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Author: Vellfire

Kuat Membebel ~ Wanita ke Lelaki

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Post time 15-9-2014 02:29 PM | Show all posts
leylapple posted on 15-9-2014 02:24 PM
khen....

rasanya iols dah terkene kenen mak iols la...

haha.. itulah dah masuk age where we start to sound like our mother je...

kalau I, yg I bebel dgn my niece and nephews la...bertabahlah mereka.. tapi memang kita niat nak beri nasihat, tah macam mana terpanjang pula nasihat terus jadi bebelan...
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Post time 15-9-2014 02:32 PM | Show all posts
from what I have read in French parenting book...nak bagi nagging tu sedap dengar kena guna certain kind of voice..deep low and firm voice like that...so tak rasa rimas utk orang yg mendengar tu...we girls kan suara high pitch like that so bila nagging not so nice to hear....

nagging pun kena ada technique apparently...
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Post time 15-9-2014 02:33 PM | Show all posts
Elle_mujigae posted on 15-9-2014 02:29 PM
haha.. itulah dah masuk age where we start to sound like our mother je...

kalau I, yg I bebe ...

iols pulak..

sebab iols jenis meticulous, jadi kalo iols dah bagi peringatan/nasihat, masih jugak tak berubah, benda tu akan jadi mcm kisah sejarah dan teladan...siap leh quote berapa kali dah bgtau...di mana, dan bila...

kadang2 iols pun pening kepala dgn diri sendiri

sebab mana nak pikir hal sendiri (keje, personal), nie nak urus lagi org lain...

tensen!

bila tensen2, bertambah lagi benda tu yang best di mata.... terus jadi bebelan potkedepet2


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Post time 15-9-2014 02:34 PM | Show all posts
Elle_mujigae posted on 15-9-2014 02:32 PM
from what I have read in French parenting book...nak bagi nagging tu sedap dengar kena guna certain  ...

muahahah...

mcm stail opera la pulak....
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Post time 15-9-2014 07:03 PM | Show all posts
Elle_mujigae posted on 13-9-2014 03:17 PM
Addin kat rumah kuat membebel tak...?...nagging...

me ..
look n see .. observe
hear n listen .. understand
smile always with lips close ..

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Post time 17-9-2014 04:39 PM | Show all posts
NorAddin posted on 15-9-2014 07:03 PM
me ..
look n see .. observe
hear n listen .. understand

saya ada tabiat yg bila marah saya akan senyum..
masalahnya bila senyum, orang tak tau pun kita tengah marah
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 Author| Post time 17-9-2014 04:49 PM | Show all posts
manganini posted on 17-9-2014 04:39 PM
saya ada tabiat yg bila marah saya akan senyum..
masalahnya bila senyum, orang tak tau pun kita t ...

biar benar ktk?

kmk mun marah kmk akan luah apa yg sik betul dan membebel ala2 lagu rap ya
dan lepas ya....tok tabiat kmk pelik tapi benar
kmk akan makan sampei kenyang
lepas makan kamik diam dan akan lupak semua

ada org madah kalau kita mcm tok lambat tua? hehe betul kah?
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Post time 17-9-2014 05:02 PM | Show all posts
manganini posted on 17-9-2014 04:39 PM
saya ada tabiat yg bila marah saya akan senyum..
masalahnya bila senyum, orang tak tau pun kita t ...

tabiat ini actually bagus ..
dapat meredakan suasana ..
tapi orang yang mengetahui akan perubahan riak muka yang berubah walaupun ia senyum ..
ia akan memahami orang itu suka atau tidak suka atau marah atau gembira ..

tabiat ini lazim nya ia tidak secara langsung ..
memberi kesabaran sesorang itu ..
kerana apa dan kenapa .. sense of rational .. kawalan akal .. amat penting ..
sebab itz kind of learning process ..

walau bagimana pun .. yang paling utama ..
jangan sampai hilang akal ..
amarah itu boleh bertukar pada amokan ..
yang lebeh dasyat .. yang tak terkawal ..

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Post time 6-10-2014 01:18 PM | Show all posts
NorAddin posted on 15-9-2014 07:03 PM
me ..
look n see .. observe
hear n listen .. understand

dah baca few times pun still ada rasa zup! nervous like that bila part "smile with lips close"... orang kata,senyum ada makna gitu... huhu.. untuk yg memahami mesti boleh detect the meaning of the smile..


