Love Doc: Q & A Here (Especially for the Ladies)

ifanonline

Originally posted by dak_ker at 14-9-2006 12:36 PM
hai doc love/ifan hhe

skarang nih aku tgh nak limitkan jumpe my bf to once a week, or twice .. tp masalahnya, payah bebenor, dia majuk la, cakap bukan2 la ...

bukan bermakna aku tak sayang kt ...

how serious are u with this guy?

ifanonline

Masa itu emas, masa tidak akan menanti kita...pepatah yg sentiasa kita dengar mengenai masa dan
kepentingan masa...in the world of dating, time is very important, it shows your sincerity in the relationship
and your respect for the other person.

In a date, don't ever be late, it shows disrespect, your weakness in time management and it shows
how poor your attitude is. This goes to both man and woman.

If you really encounter problems during your way to a date, please inform the other party that you are late,
dont' let him/her wait for your call...it is very rude to appear on a date which you are the one who is late!

dak_ker

very serious, dia dah jumpa mak aku ..

sha214

Dear ifan..

im back with my problem again...help me im confius..wat shud i do'!!~mase sha broke up dgn my bf 4 months ago.Sha korbankan cinta sha dengan break up with him to let him find who we really are and the problem between both of as we always gado jer and i 've to lies to him dat i got another guy that much more better than him utk dier tak kaco sha lagi n bg sha space until it turns to be a bad things for him...he drinks,party like hell and sleep wit others girls so after we back together for almost 2 weeks..he so cold and didnt act like we having a relationship and he did mention dat he felt dat he didnt know dat he really ready to get back in relationship but his the one who make me realise that we should be together and he need me so much'...

And now he tell me all the activity he did for last 4months,its damn hurt when i herad it as i didnt wanna that to happend.And now he need space and times to do the things that he suppose to do and wat exactly the broke up for as to find our problems together and to get to know who he really is'...But i just dont want it anymore..as i dont wanna loose him and i miss his kasih sayang and all the sweet memory that people called " fall in LUV".Its make me damn confius!!!,Piss off!! and heart broken'...as he told me all bad stuffs and put all the blames on me'..Damn..i just dont know wat to do and my luv to him become more and more deep for him as i just dont wanna loose him for 2nd times'.

wat should i do????...aiyo'pening laaa.

ifanonline

Originally posted by dak_ker at 15-9-2006 09:10 AM
very serious, dia dah jumpa mak aku ..

meeting your mother and telling his intention is considered serious...did he convey the message or just a social visit?

ifanonline

Originally posted by sha214 at 15-9-2006 02:24 PM
Dear ifan..

im back with my problem again...help me im confius..wat shud i do'!!~mase sha broke up dgn my bf 4 months ago.Sha korbankan cinta sha dengan break up with him to let him find who we  ...

both of you need time to heal after the heart-broken incident, think it over whether you want to continue the relationship
or not...obviously you still have the hearts for him, maybe both of you should go on your different path for awhile
just to make your mind and heart straight...lepas tu cuba perbaiki perhubungan yang anda bentuk terdahulu whether it
is repairable or not...

dak_ker

just nak kenal2 my mum.. tp i tak penah bawak laki kenal2 ngn my mum ke rumah

ifanonline

Originally posted by dak_ker at 19-9-2006 10:44 AM
just nak kenal2 my mum.. tp i tak penah bawak laki kenal2 ngn my mum ke rumah

selalunya for a guy to proceed with his intention to get to know you better, he will certainly wants to get to know
your family...if you're family is ok, he will continue to be with you but, if he see something wrong in your family, he
will take a few consideration to continue the relationship...i'm putting this senario the way i see it, that is the
relationship is forwarding to a serious conclusion...

adi_iskandar

soklan pada ifan,

aku ada member satu kampus. dia ni mat rempit. tapi dia dah syok kat sorang awek ni. masalahnya awek ni bawak hyundai getz mummy dia. so camne? camne cara nak test dia ni? ataupun patut ke dia lupakan saja hasrat dia? poor guy, rich girl. can it happen? just tell me the truth, dont sugar coat.  thanks in advance.

just_link

En Ifan,

since ko dah offer nak tolong bg nasihat....so aku pun nak tumpang tanyer gak..sbb kadang2 nasihat org laki ni bole pakai gak

my situation, aku dah bosan..really tired.

Apa sbenarnyer yg org laki expect dr awek/tunang/wife?
maksudnye...bile berdepan dgn 1 situation kadang2 aku rase die lg suke diam...yg pasti takkan pujuk aku..so aku lak kene pujuk ati sdiri..then ok...then bile masalah timbul lg camtu gak...dan seterusnya..

dan masalah yg ada sbenarnye tak selesai pun..actually kitaorg memg ade big problem skang..family matters

the thing is...die keep mendiamkan diri..dan selalu gak nampak cam dia juz mengiyakan ape yg aku cakap..dan aku tau sume tu hanya tuk buat aku ok..padahal im not :geram:

aku juz nak dia tegas dgn keputusan yg dia buat...is that so difficult...

