Edited by Innrukia at 21-4-2015 11:42 AM
Why nice guysdon't get girlsWhy do nice guysalways fail to attract the women they want?
Why do women prefer bad boys over nice guys?
A friend of mine called me once because she needed help to getover the guy she loves. She told me that the guy is jobless, doesn't have acareer, beats her and treats her in bad way but she was still in love with him. Why would a woman like a guy who abuses her?
In order to answer that question you first need to understand why bad boys arecalled bad boys.
Bad boys are called that way because they are dangerous. As much attractive as they seem to be they still can messup with your emotions and life. Humanbeings love forbidden fruits or whatever is unattainable. The threat a bad boy possessto a woman's emotions make him seem like a very attractive forbidden fruit.Women want to win the challenge and force that commitment phobic to get committed to them
Thenice guy on the other side seems like an easy game. As soon as an attractive woman displays interest in him he will become overly available until she loses interest.
Bad boys are attractive in a dangerous way and that's why they appeal tomost women. It’s the thrill of acquiring something that is really hard to getthat fuels a woman's passion for a bad boy.
Issue ni memang menarik utk diketengahkan. Pada zaman sekarang di mana ramai pompuan independent & educated maka potensi utk berjumpa pelbagai jenis lelaki & boleh buat pilihan sendiri. Disebabkan sikap independent jugak, ramai perempuan yg hilang sikit demi sedikit kelembutan & sifat keperempuanan. Ada yg bertukar sifat jd kasar dan sebagainya. Disebabkan perwatakan& sikap yg bertukar maka ciri2 yg dicari @ dikehendaki pd seorg lelaki a.k.a teman hidup pun berubah. Inginkan lelaki yg maskulin & fun. Bagaimana pulak dgn lelaki yg ‘baik’, lemah lembut, cuba sedayamungkin mengikut kehendak perempuan yg dia suka? rasanya seringkali kita dgr kawan2 or perempuan yg reject seseorg lelaki dgn alasan “ ala dia tu baik sgt la, tak sesuai dgn aku yg mcm ni bla bla bla… aku nk lelaki yg ‘lelaki’ bkn yg tak tegas or lemah lembut follow apa jer ckp aku”. Perumpamaan yg aku bleh bagi…
Bila lelaki baik bagi salam, cepat2 si perempuan tutup pintu….Then bila lelaki yg manly enough mai jerkah & ketuk pintu, berlari si perempuan ni pi bukak pintu.. Pada aku, pompuan mcm ni kurang matang. Lelaki ‘baik’ itula sebetulnya suami material. Lelaki yg berakhlak akan melayan perempuan dgn sebaik-baiknya & elak dari menyakiti hati & fizikal siperempuan. Apa lagik yg perempuan carik sbg calon suami? mari kita sama berkongsi pendapat
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Post time 21-4-2015 11:19 AM
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