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Apa yg dimahukan oleh isteri dari suami masing2?

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 Author| Post time 19-9-2007 09:07 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by red_borris at 19-9-2007 08:51 PM
hmmph aku nak suami aku kurang panas baran, respect me as a person more, not to ask me do errands all the time.. of course more kasih sayang and lembut kalau berbicara dgn aku.. its jus different ...


this is normal....ur not alone. time and experience will teach u how to turn a tiger of a husband into a purring *****cat.
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Post time 19-9-2007 09:24 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by ev700 at 19-9-2007 04:50 AM
hmm... malas nak vote sbb semua dlm lists tu menjurus kepada satu konklusi saja, suami yang bertannggungjawab, kalau buat thesis semua yang diatas tu dlm chapter yang sama, boringlah.. tak membuk ...

DIY, me pun nak minta yang ni jugak..
ni dt laki keras tangan, bandingkan dia, me lagi DIY.
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 Author| Post time 19-9-2007 09:29 PM | Show all posts
sapa yg bujang, nak laki DIY, bawak dia gi kedai hardware...tgk ada interest ke tak. kalu tak de...jgn la harap dia akan tiba2 berminat ke hala tu after kahwin.
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Post time 19-9-2007 10:30 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by wifeorg at 19-9-2007 08:29 AM
sapa yg bujang, nak laki DIY, bawak dia gi kedai hardware...tgk ada interest ke tak. kalu tak de...jgn la harap dia akan tiba2 berminat ke hala tu after kahwin.

minat boleh dipupuk, laki me keras keras tangan pun tetapi masih boleh
buat rak utk bunga me, rak buku me dlm bilik..
sbb dia tak mau me buat DIY , takut katanya
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Post time 19-9-2007 10:57 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by wifeorg at 18-9-2007 21:54
HI!

Nampaknya ramai jugak para suami yg macam kurang peka dengan kehendak2 isteri masing-masing. Ramai yg menjangka apa yg disenaraikan dia atas adalah remeh, tetapi mungkin bagi para isteri,  ...

aku klu bole nak tick sumer...sumer aku nak..bkn sbb aku tamak..tp sbb mmg sumer tu penting bg aku...
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Post time 19-9-2007 11:58 PM | Show all posts

Reply #48 nazijo's post

tak kose den nak harap somi tanya ari ni pakai lipstik kale ape, baju kale apa..byk lagi kot mende yg dorang nak pk..tapi, kalu bab..isteri suka makan apa dan makan kat mana tu..okla gak..atau pon apa hadiah kegemaran isteri..

sian ko ek, bini ko cam nakkan sesuatu atas kepentingan jek...anyway, ade tak somi yg menyampah bini dia suke meleset2 sokmo kat dia?? manala tau terlebih gedik pon mengundang rase menyampah berlebihan terhadap isteri..
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Post time 20-9-2007 06:06 AM | Show all posts
rysa....sure ada punya...kak emo sendirik pun 'getik' kalo tengok pompuan dok meleset2 sokmo kat the husband (walopun husband tu suka) tapi kak emo rasa husbands lebih banyak rimas dari suka kot kalo dah asek merengek-rengek memanjang

....i am not built that way, so secara tak langsung memang kind of sakit mata bila tengok org pompuan yang over mengada-ngada - just couldn't help it!
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Post time 20-9-2007 06:17 AM | Show all posts
i nie flexible kot esp bila dah lama kahwin, peranan kita dah makin bertambah..suami pun makin besar tanggungjawab ...jadi takde spesifik permintaan yg boleh ditujukan...

perhatian drp pasangan, tgk waktu dan tempatlah...waktu dia sibuk dgn dateline, kita nak ajak dia candle lite dinner, memang nak kena hamputlah ..waktu dia tgh sengket, mintak beli parfume...gigit jarilah jawabnya...cam aktiviti mengemas, kalo dia buat...alhamdullilah, kalo dia dtg angin malas...esok pagi, i buatlah

secara keseluruhannya, give and take....kekadang i rasa, demand yg byk sgt hanya menyesakkan diri ajelah, yg manu kurang2 tu selagi tak mencacatkan fungsi keluarga....kita sesama melengkapi

dibuatnya tanya list kat dia, mahu 20 list dia bagi...jenuh!!

