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Salam. Saya beginner kat forum ni, selama ni silent reader je. Baru reg kat cari ni sbb rasa nak berkongsi masalah terkait hati dan perasaan ni dengan forumer sekalian. btw betul ke board nih 
Ok macamnih, saya ni baru habis belajar. Tapi dah ada planutk kawen. Yang jadik dilemanya adalah tetiba saya macam meragui dia. saya dah kenal dia bertahun tahun. Tahu hatibudi cemana. We started as friends. And my guy friends are actually very limited. I feel awkward to make friend with guys, bukanlah anti lelaki , cuma tak biasa.  .Yang si dia ni, kawan sekolah dulu. Kembali berhubung sejak kira kira enam tahun lepas. Dua tahun pertama kami berhubung balik tu, boleh dikatakan gitu gitu je la. Not too close. Just that sometimes he’d asked me about studies and stuff.dan bila saya enter universiti, macam rajin contact pulak. Tapi saya takkan mula perbualan unless he start it first. Tapi sy perasan la dia ni macam bagi hint tapi selalunya sy akan abaikan. Sebab sy tak rasa pun dia serius. Dan pada masa yang sama, dia ada bagitahu sy yg ada few ppl tengah dikenenkan dengan dia.dan dia nih pon ramai fans. saya cuma balas, go for someone u think the best for you, u always hv my support.gitu je la. Buat macam, ‘alaa aku tak jeles pon, sukati ko la weh’.Tapi deep down inside my heart, it hurts. Hahaha. Adoih. 
We had a stable friendship throughout my degree years…until..last year. He gone MIA for couple of months without me knowing the reasons. Saya rasa kehilangan. Tertanya tanya apa salah sy. Sebab berdasarkan updates dari pesbuk dia, he seems happy with his life. Sy antar mesej tp tak berbalas. Redha je la, takkan nak terhegeh hegeh dan bengang gak la sy masa tu.runtuh rasa ego woih org ignore. Sy mati mati pikir dia nk kawen ke apa ke. Sampailah satu hari ni, tetiba sy dpt msg dari dia. he wanted to make things clear and apologising for his MIA tuh. Memula tu sy ignore je tp x smpaihati (dasaarr). And he proposed me. Ternganga jgk la sy masa tuh. Tp dia mengaku yg sepanjang tempoh dia buat tak tahu dgn sy tu, he was actually tryingto forget me. Dang. 
Dan walaupun dia kata nk kawen dgn sy, still ada yg kenenkan dia ni, adohai, dan dia x berterus terang pon yg dia dh ada sy. Penah sy tanya dia samada dia ada hati ke x dengan perempuan yg dikenenkan tu. And he refused to answer me. He asked me not to bring up the pasts. Kdg kdg bila pikiran jahat sy bermaharajalela, sy slalu pikir yg dia brpatah balik kpd sy sbb dia dgn perempuan tu tak sekufu. Sy rasa macam jadik second option je. Grrrr. Padahal dia kata dia aim sy lama dah. Dia kata la. Hmm. Kwn sy ckp ni permainan setan nih, nak kacau plan utkberumahtangga. 
Mintak nasehat . Mekasih 
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dik.. tinggal kn je laa.. cari yg lain. senang.. laki klu dah MIA for sometime, pahtu cari ko balek,
maknenye ade something wrong la tu.. |
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Kalau nak terima hati kena redha tahap tinggi... jangan terlintas dia carik kita balik sebab kena reject ngan ex ke...hubungan dulu tak berjaya sbb tu carik balik ke ape...
Kalau terlintas macam tu tak payah la..tak tenang nanti... |
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Akak rasa he's not the one for you.
Jgn rasa desprate nk berumah tangga,kira tangkap muat je
Perkahwenan utk long term relationship...bkn suka ade,x suka ilang
This kind of person yg pentingkn diri sendiri
As u said that yr guy fren very limited that why la akak rasa dia je yg terbaik buat adik
Pls la go out and mix around,then u ll know
Apapn all the best ok..
I will,pray for you...insyaAllah |
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he wanted to make things clear and apologising for his MIA tuh
Apa reason dia MIA tu? |
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thanks atas pandangan kalian, really appreciate that 
oh ya, he went MIA because he was having some life issues ( work related) . dan sebenarnya dah berjumpa parents |
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dalam dok fikir2 adakah dia terbaik utk awak. mungkin kah selama dia hilang tu ada yang lain. atau apa2 jelah. fikir jugak kalau itu jodoh kita.. hilang sampai 2 tahun pun kalau dah jodoh tetap akan bersatu. dia propose awak, nak kawin la tu kan? tanya diri sendiri. sayang ke tak dengan dia. percaya ke yang dia boleh jadi pemimpin lepas kawin nanti. solat istikharah. |
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Ni tokey kedai 'spare part". |
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Bak kata che ta.. Org klau btul dia nak kita, dia akan tunjuk n usaha sungguh2... Soo... Bg dia jangka masa... Dan dlm tempoh tu tgk sejauh mana effort dia utk hubungan korang berdua....
Lg satu kan.. Jgn imaginasi byk sgt... Sendiri yg merana... |
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Xperla 2nd choice pon asalkan last choice... Jgn dia pi choice org lain lak lpas tu... |
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Dik, solat hajat, istikharah...minta petunjuk dari-NYA. Ambil peluang bulan Ramadhan ni |
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Knp dia x nk berterus trg dia ada ko? Dh nk kawin kn..heran aku.. |
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Cuba uji dia mcm2. Mia ke, apa ke. Mcm2 la. Try. Tgk, dia sanggup hadap x. If not, he's not the one kot. |
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tt kes ko same cam aku..
lain nye, ko pmpuan aku laki..
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LuqmanHakim3103 posted on 18-7-2014 07:36 AM 
Ni tokey kedai 'spare part".
hahaha, nape laa suka sangat jadik tokey spare part wehh
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lily_kama posted on 18-7-2014 08:17 AM
Bak kata che ta.. Org klau btul dia nak kita, dia akan tunjuk n usaha sungguh2... Soo... Bg dia jang ...
bab imaginasi terlebih tu saya akui, my weakness.
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imransulaiman posted on 18-7-2014 08:52 AM
Dik, solat hajat, istikharah...minta petunjuk dari-NYA. Ambil peluang bulan Ramadhan ni
betul tuan, salah saya. patutnya lebihkan istikharah, bukan whining here and there, bukan suudzhon, bukan terlebih imaginasi etc. tq
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tiramisuu posted on 18-7-2014 04:50 PM
Knp dia x nk berterus trg dia ada ko? Dh nk kawin kn..heran aku..
nak jaga hati katanyaa, kalau saya pulak jenis direct, kalau sy tanak any particular person yg try jual minyak kt sy, sy ignore habisan, takde dah nak jaga hati bagai ni, haha. |
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yayaachan posted on 18-7-2014 09:23 PM
Cuba uji dia mcm2. Mia ke, apa ke. Mcm2 la. Try. Tgk, dia sanggup hadap x. If not, he's not the one ...
buat dah. buat taktahu jee, MIA jugak la, tak sampai sebulan pun. menggagau dia cari. hambik !
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Post time 17-7-2014 10:55 PM
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