[MERGED] All about lambat cakap/jalan

KakFie

Anak akak yang bongsu (2 tahun 3 bulan) ni pun slow jugak.  Disebabkan dia suka bangett dengan komputer, akak buatkan digital flash card untuk dia.  Tapi progress still taklah convincing sangat.  Akak risau jugak.  Masalah pendengaran ataupun bisu insyAllah dah boleh rule out tapi takut ada speech disorder dan difficulties lain. Masalah ni semua kalau tak dibantu dari awal akan affect learning process dia nanti.  Sebab tu early evaluation dan intervention penting.  Di samping berusaha bagi stimulation untuk dia bercakap, akak doakan semoga dia hanyalah salah seorang late talkers dan tak ada masalah lain.

Apa pun hari sabtu ni akak dah set appointment dengan paeditrician.  Tengok apa evaluation dia.  :pray:

Iman_Baby

Originally posted by sahira at 9-3-2006 02:02 PM
i ok je kdg2 je bile jumpa budak yg sebaya dgn my boy...
tp semlm jupe cat my son dah sebut cat, seronok sgt..
i rase slow2 die akan absord apa yg die dgr..
as parents kite kena sabar le yerk..

sahira,

betul tu... u will be surprised when u find out actually they can say so many words... diorg ni mmg byk absord... melalui reading (time kita read books for them, watching, listening).. like my doter... semalam dia cakp 'Luv mummy n daddy'... terkejut betul kami... so cepat2 we hug n kiss her.... n said well done... to encourage her...

sahira

best yer if my boy cakap camtuh...
i sekrg ajar die flashcard...
bile i sebut die balas dgn bahasa die..
atleast die bole ikut apa kite ajar..

zoe_bear

anak aku pun sama memang berat mulut kita cakap berpatah2 dia angguk2 jer...
puas aku sebut mamaaa.. dia pandang jer kat aku lepas tu blah jer...memang frust betulll..
opps... lupa nak cakap dia dah 1 thn 7 bulan....
nway perkembangan dia okey..aktif , masa 9 bulan jer die dah pandai jalan...
nak kata tak dengar kalau aku panggil dia datang...

sahira

zoe_bear, situasi kite sama lah..
my boy same age dgn anak u..
anak saya 10bln dah boleh jln n sekrg terlalu aktif..
kite panggil n suruh die apa die buat...
cam kakpie bgtau 'berusaha bagi stimulation untuk dia bercakap'
xnak risau2 sgt nanti lg tension...
cuba usaha apa yg perlu

Iman_Baby

Originally posted by sahira at 9-3-2006 03:28 PM
best yer if my boy cakap camtuh...
i sekrg ajar die flashcard...
bile i sebut die balas dgn bahasa die..
atleast die bole ikut apa kite ajar..

sahira,

Keep on doing that...at least u tahu dia faham... cuma biasalah.. 2 say it rite at the first time mmg payah...  I dah start using flashcard when my doter was 1yr old... her first flash card was about 'my body'... it wont take long about 5 - 10mins je.. sbb budak kan senang boring... tapi u lang lagi n lagi... few times in one day... dulu2.. she can only show me 'eyes' when i said 'eyes'... sekarang ni dia dah tahu sebut...

I notice... kid ni actually fast learner... u keep on repeating on the same card few times... nanti u realise diorg boleh sebut... n the next time.. they see it... they know already what it is...

nashra

update lagi pasal my son nih..

last week we all pi pd..

on the way tu my husband singgah jap office nak ambil sesuatu..

so tinggal lah i and anak2 dlm kereta..

si adik dah tidur..bangun awal agaknya..

so kat depan kami ada kereta petronas..

my son tunjuk kat kereta tu sambil cakap, "nas car...nas car" (petronas car)

suprise gak..

but reading pengalaman kawan2 kat sini rasa lega sket..

sekarang nih nashra banyak adapt kan dia dgn cartoon dvds yang dia suka..

so hopefully dari situ dia boleh belajar sket2..tak pe..takes time..