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Post time 20-9-2007 06:22 AM | Show all posts
i think apa yang dimahukan para isteri ialah 'almost perfect husband in every way'...so of course polls diatas merangkumi semua....

but realitynya we can't have it all....some kita dapat lebih, some kita dapat kurang...

and kalo tengok poll kat atas tu kasih-sayang is leading at the moment...lelaki kena faham definition of kasih sayang dari pandangan hati seorang wanita (it is not easy, i tell you ) ...scopenya terlalu luas, and probably the kind of kasih sayang yang kita inginkan is not the kind of kasih sayang yang suami wants to give / mampu bagi? sebab some men define kasih sayang tu as: bagi makan pakai  cukup kat bini pun pada dorang one way to show kasih sayang, adakan apa yang bini dia nak pun tanda kasih sayang gak, kerja keras nak tampung family pun tanda kasih sayang gak....belai sikit2, making love pun tanda kasih sayang gak, ect...

as to woman, kasih sayang tu different sesangat dari apa yang some men define....tu yang susahnya - men are from mars, women are from venus! - both kena meet halfway!
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Post time 20-9-2007 07:44 AM | Show all posts
ha ha ingat tak movie "what women want" yg mel gibson berlakon tu? mel always wonder what women think or want. tetiba he got what he wished for.....haru biru...dibuatnya...just shows, the mystery is part of the charm...
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Post time 20-9-2007 07:57 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by sarahmirza at 19-9-2007 04:21 PM



Perhatian macam hari ini wife pakai baju warna apa pergi kerja

apa significant nyer beri perhatian wife pakai baju warna apa pergi keje........................?
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Post time 20-9-2007 08:00 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by iddine at 19-9-2007 04:43 PM
jujur,setia,understanding, penyayang. x mintak banyak2..

bohonglah korang tak mintak banyak2.................

tu sume intro je..................

bila dah masuk bahagian isi dengan penutup, berderet senarai permintaan korang.....................
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Post time 20-9-2007 08:10 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by ev700 at 19-9-2007 05:50 PM
aku nak suamiku jadi imam for aku dan anak time sembanyangs dirumah dan aku nak suami aku berikan 15-20 minutes tazkirah pada aku dan anak2 tiap kali lepas solat maghrib...

ev700...................

somi ko dah buat ke sume yang ko nak tu.....................?
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Post time 20-9-2007 08:32 AM | Show all posts

Reply #72 zaidi_uitm's post

kalau mintak banyak2 pun bukannya dapat. nanti buat frust je..at least yg the 4's ni telah dipenuhi sepenuhnya, sudah cukup baik.the rest tu sikit sikit dtg kemudian x pelah..ini pendapat akulah..

Lagi satu lupa nak tambah mempunyai minat mendalam ke arah keagamaan..yg ni my hubby blm lagi lulus sepenuhnya...
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Post time 20-9-2007 08:49 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by iddine at 20-9-2007 08:32 AM
kalau mintak banyak2 pun bukannya dapat. nanti buat frust je..at least yg the 4's ni telah dipenuhi sepenuhnya, sudah cukup baik.the rest tu sikit sikit dtg kemudian x pelah..ini pendapat akulah. ...

kan betul apa aku kata..................

dia dah start buat senarai dahhhhhhhhh.................................
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Post time 20-9-2007 09:56 AM | Show all posts

Reply #75 zaidi_uitm's post

x de senarai pun. klu ada,satu advantage. x de its ok.

further more, the 1st 4 criteria which i mentioned pun susah pasangan nak ikut.
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 Author| Post time 20-9-2007 10:39 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by aryssaharris at 19-9-2007 11:58 PM
tak kose den nak harap somi tanya ari ni pakai lipstik kale ape, baju kale apa..byk lagi kot mende yg dorang nak pk..tapi, kalu bab..isteri suka makan apa dan makan kat mana tu..okla gak..atau po ...


kalu nak ingat apa yg wife pakai...baik ingat wife pakai bra size apa, and cutting bra yg dia suka...u all ingat mende yg dlm bra aje...

tapi seriously...mende2 gini tak penting sgt....yg penting u all spend quality time dgn ur wife...bkn makna duk kat umah melangut dpn tv tu quality time, unless u all ajak dia duk sebelah u all, tgk tv sama2...cerita yg u both suka. ajak dia gi jalan2...bwk dia round2 ur kawasan pun ok...or if let's say dia suka strawberries, ajak dia gi round2 cari strawberries. huh...impact dia...mlm tu korang sure dilayan kow2!

bukan susah kan...mende2 simple aje. yg menambah rasa cinta isteri pada u all.
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Post time 20-9-2007 10:53 AM | Show all posts
page hilang..............
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Post time 20-9-2007 11:00 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by iddine at 20-9-2007 10:19 AM
X de senarai pun. klu ada,satu advantage. x de its ok.
further more, the 1st 4 criteria which i mentioned pun susah pasangan nak ikut.

tu dia ehhh..............

sampai 9 kali dia post...dah praktis buat senarai ni..................
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Post time 20-9-2007 11:06 AM | Show all posts

Reply #89 zaidi_uitm's post

no lah my dear..tadi server down.aku ingat x post lgi, ropanya terpost bnyk....
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