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Originally posted by kudajantan77 at 27-11-2007 19:06 
stop giving excuses for committing your sins ..
just admit that you can't stand the temptation ..
it's not about anyone else, it's just you and yourself ..
yes I agree ... no matter what the contributing factors are, finally, everything is in your hand ... and I failed to resist the temptation once ... hope that would be the last ... insyaallah ... |
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Originally posted by ganisara at 28-11-2007 05:46 PM
my story sebagai pedoman....from earlier thread lagi...affair yg berlaku commited by married woman berpunca 90%from lelaki (husband nya)
im telling from the REAL point of view (lelaki/husband) d ...
I agree tapi campur dengan tak agree pun ada juga.
Yes, memang (or root cause of the problem) married women ada affair is becuase problem dengan hubby.
But I have personally met married women yang ada affair not because of the hubby, not because of diaorang gatal, but it is just happened. Honestly, everyone. Cases macam ni ada. There is absolutely nothing wrong dengan hubby at all. It is just she met someone and she fall in love.
But kalaulah the root cause is the hubby, kita kena faham why. Kalaulah hubby dia jahat sangat, itu cerita lainlah. Tapi kalau hubby is struggling with his career, with his wife, with kids, then it is all a learning process for him. You have to remember bukan semua orang perfect. Every man will have to go through this kalau nak bekeluarga dan kerjaya yang bagus. We need to educate the wife so that she try to build the "masjid" sama2 dengan hubby, bukan cari lelaki lain bila her needs are not attended to at home.
Give the hubby a chance to work things out. As a ketua keluarga it is not easy job. Wife masa tu kena faham hubby belum jadi perfect lagi as a lover. Perempuan masa ni memang fragile. Lagi-lagi kalau jumpa a good lover macam Gani. Cuba lihat girlfriend Gani - SS and RZ (baru sebulan kahwin pulak tu). Bila isteri2 fresh macam ni jumpa lover macam Gani, kena cekup pun mudah je lah jawapannya.
[ Last edited by Penulis at 28-11-2007 06:18 PM ] |
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aku duluk, kini & selamanye......................................
malas nak baca novel, love story ke hapa ni.....baca intro pastu ending jekkk... |
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Originally posted by cantthinkofany at 28-11-2007 10:45 PM
hmmm....kenaper bila dah kahwin baru jumpa yang menepati criteria ek?...
betul la orang selalu cakap....marriage is like going to a restaurant to eat...when you walk to your table...you lo ...
Your analogy is absolutely brilliant! |
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Reply #107 cantthinkofany's post
the grass is always greener on the other side... is kinda like that. IMHO, if this is the feeling that creates all these troubles with affairs, then we gotta teach ourselves to be contented with what we have... instaed of working towards the way out, we should work our way in.. something like that.
but, a thought crossed my mind, what about ppl who got married and divorced and married again? fate? failure? mmmm |
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Reply #109 cantthinkofany's post
brilliant piece of a genius mind....!
This is what absolutely happened when come to to the world of "marriage"
both parties -man and woman from a complete different of species came together to build a "life" UNPREPARED........
follow the story through why i summed up my 90%"shortcomings" of the husband driven their wives to infidelity...... |
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RZ is similar age and she has been crazily admiring me till both parents seem to know...but she would never be....the year then was 1984...
We had seeing each other during my holidays and she said "i am all yours ever"as i had seen her "in baby suit"everytime we met.....
but there were no "love promises" as she unlikely could be my girlfriend.....
RZ pledged for loyalty forever to prove how much she love me......
News on marrying NH really turned RZ to disaster(not only mom) as she tried to traced my whereabouts all over Malaya.....
after the NH divorced in 1992,i met RZ by chance..this time she felt guilty coz she
had broken pledged due to family pressured (age factor) and had accepted the fact i would never be hers.......but the love for me forever and even now newly married,the man can never the same like me.....
RZ asked for something that she longed before (for 8 years waiting)........
..........my genes......... |
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nh nk rz ss... adehhh payah nak ingat deyyy..  |
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Originally posted by ganisara at 29-11-2007 12:14 PM 
RZ is similar age and she has been crazily admiring me till both parents seem to know...but she would never be....the year then was 1984...
We had seeing each other during my holidays and she sa ...
Aku rasa aku perlu dapatkan pertolongan Tuan Penulis..tolong Tuan kasi clear sikit citer nih...aku tengah berminat nak tau nih.. |
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Reply #115 cantthinkofany's post
hehehe honey ooo honey... wa plak lupa makan kismis pagi tadik.. tu psl laaaa otak ni slow.. tp nama lu wa still ingat honeyyy.. 
btw, RZ.. RXZ.. cam moto kan.. |
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