KakFie

Akak dah bawak anak akak jumpak paeditrician untuk evaluate speech development dia.  
Alhamdulillah paed cakap he's not autistic..itu akak punya main concern  cuma dari segi speech memang dia agak delay berbanding general milestone. Development lain ie. fine and gross motor, social  dia semua ok.  Lepas ni kena pergi buat hearing test (walaupun akak pasti dia tak bermasalah dari segi ni.  Procedure agaknya).  Dari situ baru boleh tengok apa yang patut dibuat.  Kalau perlu akan dapatkan bantuan speech pathologist.

Tapi sejak akak and hubby dan anak2 lain bagi intensive speech course pada dia, dia nampak makin banyak communicate dan mengeluarkan perkataan2.  Mungkin selama ni tak cukup stimulation untuk dia.  Tambah lagi dicampur dengan obsession dia dengan computer - tak membantu dia dari segi speech.  Nak cari interactive software pun karang dia lebih berminat dengan how the programme works technically daripada isi software tu...
:stp:

ashtar

Originally posted by Anden at 9-3-2006 12:17 PM
takpe cikedee...tak marah eh..

Ada petua org tua kata letak madu dlm lidah..kasi dia makan..

Yg ni saya cuba amalkan dulu..sambil tu ajar jugak dia cakap...Kalau ada perubahan kita update kat ...

Woo... kalo cam tu nak trylah. Anak Ashtar pun lambat gak cakap.
Umor dah 1thn 6bln. Lum leh cakap lagi. Risau betol la.
Kalo dia nak @ nampak sesuatu dia hanya tunjuk aje.
Cthnya. pagi2 pegi keja mesti nampak bangunan KLCC.
Dia hanya cakap aaaaaaa..... sambil tunjuk objek didepan mata saje.

linsempoi

aku nak kongsi satu petua la...masa dlu adik aku ni salah sorang daripada yg lambat bercakap jugak...dah puas mak aku berubat gi doktor...satu ari ade pakcik nih dia soh mak aku bagi kat adik aku makanan lebihan burung murai....slalu nye burung murai yg di bela la...amik skit makanan dia...pas tu basuh n goreng...yg garing2 tuh...bagi kat adik aku buat kunyah2..adik aku masa tuh dah 2 thn lebih la jugak...ayat dia becakap bleh kire ngan jari brape patah satu ayat...alhamdulillah lepas bagi makan mende tuh...adik aku boleh la becakap dgn slow2...tapi better dari selalu la....tapi sumer kuasa allah...kite hanya berusaha...inysaallah...

askum

bagi i tu perkara normal tapi kite bole ajar dia agar dia dapat tangkap setiap perkataan. pada umur sebegini.. kanak2 berada dalam proses pembelajaran, jadi kite jgn cepat putus asa. ibu bapa kena kuat dalam hal ini. dan kena saling bantu membantu baik si suami atau pun si isteri.
pada peringkat ini jugak kite bole ajar anak kite pelbagai bahasa.. kalau kite biasa cakap inggeris... bahasa ingeris ler jadinyer.
pelat merupakan perkara biasa. tapi kita kena ajar dia supaya jgn cakap pelat.ajar kanak2 ni dgn lembut dan penuh kasih sayang sebab jiwa anak2 ni halus dan mudah tersentuh
selain dari tu amalkan baca selawat di umbut2 keplanyer setiap hari...sebab i masih ingat lagi even i da sekolah rendah..mak i still baca something kat umbun2 kepala i..nanti i confirmkan..ayatnyer

........................
Nur Aina Shakirah bte Khairusy Shakirin

Asdira

anak kita umur 4 thn,cakap pun tak petah lagi..risau ler..camne la nanti dia gi sekolah tadika thn depan?

MrsJohn

Dah 2 paedriatician bgtau, x perlu risau sgt if kids <3 yo lambat ckp...rajin2 layan dier yek..Jangan pakse2 sgt...kang stress budak tu....

eyzlyn

wah, terrer la anak korang cakap german.. aku ni nak cuba belajar tak lepas-lepas pun

joking jer...

apa pendapat korang kalau bertutur 2 bahasa dgn baby/toddler. pening tak dia nanti? baby aku baru umur 4 bulan. masa memula lahir, aku ada dengar mcm dia semua ma.. ma.. kalau dia nangis. tapi sebab aku bahasakan diri 'ibu', so skang aku tak dengar dah dia sebut ma, tapi sebut ' bu... bu...'. selalunya akan dengar kalau dia menangis or merajuk

akubest

anak sedara aku ada 2 orang dah masuk darjah satu pon tak reti nak cakap.....cakap pon merengek2 and cekgu mmg tak paham.....belah hubby aku la....sungguh kronik...tapi mak pak they all buat dek...jek....

anak aku yg first lambat skett...2 tahun lebih....yang second jgn....setahun lebih....bila hubby aku marah dia..."anak awan ayah" (tak nak kawan ayah)....menjawab no 1....!!!!