so...ko rase ape yg aku kene buat since perangai die memg camtu..selain dr break

anyway thanks :hatdown:

ifanonline

Originally posted by adi_iskandar at 24-9-2006 06:48 PM
soklan pada ifan,

aku ada member satu kampus. dia ni mat rempit. tapi dia dah syok kat sorang awek ni. masalahnya awek ni bawak hyundai getz mummy dia. so camne? camne cara nak test dia ni? atau ...

cinta tak kenal siapa, cinta itu buta...kalau awek tu bawak lori daihatsu sekalipun, kalau dier dah suka ngan mamat tu, dia
sukalah jugak...member kor tu kena gentlemen lah skit, cuba approach awek tu dan confess yg dia suka kat awek tu.
lepas tu tengok mcm mana respon awek tu...pastu story kat aku kay!

ifanonline

Originally posted by just_link at 24-9-2006 11:02 PM
En Ifan,

since ko dah offer nak tolong bg nasihat....so aku pun nak tumpang tanyer gak..sbb kadang2 nasihat org laki ni bole pakai gak

my situation, aku dah bosan..really tired.

Apa sbenar ...

sebenarnya lelaki, kalau boleh, nak mengelakkan conflict yg berlebihan, taknak benda tu meleret-leret, lelaki
suka kalau satu2 problem tu di settle dgn cepat... jadi peranan u disini adalah dengan menyokong apa2 yg dikatakan
oleh suami/bf u utk mengelakkan conflict berterusan...

dak_ker

serius conclusion??

yeay yeay .. mmg nak mcm gitu pon hehe

hamtaro

i ade one close fren..mmg suka giler kwn dgn die..kalau tak kawan mmg tak boleh..tp die ckp die dah terlalu menyintai i..and i mmg dah ade steady bf dah..so i mmg tak boleh nk accept love die..tp i mmg tak boleh kehilangan die as a fren..camne nk buat die anggap diri kite as a close fren dan hilangkan perasaan cinta die kat i?

ifanonline

Originally posted by hamtaro at 25-9-2006 02:11 PM
i ade one close fren..mmg suka giler kwn dgn die..kalau tak kawan mmg tak boleh..tp die ckp die dah terlalu menyintai i..and i mmg dah ade steady bf dah..so i mmg tak boleh nk accept love die..tp i ...

lelaki dan perempuan tidak mungkin mempunyai "platonic relationship"...mcm mana sekalipun anda hendakkan relationship
tersebut to become just pure and close friends, perhubungan tersebut tidak mungkin berlaku disebabkan manusia
mempunyai keinginan...keinginan utk mencintai antara satu sama lain...

but you can still be friends thou, tell him the truth on how you feel about him and how he makes you feel happy when
you're together...who's know, the love of your life is staring infront of you...

hamtaro

he know's everything..my love life..ape i rasa dgn die..but  he still loves me so much..die dah try nk lupakan feeling die kat i..die sendiri ckp die tak sanggup lagi nk tanggung..camne ekk?

ifanonline

Originally posted by hamtaro at 25-9-2006 05:19 PM
he know's everything..my love life..ape i rasa dgn die..but  he still loves me so much..die dah try nk lupakan feeling die kat i..die sendiri ckp die tak sanggup lagi nk tanggung..camne ekk?

how do you feel towards him? truthfully...

hamtaro

i sayang die as close fren..buat masa sekarang,mmg i tak boleh nk sayang die more than that.even kalau hati ade terdetik, i mmg akan buang perasaan tuh jauh2 sbb i mmg commited dgn bf i..tp seriously, he's a very nice guy..a very good fren of mine..and i taknak tgk die menderita sbb sayang i more than a close fren..

i ade sorang kawan ni... tengah frust giler...menonggeng...heheheheh... Arap2 la doc dapat tolong....
Kawan i ni penah kenal dengan sorang mamat  'duda beranak 1'... Love at d first sight...  Kawan i ni memang syg dgn mamat ni...n mamat ni pun i rase pun sayang kat die jugak...memang kire hepy couple la both of tem....stiap masa sms, dlm seminggu msti jumpa....  So..pendek cerita, entah kenapa tiba2 mamat ni berubah...hantar sms bagithu x  boleh nak jumpe n sms slalu mcm dulu... reasonnye yg i tau gf mamat dah kembali ...(mamat ni ade gf tp mendpt tentangan keluarga pompuan) so... patut ke dier buat kawn i mcm 2... at least la face 2 face ...gentelmen la ..  Soklan nye ialah.. mcm mana nak suruh die lupekan mamat nie...sebab die ni degil...asyik teringat kat mamat tu je... Soklan yg kedua, kenapa mamat 2 buat mcm 2...adakah die takut..pengecut..serba salah ..  Jwb ekkk...

ifanonline

Originally posted by hamtaro at 26-9-2006 10:22 AM
i sayang die as close fren..buat masa sekarang,mmg i tak boleh nk sayang die more than that.even kalau hati ade terdetik, i mmg akan buang perasaan tuh jauh2 sbb i mmg commited dgn bf i..tp serious ...

seperti yg saya katakan dahulu, memang sukar bagi seorang lelaki dan wanita untuk menjalin hubungan "platonic"
the best thing to do is just to break his heart...you gotta be cruel to be kind...as they say...

[ Last edited by  ifanonline at 26-9-2006 04:40 PM ]