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Post time 6-10-2014 01:26 PM | Show all posts
NorAddin posted on 17-9-2014 05:02 PM
tabiat ini actually bagus ..
dapat meredakan suasana ..
tapi orang yang mengetahui akan perubaha ...

Recently ada dilema sikit..let says satu2 benda orang lain buat I tak suka, ada yg I let it go..dan ada yg I akan let the person know so that they will not do it again..tapi yg rasa tak bestnya bila I beritahu orang itu,walaupun I say it nicely,muka I akan merah and panas..that means I am angry..but didn;t plan to get angry pun..so macam maybe better I keep quiet je next time..but of course some thing I kena tegur juga kan....huhu
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Post time 8-10-2014 02:32 PM | Show all posts
Vellfire posted on 17-9-2014 04:49 PM
biar benar ktk?

kmk mun marah kmk akan luah apa yg sik betul dan membebel ala2 lagu rap ya
dan lepas ya....tok tabiat kmk pelik tapi benar
kmk akan makan sampei kenyang
lepas makan kamik diam dan akan lupak semua
bahaya tabiat tok...

blh jadi gemuk....ahahahaha
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 Author| Post time 14-10-2014 10:15 AM | Show all posts
leylapple posted on 8-10-2014 02:32 PM
bahaya tabiat tok...

blh jadi gemuk....ahahahaha

hmm memang nait jak rasa badan tok
ya juak stress dgn mcm2
sikda mood nar
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Post time 27-10-2014 11:43 AM | Show all posts
Elle_mujigae posted on 6-10-2014 01:26 PM
Recently ada dilema sikit..let says satu2 benda orang lain buat I tak suka, ada yg I let it go..da ...

at spur of moment .. memang gitu ..
soo ..
correct time n place needed to prevent it occur  .. correct person ..

ini how to correct correction of d'person aahh ..
if not just ignore .. u did your part oledi .. maa

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Post time 29-10-2014 11:34 AM | Show all posts
NorAddin posted on 27-10-2014 11:43 AM
at spur of moment .. memang gitu ..
soo ..
correct time n place needed to prevent it occur  .. c ...

oh okay..so normal for me to feel that way is it...a bit angry walaupun plan taknak angry,.. ingatkan tak normal sbb dah mcm konflik dlm diri je..>.<

correct time n place needed to prevent it occur  .. correct person ..

this sentence give me an idea,tak semestinya on the spot kan kena cakap..huhu... kena cari masa yang tepat kalau nak tegur pun..
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Post time 29-10-2014 05:26 PM | Show all posts
Elle_mujigae posted on 29-10-2014 11:34 AM
oh okay..so normal for me to feel that way is it...a bit angry walaupun plan taknak angry,.. ingat ...

very correct .. maa
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Post time 6-12-2014 04:56 PM | Show all posts
NorAddin posted on 29-10-2014 05:26 PM
very correct .. maa

just few weeks ago,I ada beritahu seseorang benda yg dia buat  yg I tak suka.. guess what,I tak rasa marah or merah muka like that..just feeling normal sahaja..i express my dissatisfaction and the other person say, okay.. thats it..

so happy...

betul la Addin,masa dan cara yg sesuai sangat penting dalam menyuarakan sesuatu hal...can see the different..
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Post time 18-12-2014 04:16 PM | Show all posts
Wanita mun membebel sikda hal.. normal.. tp mun laki giney lah?
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 Author| Post time 18-12-2014 04:45 PM | Show all posts
belilies posted on 18-12-2014 04:16 PM
Wanita mun membebel sikda hal.. normal.. tp mun laki giney lah?

ramey jak laki suka membebel kenek tok
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Post time 18-12-2014 06:34 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Vellfire posted on 18-12-2014 08:45 AM
ramey jak laki suka membebel kenek tok

Ooo nang rami.. ada tempat kmk keja ctok kdk ya. Mun nya buka mulut jak kmk polah2 ada keja len trus angkat kaki.
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 Author| Post time 19-12-2014 08:05 AM | Show all posts
belilies posted on 18-12-2014 06:34 PM
Ooo nang rami.. ada tempat kmk keja ctok kdk ya. Mun nya buka mulut jak kmk polah2 ada keja len tr ...

haha jangan lari biarnya pokpekpokpek... lamak2 kepak juaknya
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