Unexpected hurdle in my relationship

salmon-suki

Assalamualaikum, hello, hai~

Sebagaimana y tertulis kat tajuk tu,sekarang ni sy dalam dilema disebabkan ada halangan in my relationship...recently,he was diagnosed witg a lung disease (effect daripada accident dulu few years back) and the doctor informed him that he only has 6 months to live jika tiada donator. And doctor suggested dia ambil gamat supplement as an alternative treatment. Bila sy dapat tahu ni,memang tersangat terkejut dan rasa xtaw nak fikir ape..dia ada cakap boleh lah nak kahwin semua tu dlm masa 6 bulan ni,tapi lepas 6 bulan tu, kalau betul jangkaan doktor,maka akan menjandalah sy..

Now, sy x sure ape yang sy perlu lakukan. Kami nak berbincang pun x dapat lagi cause sy d kl n die d penang,masing2 susah nak dapat cuti. I thought of going there sebab x nak susahkan die dtg sini and discus about this with him..sy ada jugak suruh die beli gamogen drpd house of healin and hopefully ada positive effects on him and could prolong his life..

What should I do? Any opinions?atau siapa2 pernah experienced this kind of thing,would you mind to share how you handle the situation?

noraidil_06

Stay with him. Kalau u rase blh tunggu. Kalau u tinggal kang makin sakit dia. But u sdri rase nk stay ke

harrypoter

tggu dulu sis, lepas 6 bulan nti baru buat decision     

harrypoter

6 bulan tak lamapun  kejap ja

melinda_kerr

kalau i dlm keadaan kritikal mcm tu better stay dulu. nanti dia emosi breakdown. tpi kalau dia insist untuk kawin dalam masa 6 bulan tu, i juga keberatan mcm u. kalau boleh minta die sihat dululah kalau nak kawin.

AJ88

Kesiannyaa.

Hati TT rsa macam mana?

Pls stay with him klau TT betol2 syg die.

Soal jodoh, mati sume benda yg kita tak pasti. Semua di tangan Allah.

ramaramu

Ya Allah tt beratnya dugaan u. i tak pernah alami situasi mcm ni so i pun x tau perasaannya mcm mana but i hope tt tabah hadapi..

cuma nak tny tt pny bf ada pegi jmp another doctor? second opinion ke?

alieyrina

Kawin n enjoy married life..spend time together..buat apa2 bagai semua utk kenangan manis..apa yg bakal jadi bukan kita tau pun..

onexox97

kalau dia penjawat awam ada pencen
kahwin la dengan dia
dia mati nanti senang idup
menjanda pun senang dapat suami sekarang ni
lagi hot dari single

nipskacang

bf u dh dpt kan second opinion dr doktor lain ke? maybe there is slight hope for another option, proper ubat & management. you love him, gotta fight with him, cri proper ways to deal with it.. i wish u all the best..

kertas_putih

kawin..hargain masa 6 bulan yang ada..hidup mati di tangan Tuhan jua

mystica

u knal your bf dah berapa lama? u knal tak family dia n kawan2 dia?

n dia pnah jumpa family you tak?

MainemHu

based on real story or adaptasi novel ?

zztop63

cabut la sis
tunggu apa lagi

lil_sparky

Bole explain x ttg penyakit bf ni

missunguviolet

klu nk kwin fmly u bg ke tt...dh tau mcm ni rasa mst fmly pn xstuju..sedih k..mcm satu novel ni..tjuk dia tiada arah jodoh kita..cite nya mcm tt punya cita jgk..dia kwin ngn org yg bp bln je hidup..sedih gilaaaaa..tt fikir msk2..n jgn lupa usaha n bdoa..

lil_sparky

Nti dh nikah..org yg ditinggalkn lg ssh nk move on

seeriesagain

Sakit apa lung disease 6 months to live? Cancer ke? Pastu suggest alternative treatment? Ermmm... dia tgk doktor hosp mana??

Ipo

Sedihnya sis..
Bf you ada jangkitan paru- paru ke?
Please get second opinion from doctor.
Stay with him for the next 6 months. Tak semestinya kahwin sis. Give him your support. Masa ginilah dia perlukan sokongan orang yang dia sayang.

nanacomei

Sis, if u muslim. buat lah istikarah.. if u non muslim.. pikir sedalam2nya.

andai u rase dia mmg jodoh u.. u khawinlah

kematian bukan sesuatu yg boleh kita duga.

ramalan cuma 6 months. tp myb dia boleh hidup lebih lama. or less than 6 months.

kalau i. i teruskan. supaya i x rasa menyesal kemudian hari,

itu terpulang kat u.

mcm my ex..

dh rancg da semua. but jodoh dia dgn maut. x sempat he passed away.

tp kita kena redha lah.

jgn x kuat semangt

fikir baik2 tt