SENATOR DIDERA SUAMI --

SQUIRREL

Sebelum ni boleh bertahan selama 23 tahun dipukul dek suami. Tetiba bila jumpa lelaki lain pandai pulak tuntut cerai. Kalau tak jumpa dan tak bercinta ngan MP tu agaknya, masih lagi dok ngan hubby dia n biar kena belasah.

My mum's fren pun camtu, hubby dia memang very abusive, sampai dia terpaksa pegang parang tak nak bagi hubby dia pukul dia. Finally she jumpa another guy, fall in love and baru mintak cerai dari hubby dia.

yipun78

Dik, abusive woman mostly susah nak jumpa org, lagipon depa traumatize sbb apa je yg mereka buat, ngan sapa dia bercakap they fear husband akan pukul depa lagi teruk....

Masalahnya makcik ni Senator, citer dia abusive ni just saja je ke? sbb nak make sure perakuan cerai tu sah....

shidaaziz

Originally posted by SQUIRREL at 20-12-2006 10:05 AM
Sebelum ni boleh bertahan selama 23 tahun dipukul dek suami. Tetiba bila jumpa lelaki lain pandai pulak tuntut cerai. Kalau tak jumpa dan tak bercinta ngan MP tu agaknya, masih lagi dok ngan hubby  ...

Kenapa nak tunggu ada lelaki lain baru derang nak buat decision to left their partner. Derang takut ke? Rasa tak secure :hmm:

shidaaziz

Macam kes senator ni, rasanya kalau awal-awal lagi dia dah buat tindakan, orang lagi akan rasa simpati & hormat kat dia. Tapi bila dah jadi macam ni...................

shazura

bukn alasan nak curang. tp aku tetap simpati

yipun78

Originally posted by shidaaziz at 20/12/06 10:20 AM


Kenapa nak tunggu ada lelaki lain baru derang nak buat decision to left their partner. Derang takut ke? Rasa tak secure :hmm:

Normally kan gepren, mangsa abusive ni akan sentiasa takut ngan partner mereka tp sayang punya pasal, kalo disuruh lari ke buat report polis ke, mmg difficult.... tp simptom mereka ni selalunya, org yg jauhkan diri dari kawan2, jiran dan keluarga... Nak kata berpeluang bekerja jgn harap lah ..... cuma dalam kes Senator ni wa rasa pelik sbb mentally abuse u alwiz be reminded dat u not worthy at all, hence low self esteem, tp dia ni bertugas sebagai Senator, jumpa ngan org ramai cam biasa je... Kalo fizikal xkan ler xde kesan yg nyata sbb 23 tahun beb....

SQUIRREL

Macam kes senator ni, rasanya kalau awal-awal lagi dia dah buat tindakan, orang lagi akan rasa simpati & hormat kat dia. Tapi bila dah jadi macam ni...................

Tulah...dah kuar gambar ngan lelaki lain baru nak citer keburukan suami, tak bagi nafkahlah, dia tanggunglah, kena pukul lah. Selama 23 tahun boleh bertahan, ngapa baru sekarang lepas gambar ngan lelaki lain kuar baru nak buka citer. Kena pukul, dera bukan alasan utk menduakan suami. Ngapa 20 thn dulu tak minta cerai, kan suaminya mendera dia dah berpuluh-puluh. Tak paham betul, dah ada jantan lain baru tak tahan kena dera....

yipun78

Originally posted by SQUIRREL at 20/12/06 10:38 AM

Tulah...dah kuar gambar ngan lelaki lain baru nak citer keburukan suami, tak bagi nafkahlah, dia tanggunglah, kena pukul lah. Selama 23 tahun boleh bertahan, ngapa baru sekarang lepas gambar ngan ...

Tu lah pasal beb, dia ni x baik ler guna isu dera, sian kat actual abusive victim di luar sana... :kant:

shawn

macam-macam ragam la pulak ni....apa la nak jadi

nirman

Enough is enough, politician says of troubled marriage
20 Dec 2006
Rita Jong


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KLANG: Irreconcilable differences, lack of financial support and physical and mental abuse.

These were the grounds Senator Datin Paduka Nor Hayati Onn gave at the hearing of her divorce application against her husband, Mohd Suffian Abdul Aziz, yesterday.