Originally posted by eyzlyn at 14-3-2006 06:40 AM
wah, terrer la anak korang cakap german.. aku ni nak cuba belajar tak lepas-lepas pun

joking jer...

apa pendapat korang kalau bertutur 2 bahasa dgn baby/toddler. pening tak dia nanti? bab ...

sure baby tu tension nanti...last2 nanti dia akan ambik jalan mudah...pakai je bahasa ape yg dia rase dia nak cakap..baru padan muka mak bapak

ashtar

Tulah kita sebagai ibu bapa kalo anak2 lambat dlm segala hal
mesti pening kepala dan risau. Takut benda2 yang tak elok terjadi.
So, kena mencegah sebelum terjadi lah jawapnya.

honeybee1802

A Different Way of Being
Wednesday, Jan. 25, 2006

It's been a little over a year since Corin was diagnosed with autism. He was 3 years old at the time. I was pregnant with our second child, and the last thing I expected was news that our son was developmentally delayed.

It hit us like a rush of cold water, a flood of emotion that has kept a hold of us since then, and drives us forward against a ticking clock.

My husband and I aren't sure when the telltale behaviors started appearing. From time to time, I take out our family photo album and flip through the pages, looking for some sort of sign that we missed at the time. But, all I see is a smiling boy digging his hands in a chocolate birthday cake, hugging his father, and looking straight into the camera and into the world.

In retrospect, Corin's autism became physically apparent around 30 months old: hand flapping, spinning, an obsession with long sticks and flags, and lining up his cars. He stopped talking, and became frustrated, uncontrollable, scatting verbally. His diet grew limited, and he would only eat apples, pears, salad, and French fries.

My sister-in-law tells me that I confided in her that I was concerned about these things, but I don't remember that. I do know that I had to face that something was wrong when I visited a sibling who had recently adopted an 18 month-old with speech delays. Well, that child spoke circles around Corin, and when I got home my husband and I had a huge fight about his health. He credits that argument as the moment when he understood that something was wrong with Corin, and that we could no longer kid ourselves.

Not knowing where to turn, I got online and typed in "Oregon" and "autism" into a search engine. Among the results was the county's early childhood education program. When I called, I was asked a number of questions about Corin's behavior that I answered honestly, hoping that the intake person would say, "Well, it doesn't sound like autism to me," but she never said that. Instead, we were scheduled for a meeting with an assessment team.

Corin's diagnosis came Thanksgiving week, right before we left for vacation. We arrived early for the assessment meeting, and filled out several questionnaires that asked us to review his development. Then, we were asked back into a room that was lined with toys, and various professionals (speech language pathologist, occupational therapist, autism specialist) came in to observe Corin as he played with toys and interacted with them.

Officially, he was diagnosed as severely autistic, with the verbal skills of a 12-month old. His tendency to lean on people was attributed as sensory seeking behavior, as was his flapping and other self-stimulatory behavior.

Terms were thrown out: "sensory diet," "stimming," "neurotypical peers," STARS curriculum," nothing we understood but wrote down anyway.

My husband and I drove back to work, completely wrecked, crying in the car. Corin was sitting in the backseat, looking out the window and shaking his legs with excitement at a trip in the car.

eyzlyn

Originally posted by AinaShakirah at 14-3-2006 11:54 AM


sure baby tu tension nanti...last2 nanti dia akan ambik jalan mudah...pakai je bahasa ape yg dia rase dia nak cakap..baru padan muka mak bapak

ish.. tak baik ko cakap mcm tu kat kita org :no:

sahira

xde la sy paksa2 anak...
kite ajar die n kalu die xnak ikut kite stop la..
sekurang2yer kite berusaha la..
sambil2 main2 dgn my son i sebut la apa2..
mana la tau die nak sebut blk...
last week my son dah sebut mama, suka sgt