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...infertile women gets more depressed than infertile men...setuju??
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coa gua rasa the main bulk of the contribution is seen as to be coming from the woman....dari permulaan mengandung....all those symptoms....morning, afternoon and night sickness...carrying the load for at least 9 months...then delivering.....all as seen as woman's contribution....
further to that....infertile and fertile is not a common word in our normal society....cuba sebut benda benda tu kat orang2 tua....sure dapat balasan muka slenga...
and if they know pun...for them....infertile does not mean totally out...still ada sperm...need a bit of more work....and to them when it comes to the word usaha dalam rumahtangga...it's definitely the wife...usaha untuk merangsang suami di bilik tidur...usaha untuk menjaga makan suami...usaha untuk menggembirakan suami agar...all those kekurang suami boleh di pertingkatkan....
and we know woman ni cepat sangat get depressed and when they are depressed all their hormon goes hay wire...kelam kabut....dah lah sperm hubby weak...dapat lah a highly stressed woman...weak sperm with weak egg and unbalanced hormon and less effort....for sure the chances is zero.....what if the sperm is weak....strong egg with healthy hormon...the weaknesses in the man can still be help....
tu la diantaranya kot.... |
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thread nie macam ada kena mengena jer dengan hidup i...hehheheheh....
kebetulan lak.....tapi my husband count marvellous.....takde problem....cuma tak de rezeki jer sampai sekarang ....tahun nie dah genap 5 tahun kahwin....
lelaki nie sebenarnya dia takde rasa stress and depress if compared dengan women....dah memang naluri diaorg yang memang tak ambik pot dengan apa yang orang nak cakap  ....on the other hand pompuan lak akan rasa sedih, stress and depress ...ini dah memang naluri pompuan.... |
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sebagai conclusion, i setuju ngan thread nie.....bahawa infertile women gets more depressed than infertile men.....:victory: |
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....but then maybe org perempuan lebih emosional lagi lelaki, so tak hairanlah kalo pompuan tu cepat stress.... |
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yes i do agree, basically on the reproduction function of a lady makes her depressed more than the guy....
a guy, though depressed they know how to stay calm.....
or they merely doesn't care..... |
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society memang cruel... just because pompuan yg kena mengandung so pompuan ajelah yg salah when it comes to this kind of matter...camnerlah kawan tu tak depress kalau seringkali dipersalahkan... dahtu bila terbukti pihak pompuan tak bersalah pandai lak tutup mulut tu... |
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setting of cultural society yg dah beribu tahun ditekankan (yg berpihak pada lelaki)... men always highly regarded with having their virility intact... if no baby produced from a marriage, society will pinpoint at the lady first. and in a case of infertile men, they can cover it up with their ego.. women on the other hand, will be more emotional in this case of proving their 'worth'.
kalau dlm Islam macamana pulak? katakan dah tau lelaki tu mandul, and the wife is a ok... and if seh insisted to have a baby, boleh ke dia cerai n kaiwn lain?  |
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Reply #9 LostSoul's post
aii melenting pak pak aji kalaudengar suggestion cam ni....
tapi kalau pempuan yg infertile cepat no nak poli poli |
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Originally posted by LostSoul at 11-1-2008 09:16 AM 
kalau dlm Islam macamana pulak? katakan dah tau lelaki tu mandul, andthe wife is a ok... and if seh insisted to have a baby, boleh ke diacerai n kaiwn lain?
Em yg nie... no clear evidence yg say kalau somi mandul isteri x leh minta cerai... but yg clear is kao somi x dpt memenuhi "kepuasan" then can... But still not many women akan minta cerai because of this... Usually isteri is loving........ sexcited is not their first priority in a marriage... Love is...
Kalu "mati pucuk" yes can definately ask for fasakh... but does infertile in men... directly means the husband "mati pucuk"
Technically I don't know... Does it blackmore?
[ Last edited by mummyslove at 11-1-2008 10:58 AM ] |
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tp kalo laki nih confirm dia yg infertile...mmmmmmmm....mmg mandom teruk dr pompuan ler..ssbb musti rasa ego tercabar punyer... |
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Reply #12 cantthinkofany's post
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Returning to the depressed emotion... I don't think men are not bothered by it... They do... But they are better at handling their emotion compared to ladies... Yealah perempuan nie bak kata abg aji are creature of love... sbb deme ada rahim... So we are more emotionally touched.. and easily touched by such remarks...
A forummer here had suffered the same thing... Maksudnya rezeki nak dpt anak tu lmbt... But he and his partner support each other on this...So they bear the burden together... |
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aku rasa infetile tak semetisnye mati pucuk, and mati pucuk tak semestinye infertile.. which one is the worse? mmmm nak compare paling senang:
1. can shoot, but no bullet
2. have bullet but cannot shoot
mmmm |
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Originally posted by dianthe at 11-1-2008 01:56 PM 
a'aa luv, infertile ni, dia mampu tapi tak subur..
lagi teruk mati pucuk dari infertile..
tapi so far kita dua tak ada masalah kan luv? 
none what-so-ever babe..... |
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Post time 11-1-2008 05:10 AM
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