Nor Hayati (picture) told Lower Syariah court judge Mohamed Fouzi Mokhtar that in their marriage of 23 years, she had suffered enough.

"Our marriage began having problems 10 years ago, but I always told myself I would give him another chance to change for the better. I also thought about the welfare of our young children then.

"But the past few years have been horrible. We argued almost every day and everything I said was wrong."

Nor Hayati decided she had had enough. She said her children were now grown up and would be able to think for themselves.

When her lawyer Md Khardee Md Shaari asked to give examples of each ground, the plaintiff said Mohd Suffian was always jealous and interrogated her when she was carrying out her duties as a politician.

"My job requires me to mingle with people, but he (Mohd Suffian) would question me. He would also check on me at meetings just to see who I was sitting with.

"At times he would also make it difficult for me to attend a function.

"He would make me do all kinds of things like fry an egg for him before I could leave the house," she said.

Nor Hayati also said since marrying the defendant, he had not given her money for maintenance.

"He was pampered by my father, who gave him a car and shelter as I am the eldest daughter. He would also ask me money to play golf.

"And I was also the one who was paying our house rent and utility bills. Only after I pestered him many times, would he fork out money to help once in a while.

"I even had to settle his debts from Ah Long," she added.

She also claimed Mohd Suffian, who was an engineer, was earning an income but did not give her any money.

Nor Hayati also alleged she was abused by the defendant.

"In October 1997, he pushed me until I fractured my hand. In November 2001, he hit me until I bled. I was hospitalised at the Seri Kota Hospital for a week.

"There were also times during our fights that he would use a knife. Once he kicked a shoe which hit me," she said.

Nor Hayati also claimed that when she returned home late from events, Mohd Suffian would call to check on her.

"He would call me names like 憌hore

shimaf1

Originally posted by sarizu at 20-12-2006 09:43 AM
yg aku herannya napa 'org' ambik dia jd senator sdgkn ramai org2 tedekat dgnnya tahu yg dia ni ada problem...nk jd pemimpin sekurang2nya diri s'dri tepimpin dulu...takkan tak de org yg lebih layak  ...

atas nama tiket bapak dia kot.. bisalah ni bukan kabel sebarang kabel ini kabel jenis baik punye tapi malang kuasa tuhan.. kene panah petir terus hangus...:bodek:

edmundo

Hehe...counter attack eh..mgkn she need "somebody" to bermanja...
Dgn hubby sndri tk blh sbb dpt lebam sana sini je...
Anyway, she changed her hairdo...
Panas agknye...:nyorok:

zeetacunn

my friend was yati's classmate masa sekolah menengah dulu... she told me that yati nih memang spoilt bred pun..... husband dia tuh engineer, kalau tak silap owned his own engineering company... tak kan lah lokoh sangat sampai tak penah tanggung bini... yati ni pun bukan belajar tinggi setakat form 5 je... tiket bapak dia yang banyak bantu dia dalam politik.... naik dalam politik nih pun baru few years kebelakangan ni pun..... selama ni dari mula kawin sape tanggung dia anak beranak.... tak kan lah bapak dia .....

zerocredit

betina murahan betullllllllllll hahahhahahahahaha

almari_buruk

isteri derhaka.

Kalaupun betul suami tu dera hang, yg p peluk2 lelaki lain kenapa?

tengok pulak ADUN GOMBAK tu, ape kes pulak dia dengan isteri dia?

cik_audi

hmm.. maybe ada cite lain yg u all x tau.. :cak:

cranko21

Originally posted by cik_audi at 20-12-2006 01:22 PM
hmm.. maybe ada cite lain yg u all x tau.. :cak:

kalau ada citerlaaaa audi...

yipun78

A'ah cik Audi, kalo ada citer lain meh ler kongsi kat sini, sharing is caring mah :cak:

purbez

maybe dia nihh jenis buas jugat kot,
mayeb coz hubby dia tahu dia curang lah yang hubby dia but dia macam tuuhhh..

apa pun dia nihh x layak jadi pemimpin

lilyzhaowei

mungken bile dia dah jmpe jantan lain, jantan tu yang bagi dia "semangat" dan "keberanian" utk report benda nih. mungkin je la..kan hidup ini byk kemungkinan...