sis..
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Post time 15-10-2020 07:03 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Agak2 bercerai ni best x?
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